hiya...i have been single 4 1 month after being with my ex boyfriend 4 4 and a half years...it wasnt a perticular good relationship and it should of ended sooner..when we broke up i think i kind of craved male attention as i didnt get this from my ex and i slept with 2 or 3 people..however i met this new people when i was out in clubs and that...im just a bit worried now cos every guy i have met is just after sex? im not saying i want a relationship cos its way too soon..but im worried that these guys are all the same and i wont find anybody who i really like..and the nice guys who seem interested in gettin to know me who arent after sex im just not attracted too? i dont know if i wil ever find the right person 4 me? im 20
Well then when you go out go with a group of friends that are more social butterflies and meet new people. Dont let it go past casual hellos the swop of number to keep in touch as friends. and what ever you do dont have sex and eventually you will find someone that you like and does like you and it will take awhile because you want to be friends for a long time and youu have to know them to even develop feelings and by then that has given you enough time to realize what you want and possibly be ready for a relationship.
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Me and this boy have been talking for not to long ,less than a month.We talk at school a lot and hangout on the weekends.Yesterday we only talked at school and he said he would call/text me later and he didn't. But he kissed me at school,so im assuming he does like me.Today,he called me and we chilled right after school for a few hours and he kissed me ,held my hand ..that kinda stuff while we were hanging out.When i had to go home,he told me he would text me or call me later and help me with the homework we had.he never did! I don't really text him first very often but i don't want to seem annoying.Maybe he is just taking it really slow and doesn't want to be obsessed? What do you think!
Well it seems he does like you but either he is scared to make that next step not wanting to seem desprate or to scare you away. But it might be he is being held back by something right now. The best thing to do when in this type of situation is to hang out and then at the right time confront him about it because holding it in is just going to make things wierd and might ruin things you know? I would talk with him about it and just ask him whats going on but try not to make it wierd but more casual or as casual as can be.
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Has anyone ever had a boyfriend or husband in the air force? What's it like?
IT depends on the type of person you are and the type of man they are.As far as basics for all airforce men...they are gone alottt and they dont have much time when they do come home. They only call at certain times and you worry constantly about them.
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im going to this dance with my girlfriend but i cant dance at all and im nervous, what can i do?
Just tell her the truth that u are nervous and cant really dance she will understand.
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So, I'm fifteen & female. for the first time last weekend, my boyfriend and i had oral sex both ways. LIke he gave me oral & i have him oral. After it though, i felt like reeeeeal dirty. I mean, is that slutty or anything? I'm only fifteen and it just doesn't even feel right. Or is that normal the first time haha...I don't know, let me know, thank youu.
Well in my opinion it is probablly not going to feel right at 15. Yes the first time it does feel a little dirty but it also feels right. If it didnt feel right its my advice to wait and just let him know your not ready or you are going to feel really bad about yourself.
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18/f
Freshman college student.
I hang out with 3 other girls who live down the hall from me. One of the girls has liked a sophomore guy(Drew) since the beginning of school. He helped her move in to her dorm. I always knew who he was but we never talked more than a few words in a group conversation. Well Friday night 2 of the 3 girls and some guys including Drew were hanging out. We started drinking and my friends left because they're uncomfortable with it so I stayed back with the guys. I had never really hung out with any of them much before but I wasn't ready to go to bed. We ended up hanging out until 5 in the morning.
Saturday night. The same thing happens, all the girls and the same guys are hanging out. The guys were drunk, I didn't have any but the girls were uncomfortable again and left around 11. Me and Drew had started up our own conversation, isolating ourselves from the group and didn't even notice the girls leave. At around 1:30am the guys went to bed, leaving me and Drew on the floor of the common room talking. We talked until 6:30am! About everything, relationships, jobs, family, sex, school, our major (everyone I've mentioned are all in the same major). At 6:30 people started waking up and came out and saw us still sitting on the floor so we decided it was best if we went to bed. He asked for my number, walked me to my door and then he left.
Sunday, we were all working late hours on projects in the studio and I was most likely going to pull an all nighter. Drew, who usually would visit my friend at her desk was now visiting me more frequently and my friend definitely noticed. She had stopped talking to me, gave Drew an attitude, and gave us both dirty looks. He didn't want to talk to someone who gave him an attitude for no reason so he just continued to stay at my desk and ignore my friend. I have yet to flirt with him! And he always comes to me but my friend is still mad. She has a very bubbly personality and doesn't know how to flirt, so I'm sure he's clueless that she likes him. I have been myself the whole time and he hasn't stopped talking to me since that night when we stayed up. Well my friend left the studio at 4 in the morning without a goodbye. We were supposed to walk back together so we didn't have to walk in the dark alone but instead she just left without me. So I stayed and finished my project until 6 when Drew and I decided to call it quits. He walked me to my room again and then left to go to his dorm.
Today we were texting and his response to something I said was "You are sooo awesome, how have we never talked before?"
I don't know what to do. The only reason I haven't flirted with him is because of my friend's feelings towards him but he doesn't have feelings for her at all and her bitchy behavior lowered the chances of that ever happening. She's turning the group against me for 'stealing her man' even though she never told him she liked him and I never flirted. If he likes me, I'm sorry but thats not my fault so I don't deserve an attitude. I thought college was about growing up and getting away from childish behavior and drama.
What do I do? I see them both everyday.
Honestly if she was a real friend she would not be doing what she is doing and even tho u dont admit it it sounds like you really like this kid so go for it. Better to lose one then both and if she cant understand that then shge was never really a friend to begin with.
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my names Emma, Im 13, And I need advice?
Well,
I like this lad, and when I meen like, I meen basically Love..
Because well, sometiimes when I thiink, I just seem to think of him, and when I see him I feel different around him, and I always wanna be with him, and when he comes on msn I proper wanna say hi straiight away ?! Do I love him?
And what do I do ?
Please help
xx
It sounds like love to me. If you think you have a chance.....then go for it.
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20/M
I text back and forth with this girl that I like. What are some subtle things I can say to her when we text that lets her know I like her but not completely professing my feelings for her? Like "hey cutie" or others, I just want to be SUBTLE about it. I'm not afraid to tell her I like her (because she likes me). We live apart now but I move to her town in 3 months. And we're not together now/yet. So that's why I want to be subtle about it.
Dont say cutie say beautiful...and when you talk be like i really like talking to you and bring up her town and then be like by the way i am moving there in 3 months and i just wanted to know what its like if she asks whay and then be like maybe we can hangout some time.....and ask her how her day was all the time and whats new with her it will let her know you are interested and you dont have to come right out and say it
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What do you think is an appropriate age limit for dating? Like how many years older should it be and how many years younger. I am 18 years old and I have come to the realization that I need to set a date age limit... so any ideas would be lovely. Thanks. =]
P.S. I rate high for good advice ;)
Well to me age is just a number its the maturity of those to people and how comfortable the people around them are. Well if you are 18 then if you want to go younger than you that i would not go any younger than 16 and older i would not go more than 4 years older.
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Hi, I'm Hailey (17)
I have made mistakes in my life that I'm not proud of, but I've made a complete turn around. I was dating this guy who is three years older than I am. He was into drugs and he got me to do them with him. After going out a while he made a routine out of getting me high and then having sex with me (and refused to wear a condom). I didn't say no but before entering the relationship I would not have concidered having sex. Is this concidered thanks so ,much for your insight :)
Yes druging someone then haveing sex with them is rape. It happens all the time its considered date rape you should talk to someone and look into it and see if he has done it to others and talk to them and if you have enough eveidence push it or he will do it again to someone else
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17/f
I have known this boy for years and we have always liked eachother. finally after years of on and off seeing eachother there was always a connection. finally we are together. we are in love and talk to eachtoher all the time and text 24/7. the down side is we only get to see eachother twice a week. he is very insecure and emotionally weak. he trusts me but every once in a while he says he has his doubts and can't trust other people. it takes him forever to get over things which bugs me because i never worry about anything and i get over things quicker than they begin. is there anyway i can fix this?
thanks soo much :)
Most of the time things like this are just a phase he will get over in time as the relationship goes on. And when he does it, it shows that he really cares about you and doesn't want to lose you. Just when he gets this way...let him know that you are here with him and you are not going to go anywhere and let him nkow that his insecurities are starting to ruin the relationship and you love him but you dont like the fact that he is doubting because it takes two to tango
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Now I know that everyone has their own personal preferencese when it comes to dating. My question though is, is there something wrong with a 17 year old guy going out with a 15 year old girl? I mean do you see anything wrong with it? I know i'm going to get many different answers and that's what i'm hoping for. There's just this guy that I really like, but he said that youngest he would date is 16, and i'm 15, and he's 17. He's a really great guy. We both have a lot in common, and are a lot alike. I'm not saying that because of these things that we belong together or something I just want to know everyones ideas on this. Any and all answers are greatly appreciated, and thank you in advance.
Well not really because its not illegal yet. There would be if he was 18 or older and she was 15. Plus it really depends on how mature the person is and how mature their realtionship is
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so I just started highschool and theres this guy that I like. I have bio and history with him but I'm too shy to talk to him. He doesn't act like he likes me at all so I don't know what to do, but I mean we've never talked so itd be kind of hard. i'm also really shy so it's even HARDER...so if any of u have any advice on what to do please help.
Well ask around and find something that you and him might have in common and then work off of that. Small talk could create a spark but you will never know until you actually hold a conversation ....just remember looks may be decieving
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im13 and wanted to know what a 13 year old girl likes about guys and how they like them to kiss. Any help?
Thirteen year old girls are the same as anyone else and you can't really put them under a stereo type because everyone is different. Just talk to the person you like and soon you will be comfortable and the kiss will just happen and you won't even think about it....just remember first kisses are the easiest yet the hardest.
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how do i keep the girl im with for a very longtime we really are attracted and like eachother alot its me being scared to lose her? how do i keep her for a longterm relationship
If you love her as much as you say then just enjoy the time dont worry about endings. If you worry to much you will lose her because it will only lead to arguements and you will drive her away.
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I am starting to feel sick and tired of my boyfriend. I also think he feels the same way, which he obviously denies.
We have been dating for 2 months. We semi-dated for 2 months before that. He cheated on me after a month and a half of dating. He lost his virginity to me, though, before that.
What should I do?
If he cheated on you then leave him because you dont need someone like that. you can do better!
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im 13/f
ok so theres this guy that i like in my 2nd 3rd and 4th period classes. he sitts beside me inn all of them. in 2nd, he ALWAYS talks to me instead of his like best friend. then in 3rd, he is like a complete jerk and ignores me and is always telling me to shut up in front of his other friend. then in fourth, he talks to me like nothing just happened. im so confuseed...sometimes i get the feeling that he likes me and them like 10 mins later i feel like he hates me.
HELP!! i need to know what he is thinking!!
He is thinking that he likes you but doesn't want to creep you out and he isn't sure how you will react so he does this....... but just talk to him and let him know how you are feeling.
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okay so me and this guy have been fooling around off and on for like 3 years now, he used to fool around woth everyone but lately he hasn't been fooling around with as many girls, i guess he's trying to be more faithfull to his "girlfrind"(please don't paint me as a bad guy... he always says that they're broken up and they haven't gone out all year, but some of her friends say that they're going out...) anyway, whenever we do anything he ignores me the next day even though we're friends and then the next day it's completely different he acts like he only wants to be around me... i think he's just trying to play the field and he doesn't like me... can anyone give me any advice on wether i should keep this thing up or just give up on the jerk?
Well if you love him and really care then keep things up. But if you are seening a new side of you that you don't like very much and its changeing you then just wash your hands of the relationship. But this is only a question you can answer because it's the matters of the heart and only you can ask your heart that question.
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Okay, I really like Adam but I always sound so stupid when I talk to him. I have no problem talking to guys- half of my friends are guys, but when it comes to Adam all I do is flip my hair and giggle. Laugh is out of the question...
I--GIGGLE.
On AIM I talk to him, and I always start the conversation. And it's always about random stuff and what not.
I also while talking to him change my voice How?
I donno I can't even catch myself from doing it. But How do i stop myself from making a fool of myself infront of him.
Well get to know him with out all the highschool girl flirtatousness....and things might go somewhere
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i am looking for nice ways to tell my boyfriend i love him, other than just saying it. (and other than sex.) mainly, nice things i can do to show it. i have already written him some nice letters, burned mix cd's with love songs, wrote him a list of 101 things i love about him, and a few other things, but i was interested in some fresh stuff. any ideas...? please and thank you!
Tell him that he is the only guy for you and let him know that you are always here for him and would do almost anything for him. Let him know you aren't only his girl but his friend as well. Be sweet and just let him know how much you care. If that doesn't say i love you then i dont know who is.
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