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What do you do when you've liked a guy for a really long time and are finally dating and you decide that you don't want to date anymore, but then after you break up with him, you like him still and now your best friend is going out with him?
Age: 13
Gender: Female (link)
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I hate to say it but girl u screwed that up. Why did you break up with him in the first place. i hope you broke up with him for a good reason because that was dumb. I would tell both your ex and your friend how you feel.
Anna
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okay so tomorow im going to this girls house, we have liked eachother for 3 yrs and are going out, i am gonna get there at like early in the morning while she is still asleep, i was going to make her breakfast in bed but she doesnt realy eat breakfast cuz she has a weak stomach. I really want to do something sweet so she wakes up to a wonderful surprise and realizes how much i care about her, any great suggestions would be nice...thank you! (link)
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well i don't know what kind of girl she is but she might not like you in her bedroom when she wakes up.because: Bad hair, morning breath, no shower, and those are just some of the reasons why she might not want you there when she wakes up.
SORRY Anna
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My problem is simple. I like this one girl "Megan" a lot. And I want to ask her to the winter dance as a date. Just, I do not think we'd go as a couple, just as friends. That's set. Just, I am a soft wimpering jelly muffin when it comes to confidence. I just don't have the nerve to do it. How can I build that up? (link)
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well maybe you could do one of those cute things like put flowers in her locker with A note that says will you go to the Winter Dance With Me.
Anna
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how do i lose my habit of being shy??? plz answer cuz im a shy ass
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I used to be the same way 13/f. and well you just have to tell yourself that you are just not going to get anywhere being shy. you only have one life to live and if you do something stupid then people are just goin to have to get over it. you should not care what other peoplke think about you. so just break loose.
Anna
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How should I ask a girl if she will go out with me? (link)
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Some people might say to write a note or ask a friend to sak her out for you but that is a bad idea because usually they will say no. I woiuld just tell it to her face.
Anna
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Well there a girl I really like and we have been awsome friends. I want to tell her the way I truly feel about her, but I don't want to make anything more akward then they are, and ruin our friendship. It already came close to being decimated, and so whats the best way to let it out. (link)
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Well I always see people with the friend thing but want more problem, as I call it. I think that you just need to tell her how you feel, if you guys are friends then it should be easy. If she says she dosen't feel the same way then you just will have to get over it. sometimes knowing someone that long just won't work out. but other times it does. Well these friend things can get confussing bet i hope I helped a little.
Anna
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ok hey, question for the girls. How would you feel if your boyfriend did something like this for you on Xmas. (by the way i am the male not the female lol) I get 2 roses, and put each in their own wrapped box. Ill say "when this rose dries up and dies, i will love you more," then give her the box and let her unwrap the first rose. then say "when this rose dries up and dies, you will love me more," then give her the box and let her open it. Then i will take a third box and say "when this rose dries up and dies, i will STOP loving you." and she will open the box, and it will be a glass rose. (for all the blondes out there, glass doesnt dry up and die ;-)) Ever. lol. what do ya think? (link)
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I am a 13/f and i think that is a great idea. She will love it. I know if my boyfriend did that I would think it was so cute.
Anna
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First of all I'm a 14 year old male. I would like to know if this girl likes me at all. Here's why I think she does: Everyday when I hang out with some of my friends, if we pass by her, for example at a football game, she'll only say Hi to me and she'll get all excited. I'm a shy kind of guy and I usually just say hi and blush. She's a popular girl and even in class when she sits on the other side of the room she'll stand up and wave and say hi. I talk to her on ICQ sometimes, but it's nothing big. Should I go up and talk to her, I mean, I do sometimes but I don't have anything to talk about. Also, She usually hangs out with older guys, would she want to talk to me? Most of the guys in my grade are immature jerks though. (link)
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I know that sometimes being the new guy in class is tough but You will get over it.Okay well if you are a shy guy then you should go slow, you said that The only thing you guys ever say to each other is hi. Well next you will have to sak her how her day was or something like that. Just keep addin gsomething to the conversation.
Anna
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I'm wondering, I'm only 14 at the moment, but girls my age seem to go for the bad guys and the biggest jerks. Why is that? I am a gentleman and I am as nice as can be and they always tell me that but why do they go for the jerks? (link)
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well first of all I am around Your age 13/f and i like a gentleman. Claerly these girls You are talking about are just to immature to realize that those jerks are just goin to treat them like shit. When you get older you will see how much it pays off to be nice. It just takes more energy to be a bad boy. Just be yourself and that one special girl will come to you, for who you are. Hope i helped
Anna
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I asked this girl out and she tells her friends to tell me that she likes me but she doesnt know if she wants to go out with me. Whats the difference? Also, she said her parents won't let her too. I'm not sure what the real thing is or not. What should I do?
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Well You should just go up to her and ask her yourself Whats the deal. She should not be getting her friends to tell you how she feels. Only she can tell you how she really feels about you. Good Luck.
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Well, I started going out with this girl since Friday, right? I really like her, and she really likes me, but I can't seem to know what to say because I'm sitting at her table with all of her friends at lunch now. I can't really relate to her friends, girls OR guys. Today was the first day I sat at her table though, and I held her in my arms during lunch after we ate our food. I didn't speak much to anyone, even my girlfriend. I said I was sorry I didn't talk today too much because I was tired. Any suggestions on what I should do? I'm sort of a video gamer, and she and her friends aren't, so I'm not sure what to say to her sometimes at lunch or to her friends. Please, any suggestions on what to say, do when I'm around her, and say around her and her friends? Sorry this was a long post, but I really need help on this one. I'm 15/M, and she's 14/F.
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You should just stay calm aroud her and be your self. don't change for her friends. If you are a quiet person then you should just listen. maybe you could learn about what they are talkin about at lunch and maybe you could relate to some of it. Don't forget The whole reason she went out with you is because she likes you for who you are. You should not have to change yourself. Good Luck.
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I got a g/f! Thanx 4 all ur support everyone! :D
But, 2 more questions, how do I keep her? How can I make her happy? (link)
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Well first congradulations. And if you want to eep her then just be your self. and I know this a really gay thing to say but treat others the way you would want to be treated. if she really likes you then you should have no problem.
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are guys supose to shave down there or not? if yes.. like completely? (link)
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it is completley up to u some guys do and some don't if you want to go for it but there is an equal amount of girls how like it shaved down there, and girls that don't.
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simple question, long story behind it, but i want to know, what do girls want in guys? (link)
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Simle answer: what girls look for in guys is for them to just be themselves, and you got it. And whatever your long story is good luck
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i'm a guy, 14 yrs. old. here's my dilemma. this girl has a boyfriend right, and everyday in class we hug and talk till class starts. she doesn't even act like she has one. my question is what do i do now, i'm totally clueless. (link)
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well clearly she is a big flirt and I know alot of people that flirt when they have a boyfriend or girlfriend and sometimes they just can't help it, it is just their personality. But maybe she looks at you as a good friend
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ok i am signed up for advicenator but i never thought that id need advice myself theres this girl and everytime i see her my stomach feels really weird and i feel like i want to be around her for a long time and i try to pick my words carfully but they allways come out wrong, i might as well be saying hoopiewatlenslurgin? wat the heck is wrong? im confused!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Well to answer your question, without a doubt you like her right? So you should hang out with her more and get to know her and see if she is the girl you want to be with.
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Hi everyone!
My name is Todd, and I am a 15-year-old teenager. Well, my question is whether or not I should take the next step. Let me explain.
About close to a year ago, I met this girl, Andrea, in my Freshman year, and she and I didn't date, but we were good friends. We were both the same age, but I was about a month older. Through the months, we knew more and more about each other from our last names to what candy we like.
As strange as it seems, I've never had a relationship, much less my first kiss. I am trying to see if Andrea likes me or not, but more than a friendship. Some relationships can be harsh, so I don't want to try that, but I just want to know if she has the same or at least similar feelings that I do for her.
I am always glad to be around her, and sometimes I hang around her more than some of my other friends. I've also noticed that when I am with her at lunch, she wants these other girls at the table to go away, since they're annoying, but I'm not sure if it's just because she wants to be alone with me or something, since she and I usually sit alone.
As far as hanging out goes, she and I have hung out at my home once, and we've seen each other at school. I've been trying to hang out with her more, but she has a dysfunctional family which makes it tough for us to hang out on weekends. She is also depressed, so I try to help her through it.
I have been trying to show her that I love her by telling her that I care about her, how much I do care about her, and by doing things for her, like buying her gifts or getting things for her. Whoa, lot of "her"s in that one. Well, anyway, she never freaks out, but she always smiles and sometimes nods her head up and down a little bit. She might say things like "that's nice" or "thanks", but I never really can tell if she is nervous or anxious. I remember when I told her that I did really care about her, she smiled but she kind of laughed, and she said "I'm sorry for laughing...".
So, I would like to ask if I should take the next step and try asking her out. My parents have said I shouldn't because of her family, and some of my friends have said to go for it, just because she's single.
Thanks for reading this.
Todd (link)
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you seem like u really like this girl and I know how u feel but just from a girls point of view. Well I think that if you guys are friends that it would be easy to talk to her. Like you said you comfort her when she is depressed and maybe she just dosen't see that you like her. What you need to do is just come out and just tell her how you feel and she might just as well feel the same way. Well i hoped I helped. Just go For it.
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alright so here it is. I'm going out with this girl and i had my first kiss with her and like all the rest of my kisses and i like really really really like her right and we went to the movies for a christmas date and i realized that i thought i really loved her and now i cant sleep and all i can do is think of her. And i get this feeling that ive never felt. And i want to now if this is like real love because i can see myself getting married with her and everything. (link)
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well first it depends on how old you are if u are like thirteen then you might just have really fallen for her, but it does seem that you really like her. If i were you I would tell her how you feel and see how she feels about you. She might feel the exact same way you do. Well good luck I hope everything works out for you.
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My girl and I just broke up. She wants to call me everyonce in a while to check how Im doing. I would be crushed If I found out she was with someone else. Should I keep talking to her in hopes that she might come back to me? Would it show that I am trying to make things better? (link)
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well first of all do you know why she broke up with you and if she hasn't told you then maybe u should ask her then you will find out if you should wait around for her
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