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my bf
My bf and I have just started getting closer. He tells me he really loves me and I believe him. We spend so much time together. I feel comfortable with him, so when we make out I let him feel me up sometimes, but I don't what I can do back. I don't what to get too, sexual or anything, but is there anything else I can do to make it more exciting?
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Guys have many of the same sensitive areas as girls do. There are a ton of things you can do to him that dont require anything more than maybe having him take off his shirt.
Usually light rubbing with fingernails or finger tips feels amazing. Light kisses or licking are also very exciting.
Areas of interest.
Hands, Wrists, and Forearms. When sitting there, a good start is to just pick up his hand and run your fingers over it. Kiss his fingertips, his palm, or the underside of his wrist. Running your nails up and down his arm from elbow to palm is always very nice. Its cute, and sweet, without being very sexual.
Neck, ears, and shoulders. Guys necks and shoulders are very sensitive generally and being kissed there is exciting. A good way to end up there, is kiss his lips, then his chin, then down to his neck on one side. You do the chin kiss because alot of times if you move your face someone will try to follow your lips with theirs. Kissing his chin tells him "lean your head back and let me see your neck"
You can kiss down his shoulders. From there, you can kiss up the side of his neck and to his ear. Guys love it when a girl kisses and lightly licks his ear, maybe sucks on an ear lobe for a second. Also, when kissing him, feel free to run your hands up and down his neck, or wrap a hand around the back of his neck and play with the hair on the back of his head.
Most guys also love having their heads scratched. Its very relaxing.
Chest, nipples, ect. While guys nipples generally arent as sensitive as a girls, it is still exciting and feels good to have a girl kiss or lick there. Same thing with the rest of his chest. When kissing him, if his shirt is off you can run your fingers lightly over his chest while making out.
A good rule of thumb when making out is anything he does to you he would probably enjoy you doing to him. Even though he doesnt have breasts that in no way means his chest cant be sensitive. Touching him will make him feel good. Just run your hands over his body in places you're comfy doing so. The neck or arms are great.
Explore the areas I mentioned with your hands, your lips, and if you're feeling adventurous, your tongue. Theyre all sensitive and most of them you can stay fully clothed for. Watch his eyes and face sometimes when you're doing something. Most people will close their eyes, or smile, or show other signs of enjoyment when you hit a spot that feels really good.
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Lets be honest here, the reason you want ot make it more exciting is becuase you're bored.
better yet, you were bored with making out,a nd that's why the feeling started happening.
so, now you wnat to do other stuff.
everything will get boring eventualy.a nd then it progressses..
so.. don't, if you dont want to get into anything "too sexual" as yuo dsid.
since you guys really love eachother , you can wait..until later, marraige, etc.
goodluck.
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