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Hello im piglet aka katie/kate

I though if i tell you abit about myself then you mite feel more comftable talking to me and asking me questions ........

im 18yr's of age i like to spend alot of time with my boyfriend he's like my best mate i can tell him anythink witch i think is important i live in the uk(england)dorset i live with my nan and grandad my mum beet me up and kicked me out iv not had it easy .......

ok so iv told you abit about me.......

if you ever need advice or just someone you can talk to about anythink i will try to help you can e-mail me of if you have live messenger then add me to you's and we can chat about what's bothering you.......

you should never keep your proble's or worry's locked up no matter how big or small you should alway's find someone to talk to wether it be a family member a friend or me don't lock thing's away talk about them.......

i will always answer any questions left for me and thats a promise .......

hope to here from some of you soon
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p.s i no it says my favorite categories but you guestion dose'nt have to be any of them im here to help and i will do my best


E-mail: katie.piglet804@hotmail.co.uk
Gender: Female
Location: pool in dorset uk
Age: 18
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ok so it goes like this...me and my bf were together for 3 months. we never said "i love you" because it was always a strong saying and we wanted to make sure we meant it. well, about a week ago he up and acts different...avoids me, won't talk much so i assume he's mad at something that happened. a few days later, he broke up with me saying that he didn't want to be in a relationship because he felt like things were getting too serious and he just wants to be single and whatever. so i'm crying but accept it because hey, what choice do i have...i figured if we stay good friends, eventually he'll want to be together again. well he says he still really likes me and wants to be friends. i talked to a mutal friend and he said that one of the reasons he broke up with me was because in a note i wrote i told him i loved him and that was too strong(which isn't entirely true, cuz i end all my notes with ANYBODY with "love you!") well, since then he's called and texted me pretty much everyday, he's still always asking to hang out, he leaves funny/nice messages on my cell, and when we talk, it's always about "us" like...how he loves the way i kiss him and how he wants me to be over there with him that very minute, how i'm the only person he can carry on an actual "non boring" conversation with especially over the phone, and all this stuff he's wanting to do with me. so my question is, is there a chance we could get back together? like, did he just get scared but will quickly recover from it, or is he just trying to be nice so he won't have another bitter break-up? i'm so confused because i still really like him, and this is only making me like him even more! (link)
if you ask me i think there is a very good chance of you to getting back together and good luck to you but maybe you should talk to him about all of this or you will never no why u really broke up in the first place just talk and see how things go good luck i think you to will work this out and get back together


Hi, there's this boy that I'm really attracted to, and have a crush on. He has a crush on me too, and we're seeing each other in a couple days. My question is, what are some REALLY good things I could do like, flirting wise? I really want to turn him on and just like, want me. So what are some really good ways I could tease him, or flirt with him? Things I could say or do? Please get back to me. =) Thanks. (link)
if i was you id just be myself you wouldnt want him to think you were comeing on 2 strong sorry if this wasnt much help but good luck


Well, I just got out of a 11 month relationship with my ex but were just friends now...but I'm attracted to this guy named johnny... we flirt a lot and everything.... I want to call him but I don't know what to say... I don't want to date him or anything....(yet)but I would like to get to know him better... but how do I get him to notice me, should I call him, what do I say...... (link)
just call him up girl ask him if he wants to hang out go see a film or somethink that the only way your goin to get to no him is if you ring him so get on the phone and ask him f he wants to do anythink go for it what have you got to lose good luck


i have a confusing situation, so this might be long. first of all, i have a boyfriend of almost two years and i love him a lot. things are great, and i could see myself with him forever. but i have a problem.. i've known this other guy for six years, and he was basically my first love. things happened, and we lost touch and grew apart. a few months ago, he came back into my life and we still love each other. now this might seem like every other love triangle, but the twist is that the other guy (not my boyfriend) knows me from the internet, and we've never met. so i need advice on who i should choose? should i stay with my boyfriend and leave it at that, or leave him and be with the other guy? don't say that the last idea is crazy just because i haven't met the guy, we've talked on the phone and we've had YEARS of history together. what do you guys think? (link)
well im not gona tell you what to do im gona tell you what i would do and i hope it helps first off the reason im not gona tell you wwhat to do is because only you can make up your mind and only you no how you feel about these to boys so this is what i would do ....................
i would stick with my boyfriend you say you love him and things are going great so why spolly it for someone eals but do stay in touch with the internet boy but just be shaw the boy on the internet is who he says he is ok good luck


ok......... i am 13 years old and i am in the 8th grade i like this 12 year old boy in the seventh i was going to 6th period and i seen him and i dont know what was wrong with me but somthing came over me and i grabbed his butt he started looking around and was saying all kinds of stuff i hurried to class but he figured out it was me and after the 7th period bell rung i got on the bus and i sat in the back he was in the last seat and he started to say i was a rapist and i had an std and all kinds of stuff he even got up and sat in the front and was going crazy and when the bus came to his stop he ran out of the door and down the street!!!! wow i really need him to trust me again plez help me i seriously dont kow what to do (link)
well its not you thas got the problem its him i think he needs to grow up ALOT going round calling people a rapist could get him in to very big troble i think maybe you should just forget about him and let him get on with his stupid little bad mouthing if his bad mouthing dose get worse then i think you should tell somone maybe a teacher or your mum or even a friends mum good luck hope it sorts its self out


i dont know what to get my bf [of 5-6 months at the time] for christmas. hes not into sports but he likes music and plays guitar.
soo i was thinking one of these 2 ideas:
1- ipod nano [which hes mentioned he wanted] and maybe some guitar strings if i can get them.
or 2 - Guitar Hero 2 [which he's also said he wanted] and a Fender hoodie or shirt.

im mostly thinking the 1st one but id like opinions. were both 16 hes fixin to be 17.

and as far as money is concerned, hes talkin about gettin me a $300-$400 ring, so yeah! were splurging. thx! :) (link)
i think you should go with the ipod nano my bf got 1 and heloves it and when ever i by my bf a birthday or christmas gift i alway by him a bottle of aftershave that gose down well good luck have a grate christmas


I did something a couple of months ago that at the time I thought I did the right thing but now I'm regretting it. Well basically what happened is the man I was in love with who I thought loved me back dumped me very cruelly. I told him that I wouldn't have an affair; or get invovled sexually with him as long as he was married. Instead of respecting my decision he told me he wanted nothing to do with me. The reason I thought he did want to be with me is because he kept asking me if I wanted children and that I'd be a great mom and he had never had kids. I also knew he was really unhappy with his wife. I thought he loved me and he obviously was leading me on and just telling me what I wanted to hear so eventually I would sleep with him. I guess I just need someone to tell me that I did the right thing because I've been feeling so down about this. (link)
well whats done id done but i think this man just played on your feels witch was rong of him so your not the one to blame so i woodnt worry to much about it xxx


ok it`s my boyfriends birthday on november 24th.i really wanna get him an awesome gift because he does so much for me and he means the world to me.im 13/f and ill prolly have about $20.thanks a ton.=] (link)
well you must no what sort of things her likes so try geting somethink on ebay you can get some really good bargins sorry if im not much help xxx


Ok im 14/m and im in grade 9. Theres a girl I like whos in my class i dont know if she likes me or not. She always walks over to me and starts a conversation with me and other people say that shes all over me. I dont think she likes me because she always changes the subject when I ask for her msn or number. If she liked me wouldnt she have given me it? Do you think she likes me? (link)
she mite be playing hard to get or maybe she likes you to but thinks you dont like her but then she nite just want to be firends the best thing to do is ask her if she wood like to meet up some time goo see a film or somethink or just hang out and see how things go and maybe tryto talk to her about it good luck


hey! thanks for answering my question about getting back togehter with my ex. bf. but i was just wondering...i did talk to him about how i felt and he said he still has feeling for me too...but things kinda got weird after that...we dont know what to do or how to get back together thats why i want to get him back and keep him, but i dont knw what to do first? any suggestions??? (link)
well youv talked thats good you should start going out places together and doing things together wether its just hanging out or going to watch a film go for a meal then see how things go and just make a move maybe a kiss good night would do for starters then see what he says about the kiss and just get back together but take things slow at first you dont want to rush things but dont let him walk over you your not a door mat no women is and dont you ever forget that no matter who your woith never let them walk over you if you do get back with the man you want after youv taken things slow and you feel things are goind good for you to then move then up a step maybe in the bedroom department if youv ever had sex befor but if you havent dont worry there are lots more you can do but dont be pushed into have sex if youv not had it befor but always make shaw you talk even when you get back together always talk about how your feeling my bf is not just my bf hes my best friend to u can tell him anythink good luck i think you will get back together i wish you all the best email me anytime if you want to chat or ask me anythink (katie.pglet804@hotmail.co.uk)


Ok ive made up my mind! i want to get back togehther with my b.f...he told me he still had feelings for me and i have them for him, but i dunno i want it to last this time....even if its not full proof....tell me what i should and not do to get him back...tell me the steps and things i should do to really get him back...THANKS! (link)
this may not be much help but all you can do is tell him how you feel there is step by step of things you should do or not do because everyone is different so just talk to about how you good luck hope it gose well for you


14/f


RAWR. my brother was on the phone with the kid i like.. & my brother goes "My sister likes you!"

I was like mortified..

I see him friday...& hes comin to my party..
What do i do!? Do I say something to him? (link)
don't worry just be you'r self and if the lad says anythink to you about it just say why are you intrested and laff and just see what he says if he says no just stay cool and say o well you'r loss you dont no what you'r missing out on

GOOD LUCK


What are some things guys do when they like a girl? Not like what they do to their girlfriend, but what they do to flirt with someone they like and want to notice them. Also, what do guys really like in girls. (Answer truthfully please)

Thanks in advance. (link)
guys all have differnt taest in girls but just be yourself guys tend to make it clear by doing alsorts of thing like showing off giving you alot of eye contact little things you will pick up on so keep a look out for them little things ok


How far have you gone for your other half, I am not asking what you are willing to do, I am asking what have you done for him or for her. Like surprises, money spent, romantic places or trips. (link)
well iv spent alot of money on my boyfriend and iv done alot for him as he has for me but is not about how much u can or cnt spend on him/her it always the though that counts and just being there for that purson when they need you most good luck with what ever it is you tryin 2 do x x x


me and my boyfriend have been dating for like 3 years and well latly if feels like he doent want oto be with me. like if we get a chance to be alone or just us he always has someone come over or somehting and early in the week i asked him to come over for the day on sat. and he said he'd think about it now is going to pplay football and im so mad at him and i was so upset last night i jsut dont know what to do. and with trying to talk to him i dont know what ot say. please help. (link)
well its not much but uv been together 3yr just tell him how you feel and whats makeing you feel that way but sometimes people grow apart friends, family, boyfriend and girlfriends its just the way life is sometimes crap i no but i think you jst need to talk godd luck x x x
let me no how u get on katie.piglet804@hotmail.co.uk


I am currently "going out" with a 6th grader and I am an 8th grader. I normally like taller guys, but hes shorter. and hes really sweet.cute. and i like him a lot. but im so self concious and i worry too much about what other people think
is it too weird?
please give me honest opinions. (link)
o dont think it matters at all that hes a 6th grader and your an 8th aslong as your happy then why should you care what other people think if anyone says anythink just say year but im happy good luck with it all if youd like to talk more e.mail me or iv got msn messanger if u wana talk any time bout anythink big or small

katie.piglet804@hotmail.co.uk


15/m/Missouri
I still really like my exgirlfriend- my nextdoor neighbor whose a very religious girl- but I think she deserves way better than me. Like, once she was at my house helping look after my lil sister. When my sis was in bed I started messing around with her and pulled her down on top of me when I was laying on the couch. To put it bluntly, I was horny and started pressing my cock into her genitals. I also nearly took off her bra, but she stopped me. She deserves someone that will respect her more than that. It makes me look bad that I nearly violated her. But you know what makes me look worse? What happened with one of my other girl friends. We were making out of her bed and she was topless. I was grabbing her boobs and rubbing them and she wasn't gonna stop me. She even had her hand down the back of my pants. Well, I made myself quit because my ex was on the back of my mind the whole time. I like that my ex was bold enough to stop me. She's got morals. But my friend obviously doesn't. I want to be better. I want to raise my grades and behave better and control my temper etc so maybe someday I'll actually be worthy of going out with my ex again. But by then she'll probably have moved on. It sucks to want her so bad and know that I can't have her. I'd like to go out with other girls, one in particular, but I'm not sure if it's a good idea. My ex and I broke up because I went away for the summer... Her brother convinced her I was cheating on her, but I wasn't... She knows that now and we're "just friends". Is that how it should stay? (link)
well i see what your saying i think you should talk to this girl about how your feeling that you dont want to push her + u respect her + her religon try to prove to her how much she means to you like i take it she nos your doing things with other well you need to stop that i think you should show her its not all about sex + foreplay you need to show her you cear like ask her round to watch a d.v.d but dont come on to her at all leave it up to her but talk with her good luck hope it works out for you


16/f

ok so this has never happened to me... I'm not one to act like this AT ALL.

I have the most amazing boyfriend(17) ever. He is perfect for me in every way.

I think about him every second of the day and at night.. I stay up for 2-3 hours thinking about him. Whenever I don't see him for a few days I miss him so much I cry (sad, I know).

Sometimes he'll drive across town just to see me for 10 minutes then, 1 minute after he leaves he'll call me just to tell me he misses me.

Every time I'm with him everything seems to fit just right (like a puzzle, he says). We are so comfortable with eachother it's unreal. I feel like I've known him forever even though we've only been dating a few months.
(he told me he feels the same about me)


What's going on with me? I feel like I'm going crazy! (link)
well im happy for you i think youv just found your first love + its going well for you dont worry just be happy + good luck x x x


I love Matt.We have been together for 4 years. Were both 22 years old.He is my love,my life, literally.We had a child together 2 years ago and gave him up for adoption right after i had him.I chose not to see his face after i gave birth for i might want to keep him.I did this because i know that i couldnt afford a child and i didnt want to put him through tough times.We found the perfect family and he is theirs now.We never told anybody about this and now its starting to bother me.im not getting into detail but Matt has decided that he feels married and doesnt want me anymore.Do you know how bad it hurts to hear that from someone that you would take your life for? Our house got raided by the swat team for marijuana and Matt is getting sentenced on 10/20/06. Im scared that he is trying to get rid of me before this happens.And his friends have no respect for me.They all diss women and make me feel like a piece of crap.Im deeply depressed and i am afraid that i need help.All i want is matt.I cant eat, sleep, barely talk.I have no strive for life.He says im holding him back!from what? HE IS A FELON.He cant really do ANYTHING.I just gave him 1200 cash in september for his birthday so he could buy the sr20det engine from Japan.I love him so much.I need help before i hurt someone.Everyone says,Jes you can do better you dont deserve to be called retarted,stupid,annoying,dumb,idiot,etc.from the love of my life.He keeps kicking me out of the house and i just cant leave.Now he is going to buy a half a million dollar house with the guys that put me down.How can someone fall out of love like that.Our sex life is great.He wont ever get better than me(and i say that because i know that im his"fit")alright im done.THanks (link)
hiya jess i understand that matt is the love of my life iv only been with my boyfriend for 2years + thats along time to me my boyfriend had a bike crash in april this year + he almost died i swar if he died i would kill myself but he live + doin well he cant walk but i still love him the same i think you are very depressed witch i think you no yourself you've been through alot together i think thats why your finding it hard to let go even tho deep down you no the best thihg to do would be to let go think if you still had your little boy you would have walked out along time ago for the sake of your baby i dnt no if any of this will help but stay strong if u would like to e.mail me my address is katie.piglet804@hotmail.co.uk good luck i wish you all the best in the end i hope you do whats right for you x x x


I have bean accepted to join the Royal Marines in July 2007 but i am not sure if i sould go, i fell in love with an amazing girl and i dont know if i can leave her. she always cries whenever i bring up the subject and she is begging me not to go. I have wanted to join for my entire life but now i am not so sure because i am scared she will not be there for me when i come back.
Please help give me your opinions. (link)
look if this is your dream then go four it but you need to tell your girlfriend how you feel about this being your dream and if u both like/love eachother that much then you can make it work good luck x




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