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were britney and justin married? (link)
No, they just dated for a long time.


how long did justin and brit go out? (link)
3-4 years I think.


ok, id like answers only from people who have been with their boyfriends/girlfriends for over 6 months. and preferably ages 16 and up, please. ok well, does it ever feel to you as if yall shouldnt be together? like theres nothing there anymore. youre not all excited to go home and talk to them. you really dont even care. youre not "cheery" around them or talking to them anymore. and you picture them with someone other than you, and it bothers you some, but not THAT much? i dont know what to do. im 16 and hes 17. weve been together 6 and a half months and were each others "first loves". ive never felt this way for anyone else before seriously. hes like a part of me now. but the past couple days ive been feeling this way and i dont know what to do. normally, im absolutely crazy for him, but there has been a couple times when ive been like "we should just be friends", but sooner than i say that, something happens that makes me realize just how in love i am and i could never lose him. so maybe its one of those times again..? or maybe its the gray weather.. ahh someone please help me. i dont want to make a huge mistake and regret it!! btw that whole "taking a break" deal does not swing with us we just dont really agree with it, we're either on or we're off. (link)
Be 'off' for a while. Do your own thing, date other people. And it it's meant to be, nothing can keep you apart. However cheesy it sounds lol. Hope I helped


How can an average looking guy like me increase my chances of getting into the pants of a hot girl like you? (link)
by refraining to tell your little fantasies. kthnxbye.


ok well my boyfriend went away for christmas to L.A and is even staying for da new years and isnt coming back until the 3rd so today i went late christmas shopping because i still hadnt bought him anything which isnt a big deal because he doesnt have to know but i really couldnt find anything that i thought he mightve liked i wouldve bought him cologne but i didnt because i bought that for him on his birthday so i ended up buying him a really expensive hat its his favorite colors and all but the only problem is he dont wear hats at all he doesnt even own a hat and i just recently talked to him on the phone like not even an hour ago and told him how i really cant wait to give him his gift and i just found out he got me a reallly expensive gold necklace and winnie the pooh ring ! and now i look back at what im going to give him and im not going to lie im embarrased ! what would any1 do in my situation???? (link)
just give him the hat you bought him. It's really the thought that counts. If hes bought you all that and spent that much money on it, he really cares for you, so im sure anything from you he will really like, whether he has any hats or not. Hope I helped && Happy new years! =]


okay so me and my bf were going out and we wanted 2 kiss me but im like ew gros (it was 6th grade at the time) and so then we broke up but then we got bak 2gether (bcz of major flirting on both our parts) and so hes like i had dreamz of us kissing blah blah blah so im like fine meet me in the stairs il make ur dream cum tru. so i madeout w/ him w/e. but heres the thing. im only in 7th grade! is that so extremely horiable? and every1 found out (bcz 1 of my friends cant keep her mouth shut!) and every1 thinks im a slut. HELP ME!!! (link)
Making out with someone doesn't make you a slut. Your peers are probably only calling you one because either theyre jealous or don't really understand the true meaning of the word Slut. If anyone's been calling you a slut, ask them face to face what they think makes you a slut. And if the answer is stupid, which it probably will be, just shrug it off and be like "brush up on your vocabulary." or whatever. Hope this helps. Have a happy new year =]


Okay I really like this boy I've liked him for quite awhile. I want him to know how I feel too. But I just don't know how. Okay first things first I am not telling him face to face! Okay are these some signs if he likes me? He stares at me alot, he talks in a group of friends and when I walk by then look back start saying oh look to him, and he's everywhere I am.

What are some ways to get him to notice me more?
Thanks a bunch! (link)
Let him know your interest. Not face-to-face either. When hes walking by, smile slightly and wink at him. hope i helped. Happy Holidays! =]


I have like, a tooootallly major problem. See, I'm captain of the cheer squad and student body president and homecoming queen of my school - but I'm still a virgin. And I'm dating the captain of the football team, obviously. Cheer captain, football captain. Its perfect. I know your probably all, what does this have to do with sex ed? But it has everything to do with it. I have a reputation to obtain. I can't let people know that I'm a virgin. And my boyfriend wants to do it, like obviously. Why wouldn't he? I'm hot, he's hot, it'd be hot. But see, I need to know how to actually have sex. Or like, what you do. I don't care about giving it up to him, just as long as I don't make a complete imbocile of myself and end up as the laughing stock of my intire senior class. You know? So anyways, your help would be greatly appreciated. (link)
It's not necessarily a easy task for me to explain. I suppose you've seen movies and most of it is true to how it actually gets started and all. I wouldn't really worry about it. The female body responds to it, I suppose. If your completely sure about having sex, then let him do all the work the first time around and you'll easily get the hang of it.


When someone tells you that they believe that you're their soul mate, what does it mean? (link)
a soulmate is someone you could see yourself happily spending the rest of your life with. Otherwise known as "the one" or your "one true love" Basically it means that out of 6 billion people on the planet, they would be better off with one specific person, that being their soulmate. Hope I helped. Merry christmas! =]


13/f
i like this guy, but hes two years older and he has a girlfriend...should i just give up? (link)
If you want something, go for it. High School relationships barely last, so they could be breaking up pretty soon, which gives you a clear shot! Go for it! Hope I helped and have a Merry Christmas! =]


First off, I would like to say that YOU TOTALLY DON'T KNOW ME *shifty eyes* lmao xD (link)
Maybe he's just 1st season Peyton-ish? lol. Or hes afraid of committment or is afraid of ruining a friendship if the two of you didn't work out. Stepping up with your feelings first can be a hard thing, believe me. And if you don't want to try that approach, ask a couple of mutual friends to ask him if he likes you like that but not that you asked. Hope I helped. Merry Christmas! =]


okay so im 15 now and i went out with my first Real boyfriend. I am an attractive girl and really sweet/caring. well this is how the relationship started: 2 months ago he had a relationship with another girl and me. he was with her first but he left her for me and told me he wouldnt cheat on me again. i forgave him.. Recently i broke up with him because i thought he was playin me :(. but he wasnt and he told me he would never do anything to hurt me and he wanted me back and he wants me to trust him (he knows i have issues with that)..but i chose to not be with him i jus need some time to think cause there are so many rumors. i want him but then again i dont. im so confused. because i daydream all day about this boy. and we havent be going out for long..its probably jus an infactuation...ughhhhhhhh
but he says he hates not being with me... (link)
Usually rumors are based on real things, but don't let it get to you without good solid proof. You should really give him another chance if you think he deserves it. From what you say he seems like he really cares for you. Hope I helped && Merry Christmas! =]


hi, i need a nickname for my boyfriend. if you need some information about him, here it is. he's soooo sweet, he calls me babe, cutie and, hun. he's like the most perfect guy ever! but we dont officially go out yet, he hasn't asked me out. but we talk about everything, and he says he really likes me and i know thats true, and i like him too.he also says that he's falling in love with me. so, plz, can u give me a nickname for him? p.s, i know this is too much info about him, but i needed to get it off of my chest!

thankx, bye!
i'm 14 and a girl. (link)
hm. sexy, cutie, babe, baby, boytoy (which i call like, every guy i know, whether theyre friends or whatever) and sweetie. hope I helped! Merry christmas!


15/m

okay i was dating this girl sammie, then she kissed another guy i flppped and we broke up, she said that that kiss didnt mean anything... then for a month she bothered me and said she wanted me back, now i finally relieze i still really like her, and shee doesnt want me back... wat do i do to get her back, or is it even worth it?
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maybe she finally got over it. Ask her if she still feels anything for you and if she does, ask her out again. If she doesnt, you should try and get over it. If your meant to be together, you'll find your way to each other back again. But if not, then it wasnt meant to be. Hope I helped, have a merry christmas and a happy new year! =]


well i have been going out with this guy for eleven months and our relationship has been pretty good but only problem is i feel like i have gotten bored of him. i feel trapped cause he hates me partying hanging out with my guy friends etc. i feel like i cant have fun anymore and ive felt like that the past eleven months that we have been going out. and theres this other guy that ive liked for a reeeeeally long time.. longer than ive liked my current boyfriend. the guy ive liked for a long time is my type of guy. i have so much fun with him and i like him so much. i love the way he treats me its hard to resist him. but i jsut cant break up with my boyfriend. he would kill himself because he loves me so much. he is so serious about me.. he is erious about marraige with me in the future. he is already out of high school but problem is im still in hs. he is going to the army in a month and he told me not to break up with him cause he plans on marrying me when he comes back. he gave me so many expensive presents for xmas and if i broke up with him how big of a butt would i be?? i dont want to break his heart bcause he doesnt deserve it but i also dont think he deserves me. idk what to do cause i know id be happier without him but i sometimes have to ask yself if i really would be happy without him. idk what i should do.. what should i do? (link)
you have to be honest with yourself and to him. If he hates you doing all these things like getting jealous and pissed when you go out and party and hang out with your friends then he's trying to cut you off from your friends and thats never a good thing into a relationship. First its partying and male friends, what next? all your friends, your family? If he's trapping you, you need out. Usually when those kind of relationships continue, it just gets worse and worse. Hope I helped and I hope this works out for you. Have a merry christmas =]


last night i was raped by my ex boyfriend, we were at a party and i was upstairs talking to my friend, then she left, he came up and pinned me down on the bed, split my legs open, and dug deep inside my pussy and raped me. the thing is, when we were together and fucked, i never really enjoyed it or had an orgasm. but last night, even though i didn't want to fuck him, it felt soo good, i had four orgasms in a row, literally, i'm notkidding, this is a true story, i haven't told anyone, cuz even though it was wrong for him to do it, i liked it. what should i do?

p.s. he's really hot (link)
If you said no then it's rape. Whether you liked it or like you should go to the police, it's a serious charge.


How can you tell if your boyfriend is cheating, mine started acting really shady a few days ago..and doesn't seem as interested in me..any ideas? (link)
Ask him what's going on. If he is, he'll probably get mad and accuse you of something to make you feel guilty or he'll try and ignore the question. Watch his body language as well. If he becomes stiff and reserved or if he looks everywhere but in your eyes when hes answering, then he might just be. Plus, you can ask a couple of friends that are in his classes to watch him and see if he flirts with some other girl or something like that. Hope I helped! =]


Hiya...i need help with a small problem i have. I have no trouble getting a boyfriend at all its just when i have one..after a few weeks i feel as though i dont want to be with them anymore..as if i get bored. Im only young but i need to know what this could meen? Can i not be in a long relationship ?? Please help (link)
I believe theres someone out there for everyone. Maybe your just one of those people who can find that person easier without being in a relationship forever trying to grasp if that person is "the one" or whatever. Hope I helped and good luck =]


ok there is this guy at my church who likes me....call him Justin. he is in high school, he goes to a different school though.
he constantly is staring at me...and hes asked me out constantly and is constantly asking me if i have changed my mind if i say no. i don't want to go out with him...but he looks erally depressed the last time he tried....its kinda creepy. my parents know he likes me....
what can i do to get it in his head that i don't want to go out with him? i do feel kinda sorry for him cause his grandma who he lives with ahd cancer...but you shouldn't go out with someone just for a reason like that...
please help me....im 13/f and hes like 16 i think?
he is smothering me!! (not literally, lol!) and i don't ilke him a bit....like that. as a friend...maybe. if he would quit being so pushy. lol
ok well thanks in advance! (link)
Just tell him you only see him as a friend and maybe one day feelings will progress but theres a chance that it won't happen and being friends should be enough for him. Also tell him you don't want to hurt him but you want to be brutally honest and just don't like him like that and possibly never will. Hope I helped =]


Everytime I go to Carson's house [My boyfriend] I'm really bored. His little brother always watches some G rated movie with us, and his parents always cook some nasty food. I hate eating at their house because all they eat is seafood, and thats the one thing I hate more then anything else. How can I get him to stop inviting me over? I'm all out of excuses, and his parent's won't let him at my house. (link)
Be honest. Tell him how you feel. He'll understand, and may be a little disapointed, but im pretty sure he'll be glad you told him. Hope I helped. Good luck!




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