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Boys =/ He has a girlfriend but I want him anyway!
I'm really sorry if this is long but i got no one else to help me..
Okay well at work there's this guy im 18 he's 21 he has a gf they've been together for about 5 months? but his gf treats him really bad she swears at him and so forth it's pretty bad but yet he's still with her,he flirts me with me examples: he'll tell me im cute or pretty and we always joke around,and for my birthday he offered to drop me off i said okay and then we hugged and it went for like 3 minutes it was pretty long anyways he's so nice i think i like him though i texted him saying that i think this whole flirting thing has gotta stop because you have a gf and i dont wanna fall for you and end up empty handed and i dont wanna stop talking,he didn't reply to my msg at all then when i saw him at work he wouldnt even talk to me or nothing and then on sat i saw him i asked how long are you gonna ignore me for ? he just shrugged his shoudlers i said i was sorry i didnt mean to send it i was kinda forced (which i was) and he just asked who i said my friend he goes alright thats it and then today i saw him he didnt even talk to me at all what do i do what does this mean please help.
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Leave him alone. He may well have feelings for you but he has a girlfriend. You did the right thing by telling him the flirting had to stop and he's doing the right thing by steering clear for the time being.
Maybe when things cool off you will be able to be friends with this guy, sans the flirting. And maybe he will break up with his girlfriend and you'll be in with a shot but unless that happens, don't mess with him. It isn't fair to anyone involved, not least his girlfriend.
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I agree with all the previous comments obvously the girlfriend is doing something right, or else he wouldn't be with her.
and also sometimes guys just want too flirt vacause it's fun but usually girls take it the wrong way and they don't wantoo lead you any further so they avoid talkin to you,
trust me I have alot of brothers and flirting doesn't mean they will leave their girlfriend for you
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Let him be...how would you feel if you had a boyfriend and some other girl was trying to steal him away from you? And how do you think he feels being put in that kind of situation? If he doesn't want that girl as a girlfriend, then he can take care of it by himself. He's a big boy, you don't need to control his life to benefit yourself, that's just selfish. Goodluck.
-Jess
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well ive kind of been in a situation like that. i finally gave up and respected his space and that he was ina relationship adn that i shouldnt interfere with what wasn't my business.
fortunatly things works to my benefit and he broke up with his gf and we dated. maybe the same thing will happen to you.
but you should respect him in the fact that hes in a relationship, if he didn't want to be then he will get out.
i hope things work out for you.
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