Hi everyone, My name is Jamie and I am really glad that I have my own advice column now. I love to help people or at least try to. I haven't had much of a bad life myself but I have bad experiences with Guyz! N other things but Not so much with a bad life. I can still help you..
Thank You,
Jamielynn
E-mail: NewYorkCheerGrL1@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: New York
Occupation: High-School student
Age: 14
AIM: x3sweetxbabyx3
Yahoo: Cherry_grl_200869
Member Since: July 21, 2004
Answers: 71
Last Update: November 13, 2004
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ok my best friend and i are friends with benefits and for a while it's been working out but now i'm hugely late on my period and i don't know if it's stress or not. if i am pregnant i can't get am abortion because my best friend will never talk to me again, but i'm not sure that i'm ready to be a mother. what should i do?? (link)
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wait a little longer..and then if your still late take a preganace test.if you are pregnant I guess if your not going to get an abortion which is the right thing to do (not to get an abortion) then you will have to suffer with the concequences(sp)
hope i helped xOx
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how do you give a hickey? (link)
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You suck on someone's neck...
XOX
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ok, well this guy and i r good friends we talk like for 3 hours every day. well i dont know if i should say he is my boyfriend because he never asked me out but he calls "boo-boo"(i dont why) and babygirl and all ways says i love so he acts like hes my boyfriend but i dont know if he is or not. plz tel me what you think thnx alot
~*~Emily~*~ (link)
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It sounds to me like he likes you. So talk to him and ask him if he would consider you and him as boyfriend and girlfriend..~☼x0x☼JamieLynn
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i have liked this guy for about a year now and we hung out alot when my best friend and his started to date and i herd that he liked me well now his best friend moved away and i have talked to him all summer and i hed he likes this other girl what should i do im so cofused (link)
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Well talk to him and ask him if he likes you more then a friend if he doesn't then don't ask again..It would be way to uncomfotable to talk about it im sure! But if he is talking about liking other girls then don't ask because if he likes you he will come to you. I really wouldn't chase after him much. You can't make him like you..But slowly you can make him fall for you...by flirting and kinda coming onto him but then again not coming to far onto him. If ya know what I mean..
hope i helped
x0x JamieLynn
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ok my boyfriend is 14 and we have been going out for 11 and a half months. what do i get him for our 1 year anniversary?? anyone got any ideas? xoxo please help! im desperate!! loves ya!!! (link)
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Really he should be the one worring about this one..
x0x JAmielynn
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Are braces a turn off to guys? Im going into high school this year. (link)
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Not really, most of my friends are like exstremly pretty and have braces but they still get madd guyz.
x0x Jamielynn
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im thinkin i want a guy thats a year or two older than i am because that way hes not so immature and hopefully not as prude... but then again.. i dont wanna be made fun of or called a whore for the stupid things ppl will assume.. so i guess i could go for a guy my age.. but isnt it more important what i want then what my friends think... please help! i rate well! x0x0x ~*a*M*y~ (link)
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No if its only a few years older then no.I am older then my boyfriend by a year.
x0x Jamielynn
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I am 15/f and I always end up liking younger guys. Usually guys that are 14. Is there anything wrong with that.. cause some of my friends think it's a lil weird. (link)
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No there is nothing wrong with that. If they're like way younger like 10 I would see where they think it is kinda wrong and weird but no deffinately not if they are only 1 year younger. My boyfriend is a year younger then I am
x0x JamieLynn
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ok well my bf was at school for most of summer and i missed him a lot but after spending a lot of time with him before he left, i kind of don't like him as much as i used to. i mean i don't not like him enough to break up with him but yeah.i still love him. i like never see him too, i see him like maybe every 2 weeks and it's been like this for awhile and i don't really think there's anything we can do about that. i also feel really bad because when i was at a camp for a week, i cheated on him really bad and i'm just really confused. should i tell him i cheated on him? (link)
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Well as you say you are in love with him. If I were you I would have already told him. THat is me anywayz, One time I broke a promise that I know I shouldnt have and I wasn't going to tell him but I just had to because it was okward not to.. Honesty and Trust is one of the 2 best things in a realationship!!!
x0x JamieLynn
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im 13 and a girl and i want to do alot of things like make out with guys and maybe in a year or so have sex with a guy. but 1. im scared im a bad kisser. 2. i dont wanna get pregnant and 3. i havent found the right guy to do any thing with...what should i do? (link)
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Wait...thats the key..It seems that your not ready
x0x Jamie Lynn
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my bf jus broke up w/ me,i still like him. wen my friend asked him, he said he might go out w/ me again. he's 2years oldr than me and we were gonna have sex but hiz parents were at his house. we are going to see eachother again soon.
he still tells all his friends about how hott i am. wen i see him,how do i turn him on? plz help me!!!thanx niki (link)
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Well just act like you. Don't let the fact that you guys aren't together bother you, eventhough you know it does. And if you get the chance to be alone with him...Talk to him about what people have been telling you and maybe if he doesn't ask you out again if you have enough courage just ask him if he thinks you guys could try it again!
x0x JamieLynn
I hope everything works out!
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ok...i admit it,i kinda have a reputation fer being kinda slutty...but i dont do stuff...
even tho i'm kinda slutty...all these guyz expect stuff frum me n they obsess ovr me n it bugs me whenevr they do that(some try to touch me)...how do i get them 2 stop being perves and get them to lyk me for who i am??? (link)
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Not to be rude but try not to act or be so slutty..and find a guy whose right!
x0x JamieLynn
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i have a ? for anyone who is willing to help me out! i was with this kid eric for a month n i really likeed him alot but he thoguth i cheatedd on him but i didnt n i broek up wit him to sort out my family n guy problems n then i went out wit this kid ian n now me n ian arent goin out n now i like eric again actually i never stopped liken him n i want him back but i dont think he trust me b/c wen we broek up people siad i cheated on him but i didnt and now he doesnt trust me n this girl aktie likes him n he likes her n i told her that if they hooked up id be happy bc i cant do nething bout it n i said goodluck but she better not hurt him . im reaslly upset tho and i want him abck but i dunno if he likes me! plz help tell me wat i should do ill rate you! ill give u a 5 n comment plz help! (link)
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Try and become friends with him..like call him and then eventually he will call u and then like chyll alot more and all that good stuff come on ur a girl...think how would u get ur way if u really wanted it...suck up!! but not in the way u would ur parents or a relative!
x0x JamieLynn
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guys im worried.. ok so this guy im dating, we dont talk about EVERYTHING yet; weve only been goin out 4 3 weeks, and hes told me that his parents dont want him dating right now because of some wrong decisions he made in the past..but he never comes right out and says what those decisions were, and iv never asked because im scared he might not be a virgin anymore, and im a lil more prude than him, i know that for sure.. im 14, almost 15, and hes 16, almost 17... and whenever i tell people that im dating him, they're like "girl what are you thinking, ive heard so many stories about him" ive never asked 2 hear those stories either,cuz im scared of the truth, but i know he went out with this "slut" last year that was a grade older than him, and a girl 2 grades older than him which is who he made the bad choices with.. do u think hes jus datin me cuz im a grade younger, so his parents might let him date again? im also scared he might not be a virgin, which means he might try something i dont wanna do with him, although i made it clear in the beginning im takin it slow n im not a slut... eeek hes at work camp this week with his church which is where he hooked up with his g/f he made bad decisions with (but that was last year @ camp).. i hope shes not there again.. and i dont really doubt the fact that he'll try 2 put the moves on other girls... hit me up ladies~ im worried about this one.. (link)
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Well I know you may be afraid of the truth, but you need to know it. Because you need to be ready for anything that might and/or will be coming your way.You should be strong and sit down with him and talk to him about it. Let him now how you are feeling!
x0x JamieLynn
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Last night.. i was with my boyfriend... and we were in the moment. I let him finger me and then we had sex. I am only 14 and it was my first time. I wasn't really ready, but I was just so much into the moment. What should I do?
He didn't pressure me into it. I just let him do it. He has asked me in the past if it would be alright for him to finger me. I told him I would let him when the time was right.
Do I talk to him about last night.. or should I just let it be and not let it happen again? (link)
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Talk to him so that he knows that you really aren't ready
x0x JamieLyNN
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My boyfriends friends don't approve of me.. and he has only been ahnging out with the 2 that do this summer so far.. but now hes hanging out with the other ones again.. and there the reason we broke up the other times... I mean.. i know i have no control over who he hangs with but would it be wrong of me to maybe ask him in the nicest way possible to not spend time with them so much?? I don't want him to dump me again because of them!!!:( (link)
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Just talk to him about it and tell him how you feel and that your afraid of you guys breaking up again because of them!!
X0X Jamielynn
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my boyfriend hasnt called me n like over 1 month n he has done it b4 n i dont kno 2 do
should i break up with him or stay!!
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Hunnie if he hasn't called you there is something seriously going on!!! dump him! you dnt need to be worrying about that!!
x0xJamielynn
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whats the best way to start a conversation with a friend that is a guy or a boyfreind...if they dont talk much at all? (link)
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Start off asking them how they are doing. Talk about something you both are interested in like a sport or something..
x0x JamieLynn
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My best guy friend hangs out with my boyfriend. Today he told me that my boyfriend was talkin about how annoying I am because I play mind games with him (I have NO idea what kind of mind games I play..) He said he doesn't love me as much anymore and he might break up with me.
Should I believe my best guy friend and expect the worst... or do I just ask my boyfriend about it and hope he doesn't get mad at my guy friend.
I don't want to ruin their friendship, but I don't want to get my heart broken because I didn't listen to my guy friend... What should I do?? (link)
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You should try and just question your boyfriend. Don't tell him who told you. Just question him. I've done it before. But your guy-friend might only be saying this to try and get you to break up with your boyfriend because he likes you. But you don't know that for sure so I would just question your boyfriend about it.
x0x JamieLynn
P.S I would like to know more about this so email me or IM me on AIM!
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I started going out with this guy in Feburary 10th, broke up on April 5th the reason was I liked someone else which I didnt then I found out he went out with this other girl after a month he broke up with her because she kissed some other guy and he asked me out 2 days after he dumped her its been a month n 3 weeks. One day he had a girl over at his house "just friends" he said that she was their bc she was waiting for a ride, then my bfs friend got their we all hung out then he left n she went w him, when she was suppose to be waiting for her ride then another day we were in his room n hes like are you a virgan n I said "yes" then I asked him he said "no I just did it w one girl her name was christina" wat bf tells his gf the girl of the girl he fucked? Last my friend called me one day n we were talkin then she told me my bf and his 2 friends were their n my friends friend was also their n my bf was saying " i love you dont leave me I love you" to my friends friend then I called him to ask wat that was about n he said he was "fooling" around but I dont see why his friends werent doing that too n later he told me "shes was just my friend on the first day i got to school" which I dont think is true then he got upset because I was accusing him of who he loved n he said "I dont care if you belive me or not belive ur friend n not me" So am I like totally OVER-REACTING or WHAT SHOULD I DO? someone pelase help me I dont wanna be w the wrong person n not know it n the other thing is If I do break up with him I dont wanna REGRET it. Like the last time thank you... (link)
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If I were you I would dump him..Only because if this has happened where he was with girls even "just friends" and he did or said things. then it seems kind of weird to me. And by him telling you who he fucked isn't very great either! I would just dump him and get it over with. And if he comes back tell him no! I know It will be hard but you can't hurt! and You need to be able to trust him and obviously you don't know what to believe!
x0x JamieLynn
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