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Heyy! My names Sara. .Im a cheerleader and i love to dance I also rantrack for 4 years! Im 13 and like all other teenagers need help with my choices! If you need help let me know and i would love to help you because ill try my best and i give pretty good idvice and dont forget to rate! ;-) Dont forget to please anwser all my questions!!

Love ya!

x0ox. .--> Sara*

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(16/F) Alrighty then, there is this guy that I've liked since last year. (name is...Frank) I have told Frank that I like him three time to his face, and we are not going out. I was wondering if it would be weird if I got him a Christmas present. I know its not Christmas yet, but I want to figure this out before hand. Please tell me what you think. Thanks in advance.

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Just Wondering

If you get him one you are showing him that you care about him! I think it would be cute and that he would see how much u really like him! You never no ur christmas wish may come true! **Christmas wish...Lol!** Good Luck!

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my bf and me go to diff skools and we see eachother mostly lyke ery other day or something but we havent seen eachother for a week...well hes at the mall with his frends...and the mall is about 6 blocks away from my house...and hes walking around with his friends and hes like @ this church thats 3 blocks away frmo my house..he knows where i live n stuff but he "cant cmoe see me bc his friends will only come if i hav friends for them" and none of my friends r home....so ther goin bak 2 the mall....it really hurts my feelings bc I ALWAYS go 2 his house hes been to my house TWICE and i go to his EVERYTIME...so he called n was like uhh idk ill call u later if something comes up n we happen to go by ur house again and iw as like watever have fun at the mall bye nd i hung up on him...im realllly mad at him.....wat do i do? hes gonna b online tonite i kno that for a fact n hes gonna b all sweet 2 me....and if he calls bak....do ii answer?? wat do i say? =\

Tell him excally what you told us! Tell him how you feel and that you want him to come over sometimes! Tell him that you also dont want him to act different around his friends (because thats another thing it sounds like hes doing) let him not taht you love him adn you want it to work but he has to change because some things are really bothing you! hope i help you sweetie! Love ya! -:-Sara-:-

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ok..well on e of my best friends is in 7th grade and the guy I like is in 7th grade and I am in 8th grade I told my best friend [lets say...Rache] that I really liked the guy and she was like awww all that shit and she was going out with someone at the time and then the night I told her that I liked him..she dumped her current boyfriend and asked out the guy I liked..and today I was ganna think hard about when I was ganna ask him out and then all of a sudden her name popped up when me and the guy I like were talking about something and he is like ya me and Rachel are going out and I am like aww kool..like kinda in a obvious way [and he doesnt know that I like him] and ya..and I'm about to cry what do I do and what do I say to the guy/ and or Rachel!! PLEASE HELP!!! i am ganna go under depression.....seriously...
~*Lost N Lost*~ ...again

You gotta say something to Rachel..what kind of friend does that? She was showing you that she dont not care about what you told her a couple hours ago and that who u like dosnt matter to her! She just went out with him which was kinda bitchy because once u tell her u like him she takes him thats not a ture friend... sorry babe! And you should say to the guy that you had feelings for him...ket him no how you feel (guys like that) and then go from there! I would make sure Rachel nos she messed up and that she better show u she can be a better friend! Let me no! Sorry if i didnt help! Love Ya Hunnii! x33--sara*

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me and my bfs relationship is not very well right now...we jsut got into a small fight a week ago and made up but we havent seen eachother for a week...we always see eachother every other day....and its mostly his fault....idk...im really pissed....he is @ the mall right by my house right now....and he called from his older brothers cell and sed if i wanted 2 meet up there with him i said ya but i had no ride and i didnt wanna walk and *he coulda offered to come swing by my house n pick me up* and then he was like well my older bro is about to leave so i wont ahv a fone but my friend is comin so ill call u back frmo his phone n see wat he wants to do (like if they wer just gonna come over) and he sed hed call me bak...and HE HASNT its been over an hour....HE ALWAYS DOES THIS....whenever we make plans THEY NEVER HAPPEN....how can i talk to hmi bout this i dont wanna break up with him i really love hmi (we been together for 11 months)...but lately hes been pissin me off....wat do i say??=[

sit him down and tell him how it feels like you 2 are falling apart! Tell him that you still ove him adn you dont want to break up but u just want to let him know how u feel! A boyfriend should want to hang out sometimes...but they do need space just like girls..if you are with your boyfriend everyday your going to want space to hang out with your gurl, no what i mean? Good luck! x3-*Sara

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ok my boyfriend and me have been going out for 3 weeks now and it seem like we arnt going anywhere. i mean we have gone to the movies 2 times and out to eat twice and then ice skating and we held hands during both movies but he wont kiss me or anything. is he afraid? what can i do to get him to kiss me? his friends and my friends have told him too but he wont. what can i do to get our relationship going. or is he showing me signs that he has no feelings for me? please help me. thanks.

Maybe he is nervous! Give him a chance...maybe you should make the 1st move and show him you care! After you make the moe then say sutmhing to him and ask why then he will proubley idmit to being scared or neverous! Some guys have fears of being rejected...so bottom line is maybe you should try and make a move if you dont he is man enough! ;-) Love Ya! Good Luck! x33*sara

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Hi! I'm 14/f and I kind of like this guy friend of mine. We'll call him Dave. Anyway, as I said, I kind of like him...that way. And he recently told me that he likes me, too...that way. Except I'm kind of afraid of him asking me out because it would be my first real boyfriend, and I don't know what I would do with a boyfriend! It would be SO awkward going on a date to dinner or something with Dave, and I'm not really big on huge public displays of affection. And I think he has a few friends who don't really like me all that much. Any advice?? (I rate!)

Okay...i no where you are comming from i had the same proublem!I think that you should wait till you compleatly comperable with him! And if you do then give it a shot..a boyfirend is just someone u care bout and cares about u the same way, they are someone to love and talk to! when you are on a date you dont have to kiss infront of people wait till your alone to do stuff! Let him no everything that you just told us and he will help you with it and you guys can sit down and talk threw it togther! Me and my b/f waited 2 month before we started going out because i didnt no what to do and i was scared to finally have a real "boyfriend" now everything is great and trust me you will love having a boyfriend better then being single! Hope i help you and let me no what happends! Love Ya Hunnii! *Sara*

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ok well Im going out with this guy named Shane and he's sweet and eerything , but he gets jealous very easy, like when a guy well lets just call him Chris, talked to me he got all up in his face!!, I truely love him but he can get jealous really easy and now I told him that I can talk to guys and he dosent understand!! he's 15 and so am I but what do I do ??

Make sure he know that u love him and that u are allowed to have guys for friends! He needs too knwo that you would never leave him for someone at ramdom adn he needs to TRUST you!Maybe you should sit and have a talk with him to let him kno all this! Good Luck Babes! x3..SaRa*

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Ok....I'm a single girl, 16 yrs old, Junior in high school. And there is a guy in my school, who is a grade ahead of me who had expressed that he likes me and "thinks im hot" and yadda yadda yadda. So anyway, ever since hes confronted me about it I've been starting to notice how cute he is and that i like him, He is always flirting with me but he is a very flirtacious type, and not just with me but with other girls. He calls me every now and then to hang out but I always have plans!!! And im afraid hes never going to call me again b/c I'm always busy, eventhough he still talks/flirts with me. If he doesnt make the move soon enough, I will. But i dont wanna come off in a strong way, or have him say no. I just wanna ask him to go out somewhere, liek the mall or movies. He flirts with so many other girls and everyone tels me "hes a dick dont go with him" but i really like him,. He smokes weed, which im against, but Ive had a boyfriend before that smoked weed so i tolerate it, he has a great personality and he is my kind of good-looking guy. What should i do?

Okay..next time he calls you and you have plans make sure that you let him know u still wanna hang out some time and tell him u will call him next time u have time to so sumthing. Hes sounds like a good guy but u have to make sure that it dosnt bother you that he smokes weed 1st. Good Luck Sweetie!! x3_sara*

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PLEASE TAKE TIME TO READ THIS...IM SURE ALL YOU GIRLS HAVE GONE THROUGH SOMETHING LIKE THIS! okay here's the thing...there's this boy...let's say..."Dylan". well me and dylan go to school together and just last year i began talking to some of his friends just sayin how i thought he was cute and all. so at the end of last year that got around to him but we barely said hi. then over the summer we talked alot and he even began calling me cute names. we expressed to eachother how much we liked eachother and everything then rigt before the summer was over he ended up telling me he wasnt ready for a girlfriend. i mean i was okay with that i just felt like he had led me on for so long. well now we're over that but i hear from more of his friends that he likes me again and im sure he can tell that i never quit liking him. my question is how do i get him to finally confess that he likes me if he still does without asking him the question flat out? thanks!!

Flirt with him to let him know that u still like him! Tell him that you like this one kid but u wanna be togther for a little bit before you start going out offically! Give him the clue but make him figure it out a approch you about the hole think! Good Luck! x33..Sara*

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Okay here is my problem, I have a boyfriend and i was sorta upset... i shouldn't of done what i did..... i went down to my ex boyfriend's house and i was talking to him and then one thing led to another and we sorta kissed... okay we did kiss ALOT! I love my boyfriend with all my heart and i am afriad if i don't tell him what happened that my ex will, so he could break me and him up! So should i tell him or not.... maybe i could get away with him not knowing and everything will be fine! But then again i am always thinking about it and it gets to me. Please help me Thanks alot.

*You have to tell him! If yuo sit there and talk to him and tell him that your sorry then he will proubley forgive you and just dont let it happend again! Make sure that u tell him everything and make sure that he know that you love him and that it will NEVER happend again! You have a chance of him forgiving you if you tell him but if u hide it and he finds out another way then he will proubley not forgive you because he thinks that he cant trust you and ur not being honest! Sit and talk to him! Good Luck Babe! x3..Sara*

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I Like this girl name Brittany and im not sure iff she likes me because she mite be dating my friand. But I never liked any one before so i kno she must be the one! what should I do?

Flirt with her...and then u will get this hint if she likes you or not...it will be pretty clear if she likes you back or not!! I think you should talk to her and let her know how you are feeling tho! Good Luck...x/3_Sara*

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ok i really like this guy his a year older then me and i think he's really hot, i don't really know him that much and im to shy to go up to him and start a convo. What should i do write a note, what???

confused

find the courage and go up to him...whats the worst that can happen...? u guys end up being friends! He will proubley talk to you and get to know you then the best thing would be talk it out togther and find out how he feels to! x33Sara

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Im a female 14 and i live in California.There is this guy i liked a ton last year and we would always flirt at school and id come home and talk to him for hours. we had alot im common. Then this summer he told me he liked me too and he come over acouple of times and we fooled around. he never asked me out or anything and i got kindof scared he might be using me. we got together again and did everything but sex.. which was alot more then i wanted to go before having a relationship with him. then my friend asked him if he liked me and he said he didnt know.. i got pissed off and started accusing him of using me and finally he admitted to it. i was devastated. i yelled at him and we got in a huge fight and we both said some pretty mean things. its been about 4 monthes and we still dont talk and im over the fact that he used me and i just want to be friends again, not because i like him but i cant STAND being in a fight with somebody that long & its been bothering me for about three monthes now - im also scared that if i start talking to him hes gunna still be mad about everything and im going to make a fool of myself... sorry this was so long but i really need help! :o)

I kninda no what u are going threw..the best thing to do would be trying to ingore it and more on! Good Luck! *Sara* x33

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ok, i have a boyfriend. and i thought i loved him to death. but the other day i was at this club thing. and me and this other guy who is a good friend, we started flirting like crazy. and i realized i have feelings for him. and then later he told me he had feelings for me. he doesnt know i like him too though. but i don't know if i should stick with my boyfriend cause i truly do adore him or should i give this other guy a try bcuz hes so nice and everything.

This one is up to you! Who will make you happier who do u like more who will treat u better who will love you how u will lvoe them! ask yourself thoes questions! Tell your boyfriend the truth tho! Good Luck! x3_sara*

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How long would you be willing to date someone before you either left or proposed marriage to them? You being a 30 something female he being a late 30 something male.

2 or 3 years! But you have to make sure hes the one! Thats one of the biggest mastakes you can make in life so make sure hes rite! x3_ sara*

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i like 3 guys ons name is patrick on is miles and i dont exactley no if i like ryan, patrick and miles are both in the 7th grade like me ryan is in the 8th but we talk more ...Help im so confuzed..cause i really like them..but patrick is what i ant the most.....well patrick knows i like him..............but i dont no if he likes me he flirts...some times but so do th others....HELP

Sounds like you and ryan would be the best but you stories a lil confusing n really hard to understand...make it a lil more clear and ill love too help you more babe! Love ya x33 Sara*

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alright ..w ell i'm a freshmen and last friday was our homecoming dance - the kid i originally liked who's a sophmore .. well i tlked to him a little but we didn't dance i don';t think he even like danced at all .. well my friend was there too and he came at a slow song and was touching me and was like me and my gf broke up and i talked to him .. but he's very touchy-feely and he was touching me and stuff .. a little while later he came and danced w. me for a song and then he left .. near the end i came over and he was dancing w. some ugly fat girls but he stopped to tlak to me - and like we wnet to a corner to talk and then we danced and like he was touching me and stuff like that .. but when we were talking his friend was like nudging him like i dunno that way wher you know he's talking about you but like isn't saying nething .. well i sorta like both these boys and i thin they both do .. like i have the feeling but i dunno how to find out b.c one is my like best friend and we''re together a lot in school .. but the other one is more like tlkin to me in geometry and flirt with me a litl during class .. i wanna kno how i can like find out if they like me er they jst wanna be friends .. i can usually o it myself but i can't now for some reason ..

Sounds like he likes you too babe! Let him know you like him to and talk to him about it! Tell him how you feel and that u would like to become closer! Good Luck! Love YA!

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My guy friend and I just started liking eacother..( begining of thanksgiving break )..and we just told eachother * which is something I like NEVER do * but I am so afraid that he'll just change his mind..and I'm gonna feel SOO weired on monday at school. Ahhh what do I do..we're not like BEST friends but we're pretty close..and I've never felt this way about another guy before. Please Help!!

Give it a chance but make sure that u really like him before! Me and this guy liked eachother for about a 2 month before we started going out and when i do that it seems to last so much long and i seem to feel much more compertable about the whole thing. So just make sure its rite and then give it a chance! But tell him that if it dont work then you still wanna be friends and put that in the past...but hopefully it works! Good Luck Babe!! x33. . Sara!

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im going out with this guy that goes to a different school. i see him only about twice a month and i dont think our relationship will last. is there anything i can do to see him more often because i really really like him.

thanx.

You should talk to him every nite on the phone and that will make you feel closer! But start asking him if he wants to hang out more! He should say yes and try to make it work! If not let him know how you feel and im sure he will feel the same way then i think you guys should take it from there! If you really love him dont leave him because ull miss him and u never know something good might happend! Let me no what happends! xoxo *Sara*

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me and my gf always get into fights...but yet i still luv her as much as i have since the beginning...it seems that every time we get into a fight it is in front of out friends and i am tired of putting up with some of the stuff she says to make me look like the bad guy...so do i dump her or work things out?¿?¿?¿

I would try and work things out because u really dont no what u got till its gone! I think u should sit down and talk to her and ask WHY! she proubley does it because she dont not want everybody to think you have her around you fingers (even thought u proubley know you dont she might just feel like that) let her know u love her and how you feel! Talk to her then see what she says then i think you to should dicide if you should break up togther!

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