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hey so im 13 and my boyfriends 16 turning 17 in a couple days. we've been dating a couple weeks but i want to get or do something really special (nothing sexual) but i have no idea what!!:( i need help fast...please help thx XOXO
you're 13 and your boyfriends turning 17?
thats not creepy at alll..
Ive been with my boyfriend for a year now and we had a baby boy 2months ago... he really wants me to marry him and move in with him i really think im ready and i know i could handle it i jus dont know how to convince my mom that im mature enough
if you're over 18 then why are you waiting for your mom's approval? its not her life, its yours. live it. dont marry yet, go live with the guy. live your life, dont wait around and regret it.
you said it yourself, you're ready..
(:
Well, my best friend is a guy. We have been best friends for 3 years. I went to his school, but then I moved the middle of last year. But we still talked everyday. But then like one day he just stopped texting or calling or IMing and what not. He will not respond to my texts or calls, and I have no idea why, because I didn't do anything. I know he has feelings for me, because he talks about me all the time to his friends and says he likes me and he asked me out like 5 months ago but i said no because i was dating someone else even though I loved my best friend. I love him, like not little kid love either, I see myself marrying him and everything. But ya know, you can't be in love with someone that doesn't talk to you. So I kinda have 2 questions.What would I say that might get him to at least respond and tell me he hates me or something? Or, how do I get over it, and him, so I don't like him anymore, because I honestly do not like anyone else but him, and I won't unless I get over it. Sorry if this is long but I really need help. Because I miss him and I really want to talk to him again :/
maybe try giving him time.
or, try telling him how you feel about him.
cause if he tried asking you out and you said no,
that can kinda bring him down.
tell him what you're telling people on this site, lol. andd if he doesnt reply in like 2 seconds, give him time. or calll him.
that'd be better.
yeah, call him.
good luck (: !
Im fifteen, female. Just got held back for various health reasons so Im in the ninth grade again.
Ive had three boyfriends; one in elementary school and two in middle. They all either deny it, ignore me, or dont say it counts. Whatever. But Ive never kissed a guy!
Lottts of people say Im just absolutely adorable and I have to agree :]
im sooperpetite, smiley, give great hugs. But I feel like a total wallflower. Probably am.
Anyways. Im not totally shallow but I can be stereotypical and guys have asked me out,just not great looking ones.
Well when I get my next boyfriend, Im afraid to kiss him. I want it to be both of our firsts just for that extra little spark I guess :]
But I also want a greaaat guy thats just as simple as I am.
Is there such a boy as that? At all? Do you think Im being too picky? Gosh. Opinions, please.
not every good guy is going to be exactly the way you want it.. cause that'd be too easy. and if you're fifteen, you might not find a great simple guy whos never kissed anyone.
dont waste your time trying to find him.
the longer you wait the worse it'll get,
you're fifteen.. just kiss a boy. (:
seems like every guy i fall for ends up breaking my heart. i was in a 3 year relationship that ended not too long ago. and had a couple of bfs since then, but no matter what i keep getting my heart broken. im ready to give up. seems like there isnt a single guy out there who can "handle" me.
what am i supposed to do?
take a break from relationships or keep pursuing them and deal with the heartbreak?
i wouldnt take a break but i would keep pursuing them and get a heartbreak at the end either. what i would do is find a guy who really cares about me. dont just put youreself out there and end up getting hurt! find a good guy.. no matter how long it takes. ♥ hope that helps! ((ask again! =])) care ♥ 's hiiiiim.
ok.
15/f.
My question is.. does age really matter? like i like this guy.. we'll call him... M. well M is a bit younger then me.. like 6 months or something.. we're in the same grade and everything.. if we were to go out would that be wrong because of the age?
Like i'm gonna be 16 in February but he'll still be 15.. i guess all i'm trying to say is that.. since we're in the same grade.. would age matter?
thank you. any help is appreciated:]
age is just a numberr. besides - youre in the same grade. go out with him if you want.. age isnt a reason not to.. unless its lik 23498 yearss. BASiCALLY.. NOPE. ♥ ANSWERED BY CARE&KAYCEEE.[bestfriendsforever&ever.]
There's this guy that I've liked on and off.. for 2 yrs. I don't even know why I like him in the first place. He acts cool all the time but I know that deep inside he's all shit. He pretends to be very confident but actually he's not. I really don't know why I like him despite knowing all these. He gives me mixed signals, or maybe it's overthinking on my part.
These are the signs that shows he likes me
- he held my hand during rollerblading (erm, maybe it's because I don't know how to blade?)
- he playfully threw a dice into my pants when my back was turned
-he told me to go up to his room to change even though his toilet was just a few steps away.
- he smile whenever I go near him
-he avoids eye contact at times
These are the signs that shows he doesnt like me
-he doesn't call/msg/IM me at all
-he doesn't ask me how's life
-he doesn't tell me his personal things
-he doesn't really give a shit about my life
That's about it. So does he like me or not? I feel that he doesn't. So can someone help me to forget about him and move on?
Thanks
P.S : I don't mind long answers. In fact, I welcome long answers. =]
mk sorry - but i dont think he really likes you. i think that cause the things you said why he wouldnt like you are lik bigger and more important and matter more than the things that would make you think that he likes you. but i also read in Teen Vougue that um if a guy makes fun of you he deffinatley likes you and hes probably insecure - [about the additional info]
but if he tells you youre ugly then i dont really know what to say. if he doest really care about youre life and doesnt tell you personal things maybe he just likes you as a friend or maybe a little more than a freind but not like really liikes you. if he smiles when youre around him he probably likes that youre there. and if he avoids eye contacts maybe its cause he doesnt want to get into an akward convo. just see how he acts around you morre. just talk to him somore and see if he'll start to tell you some of the personal stuff about you. good luck ;] hope that helps. ♥ CAROLiNEE
So a few weeks ago I broke up with this guy, (he asked another girl while we were sill dating). I stil liked him when we broke up but I felt there was no other way to deal with it.
Well about a few weeks later one my friends (and his best friend) "blog" her comment said "what do you do when your best friend likes you and TWO of your friends like him?"
I was so sure that one of the friends was me so I rushed over to her and asked her who the other girl was. . . . . . . . .
She told me it was a long time ago but that my "best friend" was the other girl. I was so furious at my best friend. She didnt even tell me. But now my ex lieks her and I dont want them to go out. I still have a little bit of feeling for him. WHAT AM I SUPOSE TO DO??
i think youree lik kinda jealous that they lik eachother & its lik normal. i just dont see how you can still like him after he cheated on you. its lik woahhh thurrr. but just let them go out. but dont lose a friend over a stupid guy that cheated on youu. seriouuslyy. ;] ♥ sorryy that was probably bad advice and kinda harsh but.. its truee. ♥ caare
actually.. remove the might.. i definitely just hacked my crushs email. for the second time.
can someone please help me understand WHY im doing this? cause i really dont understand.. i know for a fact he doesnt get emails, i already know all his contacts,, so i dont understand why i keep hacking him? like im an idiot!
last time i spent 2 weeks crying because of it.
and now i did it again!
wtf is wrong with me??
i think i get a rush from doing bad things.. why is that? and how do i get rid of it? i really dont want to anymore..
please help, thx.
i dont get wwhy you do thaat caause it sounds kindaa stupid... but yeaah thats just gay yourre being WAAAY to over protective. just talk to him and stuff. just cause yurre over protective doesnt mean you go into someones email and frikin hack it. somethings wrong with youuu.. over protective. back off or he'll dump youu. SORRRYY!! dont think that helped all that muuch but you being over protective is whaats wrong with youu. ♥ - care.
are guys attracted by eyes? it seems that if i guy ever looks i me its directly in my eyes and staring...i was voted prettiest eyes in my schoool and the be honest it's the only feature of myself i like....what i was wondering is is guys attracted to eyes when they look for a girl?
(when i look for i boy....eyes is what i notice first...but what about guys?)
im not ssurre. im not a guy??! ♥ CAREE.
hey care i dont know if you know who this is but o well:) umm i like this guys and i have asked him out once ,, but some times i feel like he flirts in his own kind of way and that maby he might like me ,, but he is my really good friend and when i first asked him out he said he just wanted to be friends ,, so i really like him but i dont know if he likes me ,, but what i really want to know is why he didnt want to go out w/ me before PLEASE try and help thx :)
heeeey! i thiink i know who this iss & ii ♥ yooou giirrl ! yeaah i know who you're talking abouut. he can be REALLY shhhy, and that doesnt let you know if he likes you orr not. ;) hes super confussingg. i think he said no before because he wasn't ready. maybe he'd rather have you as a friend. and trruuust me they'll be better guys for youu. maybe he just doesnt really want a girlfriend right now. he wants to be able to like anyboddy. i can talk to him for youuu and like see what he says. juuust like wait and see if he likes you the way you like him :) ♥ youu girrl - always here for youu.. you can tell me anythiing i swearrr. ♥ -- care
Well I've known this girl for about a year now and we're really good friends, but I'm starting to like her more than a friend (if you know what I mean.) The only problem is I don't know if I should ask her out or not. If I do and she says "yes", then great, but if she said "no", that would just be really awkward and it would be wierd every time I see her again. So...what should I do?
just like talk to her friends and have them ask her stuff like whould you EVER go out w/.. your name. don't act different around her though because you have to think which would be betterr.. a girlfriend orr a good friend ! ♥ care
okay so im usually the one that is giving the advice, and i REALLY need help. but bare with me because im warning you this is long and if you answer me with a decent answer i will rate you a 5 if you read it all.
OKAY so lets begin...FYI: 16/f
so i have a BESTFRIEND thats a guy...and in our past we went out in 7th grade and 9th grade. In 9th grade we got pretty intimate(not any kind of sex though) and before we went out it took me forever to get him to admit that he liked me, like we would ALWAYS be talking on the phone and going to the movies with our friends and he would hold my hand. soooo we went out or whatever then broke up because he liked another girl. well its a new summer and just recently we have been talking on the phone a lot, and if i dont call him he calls me, which has been the past 3 times and hes like so you werent going to call me? and i go yeah i was just i was waiting a little longer. then the other night i kinda got upset and sad and he could tell when we were talking online and he was all like tell me, tell me. and i was like no i dont want to talk about it, what does it matter to you? and he was like because i care about you. that right there was like a slap in the face( a good one lol) because he has never really said that to me like that before. and i know he does care about me, because we are SO comfortable with eachother and everything. so last nigth he was trying to get me to tell him what was wrong and i wouldnt. so i was like i love you though and he goes no you cant say you love me unless you mean it, and i was like but i DO in a friends only kind of way, and he goes no you cant tell me you love me unless its more.
i know this is really confusing, believe me he confuses me. does it seem like he likes me? and i really dont know what to do, because we always argue about the stupidest things, and last nigth he even told me he LOVES getting me mad because im so cute when i get mad and the faces i make. but yeah anyways my bestfirend (thats a girl) just thinks its all a bad idea, i kinda do too but i dunno when we went out last time he was the only person i even considered losing it to (of course waiting for at least a year or so) and what is REALLY confusing was, okay well he wants to comeover to make out with me and and stuff, and like im all up for it, but he was telling me how he pictured it and he was all yeah we would be making out then i would look deep into your eyes and i would ask you out again and you would say yes and we would go out for forever,
lol you guys i bet you are SO confused to, but anything will help!!! i need your opinion on the whole thing!!!
THANKS SO MUCH!!!
♥♥♥
wow okay. im confuuused but thats okayy ! i think he loves you & he means it. he means it a lot, but he doesn't want maybe to go out. it seems like he doesn't want to commit to it. he just wants to love you and have you love him & leave it at that. i think maybe he got hurt by one of your past break-ups, and he doesn't wanna get hurt again. he likes you. but i think i'd be a bad idea to go farther than thaat! ♥. sorry if what my earlier answer said upset you. because that wasn't me! it was some WEiRDO PERSON! i sweearrrr. i came to my friends house screaming because someone had done that. cause i don't want to be a bad coulumnistt! ask another ? if you need help! ♥ good luuuuck with this guyy!
--♥ACTUALLY ANSWERED BY- C a R e-♥
i love my boyfriend very much. but whenever i talk to other boys he acts all "protective" around me. its like he doesn't want me to talk to any other boy besides him. i don't wanna break up with him but i want to be able to talk to other boys besides him.
how do i get him to stop smothering me?!
thx!
i think i know who this iss ;) & i tooootally get what you're talking abouut. i can see him doing it giirrl! ♥ you hang around him in groups so just be casual and talk his friends. let him know that NO ONE could ever replace him. it'll make him feel really good. then he won't be worried because he'll know tthat you love him more than anybody - because you do! its a sign that he loves you and doesn't want to let you go! so instead of thinking that he's being WAYY over protective, than look at it that he doesn't want you to dump him for someone else. he doesn't want to be replaced and thats soooo adorable that he feels that way. HE LOVES YOUU SOO MUCHH GiRLL! ♥ and you love him toooo. just let him know theres no one in the world better than him :)
♥ i love youu sooo muchh JP!
Okay, I have this problem, I like two people, but they are both great, but I don't know who to choose, they are both my friends...good friends, but only one of them like me back, but I still like the other one too....help
:)i'd go with the one who likes you back. then you can see how things go. if it doesn't work out then you can like the other one. you don't REALLY have to choose anyone. but one likes you back so .. it'd make sence to go w/ him.
♥CARE
My girl friend, Trish, is so beautiful and I love her so much.
The problem is people say that she is ugly, & I don't think that at all.
I was just wondering if I could get all of your honest opinions. Do ya'll think she is ugly?
http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c54/TriciaxxxAnn/newhair.jpg
I'll rate 5s for all answers.
if she's beautiful to you thats all that matters.
don't worry or think about what other people say or think. its a waste of your time.
if you love her than thats great ;) why worry about what other people think about you gf? she's fine.
♥ carre
well, me and my boyfriend had been going out for almost 6 months, by the way i'm 14. and i thought things were going great, and out of no where he just decides that he doesn't want a girlfriend anymore. and we split. i cried for a few days. and i just can't seem to completely get over him. i just want to pretty much forget about him, and never socialize with him again. what are some things that could help me get over him?
aww im sorrry ! he just probably felt differently on how things were going - you thought things were going great, and maybe he didnt. you can't blame him though, six months would have been around like january or something. he just probably wanted to be single for the summer. just spend a lot of time w// your friends and be open to other guys. have fun and forget why you're sad. because he dumped you? then tell yourself he's missing out.
there'll be other breakups in your life so just go on with them. soon enough you'll like someone else or have a new boyfriend.
my friend and i lke the same guy and, she used to go out w/ him, and she still lkes him. He picked her over me at the beginning of the year, and i really need advice on wat i should do.
13/f
sounds like you have a chance, because first he picked her, and they didn't work out! if you still like him then you have a pretty good chance. but now you know what your friend will feel if he picks you over her, so make sure you're not always talking about him if he picks you.
hey.
okay i really neeed help please -
i think my bf might break up with me and i dont want him to - i love him so much ! i dont know what i did wrong but heres the catch-
im not supposed to know about this i mean like i'm not supposed to know he wants to break up with me. my guy friend told me anddd told me to fix my problem. i love your advice and i think its great. please help and fast because i need to fix this or i'll never forgive myself. oh yeah and if my bf finds out that i know about this or like that i did this - asking you - he'll just break up with me then.
should i break up with him or just keep doing what i'm doing?
thannks!!
okay do noooott let him find ouuut! if he does then you both will be over for surre. it sounds like you don't know what you did, so what can you fix.. when you don't know what to fix? if you haven't done ANYTHiNG that may make him mad then keep doing what you're doing. if you try to change then he may just break up with you. make sure your guy friend that told you is telling the truth. is he friends with your boyfriend? if he is then he's probably right. 'cause he probably knows whats going on. you love him a lot ? then just try to be the BEST girlfriend he could have. don't be fake or anything and just hang out with him alot. if he breaks up with you, don't was your time worrying about him! he's probably a waste of your time. plus who cares if you don't have a boyfriend right now. you may think hes absoluuutley peRrfect, buut if he breaks up with you, its just not meant to be. then soon you can find a better boy that likes you more. but do nooott change what youre doing !! then he'll figure things out - he'll know that you friend AND his friend told you. and then your guy friend and you won't be happyy.
thanks for saying i give great advicce. i hope you figure out what this kid whatss.
heyy u rockk! you['re soo cool! i really like you n i wanna talk to you about some stuff so just im me when ya get the chance hottie
aww uhh thanks! ha yeahh you're right n all about the stuff you said about me jk but i have NO clue who you are so sry i can't im you-- you can im me tho- xxocareoxx! ha uhh what do you wanna talk about too kus i have an amazing boyfriendd!!
XO care