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Hey!
Im kalene im 15 years old And i D Love to answer any of your ?`sz ill do the best i can! Ive been threw alot in my life and i bet i could help you through alot..if you got`sz ne more ?`sz feel free to im me or email me or whatveer floats your boat!!
Love ya
--xO KalenE

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Well, I was on the way to school, and my girlfriend came up to me and said she likes another guy. So she is deciding whether to go out with me or the other guy. should I even still go out with her? should I like her anymore?

No dont waste your time on someone who wont waste their time on you more girls out there hunie
Good lucl
((xO-Kalene-ox))

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I have a really hot boyfiend thats cute,funny,nice and caring but I have the biggest feeling that he's cheating on me and I don't wanna be hurt what should I do?

Well most guys that are like *perfect* are haha that sucks soo bad i know..but i d ask him abouot it be like i have this feeling your cheating on me and if you are dump me right now...no matter how much it hurts if he does it wonce he ll do it again..
goodluck babe
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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Ok, there's this kid at my school, Drew. We sorta like each other, so on Sat. we had like, this 5 hour long convo, and we just decided to go to the Snowball together. (it's a dance). So anyway, today at school, I was telling my friends Jenny and Nicole (Nicole likes Drew) about it. Jenny was real happy for me, but I noticed Nicole just looked mad. So I just online a little bit ago, and my one friend was talking to her, and IMing me their convo, and turns out, she's real pissed about me going to the dance with Drew and just liking him in the first place, but I can't help it. I heard from Drew that he doesn't even like Nicole the way she does. So I IMed her saying I was sorry if I made her mad, but we both decided to go to the dance together. I told her to stop bein so weird about it cuz it has nothing to do with her. And then she signed off. Idk, I just want your opinion about this. Who's right and wrong here? And I want to go to the dance w/ Drew, but I don't want to upset Nicole either. What should I do?

Shes jealous but she ll get over it i mean i mean i no shes your really good friend but if she freaks out because you go then shes not a true friend this drew guy seems awesome dont let him down go and have an awesome time!!
good luck
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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Ok thre is this guy that i like but he is 18 know and i am 15. And i just found out that his girlfriend is prenget and i like him really bad. but i have know him for since i was little cause he and my uncle were good friends. We use to party together but that was the old days. And i don't know if i should tell him bow i fell. But i hope some one can help me. Michy

Well hes 18 and hes got alot on his plate right now he might not really care so i would wait till he gets things all strait before you tell him and you never know he might marry her nd then you kno u have no chance...sorry..but good luck babe
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just wondering...but how old do you think is the "right" age to have sex?... my friends sister is like 12 and knows a bunch of people who have had sex at that age...i'm sorry but i think thats way wrong. what do u think the right age would be?

Well you have to love this guy and have to be with him for at least 9 months and i think 14 and older is okay but 16 and 18 is the best..good luck
((xO-Kalene-ox)) 12 is way to young!!

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Okay, I was at this party last night and it was with a bunch of my guyfriends/friends. The thing is, my boyfriend was with me. These two guyfriends of mine are particularly touchy-feely types, and they like to pick me up and toss me around and all that...I'm small, lol. This one guy, Aaron, dipped me back like he was about to kiss me, and my boyfriend was glaring daggers at him. He was doing that to both Aaron and Kevin through the whole night. He already doesn't like Kevin because he's my ex, but I think he dislikes him more now. My boyfriend isn't usually the jealous type. I talked to both guys and told them to lay off with the touching me, and I told my boy that it doesn't mean a thing, that they're just my friends and they've always done that to me, but I don't think it helped.
Okay, basically, what I'm asking is, is there anything I can tell him besides what I've already said to make my boyfriend stop with the jealousy?

Tell him their just your friends..but i mean how would you feel if he did that to other girls and stuff like that i bet you d get jealous it probaly really hurts for him to see you wit other guys...he must really love you..he might dump you if this stuff keeps happening so if youd ont wanan loose him then i d stop doing that..
good luck
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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okay,well,me and my ex-boyfriend went out. Then broke up 6 days later. Then got back together. then broke up a week later. Then made out sooooooooooooo many times. Then we went back out. Then a rumor got passed and we broke up. then we went back out because we still liked each other. Then we broke up because i cheated on him. Then we got back together becuase i broke up with the other guy. And now we are broke up again because he liked my cousin but he doesnt know shes from across the country! okay...how do i get him back? I think i still like him! Ha! Ha!

You guys play to many games with eachother if you want to go back out you have to promise eachtoehr this is going to stop or if it was me I'd just move on and be really good friends bc if you cheated on him and he cheated on you not good..if he did it once he ll do it again..you cheated on him bc u liked anotehr guy which ment you didnt like him which ment you dont like him enough anymore to be with him..and it seems like you always have a boyfriend be single for awile and have the time of your life before you have to settle down good luck babe
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I like my boyfriend, and i like to be around him. but im not sure if i really like/love him. Im 15/f. He says he likes me too, but we dont really have that much in common. I had my heart broken in the past and well i really dont want it to happen again so i was wondering if maybe thats why im not really into this guy. I want to be because he is awesome and one of the nicest guys i have ever met, but sometimes i think about things to much and then i start thinking he really isnt that interested in me. What would you do in this situation?

Well never be afraid of dating a new guy because you think hes going to break your heart..you got a move on even thought it kills i know how it feels but anyway if your questioning your relationship I dont think you really like him i think you like him as more of a friend so I'd nicely break up with him and be really good friends and when you hang out more you might grow closer and get lots more feeings for him..good luck though
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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My friend and I went to the movies at the mall and after it was over, we saw my crush and his friend there too. I know that he saw me, because he knows who I am because he goes to my church and all that stuff. Well, after we went to the bathroom, he was still there. I know that he looked at us a few times. What would that mean? And, my friend and I were smiling and whispering to eachother and looking back at him. She doesn't like him though. Anyways, what would that have said to him, us smiling and looking at him. Would it have told him anything? And why was he looking at us (me)? Thanks and I rate. Oh, he's a year older and we're in jr. high.

Hes was probaly looking because if you saw him looking you were looking at him to lol and he probaly thought he reconized you try to get his s/n or something and talk to him online and see what he thinks of you and stuff and he probaly thinks you were talking about him ..haha and he probaly wants to know what you were saying..Or maybe he thinks your attractive and may have a crush on you also never know but let im know how you feel believe me if you dont do it now you might not ever be able to!!
Good luck babe
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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I don't have any guts when it comes to dumping a guy. Well.. OK I must admit this is my first time and we never went out on a date. I just don't want to be in a relationship right now. So, do you think it is ok to write a note to the guy I want to dump and say I don't want to be in a relationship? Or, does anyone know another way where I don't have to talk to him face-to-face. Or, do I have to talk to him like that! PLease help!

Email,aim,letter but it would be better if you did it in person because then he knows you have guts and one day this guy mahy be soo attractive and you might want to date him and if he knows you have guts and where not the girl who didnt have guts to dump me face to face he may not go for you..Just tell him that you have feelings for him but you just want to be single right now and be really good friends and maybe later have a relationship again..DONT SAY DUMP thats the worst word..thats mean!! lol good luck
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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Well I am kinda in a long distance relationship and it is hard because i dont get to see him like everyday. I am only 13 and i am a female and I think he is the one and I love him every much. Do you think this will last forever????? NEED HELP FAST!!!!

Im in a long distance relationship and I see my boyfriend once or twice a month and im 14 and we ve been together for 8 months and when we do see eachotehr its soo great..so i say yea stick with him expecially if he treats u soo great when your with him...if he doesnt then find a guy that will there..good luck to you both!!
((xo-kalene-Ox))

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ok I'll start from the beginning,
one day I ask this girl out. I tell her a few nice things. then I ask her out. she says let me get back to you. well she goes and and tells her friends what happened. so they go hide & talk.
well after lunch shes yes. two days after shes yes she breaks up with me. now thats been about 6mons. ago. and I still have feelings for her.
I also hear she still has feelings for me.
but I'm scared that if I ask her she'll say no.
what should I do?

you *hear* she has feelings for you you gotta find out from he if she does..and if she does ask her out and hopefully she ll say yes..good luck hun
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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Well My ex-boyfriend (Jake) and I dated for about 7 months off and on last year (2003) well...He use to say he loved me but never meant it...He hurt me alot but I'm madly in love with him and the other day he said I love you and says he means it and I really think he does...Im just not sure what to think or do....i need help...what should i do???? should i ask him out should i believe him what????

If he does *love* you he ll ask you out dont ask him out and dont throw yourself at him let him call you and talk to you and stuff bc the more you run after him t he more hes gunna push u away i learned that the hard way
good luck
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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I would like to ask something. My best friend and I experimented and were both girls and were both 13. We kissed each other, felt on each other and kissed each other's neck. As the days go on after we experimented I haven't had any thoughts about other guys. My friend and I act like were a couple or something. When she goes to her dad's house we miss each other more, I want to hug her and never let her go and we talk about experimenting again like it's just a regular thing to do now. Does that mean we like each other or that were lesbians?

It sounds like you may be not to be like mean and its not a bad thing at all..but see what she feels about you tell her how you feel...
good luck
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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Me and my ex bf were together a couple months but it had to go to a long distance relationshiops for awhile and he thought i hated him and then we broke up cuz we didnt talk cuz of that and now i found out he still loves me what do i do?

If you still love him give it another shot..good luck to ya
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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ok the other night i was at a party/sleepover and me and my friend got dared (for 10$ each) to make out with each other. we did it because we figured it wasnt a big deal and we were getting ten dollars each. but then everyone started taking turns doing it and i ended up doing it at least three times. im not lesbian or bisexual but i feel like what i did makes me one now. not that its a bad thing but its just not what i want to be. does what i did make me a lesbian? i dont know what to think about myself anymore.
please help!

NO it deffintly doesnt i was dared that once before to and i felt soo grose after wards i mean if you felt grose afterwards then you are deff not a lebian if u kinda enjoyed it u may be and being a lesbian isnt a bad thing...but i dont think you are one!! good luck
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i wrote a question earlier today picking in between parties. i picked to stay home with my boyfriend. he came over, and he was drunk. he's always a little mean when he's drunk. we got into this huge fight about nothing and we broke up. i started bawling and he said i was overreacting. i haven't stopped crying since 11:30 and i can't stop. i feel worthless and stuff because everytime we fight, it's my fault. what can i do to get over him because i won't stop having feelings for him? and what can i do to stop this feeling of worthlessness? please help me. i can't stop crying

If he was drunk he prob wont remeber nething in the morning and prob doesnt no what hes doing hopefully in the morning he ll wake up nd say what the hell did i jus do if not get lots of ben and jerry icecream lots of movies 2 boxes of tissues and cry your heart out hunnie..
good luck
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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ok, i have this boyfriend which i love very much and hes moving to california in 30 days and im thinking about breaking up with him because i think it would be better to not see him b4 he goes so i wont be as devistated s i would be watching him leave in front of me so should i break up with him or not?

Well depends how far away that is from you..nd i think that if you dump him ull be rele upset expecially if you love him but i mean he ll meet new girls at his new school..so maybe you should..
Good luck
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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I have alot of guy friends that are juniors and seniors and i have been asked to prom a few times....but see, im only a sophmore...Do you think its ok to go that young or should i wait and let it be more special?

hell yea have a blast your only like a year younger or 2!! You only live once!
Good luck
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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okay so here it is. i wanna break up with my boyfriend and its Friday and we go back to school Tuesday. Hes suppose to give me my christmas present at school. Should i break up with him on the phone tonight or tomorrow that way he doesnt have to give me my present or should i break up with him on Tuesday. i need major help my mind is going crazy.

Break up wit him before you go back to school because then he ll think u were jus going out wit him to get a present..good luck 2 ya
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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