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It hurts when I pee, and could I be pregnant?


Question Posted Friday August 22 2008, 2:48 am

Me and my boyfriend were "trying out" sex, as we were both virgins and we've talked about it for awhile. I went on top and he went in about half an inch and then pulled out because I was scared. We tried again today, except he went just a SMIDGEN further, and it felt like something was breaking, so I told him to stop, so he did. I felt fine after that up until an hour ago when I peed and it started to hurt. Now it's totally fine, but it hurt a lot when I peed.
Also, we did that without condoms and I missed a pill three days ago, but took it the next day with my other one. I could be pregnant right?
16/f


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Additional info, added Monday August 25 2008, 10:52 am:
We're not going to have sex anytime soon, and I didn't bleed or anything.

It stopped hurting the next day, so no worries!
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saxxman5 answered Tuesday September 2 2008, 4:59 pm:
you probably arent, u might have a urinary infection or even an STD

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Anathemic answered Monday August 25 2008, 1:54 am:
I've had personal experience with pain while urinating after sex. No big deal. I'm almost positive what it is, is that when you had sex your vagina was stretched open from the penis. While you pee, some of it is bound to touch your freshly sore, most likely reddened vagina. No worries :D. It is just sore from use. If however you have constant, REAL pain while peeing that borders excruciating and can lead to blood in the urine then it is a urinary tract infection and is a must-see doctor visit. Take your time with your b.f girl. : ) A lot of time teenage sex is all about the boy because neither knows better. Try to make sure you get in some orgasms too! :D good luck to you.

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Melody answered Saturday August 23 2008, 2:54 pm:
Yes. But you probably aren't.

If you only missed on pill, and the penis was only in for a short time, the chances of you being pregnant are microscopic. Don't stress out because you aren't pregnant, I can ALMOST guarentee. =]

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stargirl51 answered Friday August 22 2008, 12:28 pm:
If it hurts to bee (as in your urethra hurts when you pee), it might just be a urinary tract infection. Couple days of drinking cranberry juice (that's juice, not cocktail) to clean out your system and you'll be right as rain.

Feeling like something breaking? That's your hymen he's bumped up against. He might've partially broken through it. Partially since you guys stopped.

Please practice safe sex when you both are ready. Use a condom. It takes a LOT of "could I be pregnant" questions out of your life. It also takes out a lot of "could I have venereal disease" out of your life too.

cheers,
stargirl

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S_C answered Friday August 22 2008, 7:30 am:
I'm not sure what to say about it hurting when you pee... maybe see a doctor?

But, as for "could I be pregnant". Yeah, there's a chance.
It's probably a slim chance since you've been on the pill.
In all technicality, you don't have to have the penis enter you at all to get pregnant. As long as sperm (pre-cum counts even though you rarely see/feel it) enters the vagina, you have a chance of getting pregnant.

Now I'm going to spout off all the info nobody ever wants to hear:

Don't have sex with someone unless you're willing to have their baby.
Don't have sex if you don't want a baby.
Always use protection unless you're trying to get pregnant.
Best form of protection (other than abstinence) is a condom (for birth control and STD purpose) and the pill used together!

That's about all I have to say =)

Good luck. Wait 2-3 weeks. If you skip your period, take a test. It's pretty unlikely that you're pregnant, mostly because it's much too early to tell, but I would still take a test because you never know what could happen.

Oh, and I just saw your additional info.
Not bleeding (if you were previously a virgin) could be a sign that he didn't penetrate you very far or it could be a sign that your hymen broke long ago doing something such as running or riding a bike... not bleeding doesn't mean anything.

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CruxGuitar answered Friday August 22 2008, 3:16 am:
Well firstly it sounds as if he broke your hymen, did you bleed ?

and if you didn't use a condom and missed the pill for any amount of days then yes you could/can be pregnant.

I suggest don't have sex yet, and wait. but of course your not gonna listen to me, so.
Next time kiss first (foreplay and get "in the mood" so you loosen alittle, then use a condom and make sure you've been on the pill everyday
blah bah.. etc. good luck. :)

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