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rasi -- ok long situation. i went out with this guy off and on for 2 or 3 months. i kept being a bitch and i kept getting more and more chances. i fell in love with him. the whole time;; i was pretty real with my feelings but i didnt tell him everything and i wasnt completely real with him. well he knows that now and isnt quite sure about giving me another chance. he says he doesnt have any reason to believe me this time because i never proved that i changed in the past... but i really need a last chance. i really wanna be with him. what do you think i should do? he said he still likes me.. he just didnt like my actions before.. and the fact that i couldnt tell him everything i felt..

Tell him how you feel. Tell him you want one last chance to prove to him that you really want to be with him. Don't hide your emotions from him, he probably wants you to tell him everything. Try to change your actions a little too so you won't be a bitch to him. Maybe he'll give you another chance then. ♥

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rasi -- i fell i love with my exboyfriend. and apparently i was his first love. anyway.. we broke up cuz i basically treated him like shit. but he seemed to move on so fast. and he's going out with this girl, and they've been together for like a month.. and ive tried to be ok with it. i mean i want him to be happy. but it still hurts when i see them together... like it hurts bad... what do i do

Aww, I'm really sorry, but there's not really much you can do. Only time will help you get over him. Try liking another guy && keep your mind off your x. Hang out with your friends a lot, go shopping, do whatever you like. I know it'll be hard for a while but you'll get over him. Sorry I couldn't help much. [[ ♥ ]] Rasi

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How long into a relationship would you wait to kiss [peck & make out] with your boyfriend/girlfriend? Thanks.

iT DEPENDS 0N H0W CL0SE Y0U ARE iN Y0UR RELATi0NSHiP. JUST D0 iT WHENEVER Y0U FEEL READY F0R iT. i WAiT LiKE 2-3 WEEKS CUZ i D0N`T WANNA RUSH ANYTHiNG [[ ♥ ]]

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I have a girlfriend and shes a huge bitch she abuses me and throws video games at me and screams at my TV, sometimes I think she's crazy and other times I think shes so weird lol jk but I have a girlfriend whos so beautiful so nice and everything I could ask for and I have a question. Will you be with me forever Rasi?

LMA0 i 0NLY YELL AT Y0UR TV CUZ Y0U'RE BEATiN ME AT ALL THE ViDE0 GAMES L0SER! Y0U'RE HANDS0ME KEViN && i L0VE Y0U S0 MUCH. Y0U'RE EVERYTHiNG i C0ULD ASK F0R && i W0ULDN'T MiND BEiNG WiTH Y0U F0REVER. i L0VE Y0U [[ ♥ ]] RASi

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I have pretty long hair...when I hold my arms to my side, my hair comes to about an inch above my elbow. I'd like to get it layered, but I'm not sure...I have a round face, so I'd look bad with short layers, but a medium cut might be nice...but then again, I don't really want to part with my hair. It's not thin, but not abnormaly thick, either. Any ideas of new styles? It's gotta look good, too...because I'd like to ask this guy out, and new hair will make me confindent ;)

Thanks for reading; please answer with any ideas.

i'D GET iT CUT MEDiUM LENGTH WiTH L0NG LAYERS. THAT'S WHAT i HAVE && i L0VE iT //♥

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have you ever gone out with soemone because of there heart and your friends get all amd at you becaus he isnt hott and they have a hotter boy friend and make fun of yours? well i dont no wat to say or do!!!

TELL THEM T0 SHUT UP! H0W W0ULD THEY LiKE iT iF A GUY WAS JUDGiNG THEM LiKE THAT? AT LEAST Y0U`RE A G00D PERS0N & N0T SHALL0W LiKE THEM. //♥

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okay, well ive known this kid nick for about 4 months now, and we like eachother alot. but his best friend john keeps getting in the way, making up these incredibly stupid lies, and trying to get me and nick mad at eachother. i want to be friends with both of them, and sometimes i dont know who to belive. they both sound so sincere, i love nick, and i want john as a friend still... any advice?? please say yes =(

TELL J0HN T0 ST0P. TELL NiCK T0 TELL J0HN T0 ST0P T00, HE SH0ULD LiSTEN SiNCE HE LiKES Y0U. i KN0W Y0U WANNA BE NiCE & BE FRiENDS WiTH J0HN & EVERYTHiNG BUT i D0N'T THiNK Y0U SH0ULD BE FRiENDS WiTH HiM iF HE KEEPS TRYiN T0 KEEP Y0U & NiCK APART CUZ N0 FRiEND D0ES THAT //♥

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alright so iv been dating this guy for almost 9 months now and me and him broke up about 15 times and the last time we broke up was bc he lied to me about stuff he did with a girl (back at the pond he kissed her and she touched his dick n all this) and he lied about it he swore on my life that nothing happened and he swore on our relationship. . . and i believed him of course then yesterday his cousin told me the truth . . . and i asked him about and he addmitted it i was like OMG! then we broke up and he said whateverrr!! really mean and i hung up and he didnt even call me back and i didnt believe his cousin i was like no he loves me too much he wouldnt lie. . . but he did lie! and he cried a lot and begged for me back for like 24 hours or so and i reallyyyyy love him with all my heart but during the almost 9 months like in the beginging he was soo nice then he just started lien to me a lot. . . and i found out and asked him about everything and he told me he wasnt hiding anything else and i believed him and that was after we dated for 5 months or so and he was really good after that then he flirted with a girl right in front of me which that hurt so bad!! then he called me a bitch and hit me 4 times but i really love him and this time i took him back bc i love him soo much. . . did i make a bad mistake??

YEAH, Y0U DiD MAKE A BAD MiSTAKE iF HE HiTS Y0U, CALLS Y0U NAMES, & CHEATS 0N Y0U .. WHAT KiNDA GUY iS THAT? Y0U SH0ULD HAVE TURNED HiM iN SiNCE HE HiT Y0U. Y0U DESERVE A L0T BETTER, N0 GiRL DESERVES A GUY LiKE THAT //♥

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I'm having a mental problem...well, one of many anyways. But, yea, I'm concerned about how my unlove life is going. A lot of my friends have boyfriends and a few of my guy friends have girlfriends...but i don't. I'm not really too bothered by that at all really, because i can come up with a lot of good reasons for staying alone(My promise of being a virgin until i'm married for instance.Protective friend of mine made me promise(she's so sweet, so i couldn't say no). Prolly woulda turned out that way anyways.). But sometimes i get jealous, because they'll be so happy n they'll talk bout how much they love their other half, n i won't have the SLIGHTEST idea how they're feeling. And I don't necessarily want a boyfriend, so much as i want to be super happy like they are. I guess i feel left out in the happy department. And i want to understand them and i want to live alil, even though nothing makes me happier than seeing people happy(especially my friends). So I have no idea what to do with how i feel. I don't talk bout my emotions all too much...so i'm not sure what to do with them. Am i really weird for feeling like this? Especially since I'd be too worried/freaked out/ self-conscious to have a boyfriend anyways. Crazy, huh?

AWW N0 Y0U'RE N0T WEiRD AT ALL F0R FEELiNG LiKE THAT! i HAD THAT FEELiNG BEF0RE T00. i FELT LiKE ALL MY FRiENDS HAD A B0YFRiEND/GiRLFRiEND XCEPT ME & THEY ALL WERE REALLY HAPPY & i FELT LiKE i WAS MiSSiNG 0UT 0N THAT. i WAS S0 HAPPY F0R THEM BUT i WANTED T0 FEEL THAT WAY T00 & iT EVENTUALLY HAPPENED. iT iS A GREAT FEELiNG & iT WiLL HAPPEN T0 Y0U T00. iT HAPPENS T0 EVERY0NE S0 D0N'T BE W0RRiED WHEN Y0U HAVE A B0YFRiEND. HE'LL L0VE Y0U N0 MATTER WHAT Y0U D0. Y0U'RE N0T CRAZY L0L H0PE i HELPED //♥

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I just have a question...what happends when people kiss? People say that when the two like eachother, they just start making out or something. I've never been kissed, so I want to know how to so when the time comes, I'll know how. The guy I like will probably break up with his girlfriend when she moves in July, and from what he says, they kiss a lot. I'm nervous about what will happen when I ask him out after he breaks up with his girlfriend. please help!

I rate fives!

Y0U REALLY D0N'T HAVE ANYTHiNG T0 BE NERV0US AB0UT. Y0U CAN'T MESS UP A KiSS. WHEN S0ME PE0PLE KiSS, THEY MAKE 0UT BUT S0ME PE0PLE D0N'T. THEY USUALLY D0 A PECK iF iT'S THEiR FiRST TiME KiSSiNG S0ME0NE NEW BUT WH0 KN0WS. iT DEPENDS 0N WHAT KiND 0F PE0PLE THEY ARE. G00D LUCK //♥

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Hey Rasi! You're so good at this advice column. I'm 15 and my boyfriend broke up with me on Monday, and he was my first love. I'm a total wreck without him. I've been thinking about sucicide. My parents totally hate me and he probably did too. I don't think I can last much longer. School is a total nightmare. Everytime I look at him I wanna cry. Please help me! Thanks.

AWW i KN0W WH0 THiS iS! THANKS F0R SAYiN iM G00D AT THiS ADViCE THiNG L0L i TRY BUT ANYWAY .. i KN0W iT'S REALLY HARD RiGHT N0W BUT Y0U WiLL GET 0VER HiM & LiKE AN0THER GUY S00N. WHEN C0RY DUMPED ME, i CRiED ALM0ST EVERYDAY F0R A WHiLE BUT THEN i REALiZED HE HURT ME T00 MUCH T0 BE THE RiGHT GUY. i ALS0 CRiED CUZ i TH0UGHT i'D NEVER HAVE AN0THER GUY LiKE ME 0R ASK ME 0UT BUT iT DiD HAPPEN. i KN0W Y0U MiGHT THiNK i S0UND STUPiD WHEN i SAY THiS BUT i D0N'T THiNK iT WAS L0VE AFTER WHAT i HEARD FR0M B0TH 0F Y0U GUYS. i TH0UGHT i WAS iN L0VE T00 UNTiL C0RY BR0KE MY HEART. Y0UR PARENTS D0N'T HATE Y0U AT ALL & NEiTHER D0ES Y0UR X B0YFRiNED! WHATEVER Y0U D0 *PLEASE DON'T COMMIT SUICIDE!!* Y0U NEED T0 G0 GET HELP iF Y0U EVEN TRY THAT. THERE'S N0 P0iNT iN SUiCiDE EiTHER, iT JUST MAKES EVERYTHiNG W0RSE. THiNGS WiLL GET BETTER BABE. iF Y0U EVER NEED ANYTHiNG 0R A SH0ULDER T0 CRY 0N, i'LL BE THERE F0R Y0U. G00D LUCK, i L0VE Y0U. //♥ RASi

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OK, i went out with my boyfriend for 3 months...i know not a very long time, but we were best friends b4 we went out and i really love/loved him, so when he broke up with me abotu 2 weeks ago i was really sad/depressed...it sucked....btu i still havent totally gotten over him...anyoen have any tips on how to?

FUNNY .. THAT HAPPENED T0 ME T00. i WENT 0UT WiTH MY LAST B0YFRiEND F0R 3 M0NTHS THAT i REALLY LiKED THEN HE DUMPED ME & i WAS REALLY SAD T00. Y0U CAN'T REALLY GET 0VER HiM iF Y0U REALLY L0VED HiM BUT JUST TRY & KEEP Y0URSELF BUSY ALL THE TiME BY HANGiNG 0UT WiTH Y0UR FRiENDS, G0 SH0PPiNG, TALK 0N THE PH0NE, LiSTEN T0 MUSiC, (( N0T ANY DEPRESSiNG STUFF THAT WiLL GET Y0U EVEN M0RE SAD )), ETC. TRY T0 LiKE S0ME 0THER GUY T00 THEN Y0U'LL SL0WLY GET 0VER Y0UR X B0YFRiEND. G00D LUCK SWEETiE Y0U'LL GET THR0UGH THiS! //♥

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Hey omg i absolutly love your advice column...ok well i really need some help, how do u make a guy want to kiss you?(im pretty positive that he wants to but im not sure)! please help me!

AWW THANKS BABE! WHEN Y0U GUYS ARE SiTTiNG D0WN AT THE M0ViES, S0ME0NE'S H0USE, 0R WHATEVER, Y0U CAN LAY 0N HiS SH0ULDER 0R Y0U PUT HiS ARM AR0UND HiM (( i KN0W Y0U MiGHT THiNK iT S0UNDS KiNDA FUNNY & THE GUY'S SUPP0SE T0 D0 THAT BUT THAT'S WHAT i USED T0 D0 & HEY iT MADE HiM KiSS ME )) Y0U CAN GiVE HiM HUGS FR0M BEHiND T00! THAT W0RKS! i KN0W GUYS ARE SUPP0SE T0 MAKE THE FiRST M0VE BUT M0ST GUYS THiNK iT'S A TURN 0N WHEN GiRLS MAKE THE FiRST M0VE L0L. ANYWAY, G00D LUCK SWEETiE!! //♥

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umm, I'm Sarah and I asked you a question before and it was really good advice, but I'm also afraid about relationships in high school. I know I won't meet anyone in high school because I'm too young, but that's when romantic things are supposed to happen and I think I'm going to be missing out of a major part of my life. What should I do, and don't tell me that I'll meet someone, I'm too young.

Y0U WiLL MEET S0ME0NE iN HiGH SCH00L! i NEVER TH0UGHT i'D HAVE A B0YFRiEND iN HiGH SCH00L & i'M A FRESHiE & i'VE ALREADY HAD TW0 0F THEM. S0ME 0F MY FRiENDS THAT ARE AR0UND Y0UR AGE ALREADY HAD B0YFRiENDS. iF Y0U THiNK THERE'S S0METHiNG WR0NG WiTH Y0U JUST BECAUSE Y0U DiDN'T HAVE A B0YFRiEND YET .. *DON'T* THiNK LiKE THAT BECAUSE iT'S N0T TRUE. Y0U'RE KiNDA LUCKY THAT Y0U DiDN'T HAVE A B0YFRiEND YET BECAUSE Y0U HAVEN'T HAD T0 DEAL WiTH HEARTBREAK & Y0U D0N'T WANNA G0 THR0UGH THAT AT 0UR AGE .. TRUST ME. BESiDES THAT, i BET THERE iS S0ME0NE 0UT THERE THAT D0ES LiKE Y0U. Y0U W0N'T BE MiSSiNG 0UT 0N A BiG PART 0F Y0UR LiFE BECAUSE i KN0W THAT THERE WiLL BE S0ME0NE iN HiGH SCH00L Y0U'LL G0 0UT WiTH & THEY'LL BE LUCKY T0 HAVE Y0U //♥

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my doyfriend aways as started to leave me at his hose while he goes out wit his boys every weekend.He tells me he is only going to the store and he'll be back in 10.When is friends come around he waya treat me like im not nothin to him.He talks to me like im some kind of an animal or something.My mom tells me i should leave him and come back home.I really don't know what to do because i love him.What shold i do?

LEAVE HiM. i KN0W Y0U MiGHT THiNK Y0U'RE iN L0VE & EVERYTHiNG. i TH0UGHT i L0VED MY X T00 BUT HE HURT ME. THERE ARE 0THER GUYS 0UT THERE & Y0U'RE W0RTH iT JUST LiKE L0TS 0F 0THER GiRLS S0 Y0U SH0ULDN'T BE WiTH S0ME L0SER THAT TREATS Y0U BADLY! //♥

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hey rasi. i have a prob. me n this guy like each other, or at least i think we do. But its been awhile n i dunno if he still likes me or not. but i know i still like him. should i wait for him to show he is still or is not interested in me, or should i keep kinda being obvious that i really wanna get to know him? i probably am overreacting with all this, but you know i have no life. you know who this is...no one knows me better. :P

hehe i know who this is!! i love you! lol! anyway .. i`d ask him if he still likes you or not cuz i don`t like waiting lol but you can wait if you want if you have patience. get to know him better if you still like him! i don`t think it would be that obvious if you like him by just talkin to him. if you wanna make it obvious then flirt with him =P who knows what might happen between you two! good luck!! ♥ rasi

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to put it simply.. about 5 guys like me a lot right now and are fighting over me... i cant just pick one though because i feel a connection
with every single one of them. i dont know what to do.. do i pick one of them or just try to find someone other than them so i wouldnt be "picking"?? please help me

that kinda happened to me xcept it was with two guys and i picked one and i felt really bad for the other guy cuz he really did like me. the guy i went out with dumped me a few months later. i`ve never felt so sad in my life. so if i were you, i wouldn`t pick any of the guys that are fighting over you cuz i`m sure at least one of those guys will get hurt. what goes around comes around. good luck ♥

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well i did community service last week with my friend and a bunch of kids from my school, and we had to serve food and stuff to the senior citizens. i got assigned table 1 and so did josh

he might like you! at school just ask him if he`s doing anything over the weekend and give him your number or you could ask for his. don`t feel weird calling him because you never know might what happen between you guys ♥

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um yeah, i'm a girl and there is this one girl who ithink kisses me, and i tell her not to, but she keeps on doing that... um what should i do, because i don't really swing that way.....

tell her you don`t swing that way and you don`t want her kissin you anymore. she should understand and hopefully she won`t do that to you anymore ♥

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alright my ex asked me to prom, and hes a big dancer type and i dont really dance that way with guys other than slow dance.. i wanna go with him ALOT but im scared that hes gonna think im a loser if i dont dance like that with him..wut do i do?? please help me cuz i havent given him an answer yes or no yet..

aww i think you should go with him! he won`t think your a loser if you don`t do that kinda dance with him! but if you wanna know how to dance, you can ask one of your friends who`s good at dancing and they can teach you how ♥

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