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ok this ones for the guys... me and my bf have been going out for 3 months now. and everything is great. well the other day we were at this dance, and a slow song came on so we were dancing, and then we kissed, right after that he kissed my neck then he mumbled something and i didn't catch wat he said... so i asked him, and he smiled then said nevermind. i know that the thing he said was short, but its bothering me, cuz i reeli want to know. so guys what do you think he said? (link)
He might of said he loved you..

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mandah
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Okay, sorry if this is a little long, but please read it. There is this kid I met at the beginning of this school year. He's in some of my classes and I talk to him online. I like him, but I'm not sure if he likes me. He talks to me a lot online, and he looks at me in class. He also waves to me sometimes. I just met him too, so it's not like we are close friends. So what do you think about this? Thanks! (link)
If you are shy to confront him try writing a note about your feelings for him..I think it sound like he likes you..And by the way thats not long at all lol..hope i helped..

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mandah
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This year at My new Middle School* I met this really Cute boy .. + He's in like all my Classes and we became really good friends.. well about a couple days ago He asked me out and i said yeah! But Then i found out that he only had one gurlfriend but they went out for awhile but they never did anything so his friend told me he thinks he never kissed! Well I dont JuSs wanna be a couple that talks i wanna kiss and hold hands and that lil Stuff! So should i JuSs make the move or should i tell his friend to get him to do it ?! Oh but he does hug* lol!! Alright.. Please Help Me Out (link)
I would make the move..but if you are scared i would talk to his friend..if talking to his friend doesnt help and you dont want to talk to him and person try writing him a note or text message him or something..well hope i helped..rate me =)

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mandah
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everyday we go to lunch and me and a few friends play truth or dare.. well like im never dared to do anything so im usually happy. i was dared the other day to kiss this boy jake.. and i did. because him and i have kissed before.. yeh sure its no harm done and we acted like it never happened. but my friends made a BIG deal over it for nothing.. what do i do to tell them to chill!? (link)
Try and ignore it..they will get the hint and stop eventually..hope i helped..rate me =)

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mandah
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ok my little problem is...that I've had many gurlz ask me to Homecoming...I mean I got gurlz from 6 different schools asking me...and like 2/3 or 4 from each school..c im very flattered..but if I go with 1 of them the others will get really pissed..if you got any idea on what I should do or/and who I should choose..tell me

Kev (link)
I would choose the girl you like mosst..every girl who asked you will get jealous..but they will get over it! hope i helped..rate me =)

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mandah
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Hi well see I met this guy from Paris, France, well he is sweet and everything , but my boyfriend dosnt like him , he said if I talked to him that he would break up with me , what do I do?Plz
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If you want to keep talking to this guy try talking to your boyfriend..tell him that you love him and dont have any feeling for this guy from France..and you only want to be friends with him..If you want to tell the France guy to leave you alone tell him that your boyfriend doesnt want me seeing you at all..just tell him the truth..well hope i helped.rate me =)

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mandah
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ok me n my x broke up i still like him and he acts like he still likes me. the prob is..he has a reputation of cheating on ppl before n hes sorta a player. anyway, hes wicked nice n we r friends but he invited me to go to the mall tommorow n idk if i shud go cuz ik wed just do stuff like other times and i wudnt wanna go just to giv him stuff..its not worth it. but i like him too..ikd help (link)
I think you should go..just tell him you want to go only as friends. well hope everything works out and hope i helped. rate me =)

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mandah
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i am deeply in love with a very close guy friend of mine. we have lost touch. he moved away and theres no way i can see him, we talk on the phone once a month about. hes my best friends brother..shes still here with her family its only him that moved..ill only be able to see him once a year, he gets so many girls, hes my ex boyfriend, he probably has so many where he is now, but when he comes back for his 2 week visits i want somehting to happen with him, he doesnt knwo i feel this way, and eaither does his sister (my best friend) what do i do?!?! (link)
I would tell your best friend and him your feelings..dont hide them, whenever he comes back..maybe ask him out to the movies or something..well hope everything works out and hope i helped! rate me =)

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mandah
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my friends and i all hang out with the same group of guys all the time. ive liked one of the guys(greg) on and off since like last february. we went out for about a month(it was a pointless relationship cuz i only saw him like 4 times) antways, i recently found out from my friend that another kid in our little group, lets call him kyle, likes me. im not sure if kyle really likes me and ive never really tohught of him as more than a friend, but he is very cute and nice. lately, ive been thinking less about greg and ive been considering the possibilities with kyle. ive liked greg so much for so long and i dont think he likes me back. i dont want to start liking kyle just cuz he likes me, and also im afraid if something happens with me and kyle, ill still get jealous of other girls who like greg..... sorry its kinda confusing but i need help! xOx thanks in advance :) (link)
I think you should go with Kyle..maybe once you get to know him better you will like him a lot more than Greg..i know this is probly tough for you but your gonna have to try to get over Greg..well hope i helped and hope everything works out! rate me =)

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mandah
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Okay Where do i start theres this guy(Johnta) who i have been goin off and on with for the past two years.. and recently i broke up with him because i started liking this guy(Steve) i met at the beginning of school, i mean yea me and Johnta went to the same school but he never walked me to class and whenever i did see him all he did was give me a handshake like he was ashamed of me or something, and people came up to me and was like "Johnta said yall dont go out" and we did.. so i decided that maybe i should get to know steve better and i did and he treats me with respect, he walks me to class, carries my bookbag, and just makes me smile whenever i am around him, But now Johnta and Steve dont like each other because of me the other day they were about to fight in school and they didnt but they were in each others face and the only thing that came out of johntas mouth was " Fuck You! You Fucked With My Heart!" and i felt really bad.. but steve really likes me and i can tell he acts like it but when me and johnta were goin out johnta acted like we didnt.. i just dont understand why ALL OF A SUDDEN johnta acts likes he cares.. I Cant break up with steve i've gotten to know him and I REALLY like him ALOT.. all my friends tell me to break up with steve but they just dont understand how i feel.. what should i do? (link)
I think you should go up to Johnta and ask him why he seems to care all of the sudden! screw Johnta..Steve seems like a great boyfriend! I would defenitly stay with Steve..whats the point of haveing a boyfriend who doesnt treat you like a girlfriend?! Tell Johnta that he doesnt make you happy..but Steve does! Well hope I helped..and hope everything works out..rate me =)

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mandah
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Ok, im 7ft tall, and of course a guy. It seems like every time i approach a girl shes always so afraid of me. She never wants to talk to me and hold a convo. w/ me. When people do talk to me, they always ask how tall i am, then sit and stare. Why are girls so afraid of me? and how do you suggest i cure this problem, and maybe advise on how to keep the convo going w/o it dropping off at how big my feet are. (link)
people are very weird! you could start the conversation of with a little about yourself..like how tall you are..and then ask about them..ask them to go get some food or something..well i hope everything works out..and hope i helped..rate me =)

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mandah
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okay, ive had my guy best friend for like a year now, and he recently just got a gf, theyve been goin out now for like 4 months, he loves her, she loves him, etcetc...he usta REALLII like me ALOT in the past..even when he was with his gf, we tell eachother EVERYTHING, he even told me how he felt about me...then i didnt wanna fuck nething up for them so i backed off so he would kinda stop having these feelings for me...now everything is back to normal i think...we just like gradually started talking again and we are like how we usta be...this was acouple months ago, but the thing is, i THINK that im starting to have tiny feelings for him starting to form..ahh i dunno whut to do cause i think im kinda jealous now?? i have no idea how im feeling..i dunno whut to do/think..id appreciate if u helped, thanks =] (link)
I would tell him..just like he told you..maybe you can ask him out? well hope you two work out..and hope i helped! rate me =)

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mandah
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I was off and on with my ex boyfriend several times. The last time we broke up, a couple days ago, I dumped him. He was playing little games with me, I didn't fully trust him and I just kept getting hurt. He's the only boy I was ever truly in love with and I still love him. The way he makes me feel is unbelieveable and so many things about him I fell in love with. We still talk and I know he still has feelings for me. Do you think a relationship like ours will ever survive if we go out again? I could never let him go and I love him more than words could say. (link)
i think you should sit down and talk to him..tell him you still have strong feeling for him and wanna make the relashionship happen..tell him your committed and see if he is too..if he is i think you should give it another shot..and try really hard to keep things steady..and hope he does too..well hope i helped..rate me =)

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mandah
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I really like this guy I met him the first day of school when him and all his friends came up to me to tell me I was hott and he was just standing there so I talked to him its been 13 days since we met but I feel like its been more then that anywayz Today we were hugging alot and holding hands I was hugging him when someone said AWW u guys are so cute U should go out So i said ok I will then he said NO she doesnt want to SO everyone was like u just missed a big huge chance to ask her out then all of a sudden hes like I have a girlfriend I cant WHy didnt he tell me sooner and what should I do about this? (link)
wow thats messed up..sorry to say but your gonna have to get over him and move on..hes just a player..screw him! hope i helped..rate me =)

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mandah
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Hey I'm 14/m and i still haven't ever kissed a girl outside my family.... I feel kinda out of place here because I'm already in high school and ive never kissed.... is there something wrong with me? (link)
theres nothing wrong with you...you just havent found the right girl..dont worry she will come! hope i helped..rate me =)

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mandah
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Well maybe about 2 - 3 years ago I met this boy, he lives in california and i live in everett washington. Hes in 11th grade and im in 10th. He came up a few months ago and visited me for about 2 weeks and then left. I really love him and we talk online everyday through email because his computers messed up and wont let him download aim or anything. He's always like " Whats up baby " and " I love you too ". Were not going out but I really wanna go out with him. I know he would never cheat on me because hes real. He doesnt make things up If hes busy he'll say " Oh ill email you later im busy ". Hes so sweet to me. But yesterday I went on my sister screen name and she sent him a email that told him that I want to go out with him and that I was scared to ask because he might have a girlfriend or he might say no. And he wrote back saying something like " Tell her I dont have a girl and I would never say no to her and I really love her. " Then she wrote back saying " She wants to know why you love her." And something else. And he said " Tell her to ask me why I love her but she should know." Im not that mad at her for doing to because I kind of knew. But anyways lol my question is should I go out with him? I mean we live far away and probably wouldnt be able to see eachother. But we really love eachother. Drop your thoughts or whatever. (link)
I think you should go out with him..you could visit each other as much as possible..and if things dont work out..then at least you tried..obviously you keep in touch so i dont think there will be a problem..well hope i helped..rate me =)

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mandah
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Ok, well this guy and I just started going out. I like him so much and he likes me too obviously. Well we've only been going out for a day. Today at school I acted all weird. I mean I like him a lot but he makes me shy. I didn't talk to him much and tried to avoid him a little. I really want us to work out as a couple. What do you guys think I should do in order to not be shy and talk to him and such. I have had boyfriends so its not like I'm stupid, this guy just makes me shy like no other boyfriend has. Thanks :) (link)
I think you should act like he is a really close friend..just be yourself and have some fun! Whenever you see him around smile and say hi..Dont worry things will work out..hope i help and hope everything works out..rate me =)

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mandah
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there is this boy who b sweatin me..everywhere i go he follow..but he is a nice friend.but sometimes he just get annoying. How can i tell him to back off..but without hurting his feeling? (link)
I would just nicly ask him whats going on? why are you following me? see what he says and go from there..hope I helped! rate me =)

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mandah
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ok, well i like my brothers friend.. lets call him... BOB, ok well BOB likes me too and we always talk and hang out and we've kissed and he sometimes gets all playful touchy but just like flirting and stuff and i wanna go out with him but hes afraid my brother will get insanely pissed off at him.. I talked to my brother and he was like "whatever.. hes cool so i dont care" so i was like, sweet. Well i dont wanna ask this guy out cus i just dont, im not scared or nething but i wanna talk to him about "us" but i dont know how.. i dont think this is making sense.. BUT ANYWAYS i dont know how to talk to him about it.. its reatrded cus i can usually go up to a guy and tell him i think hes hot or that i like him and stuff and they would be like "sweet" or something BUT i CANT with BOB... What would you do if you were in my situation?... I rate high..

15/F (link)
If i was in your situation I would talk to *bob* privatly..if you dont want to talk to him in person give him your number and tell him to call you whenever he is alone..Ask him what he thinks about going out? Then go from there..If you are too shy or something maybe your brother could talk to him? Whats to loose? I hope you and him work out..and hope I helped..good luck! rate me =)

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mandah
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