OK, I am 15 and I like this guy who is yonger then and he is only 13, do you think it is right to go out with a guy that is 2 years yonger then you. O, and by the way he looks like he is 16, but he isnt.
Totally, you should go for it!
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I can't fully tell if I like this one boy. We're great friends and whenever I sort of start to like him, something inside me says no. I'm 13/F if it helps any. My heart jumps when I'm around him but then I feel like we're just friends. What should I do?
Ask him out, and then youll find out if your feeling for him are real or not.
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You see, I really like this guy. I'm not so sure if he likes me or he's trying not to like me. We're pretty good friends. You see, I think he's still getting over his relationship with his ex girlfriend. She broke up with him, and he was devastated. I want him to move on, but I don't know what to do?
You have to wait intil he is over her b/c if you go out with him and he's still not over her it wont make a good relationship. It also won't be fair for him or you. Good luck, hope i helped!
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theres this guy i like, his name is collin. hes really good friends with my friend jessica. i think collin likes me but thinks he doesnt have a chance with me. i've asked him to come to dances and stuff with us but he always doesnt come. i know he likes me alot and i like him but he just doesnt know i like him. i guess what im asking is how do i get him to notice i like him without seeming too obvious?? thanx alot
Try making the first move!
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is it ok to flirt with guys if ur goin out with someone?
Nope!
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My friend is going out w/ this boy. When he asked her out, he said that he didn't want to tell anyone. I'm the only one they told. His friends tease him because they hang out so much. She's starting to think that he won't tell anyone because he's embarresed of her. What do you think? If it's just because he doesn't know how to stand up to his friends, do you have any advice?
He shouldn't be embarresed, if he is then he shouldnt be going out with her. If his friends make fun of him then they r not his real friends. Hope i helped!
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i love my boyfriend VERY much, but hes always So down on himself. he calls himself stupid, ugly, and says he doesnt deserve me ALL THE TIME. when i talk to him about it, he says his mom is always putting him down and he feels like hes nothing and he has no future and he feels like hes just going to bring me down if i stay with him. i want to be with him forever.... but its hard to deal with him always putting himself down. he tries not to but sometimes it slips. i really wish i could make him love himself. What can i do? Im almost 16, female....
Explain to him how much he means to you. He should probably talk to his mom and tell her how he feels!
Good luck!
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Ok, i am just so lonely. All of my friends have boyfriends and i've never had one. I could prolly ask someone out but i'm shy. I'm waiting for a guy to ask ME. I kno some guys like me, but they dont ask me. But all my friends go out on double dates and all that junk and i'm left out of everything. They'll walk down the halls of school laughing at things that i dont get because i wasn't on the date. There must be SOMETHING wrong with me. BUt what is it? People tell me i'm a great friend, and i'm not too ugly or anything like that. And when it cums to guys, i'm like a sporty/romantic/ fun type. And idk, i just REALLY want a bf and i do like sum guys that might like me but i guess not b/c no one has ever asked me out or anything. I have a lot of friends that are guys, but i might never have a boyfriend. I'm prolly gonna grow up, buy maybe 3 cats and my life will be soap operas and game shows. I dont want to be alone!!! But i dont wanna be the girl who's so desparate that she'll say yes to just any guy who asks her out. PLZ someone tell me what's going wrong!
My friend is going through the same thing. If you like a guy then ask him out, make the first move.
Good luck! Hope i helped
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My best friend is goin out wit muh ex and they seem like soooo happy but i dont think he realli likes her and i think hes playn her.....I KNO HES PLAYN HER! I tried to tell her and now shes mad at me! Every time i call her house she picks up the phona and hangs it up again!
WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!
lotta luv
~kisses~
You tries to tell her but she refuses to believe it, she probably thinks your just saying that to break them up. She will find out the hard way.
Good Luck! Hope i helped!
xoshaneyney
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alright well theres this boy named ted..I've been going out with him sence august 6th and like in october he broke up with me and I brok eup with him altogether around 3 or 4 times and all those times we'ver gotten back together..but wednesday he broke up with me because he liked two other people..alina and tara..well alina has a boyfriend and her boyfriend is teds best friend..so he wouldn't get her.. tara is one of my best friends so she wont go out with him because she thinks hes a horrible boyfriend from what he did to me..and becasue she doesn't like him like that and also because hes the kind of boy that likes to be really close with there girlfriends and like make-out and stuff like that and she doesn't like that..so neither alina or tara like him..my friend britney was talking to him today and last night we had a schol dance and he was like staring at me and stuff..and she asked him if he still liked me and he said i dunno and stuff like that and then he asked me to call this girl taylor for him and I think it was so he could ask her out but I'm not sure..it might be that or it might be because she brok eup with her boyfriend yesterday and ted adn her ex are good friends so it might be for him..but I'm just not ready to let go..I'm scared that would be our last time going out..I like him soo much..like I would do anything for him..I know I sound pathitic but its true..I'm scared that if I dont get him back I might do something to myself because he was like my life..so my question is how to get him back..I dont wanna hurt myself because I've done it before but not for that reason...and I really need him back but I dunno how to .. please help..I'll rate high
wow, i know how it feels getting attached. You should talk to him and tell him how you feel, maybe he'll give you another chance, and if he doesnt there are plenty of others out. Remember no guy is worth hurting yourself over!
Good luck! Hope i helped!
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i met this guy the otehr nioght and we totally clicked. we're really into each other. only one problem i look older than i am so he though i was 19 and he looks younger than he is so i thought he was 18. turns out i'm 15 and hes 23. hes really cute and nice and funny and i know people are thinking omg hes a prev but the thing is i never fall for anyone. i havent met a erson in ages whose even made me look twice but i keep having all these dreams about him and i get butterflies everytime i think of him. it feels like this is the one time i could be happy and i feel like the only thing about me thats acutially 15 is my age the rest of me is older. what do i do?
8 years older, not that bad. You should try a relationship with him if you feel so strongly about him, but just watch out.
hope i helped!
xoshaneyney3283
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ok, there is this guy. hes in 9th grade. hes so cute and doesnt have a bf. one of my best friends that knows him bout as well as i do says that he likes me. i still dont think so. ive been crushin on him for almost a year. i started noticing that he looks at me a lot. what do i do?
signed
*deeply troubled*
You should go over and start talking to him, he probably does like you but is to shy to make a move.
hope i helped!
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How do you know when your in love?
Whenever you can't stop thinking bout that person and you think there no better person who can make you feel happy, loved, and secure.Thats when your in love.
hope i helped!
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i have this problem....whenever 1 of my friends likes a guy, i start to like him too but i never get him! how can i stop this?
13/f
it's probably b/c you someone for your self!
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Over the summer i spent most of my time with my infatuation...lets call him fred. So fred and i were dating on and off during the summer but we always liked each other. We never dated anyone else and we spent the days talking to each other or hanging out. Before school started he asked me out again and then went on a 2 and 1/2 week vaca. Sfter he got back he broke up with me. It was like the first thing he said to me. I was crushed. Because i felt that i fell in love with him...and at one point he told me "i love you" but when i asked him if he meant it he wasnt sure. Now that school has started he was introduced to my bestfriend...lets call her mary. I have been so crushed because they both like each other and mary isnt even being conciterate of my feelings. They always flirt in front of me and it drives me nuts. Some nights i even cry myself to sleep. How do i get over this? Or how do i win him back? I would rather win him back...i really loved him with all my heart...and still do...
btw, sorry it was so long, but i rate high!:-)
~Signed, Lost in Love
i know how you feel sweetie, the same thing happened to me. Try talking to Mary and tell her how you feel.
good luck! hope i helped!
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okay, i met this guy at a party.. and we like held hands and stuff and i think i like him but i'm not sure. we dont go to the same school but i know a lot of people at the school he goes to and everyone says he always talks about me (in a good way) and i dont know what i should do.. i talk to him online sometimes.. and once on hte phone.. im confused?
You guys should hang out more, then you'll know if you really do like him.
Good luck! Hope i helped!
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ok i told this guy i like that i liked him..and i did it in person ...then after i told him he was like "can i see your phone" and so i gave it to him and he was just like messing around ..come to find out he put his number in my phone..wat does that mean!? haha ..im really clueless with "guy languagE" thanks!
Call him!!!
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ok so not to confuse, let's give names:
my friend: sara
her best friend: liz
liz's boyfriend: bob
bob is trying cheat on liz with sara. he's asked sara to have sex with him, take pictures of herself and give them to him, etc. sara refuses and has put up with this for a while, and then finally told liz. liz believed her at first and then i don't know what happened. sara tried calling liz and liz's mom answered saying that liz wasn't available. sara asked when she would be and she said, for you, never. sara is devastated and can't understand why liz would do this to her. (liz and bob are still together, btw). what can i say to comfort sara? is there any way i can help the situation?
omg....tell sara not to worry she did nothing wrong but be a good friend who told the truth. You can't really solve the situation if Liz won't talk. Tell sara she did the right thing.
hope everything works out!
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So my boyfriend and I, both almost 18, were together for nearly 11 months, virtually every single day. We were inseparable. We'll both be going to college next year, and we were planning on moving somewhere away and finding an apartment together. There was even tentative talk of marriage. I felt like I could really see where my future was headed. I was so completely in love.
But then he tells me, one month ago tomorrow, that it's just not working out. He says he doesn't feel the same anymore, and that he can't give his whole life to me. I was completely devastated and cried for days straight.
He's the most wonderful person I've ever met. We share our group of friends, so we agreed that we would both try our best to stay friends and avoid awkwardness, and forcing people to choose sides.
So I'm still around him all the time, and every time I see him or talk to him, I'm just reminded of all the reasons I fell in love with him and everything that I've lost. It just sends me spiralling into sadness all over again.
But he's helped me so much with so many things. He brightens my day, and he's a genuinely good person. I don't blame him at all for what happened. I can't bear to lose him completely, but how else can I get these thoughts and feelings out of my head?!
Well, at least your still friends. It's a bummer when these things happen! As time goes on those feelings anf thoughts will fade, it will take time though.
hope everything works out!
xoshaneyney3283
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How do u know u are really ready for a boyfriend?
It depends on you and what your ready for.
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