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my best friend
Well, my best friend is a guy. We have been best friends for 3 years. I went to his school, but then I moved the middle of last year. But we still talked everyday. But then like one day he just stopped texting or calling or IMing and what not. He will not respond to my texts or calls, and I have no idea why, because I didn't do anything. I know he has feelings for me, because he talks about me all the time to his friends and says he likes me and he asked me out like 5 months ago but i said no because i was dating someone else even though I loved my best friend. I love him, like not little kid love either, I see myself marrying him and everything. But ya know, you can't be in love with someone that doesn't talk to you. So I kinda have 2 questions.What would I say that might get him to at least respond and tell me he hates me or something? Or, how do I get over it, and him, so I don't like him anymore, because I honestly do not like anyone else but him, and I won't unless I get over it. Sorry if this is long but I really need help. Because I miss him and I really want to talk to him again :/
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maybe try giving him time.
or, try telling him how you feel about him.
cause if he tried asking you out and you said no,
that can kinda bring him down.
tell him what you're telling people on this site, lol. andd if he doesnt reply in like 2 seconds, give him time. or calll him.
that'd be better.
yeah, call him.
good luck (: !
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I was in your position. I had this friend that i truely loved. But then he became my boyfriend then stopped talking to me and i miss him deeply. So almost the same as yours. The advice I can give you is... You can't get over a guy like that that easily, you shouldn't try cause that's another form of thinking about him. Just try to not think about him. Don't ''really'' forget about him just don't think about him in any form or fashion. If he's any good at all he'll like you. But if he's not then he won't like you in which case ignore him. But there may be some in between for him. He may like you but not want to tell you so. Because he feels it will be occward. (For both of you) You also might want to tell him you like him, because if he likes you it will be easier for him to admit it then.=) I did the best I could,
Sarah
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Just leave him a msg saying you need to talk about your relationship and how you feel about him. If you want to get over him you need to get into a differnt realtionship meet someone new and get over the old guy and move on with your life and think about the future not the past.
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