Hi, I have a question. You see, I love this girl that I have known for so long and we been together for so very long too, I know that whenever I thinks of her my heart began to pound really hard and fast. I had met her once before we dated. The more I got to know her, the more I’m in love with her and yes we are so close, it’s like her and I are the same with our taste of food, our favorites, our thoughts and even how we feels for each other.. I can say that there no other girls out there that would understand me like how she does. So like what I was saying, I met her once already and I want to see her again and this time is with her even online too. She said she’s going to come and be with me soon, but I wish that "soon" would be like the next day because I really honestly missed her every day when she’s not around me. I can say that I’m so in love with her and she’s in love with me. We are meant to be together; just I want to know how long it will take before I will see her again. Do I have to go there and be with her or should I let her have space a bit more before she come to be with me herself? What should I do?
I believe if you're that deeply in love, you should tell her. but let her know this isn't to pressure her.
tomorrow isn't guarenteed
tell her that she's just so, amazing/perfect wahtever that you couldn't go without telling her.
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Well I've been dating this guy for 2 months now. We have had sex 5 times.. but the thing is I am sexually active and he's not. Often times when I'm in the mood he's not in the mood. I can't help but think that I might not be sexually attractive or something...and I tried to exsplain to him that it bothers me and he seems to get upset and says that he's not like other guys and just doesn't enjoy sex that much.
What should I do?
Sounds like to me, he doesnt WANT sex in a relationship- he probably just had sex becuase you wanted it.. guys tend to believe "they have to " have sex when offered due to the "image" of men & sex, with the desire and need for it.
talk to him about it.
seriously.
goodluck!
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i am 17 years old and i am a women. i have a crush on one of my friends and i look at him all the time in our second hour. he is a real ladies man. i am not that pretty. he was going to come over my house today. but he cant come over on becuase he is on the wreslting team and they have states today and tomorrow. i dont know if i should have sex with him or not and just wait till marragie like i planned. so what should i do
dont change your thoughts for someone that's just a lust & a spur of the moment thing..
seriously.
your virginity is something you can never get back..
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im only 16 and iam pregnat i dont know what to do i feel like im dieing from my inside
the father of the baby want me to have an abort but i want ot have my baby and i dont know what to do is so much pressure and idont think is right to kill a little innocent baby i want to have the baby but this boy dont want to have a baby.. hes 17 and i love him but i cant do an abort.
:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:((: help me please ...
This is something you have to live with the rest of your life. If you feel it's not righ to KILL A BABY then keep it- if he raelly does love you he'll stick with you..if not, im sure you have a smaiyl that will support you thruogh the difficult times.
although its scary & you're young
just remember, you're bringing a little you into this world, another person that will make a diffrence.
[: goodluck darling.
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ok so my bf says he loves me very much and cares about me but doesnt see the point in dating me for 2 more months because we are going to break up when i move (beginning of June). we arent doing long distance because he cant do that (trust me hes shown me he cant-which hurts me so deeply i doubt you understand but anyway...) i see the point-2 more months of memories and time together. instead of 2 extra months of extreme pain everytime i see him. can someone please explain to me his point of veiw because i honestly cannot understand no matter how hard i try. thanks
firs to fall- i do understand i DID a long distance relationship and so i understand the extreme pain, wonder,and lack of trust that grows slowly inside your heart..
this should and need to be a silent breakup..
enjoy time together.. don't worry about the simple stuf..just.. cuddle..watch movies..and do FUN stuff together..and when that last day comes.. let it come..no one will need to say a word a hug and a soft i love you will hold you over.
YOU WILL CRY AND IT WILL HURT
but as FRIENDS you can laugh about all the memroies whenyou call him 2 days later at night becuase you already miss your old room.
everything happens for a reason .
you'll get through it together.
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i had sex with my boyfriend for the first time last night. before we actually started he pulled out 4 times before using a condom and im completely losing it. should i be scared? he said he didn't bust so it didnt matter...but im still paranoyed. im 3 months shy of 18 and i think thats the legal age for the day after pill but where can i send someone to get it for me and how much.
be worried- the pull out method IS NOT A METHOD- IT DOES NOT WORKKK!!!! and your chances of being pregnate and just as high as if you wouldn't have used a condom at all- go see a doctor! they wotn give the the day after pill without going to the doctor!
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Ok, so my name is Mandy and my boyfriend is Evan (not our real names). We've been going out for two years, so everyone knows we're like the "class sweethearts". But anyway...
Today in science I was flipping though my book (which stays in the desk and is used by whoever sits there each period), and on one page someone had written: "I love Evan Smith - and I'm not Mandy!" And then someone else wrote below it: "Me too! And I'm not Mandy either!"
Arggh! It made me soooo mad! So I wrote: "I love him too! and I AM Mandy!" (but then i crossed it out because I thought that sounded kinda rude, like haha I'm going out with him and you're not).
But anyway, I cant stop thinking about it. I mean, I know a lot of girls think my bf is cute and funny, and some probably have crushes on him... but they actually LOVE him?? Enough to write it in a book for anyone to see?? And what are the odds of it being two people who sit in the same seat (and MY seat, at that)? That must mean half the school is in love with him!
Now I know he really loves me, so I shouldn't let this bother me so much... but it really does. Because now I'm thinking that everyone I pass in the hall is secretly in love with my boyfriend, and behind their fake smile they're really glaring at me with jealousy. And I hate feeling so paranoid and suspicious! Ugghh.. what can I do to stop feeling so upset about this?
By taking this into consideration::
some stupid rude girls most likley KNEW you sat there,and did it, just to be bitches.
so.. don't let it bother you, at all.
seriously, don't let them win.
let them be jealous
they should be, right?
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14/f
My b/f and i have been dating for a year and about 3-4 monthes. im trying to pick a christmas present out for him. But im not sure what hell like.
I want to kind of get something like a dog tag or praying hands pendants.And a chain.
So can some one give me theyre opinion please! I am so grateful to those who answer.
Here are the links to see my choices:
http://www.limogesjewelry.com/Custom.asp?productid=9079
http://www.limogesjewelry.com/Custom.asp?productid=10025&srccd=OTC-mercpricegrabber&mr:referralID=3fe6cc08-d5ac-4cc3-8f3c-b50f74296aee
http://www.limogesjewelry.com/Custom.asp?productid=9895
http://www.seaofdiamonds.com/item.asp?invky=1624109&zmam=9874632&zmas=1&zmac=26&zmap=116-1093&id=shop
http://www.applefielddirect.com/adj_catalog.cgi?dmt=on&tt=2173&mt=11094&mm=73475&mc=F071128
http://ireligiousjewelry.com/r16352ys273223.html
http://www4.jcpenney.com/jcp/Products.aspx?deptid=11848&catid=31237&grptyp=PRD&itemid=12ae434&dep=Jewelry&pcat=Men%27s+Jewelry&cat=Sterling+Silver&refpagename=CategoryAll%252Easpx&refdeptid=11848&refcatid=30052&cmAMS_T=U3&cmAMS_C=C1&CmCatId=11848|30052
Not this exact chain,but one that is 34 inches long and cheaper.
I've got a 200$ and under price limit.
I want it to be something special and memorable,like if we break up-hell look back one day and say that girl was something special,-- that sorta thing.
I'll take ideas too!! Maybe if its under my price ill get him something to go with it.
i think thi si sthe best..
http://www.limogesjewelry.com/Custom.asp?productid=9895
then get something cute
like if yo have a joke or something
(example; my boyfriend have a joke that there's "Stars onteh cieling" [long story], anyways so i am gonna get him smoething he really wants.. + those glow-in-the dark stars that you stick too the ceiling.haha :D, sos think of osmething cute, and original)
have fun:d
oh, and if you can't think of something lese..
throw that thing in a cute box in a holiday bag..& at the bottom have a box with hotchocolate, marshmellows, a 5$ thing to go to like, a local coffe places adn stuff like that :D
remember..have fun!
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My boyfriend of a little over one month is Jewish, and I don't know how they do presents or anything. Could someone please tell me when I should give him something. Also, any advice on what would be appropriate to give him would be nice. He has a lot of stuff already, so I would like to do something cute and original but not too deep since it's only a month. Thank you!
So.. say that it would be nice to learn about Hanukkah since i'm guessing you celebrate Christmas?
as him about his traditions and such
and then exchange.
it'll be cute, and make your bond grow stronger.
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I know you girls love guys and...
I know their has been this myth going around that asian guys can't get white girls..which is not true,since I'm asian and have a white gf,but I want to know what you girls think
Question1: Would you date an asian guy? considering he has good looks and personality
Question2:Have you ever liked an asian guy?
Question3:Would you marry an asian guy?
Question4:Where does the asian guy stand among the whites,latinos and blacks?Your preference?
Example:Black>White>etc.etc
thank you
i think asians are cuteee.
i know a girl who is in love with them.
really, looks don't matter.
and if i had to choose, i'd choose white or asian.
:D i bet you're a cutie, so don't wonder to much.
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The guy I like says he has the same feelings about me. He tells me he loves me & all of that. Funny thing is he does not want a relationship. He always talks to me, is concerned with what I'm doing, basically anything a bf would do, but since I live in CA & he lives in Washington, he does not want one, yet his feelings are the same. What would you guys do?? Any advice??
my advice:
Long distance are HARD HARD HARD. and to make it work, both people havE to be FULLY dedicated to it.
since he's not.. don't push it. you'll end up getting hurt worse than just staying friends.
whats ment to be will find its way.
my mum always says that
*hug* goodluck.
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My bf and I have just started getting closer. He tells me he really loves me and I believe him. We spend so much time together. I feel comfortable with him, so when we make out I let him feel me up sometimes, but I don't what I can do back. I don't what to get too, sexual or anything, but is there anything else I can do to make it more exciting?
Lets be honest here, the reason you want ot make it more exciting is becuase you're bored.
better yet, you were bored with making out,a nd that's why the feeling started happening.
so, now you wnat to do other stuff.
everything will get boring eventualy.a nd then it progressses..
so.. don't, if you dont want to get into anything "too sexual" as yuo dsid.
since you guys really love eachother , you can wait..until later, marraige, etc.
goodluck.
(:
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Alright. I'm pretty sure I know what I need to do, but reinforcement is always nice.
So I'm in a bit of a complicated situation.
First, theres the ex. We had a terrible breakup. We are still very much in love with each other. We are probably not right for each other. She cheated. I forgave. She moved home (4 hours away) and right now we're talking but thats about it. Ive told her I want to get her back.
Second, theres the future fuckbuddy. Shes gay but openminded. She wants an ongoing relationship with me thats based almost entirely on sex. This is not a problem for me in the least, and fresh out of a harsh breakup (3 months isnt that fresh, but it was almost a 3 year relationship) she seems to be what I need right now. Shes poly and married to another woman. Her wife would know about me, and probably meet me.
Third, theres... I don't know what she is to me. We've been talking for two days. Theres already a ridiculously strong connection between us. The kind of connection that could lead to something very serious down the line.
The third girl is coming over tomorrow. Sex is a possibility. The second girl is coming over thursday. Sex is a certainty.
I'm not sure what I want to do. I don't know if I'm ready to trust someone in a serious relationship, but I think that if I pass up a chance with this girl I might seriously regret it later. But I obviously cant test things out with her and have a fuckbuddy.
I dont know. I don't know if I should take the chance of hurting and getting hurt if I'm not ready to fall in love again, because shes (the third girl)definitely going to if things keep going. It might take a while, but I think we both might be there within a few months.
I just don't know. What would you do, reader? Stick with the fuckbuddy and tell the girl its not a good time? Take a chance on a relationship when I'm still in love with my ex? I know that if I fall for someone else that will not make me fall out of love with my ex, is the thing. I don't work that way. Ive been in love with two women before. Hard to imagine for some...
Yeah. Anything helps. Just send me some advice.
fuck buddy-NODON'T!
ex- somethings arn't ment to work out.
new girl- if this connectino is REAL she will help you get past the pain,a nd to be more open minded.
why don't you AVIOD sex with this new girl? just start out slow, look int oher eyes, tell her she's beatiful, a kiss on teh forehead toward teh end, trust me.. it'll make it worth it.
any girl who wants to have sex that quick..wouldn't be worth it anyways.
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sorry if this is long but i got to say it...i need advice...okay megan...i like/liked this guy and i told him about it but he said he was gay and his best friends sister who is my friend said that i scared him, and tomorrow i was gonna ask if we could start over..im just the kinda girl that goes to the beat of her own drum..but anyways it took me like a month to get over this guy--just did like two days ago--but today he was staring at me and smiling----my cousin says that once you stop liking a guy they like you back..but anyways my horoscope for tomorrow says:
Today, you're less concerned with how you come across than the contents of your message. As long as you convey your feelings, you've accomplished your mission. If the other person rejects your behavior, they're not right for you anyway.
and my little planets affecting your horoscope thing says:
As the great communicator shifts course, prepare for another day of confusion, but luckily, the storm will settle by tomorrow when a calmer energy takes hold. If you've used your time wisely and turned within, it's a great place to move ahead from - travel freely, express your emotions and sign contracts without fear.
so my main questions:
1) what is going on in his lil noggin??
2) should i ask if we should start over??
3) are my horoscopes actually trying to tell me something??
once again sorry its so long but i just would like some awnsers....thanks
ah, boys. yuck lol!
1. let me be honest, if your asking this question, chances are.. im guessing you really dont like him.
i have a question, do you like him, or do you like him because he likes you?
2. no, if he wants you, you let him talk to you, dont get your poor heart broken, if hes that improtatn to you, he'll make a move.
3. honestly, i read my horoscopes every day, and i know that reading them makes my day better, because i go "forth " in a better mood & more positive, and they are a nice way to start your morning, but i dont believe theri true, i belive reading htem..makes you want them to be true..
don't go with the horescope..
follow your heart, your head thinks to much.
if it feels right, talk to him.
but my advice; wait for him.
(: byeee. goodluck!
& dont say sorry, i love helpign.
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coming up on our two month-versary. Both seniors in high school. I (male) was planning on placing two red roses in her locker, with a little note saying something about two roses, two months and maybe a heart of some sort. Another idea, although it may be over the top, would be placing 2 dozen roses, and saying, 2 two months, 2 roses, 2 *dozen roses :-D that might be fun because then when our 3 month comes I can really surprise her with 3, 3 dozen roses, or somthing down the road even more surprising, for example. 3 - 300 hearts!
these are just a few ideas, anything else? What have some of you girls had done for you. I like to go big, and really like bi reactions, although they would be just as pleasent with the smaller items, its the significance of the thought ;)
i agree, do 2 roses.
then you can always go up.
(: 2 dozen is alottt
a single rose would make her done, trust me.
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i need help ... what are some ways to french kiss? like what should i be doing with my tongue, what are some good things to do? what should i be doing that will make a boy think im a good kisser?
there's never such a think as to less of a tongue, to much on teh other hand.. grossss.
try not to use a lot,follow his lead..
place you hands, wherever is comfy.
there's no proper way to kiss.. so don't worry!!!
not being nervous is the best thing, and don't droll a jillion gallons of spit in his mouth, we don't want him chocking or her ? haha.
seriously though,dont owrryyyy!
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ok im 15/m. i'm really shy but i like a girl and i can't stop thinking about her. the thing is i haven't even talked to her yet. she likes someone but idk if they are going to get together. i need help on trying to be her friend and maybe a little more than her friend.. thanks
ah, this reminds me of me and my boyfriend...
my boyfriend liked me, and never told me.. but he told his friends, who told me, but it turned out..although we never talked.. i was falling for him long before his friends decided to tell me that he liked me...
point is, you never know until you try.
start saying "hello", "goodmorning"
work into conversations.
after a while of doign that,
start saying "how are you" and.. "whats wrong" if something seems ot be bothering her.
you're my age,
and i understand exactly what you're coming from
i think this is cute.
but.. seriously.just start saying things to her..
maybe try going to a place were she goes, if she plays a sport, go watch her. and so on and so forth.
maybe get the nerve to sk her to a dance?
maybe be a secret admirer (wow, im tired= i can't spell) ? those are adorable.
goodluck.
ohh,and remmeber..
you only live ONCE
so.. LIVE IT UP boyyy.
no one can promise you a tomorrow.
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So I'm dating this guy and he lives out of state,and so I was talking to his brother and his brother and him are like best friends and I know he was like a HUGE person into like drugs,so i thought it wasnt that bad becuz he was never like on them when i was talking to him,so today was the first time right? and i love this guy like a lot,more than a lot. and so he was like ok ok whatever to me and i was like i love you and he like always says i love you more but this time he was like ok whatever. so his brother gets on and tells me that his high. and that maybe what would make him stop was if me and him took a break and ireally dont want to, and so i talked to my boyfriend and his like i dont know i really need to get this drug thing over with,i really dont want to take a break but maybes its the best thing,and i dont believe it is, because like me and him have been dating for almost 3 months and me and him are always saying we love eachother and today he commented me saying i want to spend the rest of my life with you,what do i do? I dont want to take a break from me and him becuz i dont want to loose him,adive? help?
I understand wehre your comming from, TRUST ME. i do..
you need to explain to him that you lovehim, and you're doing this out of love
BUT you can't see him if he's doing drugs.
talk to him, about the danger and such
because he DOESN'T understand.
call the house a week or so when he' not home, and talk to his brother and see if he's getting better.
i had a friend named christain..
and we dated..
and he did drugs..
and wheni found uot, it broke my heart.
because. i also thought he stoped.
but he didn't..
and i went throguh teh same things you did.
i mean, it turned out he was a loser under it all
and liar and so much more.
don't get hurt darling.
much love.
goodluck.
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Can anyone tell me what love is like? Decribe it to me please.
You can't decribe it.
really, you can't.
you can't feel it.
like, try to think of how to describe happy
do words match with feelings?
not even close
when love comes, you'll know.
you just will.
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About two weeks ago, my mom was picked up for drunk driving. She got a DWI. She's being put into rehab for alcoholism. I was wondering how i can keep her from relapsing when she comes out. She's my main concern right now, and all i want to do is help. Thank you
AA meatings. do wonders. she'll absoltuly HATE them at first. but there's people there that can help.
look up their website.
it'll help her make friends, who haev similar problems.
ignore phone calls and don't give her mesasges from her drinking buddies.
she doesn't need them.
ohh and go t the meetings with her, and tell her EVERY DAY A MILION TIMES A DAY how proud you are of her, and how much of a better person she is.
spend more time with her, and make her realize how important this is to you!
is she an alchoholic? i take ti as a yes.
then do it.
pleas.e
my dad was.
he's been subber for a few years.
i know he'll enver pick up a drink again
he'll never understand how proud i am of him.
now he runs his own meeting.
AA is EVERYWHERE and they open their doors to anyone.
she just has to walk in a shake a hand.
god bless.
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