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No point----2 more months?


Question Posted Thursday April 10 2008, 4:32 pm

ok so my bf says he loves me very much and cares about me but doesnt see the point in dating me for 2 more months because we are going to break up when i move (beginning of June). we arent doing long distance because he cant do that (trust me hes shown me he cant-which hurts me so deeply i doubt you understand but anyway...) i see the point-2 more months of memories and time together. instead of 2 extra months of extreme pain everytime i see him. can someone please explain to me his point of veiw because i honestly cannot understand no matter how hard i try. thanks

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oXoCutiex6 answered Saturday April 12 2008, 12:51 pm:
firs to fall- i do understand i DID a long distance relationship and so i understand the extreme pain, wonder,and lack of trust that grows slowly inside your heart..

this should and need to be a silent breakup..
enjoy time together.. don't worry about the simple stuf..just.. cuddle..watch movies..and do FUN stuff together..and when that last day comes.. let it come..no one will need to say a word a hug and a soft i love you will hold you over.
YOU WILL CRY AND IT WILL HURT
but as FRIENDS you can laugh about all the memroies whenyou call him 2 days later at night becuase you already miss your old room.

everything happens for a reason .



you'll get through it together.

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shadow19 answered Thursday April 10 2008, 8:24 pm:
it could be that he doesnt want to spend two months waiting on it to end, like (and I hope your not offended by my logic) if you failed a class that you needed to pass that school year, and its only halfway through the semester, it would seem pointless to keep going to school if you would fail anyway right??

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