okay so me and my bf were going out and we wanted 2 kiss me but im like ew gros (it was 6th grade at the time) and so then we broke up but then we got bak 2gether (bcz of major flirting on both our parts) and so hes like i had dreamz of us kissing blah blah blah so im like fine meet me in the stairs il make ur dream cum tru. so i madeout w/ him w/e. but heres the thing. im only in 7th grade! is that so extremely horiable? and every1 found out (bcz 1 of my friends cant keep her mouth shut!) and every1 thinks im a slut. HELP ME!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? lightmeuppx answered Wednesday July 8 2009, 1:31 pm: No, your not a slut. just for makeing out with your boyfriend thats what boyfriends and girlfriends do when there older they become intimate it's perfectly normal, it doesn't make you a slut at all. Don't think you are just because people think you are the fact is there probally all immature and haven't even experienced a hookup yet that's why.just because your making out with your boyfriend dosn't make you a slut because; hes your boyfriend! you like him he likes you and you kiss and shit theres nothing wrong with that so don't let people think twist you around just because of there opion half o the time its jut because there jealous,immature, or have nothing better t do but gossip so, keep your head up girl don't let them bring you down goodluck (; -toriiiii. [ lightmeuppx's advice column | Ask lightmeuppx A Question ]
xomichelle891xo answered Tuesday December 26 2006, 1:17 pm: Dont let people think youre a slut, and if theyre going to think it, dont listen to them! Youre NOT a slut. First of all, making out with your BOYFRIEND isnt that bad. Its not like he's some random guy or youre having sex with him! I think the whole situation you described was cute, not slutty. People are going to be jealous, maybe a little shocked? Oh and also, HE was the one who suggested you kiss. He made a move and you went for it. [ xomichelle891xo's advice column | Ask xomichelle891xo A Question ]
Solemnstar answered Tuesday December 26 2006, 11:37 am: People are just stupid, they spread gossip, and care more about other peoples lives because they do not ahve one of their own.
You are not bad or wrong. They are.
THEY however are not YOU, so it's none of their buisness what you do.
DiNOxTHUNDER answered Tuesday December 26 2006, 10:01 am: you are not a slut.
obviously they dont even know the definition of slut.
making out in 7th grade isnt even a big deal.
so dont worry about it.
you`re fine.=]
and something else will happen to someone else soon and they will totally forget about it.
it will all blow over.
and if they keep caling you one,just dont react because the only reason they keep doing it is because you are reacting.
good luck.=] [ DiNOxTHUNDER's advice column | Ask DiNOxTHUNDER A Question ]
xlickablex answered Tuesday December 26 2006, 2:26 am: Making out with someone doesn't make you a slut. Your peers are probably only calling you one because either theyre jealous or don't really understand the true meaning of the word Slut. If anyone's been calling you a slut, ask them face to face what they think makes you a slut. And if the answer is stupid, which it probably will be, just shrug it off and be like "brush up on your vocabulary." or whatever. Hope this helps. Have a happy new year =] [ xlickablex's advice column | Ask xlickablex A Question ]
christina answered Tuesday December 26 2006, 2:18 am: You're not a slut. I didn't make out til I waqs in 8th grade, but even so, nobody cared. If you're upset with your friend for telling, & ruining you rep [though she probably didn't mean to], I'd talk to her about it cause she probably doesn't know. And if people have anything to say to you about what happened, tell them that what you do with YOUR boyfriend is YOUR business, and it has NOTHING to do with them. :]
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