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next step/ kissing
last night I went to the school carnival with my boyfriend. He always has his arms around me and the absolute perfect boyfriend for me and I LOVE him to death. he cares about me and everything. anyway we where out side sitting on the play ground and it was dark after the carnival was over and everyone already went home. and we where making out. I mean I want to go farther but were only 13 and I don't want to get us into trouble like no bjs or anything past that. I don't know what to do. like at the carnival he would stand behind me and he kissed my neck. I liked it but he never did that before. I kiss him all over his face and I kissed him on his neck 2 or 3 times after he did it to me. But I want to do more still. I we would sit there and make out for like a bit but then I would always have to pull away cuase I can't hold my breath for that long. also what can I do to hold my breath longer? please help
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I had the same problem with making out, because I don't breathe through my nose normally. I have horrible allergies about half the year, so I normally breathe through my mouth. It works well if you make out with a rhythym. Kissing with tongues for a few seconds, and then bringing your lips together for a few. when you're moving them from open to closed or closed to open, you can usually get in a breath. Sitting his lap and kissing him that way is good too. Sometimes [I don't know about him personally] guys like it when you bite their lips. If you want to open him up to feeling you up, slide your hand inside his shirt and rub his back. Unless he's the super tough type, try not to put your nails in his back. Hope I helped! :)
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Don't worry about holding your breath. Just breathe through your nose. And this may sound harsh, but at 13, are you really sure you want to go further than making out? If you love him enough then it can't be wrong, but just be absolutely sure before you go for anything more.
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Breathe through your nose while youre kissing him. As for going a little farther feeling eachother a little bit probably wont get you two into trouble.
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if you want , maybe you can do
feelups
fingering
hand jobs
makeout with tops off
play little FUN games
dry hump/dry sex
and i think you can breathe out the nose
it may feel weird to him like your breath on his lips or w/e
but he does it to you too
but you just don't realize it
he will still love you no matter what
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