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i rele rele miss my bf. well i rele cant miss him bc i never met him b4. weve been dating 5 months and ive been fine w/ him living in a diffrent state but now anything will remind me of him and ill start missing him alot. how can i stop this? thanks for the help (link)
hey,i think you should let him send you a picture of him that way you would know what he looks like and have someting to miss him by!!!!!!!-tish


ok, i've like this guy for a LONG time, 3 years. We've become better friends over the past 3 years since i liked him and i don't know if he likes me. We see each other at school but only in 3rd period but we talk most of the time since it's art. any ideas? i know i DON'T want to tell him how i feel, it would make everything so much harder and more awkward. If you think i should keep flirting, tell me some ideas. I'm 14, and he's 14. I'm a cheerleader and he's a football player but there isn't ne more games b/c the season is over. should i give up on this guy or stick to it? (link)
hey,dont you dare give up on him im sure he likes you back .for all you know he might have liked you for 3years to!!!!!!!!!!! keep flirting and tell him that you like him it ell work out have faith!!!!!!!!!!!!-tish


i have a boyfriend who i love VERY much. we (his name is corey) went out for 4 months and then we broke up. when we broke up he went out with my best friend and then they broke up. then he went out with my other best friend to try to get over me and things led to other things.... she was moving really fast and he didnt want to get made fun of so he just went along with everything. well she gave him a blowjob. he broke up with her right after because he found out i still liked him. he regretted the whole thing. i was have a really tough time dealing with everything. then i went off to highschool before him *hes a year younger than me* and i got a new boyfriend. i went out with him for 7 and a half months but i didnt want to be with him. we were kinda off and on for a long time. things happened between me and him that i didnt want to happen, but i didnt know how to say no. i never did anythng to him... he did things to me sexually. and then i finally got the courage to break up with him. all my self esteem was gone by now, as u could probably imagine. i still liked corey a LOT and so we started talking again and we got back together. weve been together for over 3 months and i keep thinking about what happened between him and my ex-best friend. i just cant seem to get past it. he regrets ever doing it and he knows how bad it hurt me. we have talked about it, we have cried about it. i just dont know what to do to get over the past. i keep picturing what happened. and corey cant get over it either, he gets upset about it all the time. how do we get over it and what do we do about it? thanks for any advice you can give me. (link)
hey, i think that you should remember that you love each.and that no one can take that away from you.i mean sure you made mistakes in the past but thats all in the past now the one thing i have always learn in life is to leave whats in the past in the past and that you need to move forward sure some things will come along what you dont like some things that you even hate but its all apart of making you a better person in life.well i hope this helps!!!!!!!.-tish


tomrrow im going to my boyfriends house...i go there all the time and my mom knows him and shes met his parents before...the thing is she trys to get WAY to involved...she wants me to bring cookies over there! she wants to "fix them up a plate of cookies and brownies" and me give them to his family...come on...THATS SO EMBARASSING! shes like oh but it would be so giving...i dont know how to tell her without fighting..hellpp (link)
well,i think you should talk to her and tell her how you feel if its really that embarssing you should tell her.hope this helps!!!!!!!!.-tish


well the thing is, my ex and i broke up about a month ago after being together for almost 2 yrs. He lives in pa and i live in md. we are trying to get back together because we still love each other and i'm going to visit my dad so we figured it would be an easy way for us to see each other. lately he has not called me on the nights that we have been talking since the day i moved to md. some of his friends from his school i talk to, and one of them told me a few weeks ago that he had a gf. so i called him and asked him about it. he said that he didnt have a gf but he did like this girl. so of course i was angry and upset cause we have been talking about getting back together and having sex. so he said that he wasnt sure if he'd go out with her or not and if so that it wouldnt be a serious relationship because nobody in the world could replace me. i'm to the point now where i have no idea what to do. i still love him very much and i know he loves me as well. i still want to be with him but it feels like he is keeping things from me. and also cause he doesnt call anymore. what should i do? thanks so much for your help! (link)
i think that you should call him and tell him how you feel and ask him why he stoped calling you hope this helps!!!!!! tish


My boyfriend and i have been dating for 2 months and i need to get him a christmas gift. He is into baseball, poker, and bowling. Any Ideas???? (link)
mabye you should get him a watch or a chain


My boyfriend was living with me for a while, and he just "moved out" today. I can't call him, but I really miss him a lot, I don't know, I just need a way to miss him less. What do I do? We're still going to see eachother and stuff, it's just going to be less than when he lived with me. (He had to move out because my dad never knew he lived here, and he was really mad) (link)
mabye you two should just take a picture or to together and then you could put it on the wall in your room see if that makes it hurt less.hope this helps!!!!!!!-tish


Some years ago, I really liked this guy . The thing is that now I want to get over him . It was always a game of getting him jealous or making me jealous, and that's so pitiful and childish . I fell into that game cause I have liked, maybe loved, this guy for at least two years . I want to get over him and I am at the door step of doing that . So back to present reality . He has a girl, who he treats bad and all, and I have no one . He follows other girls , pays no attention to the girl he's with, and acts like he has a stick up the @## and it's so annoying me . No one deserves to be treated that way . I can't help but worry if things would've been different or would do the same to me . Guys help me out. What do you think, and why do some guys do this ? He continues the jealousy and looking game and I can't stand it . I want to move on , but somethings keeping me here at the doorstep . I want to be free but I can't fully do it . Why? Oh, please help me . I'll rate truthfully . (link)
hey i think that you should move on i mean your rite no one desrves to be treated the way he is treating this girl but theres nothing you could do about it.and i think that you should be thankful that your not that girl.just remember that your a great smart girl and any guy would be lucky to have you.-tish


my boyfriend got me this really nice watch for christmas and im supposed to be giving him his tommorow but i have no idea what to get him!!! helpp.. (link)
hey i think that you should get him a chain


my friend alyssa was seeing this guy ryan but they broke up bc she cheated on him. shes in love with this new guy tai they went out brok eup but shes still hooked on him. alyssa doesnt liek ryan any more and says she doesnt care if her friends like him but i feel likeid be betraying her if i did.. me and ryan have been talkin for a few weeks now. just online and on the phone and were making plans to hang out & stuff.. hes such a great guy and has the best personality. do you think its wrong that ryan & i are hanging out and talking??? me and alyssa have been friends for 4 years but she says its ok..i think shes too wrapped up with tai right now but.. i dont want to ruin our friendship at all... what do you advise..??

-kristi (link)
i think you should hang out with the guy i mean he sounds like a great guy and if your friend really likes tai she really care. but you should talk to your friend and her what she thinks,hope this helps- tish


my best friend likes my ex-boyfriend and i still like him too.. but i was the one who broke up with him.. i told her i didnt still like him because she really likes him and he likes her back! but im pretty sure he still likes me because he still acts like it. i am fine with my best friend going out with him because she actually asked me before but i will just be so sad.. i dont know what to do!
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hey there,i think that you should accept the fact that your boy friend has moved on and that you should find a next guy that you like and go with him your a great girl and a great friend any guy would be lucky to go out with you .-tish




















I just turned 14 and I am wondering how far most people go with a guy at this age? like what would you consider reasonable?? I havent done much with guys so far but if the time was right I want to know my limits!!! whats idea of a 14 yr old? (link)
i think that your limits well be at kissing thats as far as im going!!!!!!!-tish


I have always been the good girl and not really come out and share that i like someone because i have just always been like that and it feels like i can't break this stage. If there is any advice out there please respond or email me at dance4ever@charter.net


Thankz (link)
one way to get rid of being scared to say that you like some one is to dig in your gut and find the confadince you need to go up to some one and just tell them that you like them


i have been best friends with Alex for 4 years. This year, i found out that he likes me. And i like him. He has attempted to ask me out but i am always busy with something else. I feel very bad because he doesnt understand how much i really care about him. He is also known as the school hottie and he flirts with all the girls at out school. I dont want to go out with someone who flirts with everyone right in front of me; what do i do?? (link)
hey, i think you should tell him how you feel i mean mabye if you tell him how you feel he would stop flirting with everybody in the front of you.give it a try.-tish


ok, well my best friend scott, has been my friend for ever and well i recently got a b/f named Nelson and ever since he has been so weird. Yesterday scott almost started this huge fight with him...2 days ago he came to nelsons b day uninvited....im really sscared of what scott is going to do next....i love nelson but i dont want him hurt...and i try to talk to scott but he pretends nothing happened...wht should i do! (link)
hey there, i think scott likes you and that you should tell scott how you feel i mean it sounds to me like scott cares for you very much and dosent want you to get hurt.-tish


OK I like this guy, and today at an assembly he asked me out and since I liked him, I said yes. Now, I dunno what to do. I like him but I'm nervous and I really don't want to ruin our friend relationship. Basically what I am saying is, should I go out w/ him? I'm just nervous. Thanks!
PS: I kinda have this "sad" feeling when I think about it. Also, since it's near Christmas, I don't want to feel like that. (link)
i think that you should take the chance you two might just be ment for each other .take a risk.-tish


i appologize now for this being long...but i just really need some advice!

ima 14 female freshman...
it starts off in 7th grade, me and this guy got 2 gether..we dated for a year. broke up in 8th grade..he messed with sum 7th graders. we were supposed 2 get back 2gther, but he ended up switchin schools. during the summer after 8th grade, we kept in touch..talked on the phone, chilled @ the movies and all that...and yes we were frends wit benefits!!...freshman year started we didnt talk so much, thats wen i met this guy..we dated 4 2 months, and juss a few weeks ago i broke up with him..once my ex boi found owt i was single again..we started talking...(and b4 i broke up wit my boi he told me he would b waiting 4 me!)...so it was true he was waitin 4 me!...we been talkin alot latly! im guessing we do go owt..its juss i dont know if i can trust hiM!..i know how he is..im just scared ima get hurt again!..bkuz he sorta did mess roun wit others back in 7th grade! (link)
well i think you should tell him how you feel i mean you dont want to get hurt again so i think that you should tell him that and see what he says about it.hope this helps.-tish


my boyfriend of 7 months and i just broke up a couple of a days ago, and i broke up with him because he was rude, we fight all the time its just like were abusive to eachother, but i love him so much and we both want eachother back but we said we will take a break, but i am dieng without him you have no idea i miss him so much, i wanna kiss a diffrent guy (ive had him in mind for a while) but im so scared if my ex finds out and never wants to get back with me what should i do i love my ex but im lonely and want someone for now so i wanna kiss the diffrent guy should i? (link)
well,i think you should talk to your boy friend and tel him how you feel that way you wont feel lonely anymore .as for kissing this other guy i think that would be a bad idea because if you do you might never get your ex back. hope this helps.-tish


How can you tell when someone doesn't love you anymore? He gives me affection only when I ask for it, but he doesn't give it himself anymore. He gets mad at me a lot. We've been together for almost a decade. I'm still in love, but how can I know for sure if he loves me anymore? He says he does but I don't think he's telling me the truth. He makes me feel like I'm just in his way. I know it's probably time to move on, but I want this to work because we have a child together. Thanks for help in advance. (link)
well,i think you should tell him how you feel that seems like the best thing to do.-tish


What are some flirty words you can say to a guy?

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there arent really alot of flrity words but you could play in his hair or you could take his hat or if your good friendz you could sit on him




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