soo i used to like this guy a lot and we were really good friends. i had known him for like 9 years from kindergarten to 8th grade. i didn't realize i liked him till the end of 8th grade when we were gonna go to different high schools. we ended up talking like everyday during the summer and going to the movies and stuff. but ever since high school started we just haven't been talking as much. i miss him a lot and i still really like him. what should i do to get him to talk to me again and possibly for us to go out???
Ok, start to open up to him more. Your in highschool now so it shouldn't be really hard to express to him that you like him. But if you are shy about it tell one of hid friends or tell somebody that you know will tell him. It is ok to miss him. But he also may just be adjusting to highschool and everyhting so don't take it really personal. Understand if he doesn't like you as much as you like him. You could also start off as being his friend and then start to work your way up to his girlfriend....follow your heart.... good luck hope i helped...
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ok there is some guy that i really like a lot , let just called him jason for now,
so jason is in my two period class, and u really like him like a lot , and there were one day i was walking and he open the door for me and he was behind me walking and he said that i was really a nice girl ,and i dont know why since that day i have butterfly in my stomach and i cant stop dreaming about him ,the good thing is that he is also a good guy, he is not really cute but i dont care about his personality ,and im feeling kind of shy talking to him
any advice ,,but there is just one thing that im wondering about, our skin color he is white and i dont know if he like me
Awww... that is so sweet. Ok, well i would suggest that you find some way to express to him that you like him. And asking one of your friends to ask him if he likes you. Try and start conversation with you. I honestly don't think the color thing will make a difference. I mean he did tell you that you are a nice girl in all. I mean color shouldn't stop him or you if you like him it doesn't matter if he is not that attractive like him for who he is...... follow your heart... good luck... hope i helped....
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16/f : sorry its so long. i need help!
so over a week ago my boyfriend of 8 months broke up with me. it was random because nothing was that wrong that week. normally things use to get really ugly because i use to get frustrate because we couldnt see each other during the week and i took it out on him.
once he broke up with me he texted me right after saying it was a break for now and i believed it because he had nationals this weekend and this is something he needs to focus on cause its do or die for getting in to college. but the next day after he broke up with me i texted him bugging him by what he had meant by the break and he said that we were done but then the next day he said we werent then again the next day he said we were done again. i was confused but i know i pushed an answer out of him and i think he just wanted me to shut up but im not sure? does he really mean its over or was he just trying to get rid of me so he could focus for this weekend?
the only reason he gave me for the breakup was that his feelings faded but then the last text he sent me was im just busy and i got that. it just made it seem like things were still open and he just needed time away.
im not sure if im just making this up in my head or if we could still get back together. his regionals were this weekend and i havent talked to him in five days because everyone said i should keep away which i have. but his birthday is on thursday and im gonna say happy birthday but is that all i should say? ive been thinking myself about things and i figured some stuff out and i would like to tell him but i dont know if it would be too much or not.
Awww.... well it is very obvious that you are really into him because if you weren't you would be able to understand all the hints. You could be rite about him blowing you off to stay focused but i doubt because if that was the case he should have just told you that you would have understood. But your feelings are defenitely strong so i believe you should give it a shot. Tell him happy birthday and tell him you want another shot for you guys to be together again. Tell him how much it means to you that you guys are together. If he doesn't feel the same way understand him and support is decision. Which doesn't mean be all golly about it and just put it behind you it means just want him to be happy good luck.... hope i helped.... i think that it is still worth the possiblity it seems as if you are making excuses for him try and work things out i think you two should get back together because it is obvious that you really like him..... good luck
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13/f
how do u flirt with a guy you like...i have no idea and i really like him
wow..... ok , i am thirteen too so this shouldn't be too hard to explain to you. ok, talk to him look him in the eyes.... try and start conversation. Try and write him like little notes. Don't be afraid to tell him that you like him. I mean you should find out if he likes you. Stare at him occasionally have fun with it. Say hi to him then after a while get his phone number and don't be afraid to talk to him. good luck.... hope i helped you.....
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My first boyfriend ever dumped me a while ago and im still hungup on him.He wants to be friends and stuff so ofcourse I don't want to deny friendship.He was sick for a week and i didn't see him and i didnt forget about him but i definatly made more progress without seeing him and talking to him. (except one of the days he was gone,he had Imed me on the computer).But today,after 7 days he returned to school and I had to see him and all my feelings came back.I can't avoid seeing him entirely because I have a class with him and he sits right in front of me and talks to me all period.Then after class,walks me to my locker then walks me to my next class.And says hi to me at lunch.I don't want to be mean and ignore him because im still crazy for him and he's still friendly and nice to me and we get a long so good.But ofcourse since he was my boyfriend,i still like him and he obviously doesnt feel the same way about me anymore.He told me when he broke up with me that i was the first girl he's ever liked and im the most amazing girl ever...So since that..i still have hope even though it probably won't happen anymore.When we are all in a group together,i try not to talk to him but just him being there in my presence on a daily basis in class is enough for me to like him! i just want to get over him!
Yeah, i am with you on this one you need to get over him, if you don't want him bcak. I mean you seem like your stuck in between both of them. i would tell your to ask yourself is it worth asking him out again and giving it another shot. If he says no accept it but it seems like he is feeling the same way that you do just try and express the way you feel or mve on... good luck... hope i helped...
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19/f i am not allowed to date. my parents are very controlling and don't allow me to do what i want. Well there's this one guy i met. He goes to the same gym as me. He saw me at the mall and he was like I've sen you before at the gym and we started talking. He told me his name was will. well he asked for my number and said maybe one day we could work out together, and i told him i wasn't really allowed to hang out with guys, and he was like not even workout? and i told him i would be at the gym the next day. I went the next day i went to go work out and my dad came with me. ha. and i saw will there and he said hey to me and high fived me. He was there with his friend so we didn't talk much. But when i was leaving i asked him if he was coming the next day and he said he might in the evening, and i told him i might too since i had to babysit, but i didn't because it wasn't a good day for me. i said bye to him and when i turned around he smiled and i smiled too. But i think he's a lot older than me im not sure though. But yeah this guy seems really cool and i want to get to know him but there's so much stopping me. :( please help!!! cause i don't know what to do.
Your 19 like seriously your grown. your parents can't keep you shelterd all your life try talking with this guy give him you number. Get to know him. If your parents find out tell them that you won't dissappointthem but you just want to for once be the teen you never got to be. I mean they need to understand. Ask him how old he is and tell him how old you are because if you instinct is telling you that he is to old gor you i am pretty sure that he is too old for you....good luck...hope i helped....
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19/F
I've fallen hard for this boy, Taylor, since last January of '09. Last summer, we had a 'thing'...Taylor kissed me and essentially let me know that he reciprocated the feelings. However, things didn't work out because I was entering my first year of college while he was entering his senior year of high school. We were at two different places and decided what was best for us is that we did our own thing. Taylor got a girlfriend, and I began talking to other boys. However, I couldn't stop comparing them to him.
Well, February of this year, we started talking again. He broke up with his girlfriend, and I found out through his best friend that Taylor just didn't feel anything with her and that every time he talked to a girl, he compared her to me. His best friend continued to tell me that Taylor was still in love with me. But (I know this is weird) I saw on Facebook that he was always talking to this girl from work and it got me jealous. I never did anything to confront him or scare him away. After all, we weren't dating. He took me out on a date and ended up kissing me and making moves to basically show that he still had feelings.
He ended up getting real drunk and making out with some girl. He doesn't remember the night. We had a talk and I legitimately believe that...I mean, it doesn't take away the hurt but I've been there and understand. However, this led to a talk about "us", and from what he said, all I can gather is that "he doesn't know where he's at" and "he's in love with me but he wants to try being single for awhile" (he's always had a girlfriend). I called bullshit and he asked me what I wanted, I said I wanted to be with him but what was best for me was to not talk to him until I got my feelings together...he was really upset about this. But today I found out that he's trying to decide between me and the girl from work...me = long lasting relationship, someone who cares, a nice girl...her = a short term fling, really hot but no depth...
Basically, I just don't understand why he would take me out and do all of those nice things when he didn't want anything out of it...he said in the future if he wants a relationship, he wants one with me but I don't want to be the stupid girl that waits. All of his guy friends are telling me he's going through a "phase" but I feel like that's an excuse. I'm tired of feeling like Im not worth the risk. But at the same time, I have never ever ever felt this way for anybody. I really feel something with him and we have something good going on...
Ok, i think that Taylor is just not a one girl type of guy. I mean everybody makes mistakes and the whole getting drunl thing sounds like a mistake. But i honestly think if he loves you the way he says that he does he wouldn't even be condisering going out with the girl from work. It is obvious that you love him too so this means that you should try to work it out. But you are having a lot of doubts which means maybe it is not meant to be. Things happen for a reason if it is meant to be it will most likely happen. Do what you heart tells you to do. Try and work it out... Good luck... hope i helped...
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Me and my bf have been broken up for almost 6 weeks and its still taking a lot for me to get over.He wasn't at school for 4 days because he had strep throat and it was good because i was starting to forget about him,but then he randomly IMed me online and began talking to me :/ and ofcourse that made me like him again.He basically brokeup with me because he didn't like me or have feelings for me any more but we had a great relationship before that day. Im almost forced to be around him because of all of our mutual friends since we conjoined friend groups when we started dating.We still get a long and are friends but i still have feelings for him ! It's so hard to avoid him ! I want to either get over him or get him back.It seems like everyone always breaks up and gets back together but i wouldn't begin to know how to do that considering we already talked about it like a week ago and he said just strictly friends for now :/ but we havent seen or talked to eachother in a week (besides the day he IMed me online just to chat) so maybe the next time we see eachother it will change things.help!!
I think that you should tell him that you want to try and give it another shot. If he doesn't want to then accept what he has to say and tell him that you want to be his friend too. Do you feel like you guys had a great realationship while going out? or no? Also if he doesn't want to get back together you should try and move on. I would say hook up with someone but test the waters a little lirting wouldn'e kill you. It will also test if he wants to get back with you...... good luck really hope i helped...
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Thanks for answering my question but I forgot to add details to it. She also cheated on me but she always broke up w| me to go with this other guy. I know what she did is wrong, but I can't let her go. I want to fight for her love. But I'm unsure if she feels the same. I'm trying to give her time before we talk again & well I can't stop thinking about' her. Feels like am living in this crazy nightmare.
Wow, that's deep i mean since you love her so much want whats best for her. express how you feel and if she rejects you she doesn't deserve you. At first it will be hard but finally you will move on. She's into the other guy and happy and even though she is not with you, you want her to be happy because you love her. Please try to fight for your love but if she doesn't feel the same why try and move on
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Well there's this girl I love, she cheated on me while she's away & despite what she did I still love her & miss her & want her back. Should I fight for her love ? What should I do ?
You must really love her if you are wanting her back after what she did. So this means that you should give her another shot. I would also suggest telling her how you feel. It also might not be a good idea to take her back if she doesn't feel the same way. If you love her as much as you say you do then you will want the best for her and for her to be happy. It is bound to take time to get over the person that you love but i can be done.
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