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ok me and this guy said were gonna hook up at a party next weekened and hes under the assumption that ive done it before. I HAVENT. i have nooo idea what to do and i dont want him to go tell all his guy friends that im a bad kisser. i know this is a weird question but how do u kiss? help help help!
YOUR GORGEOUS.

you can`t really be a " bad " kisser. its really kinda your judgemeant.


Basic Kissing Tips

Great Breath - This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath.


Moist Lips - You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don't wear lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey.


And don't wear a lot of lipstick unless you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner's and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience.

Positioning - Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt your head slightly. If you can see which way your partner's head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.



Close Eyes - Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes.


Open Lips - Open your lips over your partner's slightly more than you would during a regular kiss. This makes it easier to place your tongue in your partner's mouth.

Tongue - Place the tip of your tongue on the tip of your partner's tongue. Do not force your tongue too far into their mouth. If you wish, you can play with their tongue by circling theirs with your own. Have fun with it. Explore.



Lips - You may explore different ways of using your tongue. Try running the tip of your tongue over your partner's lips. Do this slowly and gently, just using the tip of your tongue.

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i guess thats what you need to know..& thanks ♥

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ok. this is complicated, but i kinddaa sorda stole someones BF (no one knows except me and him). they broke up and no one knows why.. except us... now he like wants to go public, but i think it will look sketchhy if we go out so soon after a break up. do u think that it will seem like there had been something going on before? it would be one thing if it was a friend, but the ex gf is in our friend group, but were not friends. like we hated eachother last year, and now we can talk and joke but were not friend and we dont IM eachother. i really dont want to like him anymore. ahh do you know how to force yourself to not like someone?
xoxo

by the way your gorgeous and it seems like everyone else on this page thinks so too haha

Oh well i mean if you guys wanna go like public then do it ! & if someone really thinks that somethings been going on then let them think that, i mean if you really like him it won`t really matter what other people think right ? Well if you wanna get over him start by breaking up with him & find someone else you like & go out with him. i mean it might sound like weird & all but it works.. well sorry for no answring the question for a while.

♥ al

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is NUTERGENA good or hoeever you spell it ? lol

Well thats more of a everyday use kind of product like it keeps your face stay clean.

♥ al

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what is something 2 use for ur pimples 2 go awaii

uhm there are lots of acne treatments that you can use that will work such as clearisal, & natures cure works good ( so i've heard ) that you can purchase them at drug stores.. proative works well too..

♥ al

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okay well im in love with this boy and we broke up acouple months ago and we got in a fight.. and its all totally screwd up! & im soooooo freeking in love with him.. i tryed so many things but i cant get over him! and im in 6 grade.. can you help! cause i have no idea how to get over him .. yer bosnian right? l0l cuz i am too!! .. hehe and yer so pretty!! wel bye !

Ok well if your still in love with him theres no way your gonna get over him trust me i've tried that.. didnt work but if you love him then start talking to him again just as freinds.. & if you really dont feel that you still love him that try to meet another guy & if you have another boyfriend then that will help you get over him. thanks !

♥ al

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okay well i like this guy && he likes me to. && he tells everybody hes goin to ask me out, but he never does && even tho i think i might love him idk what i would say if he did. i love to talk to him i love how he makes me laugh im in the 8th grade && hes in the 6th && everybody tells me that might be why im scared to say no if he did ask me ..im really like super jelous even if like the guys i go out with hugs another girl i get really mad ..&& he is like always all over girls ..so i think that might be another reason to say no..soo idk what to do ..

k.tnks.
bye.xo
dayna

Aww, i think that this question is cute. I think the main reason he hasent asked you out is that he is a bit younger then you & thinks that you dont like him & dosent wanna like Have you turn him down, You have to let him know that you like him & let him know that if & when he askes you out then you will say yes !! & With him being all over other girls he probely just does it to get you mad or jealous, He knows that it gets you mad.. GOOD LUCK
[♥] AL

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i hate preppy clothes...and all my friends wear it, but they dont like to be seen with me b/c i dont wear wut they wear...they're a cool group to hang with and i would hate to change.


signed,
preph8er sk8er

Well, Some of my freinds are prepy & some of them are skater.. & They dont care they hang out, I mean if there your true freinds then they wouldnt care about if your skater,Goth,Emo,Prep, That shouldnt matter..
[♥] AL

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im so lost i met this guy like 3days ago he ask me out yesterday and i said yes he is 2 perfect to be true he always know what to say and how to make me smile but the thing is i want this to last bc i havnt felt this way about a guy in a really long time and i dont want to lost him how do i not look stupid how do i know how he feels about me

Well He will tell you how he feels about you & if his perfect, Like you described him to be & he says all the right stuff there will be a time were he tells you exactly how he feels.. Or you can just ask him.. & There really isnt any way to look " stupid " i mean he loves you for you & if your stupid sometimes He should be ohkay with it, Good luck..
[♥] AL

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Supp girl well i have a Question da girl like her b/day is comein up and i really wanan but her something nice that she will like but am not sure what to so0 u a girl and u might now whats nicee to buy aytt txzzz

Im guessing your a guy ?? .. Well you like cant go wrong with jewlery*, But if you cant afford it then buy her like a really nice perfume Or shirt,purse,Belts,.. & FLOWERS
[♥] AL

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first i want to say is your rlly pretty and its awsome how you try to help all this poeple u rlly make us feel alot better well anyways i have go out with this kids off and on but i cant last rlly long with him he just to much and now that im over him he likes me and i kinda made him think i like him 2 but the truth is im over him and i like someone else at my school and i dont rlly know what to do i just can tell him i dont like him i dont want to hurt him and the other guy i like i want to make him jealous how do i do tht

Well, whenever his around you just be around the guy that you like.. that ALWAYS gets the guys jealous.. & you dont really ever HAVE to tell him that you dont like him.. just pretend that your not interested. & thanks
[♥] AL

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hey.. for starters i think your soo gorgeous... but anyway, my boyfriend dumped me, and im not over him yet. hes being kind of mean, and i know he wants to see me still want him, which i do. we dont go to the same school, but theres a bar mitzfah next weekend... how can i make it seem like im totally over him?

Thanks for the compliment. & i've bene through something the same liek that well, Just whenever he looks at you just completly ignore him & just like hang around a lot of different guys then he will still want you. that way he'll think your compelity over him & going for other guys..
[♥] AL

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SO..
im 15/f

me and my cousin always hang out together! she's awesome lOl. but anyways she used to like this one guy and i thought he was cute. well she didnt exactly like him anymore she moved on..but she still thought the kid was hott! and my littler cousin (her brother) is like 13? and he talks to this kid. the kid is in 9th grade and my cuzin is also but im in 10th grade. well i was like OH MY GOSH that kid is really hott! i said that to my cousins. and then my 13 yr old cousin was talking to him on the computer and was like yeah my cousin likes you. and i was like NOO how can i like him? i dont even know him! and then he is like just kidding she just thinks your hott. and he is like who is she? and my cousin told him..but of course he doesnt know me since we go to different schools.. and the kid is like dont know her..never seen her..never heard of her. well this made me feel GREAT. even tho i knew he didnt know who i was. but then anyways this kid is like well next time that she sees me tell her to come up to me and tell her who she is. SO next time i see him what am i suppose to say? hi im the girl that thinks your hott. it will be soo embarassing! and im pretty shy.so that doesnt help. and then later that night my 13 year old cousin was still talking to him and was like yeah my sister (his sister my cousin)thinks your really hott and he is like man whats up with your family..first your cousin and now your sister? whats next your grandpa??! so then i felT SOOOO unblievebly stupid!! now i for sure dont wanna go up to him next time i see him..i will feel so stupid! but then again maybe he will think im cute or something? I DONT KNOW!! i mean i wanna hang out with him or something..or at least try and talk to him..let him know i exist!! but then i only see him at their schools hockey games..and there isnt any going on over break! and my cousin that goes to school with him is really shy too and wont ask to hang out with him..because she doesnt really talk to him either..and i dont wanna talk to him on AIM because im not good with talking on the computer..so please dont suggest that..but yeah so i cant throw a party or anything! ugh this is soo horrible and confusing :( you dont even know..this kid is the funniest..the cutest! and he doesnt even know i exist..all the girls are over him and i guess he is goin to this party that a girl is throwin from his schoool. what do you think i should do!?

SORRY SO LONG!! i really am!
but thanks for answering sweetie
i really appreciate it!

WOW, very long, but OH WELL, dont be embarassed that both of you thinks that his cute i mean its better for him to know & to have a chance then to NEVER tell him .. & whenever you see him if you dont feel comfortable going up to him tell one of your friends to & then he will be like OH THATS HER WOAHH HOTTAY !! & then he'll walk up to you & you guys wil start hanging out i mean you have to have comfidence, my freinds go up to guys im suppose to meet ALL THE TIME !! i know how you feel & if hes going to the party,, find a way to go & be around him all night ! lol GOOD LUCK !!
[♥] AL

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i am 14/f i just need a little advice ok i got in trouble at school.. and now there is a guy that loves me n i love him a lot he is going to ask me out but like umm my mom siad i better not have a boyfriend n i got pissed n i wount to go out with him so bad and i cant use the fone n the only way i can see him at school in the halways and bus and we can write note to but i dont wount that because i wount to talk to him!

yeah, i see .. just dont tell your mom that you have a boyfriend or that your going out with anyone, just try to hide it & like if she dosent let you on the phone with him just call him when shes not home or if she comes home tell her your talking to your freind & doing hmk ?.. & i see how you dont wanna just see him at achool & stuff.. just try too see if it will work out, i mean if you too REALLY DO love eachother then your mom or anyone or anything shouldnt stop you from being together !!
[♥] AL

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lets say my name is shelly and my friends name is sarah

okay well i am gonna try and talk to this guy on aim..well im gonna have my friend talk to him and then if she leaves for a sec i'll get on and be like oh hi this isnt sarah anymore..this is shelly..sarahs friend..but then the guys will be like okay..then what do i say because it would be kinda awkward and i would feel like he wouldnt wanna talk to me since he dont know me and all..you know? and i wouldnt know what to say so itd be a boring convo and i dont want him to get that impression of me!! but i want him to know that i exist! hope ya know where im comming from

well all you gotta say really is "hey" & then hell be like hey then you say "whatsup" & the convo will carry on from there.. & im a little naturally tan ; it was just the light.. but i got tannign sometimes.. && thanks so much !!
[♥] AL

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sup hey i got question how would u get a girl to like you cuz i liek thsi grl alott and i been likein her sincee ever and she nows but i dont think she likes me and i tell her alot things and we have alot things in commen and we talk about alot things and i can tell her everthing i want to go with her really bad but i ono hw make her like me or anything am not really sure what to do oke txz HELP

there is no way to MAKE someone like you, but you can flirt with her alot & just talk to her & give her the hint that you REALLY like her & like have one of your freinds or you can just ask her who she likes.. you'll be suprised sometimes.. but you'll never know if you dont ask !!
[♥] AL

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okay well one of my good friends likes this lil hottie! and yeah ive never met him b4 but ive seen him around and shes told me alot about him. now i want to help her try and get him..what can i do? because she is wayyy to shy to go up and talk to him you know..even tho she talks to him in school i guess? im afraid that if i meet him or my friend wants me to talk to him or something that maybe he will start flirting with me..then what do i do?! im soo bad at like just blowing off hot guys..well not blowing off just not flirting back. because i would LOVE to flirt back but i DO NOT want to hurt my friend at all..what do i do!?

well just talk to him liek a normal guy, i mean your freind already likes him & it wouldnt be to like freindly if you went & started like flirting with him & stuff but just talk to him about her & if you relize that he dosent like her & likes you then go for it , !
[♥] AL

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ok so there is this one dude in sum of my classes n i duno if he likes me but like if im bendin ova in my locker hell come up behind me n push me n hell juss flirt like tht n i do rele like him alot but i dono if he likes me n i juss wanna kno if im wastin my time or not liking him! but then other days he doesnt even like tlk to me i dont kno hell have like moodswings..lol..but i dont kno so thx for your help newayz! bye

well just like have one of your freinds go up to him & ask him if he likes anyone & esp. you ! & or just you can ask him.. if he likes anyone .. & all guys flirt differentaly. so you really cant tell when they are or when there just playing around, but the only way to be sure is to talk to him & ask him !!
[♥] AL

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0MG.. WELL OK i LiKE THiS GUY &&* MY FRiEND ALWAYS TALKS 2 THE GUYS i LiKE && THEN THEY START 2 LiKE HER 2 &&* SHE KN0Z H0W MUCH i LiKE HiM && SHES ALL TALKiN 2 HiM &&* i CANT TELL HER BCUS THEN SHES GONNA B LiKE WTF && ALL THiS STUFF &&* i D0NT WANNA FiGHT WiTH HER 0VER S0ME GUY && THAT GUY TELLS ME HE LiKES ME &&* HE FLiRTS WiTH ME ALL THE TiME BUT i HATE THE FACT THAT iF i SAY LiKE 1 THiNG 2 A GUY iM FLiRTiNG WiTH HiM BUT && THEN HES ALWAYiS LiKE 0H G0 TALK 2 HiM &&* STUFF BUT iF HE SAYS ANYTHiNG T0 A GiRL i D0NT CARE BCUS WERE N0T G0iNG 0UT && iM N0T G0NNA MAKE A BiG DEAL 0UT 0F iT.. BUT i D0NT WANT MY FRiEND T0 TALK 2 HiM BCUS i KN0 SHE WiLL MAKE HiM LiKE HER BCUS SHE DiD iT BF0R &&* i JUST ST0PED LiKiNG THE GUY BCUS SHE LiKED HiM.. i REALLYYYYYYY LiKE THiS GUY && i D0NT KN0 WHAT T0 D0 PLEASE HELP ME S0RRY iF i C0NFUSED U !!* BUT i D0NT KN0 WHAT T0 D0 !!*

well it just seems like you dont trust your freind around this guy, & this guy seems as if he wants to be with you & other girls , but dosent want to see you with other guys.. well just talk to your freind & say or ask her to liek please stop flirting with him or just like doing less because it borthers you, but you have to understand that some girls dont even know thier flirting sometimes
[♥] AL

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0KAY, SiiNCE T0DAY WAS LiiKE THE LAST DAY 0F SCH00L BEF0RE BREAK.. &&' H0W EVERY0NE WAS BRiiNGiiN` THEiiR CHRiiSTMAS GiiFTS, WELL ii WAS TALKiiN` T0 MY FRiiENDS iiN THE HALL ii HAPPENED T0 SEE 0NE 0F MY "BEST FRiiENDS" HUGGiiNG THE GUY ii LiiKED. &&' SHE KN0WS ii LiiKE HiiM. ii JUST LET iiT SLiiDE .. BUT ii CANT SEEM T0 ST0P THiiNKiiNG THAT N0W SHE LiiKES HiiM &&' SHE`D PR0LLY HAVE A MiiLLii0N TiiMES BETTER CHANCE THEN ME W/ HiiM. SH0ULD ii TALK T0 HER AB0UT iiT 0R JUST KEEP iiT T0 MYSELF. BUT iiF ii DiiD TALK T0 HER SHE MiiGHT GET MAD AT ME F0R "ACCUSiiNG" HER 0F LiiKiiNG HiiM. S0 SH0ULD ii KEEP iiT T0 MYSELF ???

♥ ALWAYS C0NFUSED

well you never know, i mean i hug my guy freinds all te time but i dont liek them wat so ever it could have just been like a friendly hug, but just to be safe call her or whenever you see her ask her, & be like you do like him , & be liek well i was just wonderingbecauase i like him & all & i saw you too hugging..
[♥] AL

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Yes i have kind of a problem...

so theres this cutie in one of my classes and like usually he "flirts" with me.or i think its flirting? but the kind of flirting he does is aggressive..like pushin you around and stuff..is that considered flirting or considered "i dont like you get away from me" and then today like jokingly every time i walked by him he would like push me around and be like ya lil BiaTch! and then i would say somethin back like "take it back" "take it back" and hed be like NOpe!..and then do you think he does this to flirt or does it because he doesnt like me?! hope ya can help!
thanks love

well everyones defention on flirting is different, & to me it seems as if he has like a little middle school crush on you lOl, not to affend you, like of if his immature thats his ways of flirting, but i mean it cant be that he dosent liek you, becuase if he didnt like you he wouldnt want to be around you or talk o you, so dont worry about that one. & just go & flirt back & see what happens !! H0PE i HELPED
[♥] AL

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