Hi. My name is
kay ehh eye tee ehl why enn
((for you less intelligent people, Kaitlyn))
I'm not the prettiest, smartest, or thinnest,
nor do I claim to be. If you get the chance to know me,
I'm super radical.
I'm not emo,
scene,
goth,
hXc,
or preppy,
I'm just me.
I have a name, not at label.
Music is my passion.
I am the worldest biggest Choir Geek, ever,
and proud of it.
I feel like it's the only place in my life where everything just...
clicks.
My friends are my life source. --How star trek of me =]--
I'm pretty shy around new people,
but with my friends... hahaha.
Lets just say... it's interesting.
I'm a dork, and I'm proud.
Life's far to short to be worried about being cool.
I'm sarcastic, and optimistic.
I like hugs.
I'm Mormon, and I only have ONE mom. Kay? Thanks.
When I'm having a bad day, the whole world knows it.
I can be really nice,
or mean, depends on what day you catch me on.
m'aider à vivre, please and thanks.
In short,
I'm just me, don't care what you have to say about it.
so put that in your juice box and suck it.
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Age: 15
AIM: addict4drmatics
Member Since: May 20, 2005
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I dont know if i should ask this guy out that goes to my school he doesnt think tat i like him and we dont talk a lot but i like this guy a lot and i want to ask him out so bad but i dont know how......plz help me....i rate high....
love,
dont know what to do (link)
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Dear dont know what to do
Well i have heard that guys don't like it when girls ask them out they like to be in control... event though they aren't lol!
I would just drop hints, flirt, body language. Look at him in class and when he looks up break the stare just let him know you are interested.
If he doesn't ask you out i say go for it.
Good Luck!
~*~Sour~*~
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i really like this girl and she just got out of a tough relationship. she needs space..and i'm willing to give her that. what should i do, though? i really like her. she sort of led me on and stuff, then regretted it i guess. i feel sort of sad i guess too. how do i make her see i really want to be with her, but not being too pushy? help!! (link)
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Hey!
I would recomend saying how you feel about and you know she needs her space. Tell her that when she is ready to give you a call. Treat her as a FRIEND during this time go in for asking her out later. Good Luck!
~*~Sour~*~
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my bf is a good one. everyone is like "i NEVER c u guys together!" and i wish he was more bfishy! (;)) like i wish he held my hand and stuff! :( (link)
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Hey!
If you want it to happen make it happen. Grab his hand ECT. You can make a move just go for it!
Good Luck!
~*~Sour~*~
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i am 15 and never liked someone as much as i like "4" ( we will pretend thats his name* He was my first boy that i fell head of heels in love with. We hooked up and sadly he was the first person ive ever done anything with. and he knew that and made that night i spent with him one of the best in my life. i went to the spring dance with him, i had a great time and so did he!BUT here comes the problem, hes next door neighbor is in love with him....and shes was getting pissed at me because i was with him at the dance and ya i think they hooked up this past weekend. i never really had him but i thought i was close and i dont want him to go. another problem is he is 18 and heading off for the whole summer and then he wil be gone in the fall for college. i really dont know what to do,im sick of beeing confused can u please help me :( (link)
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Well that is a problem. If it were me... i would say screw your nieghbor but me and my nieghbors aren't very close. Your nieghbor shouldn't effect you he likes YOU not her. I bet he didn't hook up with her from what you have said. However, there is nothing you can do about "4" going to college, he has to go. but you know what you can see each other on his breaks and stuff. Best of Luck!
~*~Sour~*~
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14/m
what are ways that i can pull my girlfriend aside from all our friends and get our first kiss? like what are ideas that i can do? what are things that i can bring up the romantic event once i pull her aside?
Background: she has been getting annoyed with me for absolutly no apparent reason, sometimes just because im around-we go to the same school, and are in the same classes, and hang around the same group of friends. sometimes i get the impression that she gets annoyed whenever i pull her aside for a while just to cuddle with her, or talk by ourselves, its like she thinks i am hogging her from everyone, when really its just some of our friends are so obsessive with her (they are almost all girls, we have like 2 or 3 other guy friends) and they (a few girls) like obessess with her and shit. so how can i pull her aside without her thinking im trying to hog her to myself?? thanks for the help! (link)
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Well, if she were a good girlfriend she wouldn't mind you pulling her off for a little bit. But, that is just me... any who, all i can say is just be a little romatic you don't have to tear her away from the group, just walk up and hold her hand! Good Luck!
~*~Sour~*~
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im 14 and im a girl, well theres this kid that i like and he likes me too, but i dont think he will ask me out because hes afraid that i will say no. I dont know if i should ask him out or just wait to see if he asks me. what should i do? (link)
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Well all i can say is i had the same problem. but you know what i did i just talked to him a little more and flirted and big thing is BODY LANGUAGE if you tense up around him he will think you don't like him. a great way to get his attention is stare at him then when he looks up lock eyes for a couple seconds then you break the stare. Keep flirting and if he doesnt ask you i say go for it and ask him who says the guy always has to ask the girl?
Good Luck!
~*~Sour~*~
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Okay i have this really big jealously problem... i mean i don't get jealous but when people try to make me jealous i get REALLY REALLY MAD!! i dont' know why i get that way... but okay here's the story
On my class trip i liked this guy and i didn't like him anymore lets call him Billy well billy i think liked me and he sat by this girl lets call her nina well on the way back home nina and billy were sitting really reallly close and billy had his arm around her... nina is just like a slut and lets guys do whatever they want .. well i was sitting on the floor and he kept on looking at me to see if i saw what he was doing!!! it got me so mad!! i moved up to the front and started like yelling to my friends and telling them i was going to f****** kill him (haha i know a little out of hand) but i guess my question is .. is there a certain way why i get that way? or do i need some anger management!!!! lol
ps. sorry so long! (link)
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I think you took it alittle to out of hand. it's natural to be jelous and stuff but you know i understand were you are coming from i'd be pissed to so just dont have such a monster blow out theres nothing worng just mandage it alittle better. Good Luck
~*~Sour~*~
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i was on myspace and i was reading my boyfriends comments and i noticed a new one from a girl in my grade. it was saying thank you. so i go to her page and i see that he commented on hers saying that she was beautiful and he thought she should know. is this weird at all? should i be mad? he is a very good boyfriend and always there for me and this is the only thing i have ever had to question about him..help! (link)
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Hey!
I think you have a very good reason to be mad at him. Confront him and tell him you can't have a boyfriend like that and he should clean up his act before ever asking you out again. If he loves you he'll fix it and if he is using you then you deserve SO much better. Good Luck!
~*~Sour~*~
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I'm 17, and so is my girlfriend, though most of the time she's a lot more mature than me because she's gone through a lot more. I've messed up a lot in my relationship.. nothing extreme, theres just a lot about me that bothers my girlfriend, and she's gone through times when she puts serious thought into breaking up with me, and truthfully i dont see why she hasnt. but what bothers her is basically just a lot about me that i can't help much, like things that i do without thinking about it, and the fact that i use to be a big flirt and sometimes have trouble stopping that.
she's always been more than faithful to me, and has never strayed away.she's debating giving up trying with me and i love her more than anything, she's perfect for what i want to be and am trying to be. but i need to know whether or not i should just let her go and live without my complications or not. please respond quickly. (link)
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If you love her so much tell her that! Buy her flowers and chocolates and show up at her house singing a mushy love song. That should solve things for now but if you love her so much and you want to stay with her you need to seriously think of changing your lifestyle. Mostly stop flirting there is nothing that bugs a girl more then seeing her man looking at another girl. It makes her feel like she isn't good enough for you. Good Luck!
~*~Sour~*~
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15/f--i've been dating my boyfriend for nearly the entire school year and we're INCREDIBLY close. however...i'm not a big fan of kissing. Its great fun on the neck or ear...but just frenching or long kisses on the lips...its gross, and i feel like i'm drowning. i don't know if its just something i'm doing wrong, or if he's not a good kisser...or that's just how things are supposed to go and somehow i'm the only person in the world who finds this disgusting. :-/ please let me know what it might be, and anything i could do to help this situation! thanks (link)
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Nothing is wrong with it at all! Just let him know. If you can't take it just keep them short and sweet. who says that the kiss has to last 5 minutes break it off when you are ready. Good Luck!
~*~Sour~*~
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I’ve never been kissed and I was wondering if that is a turn off for guys (if they know). I personally find it embarrassing because I am 15/f. So my second question is, is it stupid that I haven’t kissed anyone yet, at my age? (link)
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I don't think that guys care. And if they are your first you are sort of a "trophey" to them. No it isn't stupid i know some people who havent been kissed. You are just saving it for the right guy. Good Luck
~*~Sour~*~
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I've been going out with this guy for almost a month and I'm not sure if I really like anymore. It still feels like we're just friends, but I know he likes me a lot. How do I find out if I still like him?
Pebbles (link)
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Hey Pebbles!
Well i felt the same way with my first boyfriend and i let it keep going for a while and now i hate my self for when i finally did break it off it hurt him even worse. I'd give it a week or so if you don't have that "warm fuzzy feeling" anymore then break up with him tell him you need space. Good Luck!
~*~Sour~*~
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I got over somebody perhaps two weeks ago and decided to move on with my life. Moving on materialized in a new matter with a friend of a friend, and we started going out. At the same time everything else in my life has been going awry, and I don't feel attracted to this person anymore. I'm extremely confused right now, but if I break up with him I'll hurt his feelings and since he's part of the circle, my friends will make me feel bad about it forever. I'm beginning to think I have no sexuality at all, and he wants to do so much stuff. I just feel like getting away from him, not that I don't like him as a person. His attempts at romance only succeed in making me sick to my stomach with self disrespect.
I just want things to be the way they were. I don't want the status of having a bf, or being in a relationship. I cannot act all happy when everything else in my life is falling down around me.
I am so malcontent. (link)
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Well just tell him that tell him you can't have a boyfriend right now you have to much going on ask him to have a break. Tell him to give you some space for a while and maybe you can go out when you feel better about yourself. Sure he and your friends may get mad but if they are your real friends they will understand. Good Luck!
~*~Sour~*~
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Ok theres this boy and were really close weve been friend forever and like in the last month we've get together. Hes so sweet and i dont know what id do with him. Today my ex asked me out and i told him and i also told him i told him no and he was like well speaking of things like that...my ex emialed me today. I didnt say anyting and he was like she had a tumor. But i guess they got it out. I told him he should go see her and he was like i was gonna ask you that cause i wanted to make sure it was ok with you. Then we were talking about it and i said id love you and i trust you and then he was like no matter what? and i said yeah. So what im asking is you dont think hes like liking hes ex or anyting? and what do you think he ment but that whole no matter what thing? you dont think he would cheat on me? like i feel like a foul writing this cause i say i trust him but i do...
*-*PLZ HELP ILL RATE 5*-* (link)
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Well i dont really know what to think. To me he sounds like the type of guy who loves you no matter what. I think the whole "no matter what?" was his way of saying he really cares and wants you to care for him the same way he cares for you! But I don't know that is just my opinion maybe you should talk to him. Good luck!
~*~Sour~*~
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I really like this guy, he's a senior and im a freshman. It used to just be like an admiration type of thing, but i really think I like him now, and i dont want to be upset when he leaves. I don't know what to do, spend time with him, although some days we don't even talk, or should I just back off, we're not super close, but there is an attraction, bigger on my side than his. What should I do? (link)
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First of all that is a HUGE age diffrence. I think you should just lay off if he doesn't like you it is not big deal. Look for guys your own age maybe a year older. Look around for another guy this will sound stupid but as they always say there are plently of fish in the sea
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okay im 16and me and my boyfriend have been goin out 4 2 years now we had a massive argument da ova day and he put a knife to my throat and ses he would kill me if i shouted at him like that again i really like him thought and he dont always act like that but now im scared just to have an argument with him ive talked 2 him about it and he ses im being stupid bt i dont wana break up with him what do i do? (link)
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I know it seems like you might love him not but you are ONLY 16! If he is threating you then you need to get out of there and get out of there FAST! This will sound gay but if you are really scared, which i would be if i were in your postion, talk to someone about it... other then him. If he keep harassing you after you break up i would either talk to your consolers or principal and if it gets worse consider a restraining order. Good luck.
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Well I met this guy. He is a year younger than me but he really likes me. He is my cousins best friend. I like him just not a whole lot I hate it when he calls me b/c he gets on my nerves alot. He only gets on my nerves because he acts shy around me and he doesn't what to talk about. Do you think that I should give him a chance or what? (link)
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Well, personally i think you should give him a chance. He obviously likes you alot and if he likes you that much and he seems like a good guy go for it. It's not like you two are going to get married anytime soon so see if he becomes less annoying if you start dating and if it doesn't work out then you can always break it off later on! Good luck!
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