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Occupation: junior in high school
Age: 16
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There are these two boys in my chemistry class who always steal my books and stuff and then hide them. It's been going on for a year now or so. They seem to like when I have to chase after them. My friend (a girl) starts going off about how they both like me whenever they do this (really loudly in front of the whole class), but I never believed her. I just thought they were jerks and had a fun time with my reaction (which is usually running after them and tugging it back) Well just yesterday my friend told me that she liked one of the boys, so do you think she was right about them liking me? Or do you think it was her way of flirting? (link)
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16/f
well the boys could like you. they might just be flirts and just like to mess with you. however what i noticed was how your friends announced to the whole class that they are flirting and that she likes one of them. it seems like she might be insecure and disappointed that he is giving you his attention instead of her. this doesn't make her a bad friend or anything, she just might be hurting and not want to admit it. of course that is only a guess and i could be wrong, but thats what it seems like to me. if you like these guys then keep flirting back, if not then i wouldn't give them the satisfaction that they want (by trying to find your books).
i hope i helped a little.
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I am a 27 year old female. Ok here goes I have a daughter who is 7 years old. And I pick her up from school everyday. But it's this gorgeous father there also who picks up his son everyday.
And for the last couple of weeks I have been seeing him. After school the parents have to wait outside of the gym to get their kids. And he is one of the parents I see everyday. And OMG he's so hot, he's so gorgeous tall and so sexy, so my type.
I don't know weather he is single. And I want to get to know him so bad I just don't have the courage at all. But I get all dolled up just to pick up my daughter from school everyday and it's because of him.
Please somebody tell me what I should do. How can I really get this guy to notice me. Should I randomly strike up some type of convo or should I stand back and hope he trys to talk to me one day.
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look for a ring, if there is no ring then you are good to go girl.
i would stand by him and maybe make small talk like asking who he is picking up? or whether he is going to watch the t-ball game or something like that.
small talk opens big doors.
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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.
I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?
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oh my goodness. i feel for you. i do. if i were you this is what i should do. it might be hard, but its better then not being with him ever again. . . i would sit him down, make sure he has al of your attention, and calmly ask him about facebook and that you don't like hiding secrets. it might not be bad, he could be asking people advice on faceobok or something like that. i wouldn't automaticly jumped to the conclusion that its bad. however it might be, i would talk to him. . . tell him that you want to be in an open honest relationship and that lieing its going to cut it. tell him that you arent going to put up with lies and that you need him to come out and tell you what hes saying. you dont want to seem controling, yet you dont want to let him walk all over you.
i hope this helps.
keep me updated, i want to know how he reacted.
i hope everything works out for you two.
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mariah
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My girlfriend and I as of 11 months July27, are having an issue. There's this guy I CANT STAND. He's done a lot of things I can't stand him for, (they went out a long time ago for one) I know thats a stupid reason to dislike him and I guess I dont really hate him for it. It just makes me feel iffy but anyway, I was having a convo with him one day and he started calling me a "fucking retard" jokingly, I explained to him that it bothers me a lot and to please not do that because I have a 19 year old sister to whom is mentally challenged and its mean to speak of people with disabilities as a joke. After I explained all that to him he told me "get over it you big baby" and started laughing, we got in a fight and basically I want to kick his ass.. Hes always "harmlessly" trying to flirt with her. I trust her 100% I swear on my life I love her like no other. I just cant stand him. He also tried to "nibble" her neck while her and I were going out for 2 months. Is it to much for me to ask for her to just stop talking to him? I asked her not to and she keeps talking to him and he she says that im wrong for not trying to talk to him
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ok so im a girl and ive kind of been in a situation like this before. i dont know your gf personally but from a girls point of view she might think that you would come off as controlling if you asked her not to talk to him. . . girls dont like controlling guys (usually). but that doesnt mean that this should still go on. you should calmly talk to her and tel her that it bothers you. she really should understand that you are hurt by this and that she should (on her own) stop talking to him. she might get defensive since they are friends and say "oh well you dont even trust me" then you can tell her that you trust her, you just dont trust him with her.
this is a tough situation and im sorry for that. i hope everything works out for teh best.
also i love the fact that you stick up for your sister. its an honorable thing! :)
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how do you know that a guy is the one for you. the one you're going to marry and spend the rest of your life with? how can you tell? and how young can you be to know? (link)
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i believe its when you can look at another guy and just not even care because you know you are 100% happy with the guy you are with now.
if you are thinking about another guy at all then maybe you arent sure. im not saying break up if you are thinking about another guy. your feelings with this guy might grow more the more you are with him.
but you dont question yourself wwhen you know. you just do.
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Were are some places I can go with my boyfriend. My mom said just to tell her wen we wanted to see each other so where should we go? And I'm only 13, 14 in October but where can we go? And don't be like the movies dinner ect. Sum places we can go with friends with us too!!
And also how do I sugget to my friends to go with us? This makes me sound super dumb but yeahhh./. Thanks and I'll rate after at least two or three people answer and yepp!! (link)
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lazertagging, amusement park, bowling,fair, chill at his house and watch movies, starbucks,
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ok so my bf and i r going out and i went to his house yesterday we started making out and one thing lead to another and he took off my shirt and bra.we continued making out but i eventually put my clothes back on after like 3 minutes. I'm only 14 and a female and i feel like I'm a slut because we've only been going out for 3 weeks. he said that he loved me and he always talks about the future in like years but i don't know what to think. am i slut? (link)
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16/f
hes not a stranger, so i dont think it sounds slutty. i wouldnt let it get much farther than that though until at least 6 months. but you guys are dating and you shouldnt stick to hugging for forever.
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well my fiance was arrested when i was five months pregnant with our child ,,he has been for one and a half year now i have currently been talking to someone for about three months now and i really am feeling for him should i try a relationship out with him? i still love my fiance but i have needs,emotionally and physically what should i do? (link)
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alright. so tough situation.
but not to offend you but if its your fiance, the minute you say you will marry them means that you do not want to see or talk to another guy. you should be 100% devoted to them. if you cant be then wait until you can talk to him face to face, end it, then continue talking to the guy you are talking to now.
technically its cheating if you do more than talk, and not many people think thats alright. i think the right thing would be to get your emotions in handle first (decide who you want to be with). then end it with the one you do not want to be DEVOTED to.
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I'm really sorry if this is long but i got no one else to help me..
Okay well at work there's this guy im 18 he's 21 he has a gf they've been together for about 5 months? but his gf treats him really bad she swears at him and so forth it's pretty bad but yet he's still with her,he flirts me with me examples: he'll tell me im cute or pretty and we always joke around,and for my birthday he offered to drop me off i said okay and then we hugged and it went for like 3 minutes it was pretty long anyways he's so nice i think i like him though i texted him saying that i think this whole flirting thing has gotta stop because you have a gf and i dont wanna fall for you and end up empty handed and i dont wanna stop talking,he didn't reply to my msg at all then when i saw him at work he wouldnt even talk to me or nothing and then on sat i saw him i asked how long are you gonna ignore me for ? he just shrugged his shoudlers i said i was sorry i didnt mean to send it i was kinda forced (which i was) and he just asked who i said my friend he goes alright thats it and then today i saw him he didnt even talk to me at all what do i do what does this mean please help. (link)
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well ive kind of been in a situation like that. i finally gave up and respected his space and that he was ina relationship adn that i shouldnt interfere with what wasn't my business.
fortunatly things works to my benefit and he broke up with his gf and we dated. maybe the same thing will happen to you.
but you should respect him in the fact that hes in a relationship, if he didn't want to be then he will get out.
i hope things work out for you.
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kinda long!!
Hey guys, im 18/f and the guy i like is 17. Okay well last year right after my birthday he texts me.. Of course i didnt know who it was and everything, but i knew who he was. I was a senior and he was a sophomore. Well we started texting and even hung out a few times.. I started to really like him. I just broke up with my boyfriend of almost three years when me and him started "talking." We had sex a few times and I just really liked him. Well i fell for my ex again and got back together. Me and my ex are now apart again and me and Ky started talking again.
I messed up; I wanted to hang out this past weekend and told him to text me if he wasnt gonna do anything. Well I find out he went to taco bell with his friend and a girl he use to talk too just a few months ago. I got mad and texted him and told him to have fun with her. Soo we're in a fight. Hes real short with me when texting and doesnt call me babe anymore. I just asked him "we're not talking anymore huh?" and he says "idk" and yesterday his guy friends asked him if we were and he said "a little."
I dont know what to even do. I said sorry for doing it, and he said its okay, but hes still acting like this. I only texted him once yesterday to tell him good luck at his baseball game, and he told me it was canceled so i said oh well i gotta go bye" im trying not to bug him, but im scared hes talking to someone else already.
Should I just end it? Or just wait and let him text me? please help :\ (link)
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this is my guess, but maybe he saw that you went back to your ex and he got turned off by that. maybe he thought that if he were to go out with you, then you could leave him easily. guys dont like it if you are talking to any other guys when you are "talking" to them. so maybe he just isnt interested any more and his feelings are hurt. he might need time to get over it.
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14/f
ok im the one that posted this question:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=553503
basics:
never had a boyfriend.
pretty chubby(working on it).
my friends say im pretty.
not popular.
shy/quiet unless you get to know me.
please read the question i provided in the link above, if you dont know what im talking about.
please, please, please read it.
im desperate.
recent update:
a few weeks ago we were talking on the phone and i was like i really wanna go to the movies and he was like we should go like not this weekend but the next.
we never did.
i like him so much.
but i dont want to give up.
but im always the one who calls him.
and like whenever i hear his name my stomach drops, i blush, my heart beats fater, and i can i hardly breathe. i think about hime everyday.
and the from the last time i saw him, i look way different in a good way and he doesnt know that.
what do i do and why do i feel that way?
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you should let him make the next move. stop chasing him and play hard to get = ).
you should bring up the movies thing and make it casual the first time you do something out side of school (as a date.)
bring some of your friends and tell him to bring some of his. then you two sit by each other, then let things take their course. let him make the next move.
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15 female.
okay, so i have a huge crush on my best guy friend, and he knows it. me and him are really chill with each other also, were very open with eachother. (hes 17 btw and ive known him since i was 12, and ever since then we've been really tight) sooo heres the thing:
he always tells me how gorgeous and sexy i am,
and he says he likes me but he doesnt want a gf right now, and i was like thats str8 okay i don mind being jus his friend.. but the thing is..
everytime me and him chill we end up kissing or doing something. and hes gone pretty much the whole way except sex, and hes always telling me how he wants to have sex with me and all that stuff and how like awesome it would be and etc.
and even though i want to, i havent let him.
i just dont know if i should.
cause i wanna be with him as bf and gf, but idk how to do tht. and also idk if i should continue messing around with him or stop and just be normal friends? PLEASE HELP!!
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it sounds like he is trying to use you.
its ok to mess around but not intill you guys make it offical,
thats cool that you guys can be honest and everything. you should talk to him and see why he doesnt think that you to should go out. make sure you guys go out so that way he cant hurt you.
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ok well me and my boyfriend just broke up, we went out for about 5 months.
but anyway, i am still not over him.
and what helps me the most to get over a guys is to listen to music and get my emotions out with the words of the song.
so i was wondering if anyone has any good sad\love songs for me to listen to.
i am into about any kind of music,
so plz give me some ideas!!!!
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i know what you mean. music helps me too,
i dont have many but these are what i listen too:
1.) so long goodbye - sum41
2.) here without you - three doors down
3.) on my own - threedaysgrace
4.) your guardian angel - redjumpsuitapparatus
5.) everything im not - the veronicas
6.) behind these hazel eyes - kelly clarkson
7.) time of dying - threedaysgrace
8.) breath - breaking benjamin
9.) learning to fall - boyslikegirls
9.) what about now - chris daughtry
10.)gone forever - threedaysgrace
i say your best band to listen to is threedaysgrace ( onex album )
i hope you feel better.
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pinkcherries
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I've been goin out with my amazing girl for bout 5 months, I absolutely love her! :) I'm 18/m
We've been kinda teasin each other, like when either of us showers, well text "oooo have fun" and shell ask "r u naked? ;)" lol, and other stuff like that...
How do I kinda 'spice things up', without her thinkin im a perv? :p
Oh, and she doesn't like to make out, so, is there something else we can do, as a sort of 'substitute' if you will...? (link)
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you could kiss her neck and play with her hair
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this guy i like asked me out the 3rd day that school was out and i said yes but he told me not to tell any one but i did. He is telling every one that we are not going out but we are and no one but my friends beleive me. He calls me and tells me to tell every one that we arent going out untill school starts. So school started and he has been not listening to be and not talking to me. I still have feelings for this guy but i dont know what t do now. (link)
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if i guy doesn't want people to know then he is NOT worth your time.
if i guy and girl go out that means that you want to tell the world that you are going out, not lye to people about it.
but if you are realy into him then talk to him about it.
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Ok, so I'm 16/m...
Yesterday I went to the movies with this girl I like. We were flirting and I'm 99.9% sure that she likes me. We've hung out a few times before and I was wondering if I should just ask her out already, or hang out with her again...
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you should ask her out
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15/f. this might be long...
So I guess starting last summer I started talking to this guy lets say R. We didn't talk like to get together but just as friends. But we dont go to school together. I met him because I went out with his brother. So after a while I told him I liked him, but nothin ever happened. He would come to my house a couple times over this course. Well now I really really care for him. Like i love him to death but I dont want him to know like I dont wanna mess up our relationship. But I can tell he knows it. Oh and hes 17 though. He's a junior but he has a girlfriend that's a senoir. Me and her are cool and all. Like she invited me to one of her parties I went it was all good. But like I love him, and it really sucks that they are together. But we were talking one night and she called him, lets called her B. And she was pissed about him talkin to to many girls but he told her he only talks to her and me and that pissed her off that he said me. But it kills me inside cause I just dont want them to be together I want them to break up and shit. I mean like next year they probably wont be together sicne shes going to college or something but I want him now! And this weekend they went to prom together and today her parents are meeting his, he's never done this with any other girl. Its scaring my that they are getting really serious. Its killing me in side to not think about him this weekend. What can I do to get him.. I really need help. (link)
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easy solution
let him live his life
obviously if he felt the same way he would be going out with you. He has a girlfriend and he sounds happy so just leave them alone. If you really loved him you would want him to be happy, whatever it takes.
please let them live their lives!!!!
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INLOVE?????
There's a difference between lust,like,love,and inlove.
Well I have 2 questions.
Is it possible to TRULY be in love at 14/15?
And 2......
HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOU ARE IN LOVE???????
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i believe that you can be in love at 14 and 15... but sometimes a lot of people with boyfriends just think that they are in love because thats what they want to here. And you know that you are in love when you want to spend the rest of your life with this person. If they are sick you would fly to China and get them the right medicine ( if you have the money of course). Or if you want to see this person's face every waking moment of your life.
thats what love is. And if you think that you are in love you would have ABSOLUTULY no doubt in your mind if that is what you are feeling,
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I hate asking for advice but I feel I need to, Ok so I started daiting this year and I have had my fare share of b/f's. All of my b/f's want me to have sex and im not ready I had things happen to me when I as little and its just well I still havent gotton over it. I keep getting dumped because I wont go passed making out.
What should I do? (link)
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i understand how you feel.
but if a guy really loves you and cares about you then he wouldn't rush you and he would wait intill you feel comfortable.
Guys may say that they love you but saying something and showing it are two totally different things.
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would you rather love a loser or lose a lover and why? (link)
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love a loser
because you should never judge people and if you love someone you would never want to see them go. i would never want to lose alover
so why not love then lose right?
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