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okay. i love my boyfriend to death. i feel like i love him a lil to much. i trust him i really do. he has showed me that i could trust him and that i have nothing to worry about. we pretty much spend every day together. but when i leave him and i'm not around him, in the back of my mind something feels werid. this is the 2nd guy i have been in love with. the 1st one moved outta state. could i be holding back how much i really love him bC of the last relationship? yes, i have talked to him about this, he understands me and listen to me, he is pretty much what i have been waiting for to come into my life. i just don't know what i need to do i don't understand why i'm so scared to leave him everyday and be away from him, i've never had this feeling before (link)
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your scared to leave him cause your scared that might be the last time you'll see him again like with the last guy.your feeling this cause you gave your heart to a guy before and know your heart it putting it's guard up to try to prevent being hurt again.it happens to a lot of people whose first love broke their hearts
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my girl freand and i have a Weird relationship she and her freands constanly make me feel like i shouldn't be around them becuse of they way they treat each other and how she just pulls me back in to the relationship even though she once before broke up with me and now she is back with me. the reason for this is because i wanted her to and i thought she loved me now her freand tommy a muscle bound jerk picks up the phone while i am talking to my gf and says don't you call again after that my frist instinct was to delete her number. two days later she dosen't even remember it and i am sick and tired of this and i want to break up with her but i feel that i can't what should i do? (link)
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she do remember when tommy picked up the phone she's denying it so she wouldn't have to explain herself to you.call her up and tell her you guys are over it will hurt you cause it's something you don't wanna do but why stay with her when she don't appreciate you and is probably cheationg on you.if you can't find yourself to call her and dump her then write down all your thoughts,emotions,and what you wanna do with her on a piece of paper and you can give it to her or you can ask one of your friends to give it to her.good luck Hope i helped
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ok so recently my bf has been ignoring me when he's wit his friend..(not answering my calls texts)..wen he's wit me he's great and very attentive..we've been togethere for a year and a hafl and..this has happened in the past..but we fixed it..and now it is starting to happen again.. He gets really mad at me for really stupid reasons( like if im running a few mins late to his house) but whenver i get mad he for some reason gets mad at me for being mad becuase he doesn't think my reasons are legitimate. For examplle tonite he basically ditched me to hang out with friends. I wanna put my foot down but i'm afraid he won't take my seriously, or will just get mad at me..what do i do? (link)
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he won't take you serious cause you don't put your foot down and if your scared that he'll get mad then how do you expect him to take you seriously.when you get mad at him and he tell you your reason isn't legitimate you simply chuckle and "say my reason isn't legitimate..."and bring up something stupid he got mad at you for.and when he wants to get loud and angry,you get louder and angrier to prove your serious and that you mean business
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ok i went out with a guy this summer he was pretty much the definition of asshole - i was unexperienced and um, not very assertive, so he ended up using me, cheating on me with AT LEAST 3 girls in a period of 2 months, and smoking right in front of me after i told him over and over how much i hated it. and we hardly even talked. it was the stupidest relationship ever, and unfortunately my first, but at least i learned a lesson. we go to different schools so we hardly hung out when we were going out, and i havent seen him since the day before i broke up with him, we dont talk much... i try to be nice to him if he like messages me or anything but its usually just a "hey whatsup" conversation. anyway now, 4 or 5? months later he decides to talk to me on myspace again. and hes telling me that he misses me and his friends think we should go out again (im not that stupid). he said he really wants to see me again (meaning he really wants to see if he can get with me again) and i dont know what to tell him. i would hang out with him as a friend but it would be sooo awkward cause my friends and i and him are so different. and we hardly talked when we went out so now with this awkward situation it would be worse. i dont know how to tell him i dont want to see him again though. i told him i like another guy. hes not taking the hint. any suggestions? (link)
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don't go out with him it'll give him a idea that you like him.remind him of the crappy way he treated you when yall was going out and tell him you don't wanna be treated like that again.and when he says he changed tell him to prove it
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okay im in this like musical theatre club.
13/f
like i had to change into a skirt and some different shirt since like they were doing some scenes that i wasnt in and it was kinda boring to just sit there with the other people who were watching the scene so i was painting with paint that wouldnt wash off your clothes. then like it was my part and i didnt have time to change back so we like sat on the risers, i was like at the top... i was wearing like a long skirt too like inbetween my knees and ankle,and some guy was looking up my skirt!!!! its so gross and i didnt even notice cause we were singing like i saw him looking at me but i didnt think of it, and then my friends told me so i moved over to the other side to my other friends and then later he moved too and then i moved back and the saem thing happened t hen i moved behind some random guy.... its sooooo gross!!!! im neva wearing a skirt to that club again, hah. like was sitting on the bleacher like below me since i was like sitting on the stage.and my feet were even close together! what a sicko i wanted to tell him but one of my friends convinced me not to since he'd be embarrased??? whateva next time i'll yell it in his face jeez why are some guys soo perverted
and should i have slapped him? and i'll see this guy like almost everyday since we have a lot of practice cause our show is soon.. how do i act around him? and i dont like him.. i dont think looking up someones skirt is very attractive. but idk if he likes me cause hes also a 8th grader.. but thats.. just.. gross that he did that!! ugh! advice, PLEASE!
PS: and i dont really know him that well and i just thought he was okay and now my perspective of him totally changed.. i might be overreacting but idk!! (link)
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*i say if you wanna wear a skirt wear one don't let one guy looking up your skirt stop you from being comfortable next time you wear a skirt and he try to look kick him in his head and see if he'll try to do that again.
*guys are so perverted cause guys brains have a larger area that's dedicated to sex or have them think alot of sex.
*i think you should treat him like shit if you treat him the same he's probably just going to think you were ok with him lookin up your skirt
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ok first off i`ve liked this boy [let`s call him joe] since i`ve met him & i`ve met him about 3-4 months ago . he`s been in A LOT of relationship`s maybe like 4-5 since i`ve known him . now he`s one of my guy bestfriend`s . now in his profile he said`s he likes someone new ! and i was hoping it was me , then today he IMed ME for a change . because usually i`m the one who has to IM him first , but twice today he IMed me 1st :] haha i just felt special . and he was like "we have a lot in common!" because we were both from kentucky! and i tried to flirt a lot so maybe he would flirt back . but on his hero`s on his myspace . i`m LAST on his list . & i think it goes in order because every time he get`s a new gf , she always ends up first , then when they break up , about 8th on the list . but anyways , to the point . my bestfriend [who went out with him before] told me he break`s a lot of girl`s hearts and hurt`s a lot of girl`s , like he did to her . so i dont knoww . and i don`t know if i should tell him i like him , or not or if he even like`s me , uhggg i don`t know what to do , he`s all i think about . can someone help me out ??! (link)
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i know what your going through cause there's a guy like that in my skool all the girls liked him and he would go out with them dump them and go out with another girl we call him a man whore and that's what joe sounds like a man whore whose hormones are too high.but if you still wanna go out with him then don't tell him you like him until you have enough evidence that he likes you as more than a friend cause if you tell him to early he might take advantage of you
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It has been about a month since my ex-boyfriend and I broke up after being off and on for a year. Since the week after, my ex and I have still been talking to each other everyday. He has made it clear he still loves me in at least some way, but I've hidden my feelings, telling him I don't want to be with him and I love him platonically. But theres a problem. He has had a girlfriend since the day after we broke up, and he has cheated on me at least three times when we were together. Should I confess how I really feel before its too late? (link)
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i think you shouldn't i think you should hide your true feelings until they go away.i know no woman likes being cheated on and if he cheated on you 3 times in your past relationship who's to say he won't hurt you again.because getting cheated on hurts,i'm not saying that you guys will get back together and he's gonna cheat im saying that telling him the truth is giving him the power to shut you down.
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Hi,
Alright...I've always been known as a tomboy. But in 6th grade I started liking this boy. I would NEVER tell anyone. But, I told myself that I shouldn't care what people think of me, just ask him out. But I can't do that because he's BEST friends with all my friends (that are boys)!! Especially my BEST BEST friend who've I've been friends with since pre-school!!! So, it's been 2 years and I still like him! He talks to me a lot and our lockers are RIGHT next to eachother! So I don't know how my friend would feel. But lately he's been asking ME what the homework was and talking to me when he's near me. On top of that, my BEST BEST friend (that's a boy) told me that the boy I like thinks I'm cool (but he doesn't know[no one does]). And on to of all THAT, I've been hearing his name come up more with my friends (girls and boys). So, I don't know if he likes ME now or not. But now, I'm going to move at the end of the summer, and I figure that on the last day of school I'm going to ask him out. IVE NEVER HAD A BOYFRIEND BEFORE! Should I ask him out? Does he like me? Would my other friends feel awkward? I'm so condused! (link)
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i think you should ask him out and take a chance i mean the only way you can have a boyfriend is if you chose to take a chance.but i think unless your gonna be able to visit him after you move that(if it last to the point that your still dating when your getting ready to leave)you guys should break up cause distant relationships are very hard to deal with and cause alot of drama.it seems like he really do like you and i think your other friends won't feel arkward because from what you said it really sound like their encouraging the relationship to happen.
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Okay I MIGHT like this kid named Steven. I stayed back and he's in my grade now. He stayed back a long long time ago in like the 2nd grade so he's 8 days older then me and I can't like him. When I mean cant i seriosly cannot like him. Im not the most prettiest kid OR the most populariest now. Dont tell me I probably look fine because i know i dont so dont bother.. Steven also has a girlfriend and they go out like everyother week its pretty gay but Olivia already thinks i like him when I keep saying No i dont... no, and a bunch of other reasons and Stevens awsome and deserve so much better. I cant tell him that cause we talk but were not good good friends. Olivia also get wicked jelose really easily. Yesturday at lunch steven sat next to me waiting for Olivia to sit down too she sat across the table and started yelling at ME. Saying a bunch of crap and that she would like rip all the hair outa my head if i didnt leave him alone RIGHT infront of him... Steven started yelling too at Olivia. And rebecca told me to just stop flirting with him untill they broke up {again}....
The biggest reason is everyone in my Now grade hate me. They talk to me but they still give me dirty looks and think I dont shower! They start stuff they cannot finish. and Steven has stuck up with me before but Its strange when I walk to my locker and he just stops talking to a kid.. Like he was just talking about me.... so i donno and i dont want to like him but i donno its weird. I like Josh a grade higher in the same grade im saposed to be in... and he will never like me so i understand that but ... ahhh (link)
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so whats your question
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well i like this guy letz call him A , but he left 2 high school last year. he had a best friend letz call him M and he goes in my class. they r still friends and stuff..l o l
anyway last year A liked me 2. he even told me. but M seemed like he hated me. now since A left he always lookes at me a lot and a friend of mine told me that when i don't look at him he stares at me like he's madly in love with me or something. i belive her cause she's ma best friend. i just don't get it. last year when we were in 7th grade he acted like he totally hates me , always hung out with A (the guy i like) and looked at me in a weirdish way when i was passing them. now in 8th grade everytime i see M he stares at me like he really likes me. he always react when i pass him. like his friends say something and then he turnes around 2 look at me.
i don't get it. i thought he hates me?! seriously and he always walks around with his new friends and when they see me they wink at eachother and look at M. but he actes like he doesn't care then. but when he's alone or when his friends arent being so stupid he always lookes. and yesterday he was standing by his locker and thought i didn't c him and he totally stared at me. then i looked , he blushed and looked away!?
I DONT GET IT!!!!!!
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in 7th grade he liked you but he knew A liked you so he was trying to be loyal to his friend by not admitting that he like da same girl so he thought the only way he could do that by not giving any clues to liking you is by acting like he hated you.Now since A is gone he can admire you without worrying if he's being loyal to his friend.His new friends probably know that he likes you and tease him around you on purpose that's why he act like he don't care.
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Well, one of my guy friends who I actually did like confessed that he liked me. We decided to give going out a try. The thing is, he's more experienced (he's 17, I'm 16). I feel like I'm less experienced for my age, but now I don't know where things should go. He doesn't do much, sometimes we hug, but I'm afraid to do anything. And I don't know if we're technically boyfriend/girlfriend. I feel as if I should know all this, but I don't. What do you think is appropriate for the beggining stages of dating? And how can I be less nervous about it? (link)
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beginning stages of dating apporopiate things are:
1.hugging
2.kisses on the cheek
3.dates
4.gifts
5.hand holding
6.lip kissing
(i did them in the order they should happen but 3-5 can happen at anytime in the relationship)
you can think about how happy you are with him and the things you wanna do with him and let that overpower your nervousness
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I went out with this boy like a year ago.. we started going out June of 2005 and Broke up Around February of 2006. So we were together for awhile. We loved each other deeply. He was my first that I did sexual things with, and he was my first person I madeout out with. Our love was strong, and we were confident we were getting married. However, he couldn't support me. He had no job, no car, and the only money he got was out off weekly allowance. He usually spent it for himself over me and whenever we went to the movies or out to dinner I had to pay. I didn't mind it for awhile until it became a habit and he was relying on me for money. He didn't get me anything for valentines or my birthday because instead he spent it on other things. He also dumped me several times, and cheated on me. So at the end, I felt sexually and emotionally used!
I know I shouldn't be with him, and I don't want to be with him again because he's basically a bum and he can't even support himself. But for some reason, I keep falling for him, and he is begging for me to get back with him. I refuse but I need to get over him!
I totally apoligize for this being so long but thanks so much for reading and trying to help out! (link)
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let him beg let him plead w/e you do don't get back with him.cause if he could barely support himself he can't do anything for you but meet your sexual needs which you can get met if you go to a stripper club.to forget him jus ignore him and remember you can get someone that's MUCH better than that bum.keep your head high your heart in your chest and not on your sleve.and jus find another guy that won't depend on you for money.
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theres this 1 boy who always stares at me & sometimes looks away he stares me in the eyes
and also only talks to me online .. today i first talked to him and i asked him if it was really him online last night he said yeah and like smiled /got all happy type..lol and then i looked back and he put his hand up like come here or something and i kept on walking idk who he ment it to i thought it was one of his friends or something but there was no1 infront of me.. then he was in the same class as me & i came from a different class and i was outside near the lockers he came out and looked and then went back in the room he also has a gf .. but she lives like an hour away from here. the other day (friday) he did that nod thing i asked him online what it meant he said it meant hey .. hes been with his gf since june 05 .. also at lunch time he stands up and looks over at my table he said when he nodded to me i turned my head i didnt realize that he nodded to me.he also seems to follow me around school . alot of kids are acting differnt to me so i dont know why.he talks to his bestfriend in the same class as me and talks about other girls to like get me jealous what could he be trying to do ? and he talks about cars and goes online w/ them and looks at cars and girls . my 2 bestfriends think that he likes me .and in gym class he got out .... he was folding his arms like he was mad & staring at me .. then my friend was trying to take pictures of me & i blocked her cellphone with my hand and yelled no he looked at me .. do you think he like sme?
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he probably do but is to shy to tell you or cause he don't kno if he wants you or his gf.so he's gonna keep doing whats suppose to be normal guy stuff and keep staring at you cause he's probably thinking about the subject while he's staring at you.thinking tons of stuff about you until his girlfriend come in his mind and then the people in his head start arguing.so don't sweat it theres a strong chance that he likes you
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alright so theres this guy that i kinda have a thing for. there are some signs he gives me that says he might like me too, but theres also signs that say he doesnt.
the ones that say he does are:
he asked for my number, and i asked for his. but right after he asked for mine, he asked for another girls' also, but she didnt give it to him.
we joke around all the time, and always make eachother laugh.
when we talk in class, and i whisper, he always asks me to repeat what i said, and i say "nevermind" and he says "you always say nevermind. what did you say?" (and normal people would just drop it..ya know?)
sometimes in class i put my head down and then i turn my head to look at him and hes looking at me, and then he'll look away.
one time we both put our heads down, while facing eachother, and he smiled at me and then sat up.
he remembers little things we've talked about in 7th grade, like the movie "Meet the Fockers."
but some things that say he doesnt like me:
he doesnt really say hi in the halls when MY friends are around, but when they're not around he says hi.
he has this friend and when the seat next to his friend is empty (when that kid is absent,) he'll sit there with his friend, but still says bye to me and sometimes randomly turns around and gives me head nodds lol.
weve never talked on the phone, but we just started being friends again this year (because we havent talked in a while)
so my question is, do you think he likes me or is he just being nice? anything helps. thanks. (link)
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he definetly likes you.if he don't i wish all guys were that nice generally.he don't say hi to you when your friends are around because he probably knows what your friends are going to think about you and him and he don't want that to happen cause they just might aend up questioning him.and he sit with his friend when the other kid is absent cause he don't want his friend to think he's ignoring him for you cause that will get his friend thinking that he likes you to and he might not want that if he's shy
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my bf is going off to college. he's a senior and im a few years younger. i thought i would be happy about it and glad that he was going and getting accepted into good schools but im not. i feel bad about it but im just not happy about it. do you think its because all of the stories about how they leave you when they go to college? we have been dating for around 5 years. any ideas or tips? (link)
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if you guys are really serious then a couple of miles won't tear yall apart.just don't think about him leaving think about him coming back to see you on his breaks.
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Thanks for your Advice Toni and believe me it had helped. For most people they think he is ugly but there is something about him that makes him cute. The only bad thing about him is that he like to get high with Mary Jane. I dont know i just want to forget about him but like i said i cant beacuse i see him every day i school. Maybe you are right and he didnt say hi beacuse he tought i was mad or something. I just dont no what to do they have told me that he is a player but i dont know.I just want to get him outof my mind. Oh by the way my name is Josie (link)
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well josie if he likes getting high with mary jane it's his business cause he's gonna end up doing things without control when he's high.some top advice is don't date guys on drugs i know from experience my ex did coke and he forgot all the feelings he had for ma and started hitting me when i didn't wanna do what he wanted.no one deserves for something like that to happen to them.too get him out of your mind i suggest you find another/better guy or you can take a pause on guys right now and focus on other things until you feel ready to focus on them.just cause you see someone everyday in school it don't mean that you have to pay atttention to them sure thoughts will come to your mind but push them out of your mind with other things.
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i cant ask him out because he likes this girl named STACY so i think. and 2 of all i cant flirt with other guys beacuse i think i am not a very attracted person and i dont know how to flirt. Also i am a very shy person. Look today i have not talk to him all day at school i saw him and i passed right in front of him he didnt even say HI but i saw him with the corner of my eye and i saw him staring at me. I dont know i i like him or what. how do i realize if i like or if its just a fake cruch. Plz help me
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everyone is attractive maybe not to the entire world but someone in the world don't think your attractive they think your the most beautiful person in the world the only thing you gotta do is be yourself and be willing to take a chance.this chance is called dating if you keep being shy your not gonna find the person that thinks your amazing and if you do find him you'll be too shy to let him into your life.and the best thing about flirting is that it's like being partically nice to someone real special.he probably didn't say hi cause you didn't and prrobably think your mad at him or something.right now it's really sounding like a crush but most times a crush turn into a like and a like turn into a love.the only way i can tell you if it's a fake crush or not is if you started liking him cause your either in competion with another girl or you like him for like physical reasons and no nothing about him.for example if you only like him cause he has muscles or a six pack.if you like him for like his eyes or something that's another story.like imma sucker for guys with hazel eyes cause ithink hazel eyes are pretty on some boys.hope i helped and keep me posted.my name is toni by the way.
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alright so im 16 and i have yet to have my first kiss, or first real boyfriend, and its not like im ugly or anything, as a matter of fact, im really kinda pritty. (not to over confident of myself though) anyways, i like this guy, and he lives down the street from me. we've talked a couple of times, and he's a grade older than me, any suggestions on how i can maybe get him to like me, with out major flirting,
(im not real good at that)also im really bubbly around my friends but i get kinda shy around him. any suggestions of how to get him to like me? (link)
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first things first you can't force anyone to like you thats like forcin someone to love someone they don't.but what you can do is have him change his perspective on you that in a way he'll like and then end up liking you for you unforcfully (maybe).im not telling you to flirt majorly im tellin you to let him see the you beyond the shy girl up the street.let him see who YOU really are.with no acting like someone else or different around him jus you.(alot of guys like girls for who they are other than how they look.)
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ya i know i should stop thinking about him but i dont know how to because i always see him at school and also he is my friends best friend. i really need help please help me this guy is always on my mind and i just cant stop thinking about him. i just dont know why i cant stop thinking about him maybe because no other guy has kissed me until he came into my life and gave me his first kissed. please tell me what to do .
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he's probably constantly running through your mind because you miss his lips the feeling you had when you kissed them.you have two options 1.you can try to ask him out or
2.you can flirt with other boys to get a boyfriend so your boyfriends lips will go through your mind.
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right know im single...i want a boyfriend...but i dont know what to do,how to act,or what to say to them. i was hoping i would be a perfect girlfriend for my last 3 boyfriends, but i guess i was wrong because they didnt last very long. i think its because i freeze up and just backfire when im with them. im always so shy with them and i dont know how to act...i want a boyfriend bad but i dont know whats wrong with me please help me out!!! I want guys to see me as a beautiful confident girlfriend.
how do i keep a good relationship while not being so shady with the boys? (link)
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if you want them to see you as a beautiful confident girlfriend they first have to see you as a confident girl.be yourself thats why their dating you because they like who you are physically and pesonality wise.try not to think so much im not sayin to act dumb and ditzy but relax let your mind flow and you wouldn't have to act anyway because you would be being something.but don't act like a dude in front of them until their really comfortable with them and vice versa cause most guys would think thats gross comin from their girlfriend.don't rush to a guy cause one is rushing to find you now
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