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Hey! My name's Bowman. I'm 17 years old, and live in Wales (UK). I'm a really friendly person, and I'll try to answer your questions as honestly and helpfully as possible.

I'm a pretty independant person. I try to question everything; sometimes this even includes my own faith (I'm a Christian), but I believe that questioning your life is the only way to better it.

I'm at Sixth Form college at the moment, doing my AS levels in English, History, ICT and Philosophy.

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last night I went to the school carnival with my boyfriend. He always has his arms around me and the absolute perfect boyfriend for me and I LOVE him to death. he cares about me and everything. anyway we where out side sitting on the play ground and it was dark after the carnival was over and everyone already went home. and we where making out. I mean I want to go farther but were only 13 and I don't want to get us into trouble like no bjs or anything past that. I don't know what to do. like at the carnival he would stand behind me and he kissed my neck. I liked it but he never did that before. I kiss him all over his face and I kissed him on his neck 2 or 3 times after he did it to me. But I want to do more still. I we would sit there and make out for like a bit but then I would always have to pull away cuase I can't hold my breath for that long. also what can I do to hold my breath longer? please help

Don't worry about holding your breath. Just breathe through your nose. And this may sound harsh, but at 13, are you really sure you want to go further than making out? If you love him enough then it can't be wrong, but just be absolutely sure before you go for anything more.

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Okay,
I absolutley LOVE LOVE LOVE singing, and acting, but my play is this friday and i have the lead role, everyone always talks about that when they perform, they feel really good. How do i get over my fear!! I already had an embarrassment on stage once, i cant do it again. How do i distract myself from the sudience. Tips would be helpful ASAP

JANE

Well, being into acting myself, I can only give you one piece of advice that has worked for me EVERY SINGLE TIME I have been on stage. Pretend that it's a rehearsal. You need to reduce your fear, and just do that by trying to push your mind into thinking that yeah, sure there are people sitting out in the auditorium, but I am here to enjoy myself, and that's what I'm going to do.

Another good thing to do is, just before you go on stage (you can do it backstage or in the wings!) close your eyes and think good thoughts. I know, it sounds really corny, but it's worked for me, and it worked for half of the people on stage with me!

Break a leg for Friday, and don't forget: have fun!

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This is for the people who have read Eragon by Christopher Paolini:

In my (12th grade) english class, we're supposed to make a "mystery bag" of atleast 6 items that refer to the book. So far, I have a miniture dragon toy, a blue egg, a toy sword, and tarot cards (for the fortune telling). That's all I could think of.

Any suggestions on the last 2?

How about a photocopy of your favourite page in the book?

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i was really skinny during my puberty years so i never grew boobs, im 16 now and still i am flat chested, if i gained weight would i get boobs? or as much boobs as i would of grown if i was fatter during puberty?

Honestly, you really shouldn't worry about being 'flat-chested'. I'm 16 too, and I'm not exactly well-endowed. You really shouldn't worry about it. You shouldn't have to gain weight just to get bigger boobs! My advice is that if you really want 'bigger boobs' then you should use something like a padded bra.

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ok well me and my gf just broke up and i just really want to be sad right now every one is all like u need to get happyer or w/e but i just really want to lay down and listin to sad music


so dose any one know any sad songs i could get

for instanse
tonight i want to cry-keith urban

kinda stull like that

thanx

Hmm... I know what you mean. Sometimes you just need to go ahead with being sad, because if you just bottle it all up then you just feel worse later on...

Anyway, sad songs!
How about Snow Patrol's "Chasing Cars"? I listened to it on the radio today, and it made me feel really sad...

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