okay my name is Kristina a.k.a Munchie and I would upload a pic but I cant do it because my computer is messed up! Anyways I'm 5'1 and I weigh 102 lbs. Yes I EAT! I love food, but I know how to stop when I'm hungry. I love having friends and family! I hate the fact that I'm short. I have a myspace and if ya wanna add me my email is sexyhotchick_87@yahoo.com and you can see my pictures on there! I LOVE Jennifer Love Hewitt! she's so little and cute. I'm single right now. I also have dark brown hair and a round face. LOL! I love this website! And if you need me to answer I question then I will because I love giving out advice!
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well im 14 and for some reason i just think its totally pointless to have a relationship before you can drive. dont get me wrong i have nothing against people who do have relationships but is this like totally wrong? i feel weird cause my friends are all like OMG he is sooooooo hot! and im just like whatever doesnt matter to me (link)
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Okay I disagree with a lot of stupid people below because dating varies in age. And the dating age is usually 15 anyways. You only have another year and you'll be more accepted to date. About the driving part my cousins are like 15 16 and they can't drive and they both have boyfriends that drive them. Guys that are older love cute, sweet, young girls. It's just something that makes them go crazy. I'll be 15 in 5 more months so I know exactly how you feel right now. I don't think about dating because its just not something I want to do now. But if you want to dont let older people tell you that you can't its bull shit. I know people that are like 12 and they have boyfriends. You probably just arent ready and thats okay. Getting into a realtionship sooner is more confusing and very stressful because you're growing up still. But pretty sooon you'll be grown so if ya want to date. Go right ahead!
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13/F
I like this kid, Alex. Well, we hang out A LOT. he's knows I like him and stuff, but it don't bother him... Well, at least that's what i thought until today. This is embarrassing, but he touched my boob. He likes to.... 'touch' me. Like poke and stuff. Well, he reached out and grabbed my boob. I asked him what that was for. He said, it was fun and interesting. Let's cut in here. Why would I guy say that??? Anyway, on word! As we walked down to the bus, he kept rubboing my arm. He was rub his face on it and say it was funny and stuff. Then, he touched my lips and my cheek. he even touched my eye! which was creepy... Oh, and during.... Reading class thing (Core Skillz) He makes these jokes about blow jobs and perverted stuff like I do. Then, he said my dicky go in da pace up there! I was like what? and started laughing. I blushed though, which I fucking HATE! anyway, does he like me? If so, can I ask him out? I need asking out guidelines from experts. Like, i can get a guy *snaps fingers* like that. PLEASE! Thank you so much!
p.s don't say, stop talking shit about perverted fuck. I like to, it's funny! I'm an immature freak! Wo0t! anyway.... haha (link)
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He's only showing you attention because he wants some bad too. I had a guy that I liked a LOT.... I mean I liked him to much he made me happy all the time and I would just smile because he was real sweet. He didn't deserve to be liked as much as I did. He used me for blow jobs and ocassional hand jobs stuff like that. He threw me away and went on to a girl he really likes and not just for her sex. She is pretty though. Anyways the point is yes! He probably would have went out with me but then after he realized he didn't like me I would just be trash to him. He might really like you though with guys you really never know. You're 13 hon. When I was your age everyone always said I was wayy to young to have a b/f. I fucking hated it. I still do. I would say wait for mr. right. Whateva floats your boat.
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ok well theres this girl i like and she knows i do but i dont know if she likes me well looks at me almost as much as i look at her and she smiles at me and she does look nervous and just latley she had to take a test in my homeroom for my homeroom teacher and she sat 2 seats behind me the other one was already tooken by someone probaly but i try to say something but im just not sure what to say
i think she does like me but how do i talk to her more cause this year we have no classes together last year we did (link)
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She sounds a little shy. With shy girls YOU have to make the first move. Ask her if she's going to something that you'll be going to and if she doesnt know what it is tell her all about and tell her try to make it if you can. Girls love guys that will make up places to be together. If you sense she likes you back talk to her. Like you would any other chick friends of yours. Umm... i'm a shy girl and I would like if a guy just would tell me over the phone that he likes me. Tell her out of all her friends she's the only one you want to be with. Be really nice. Get her phone number and just talk to her about basic stuff. I really don't know what you can say to her. This usually happens naturally. Ask her questions about stuff that you like to do. Like if you like i dont swimming then ask her if she does too. You just need to find something that you both have in common. You sound like you don't talk to girls a lot and it's easy once you get used to it. And if she's smiling at you then she more than likely likes you. I don't just smile at any guy. Or look at any guy. If I like a guy then I'll look at him more than any other guy. I dont know about her but I stare at the guys I like when they're not looking. So if you catch her staring at you doing something then she really likes you.
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mk so i've never really had a real boyfriend and i was kinda desprete so a few weeks ago i met a older man online and we had sex. It was pretty much just a one night thing. I really liked him and would like something more then that from a guy but i also do want sex. I'm 15 and I don't know what i'm doing wrong, i'm pretty outgoing, tall, thin, i consider myself nice...what should i do to get a boyfriend? (link)
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Try not to be desprete because guys can sense that. Also you need to stop having sex with random guys that you meet. You become a whore if you do that a lot. Sex is not gonna make a boy fall in love with you. I learned that the hard way. Just because they want to have sex with you doesn't mean he wants to be with you. Guys will have sex with anyone. That's because guys want to have sex at anytime. It's a guy thing. 14-15 is a hard time. You probably need to wait and just be yourself around guys. The right one will come and you might not even expect it. Really, love is strange like that. And you also sound desprete for sex. You really need to change your ways of thinking. Sex is sooo overrated. I'm sure it's not great, nothing in life is THAT great. If you stop being desprete and start being yourself then the one will come. You have to wait for Mr.Right. Well I really hope this helps!!!!
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How long do you think it would take to "Fully" trust someone again for lying?!?!? I know it depends on the situation but on average?!?!?
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Well, whenever you think you're ready to fully trust someone. there's no law written in stone that says when you should trust someone. you decide! I really hope this helps!
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Define cheating in a love relatinsip (link)
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I wouldn't consider making out cheating. Making out is just bad to do with another person if you're in love. Having oral sex or just plain sex would be cheating in a love realtionship. That's just what I believe. I've never been in love so what would I know? I really hope this helps though!
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How can you tell if your girlfriend will become a whore and cheat in the future?!?!? What are some signs to lookout for now?!?!?
Thanx!!! (link)
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Well, if she talks to a lot of other guys. If she's popular with the guys. If girls are really jealous of her and they say they hate her. If she talks about doing other guys in front of you. If she picks one of her many guy friends over you. Basically if she doesn't mind talking to other guys and hanging out with them. That's a future whore. I really hope this helps!
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I would just like some tips on simple ways to win guys over. (link)
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There's really no real tips in winning guys over. If you want to have a lot of fun with guys then just go out and have fun with them. You don't have to try hard though. Just be yourself. Guys can sense that you're trying really hard and it basically scares them away. I learned this the hard way. If you're looking for a serious boyfriend then you need to really consider being yourself because your serious boyfriend is suppose to like you for you. Don't be fake is my tip! I really hope this helps!
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okay, so i was bored and i randomly texted my boyfriend and was like if you could do anything with me what would it be? and he texted back saying f**k you hard and long.. and he never talks like that, and never even acted like that, so it kind of freaked me out, so um what should i do?? (link)
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Just make up another joke like "yeah, baby we can do it all nite long" So that he knows you're just kidding so he'll stop talking like that. You could be honest with him and ask him why he would say something like that because that's not how he usually talks to you. This would freak me out too. but I'm sure he has a really good reason to say something like that. I hope this helps!
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i really like this boy we are really good friends.. theres sort of an age diffrence between us.. well 3 years. i wanna ell him so badly but everyone tells me i shouldnt.. cause then itl ruin our relationship... i dont know what to do i liked him since last year and im so tired of keeping it in .. i really wanna tel him but im scared he might not act or be the same maybe not even talk to me please help ? (link)
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WEll, if you're underage like me then I would suggest that you just leave him alone. I messed with a boy that is 3 years older than me and I just got hurt and I learned my lesson too. If a guy likes you then more than likely they will tell you and try to get with you. If not then please don't push it. Older guys usually see girls three years younger than them like a little girl. Also you're probably not a challenge to him. He probably knows that he could get you just like that. So, that's why he seems to not want to go out with you. I was used by this guy and he really doesn't care. I really don't know why he doesn't like me because he messes with girls the same age as me. Maybe I'm ugly or something. All I know is he's a lot older than me and he is very mean. So I wouldnt do anything. I'm sorry if that was really bad advice. I hope its not!!!
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Okay, so I bet you've heard the "So, I like this guy" story a lot... I am just so confused right now that I need your advice.
Okay, so there's a guy that I really like; he's really nice, sweet, funny, and we share a lot of the same interests. We flirt with each other sometimes, but that's only in school, and school doesn't start for about a week or so.
Well, anyways, he's one of my friends on MySpace, and he took some of these quizzes about me on my profile to see how much he knew about me, and he only got 30% and 20%, and I took his quiz and I gotta 60%!
Anyways, I commented on his profile, "Hey, what's up? How's summer treating you? Or, in this case, what's left of it... :S c/b"
And he responds to mostly everyone else's comments, except for mine. :(
What should I do? Does he even like me, or am I just wasting my time? :S
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OMG! I had the same problem. Okay so dont rely on Myspace at all! There's this guy on myspace that I think he likes me but he confuses me. It's just a game to him. He's trying to make you like him even more. He probably knows that you want him. Believe me guys can sense it. Girls are just loud and out there about who they like. Guys are often different. They play mind games with girls without knowing their doing it. I really dont understand why they pay attention and then ignore. You might want to ask a guy friend that. Sorry if that didn't make sense. guys are confusing. haha.
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well its a long story so ill give the details
theres this boy thats a year younger, he asked me out (his friend said i would say yes) and i said yes, even though i wanted to say no. we've been going out for 3 weeks and i feel bad but i want to dump him, i just started high school and theres more boys (wow that seems mean) but can someone help me? i feel so bad about dumping him and everything cause he really likes me.... but i dont want to keep on going out with him (link)
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Just tell him that you're not ready for a relationship. I know how you feel. You just wanna explore other guys. Well he cant hold you back not unless you want him to. Just tell him how you feel. It's not like you're in love or anything. He'll get over it sooner or later. He will be hurt but later on in life he'll meet somebody that really likes him. I can clearly tell that you're not mature enough for a relationship. So, just tell him that. Sorry, if that seemed a little mean. But I'm just trying to tell you the problem and how to fix it.
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K i was wondering because i am only thirteen and i dont want to get my girlfriend pregnant. When she puts a condom on me niether of us know whether to put the latex over my balls or not. the condom definitely fits since i dont have a very big peter. so all i want to know is if i have to put the condom over my balls or not. thx in advance (link)
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I'm 14 and I'm a virgin. And I'm not thinking about doing the nasty at all! haha. Maybe two years from now. Until then NO!!! You really shouldnt be either. Guys dont have sex until their mature enough. You may have gone through puberty and everything but that really doesnt matter. You're still a KID to everyone. It really pisses me off that you're trying to have sex at your age. Wait till you're 16 or 17 cause then you really know more about it. As for your question well I know this and I just turned 14 like 5 months ago and no it doesnt go over your balls. Have you ever heard of someone puttin it over their balls??? I'm sure you havent your 13. You unroll the condom and put it at the base of your penis. I really think you should wait. ok?? I'm not trying to be rude but 13 year olds having sex???? what? You having even been a teenage for like a year!
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Okay well im going into 9th grade and my boyfriend is going into 7th. And hes just not like a little kid. Hes so mature and so sweet, and i really like him, and hes always there for me, but i was wondering does anybody think that its weird that im dating a 7th grader? (link)
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No, that isnt weird! I went out with a boi who was like 2 years younger than me. I still liked him and stuff but we were just having fun. Yeah! You can date each other. I know a girl whose boyfriend is 15 and she's almost 17 so its not strange or anything. it's different because usually the guy is older because girls like me!!! like older guys because their more mature and serious about you. So, dont freak out its really no big. People might tease you about it but its not the freakest thing ever. I really liked the guy im talking about but he had other girls in mind. That doesnt mean your boyfriend has other girls in mind. haha.
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So one night I was sitting around thinking about how to break up with my boyfriend and I met this guy from a town like an hour and a half away. We got to talking and we pretty much spent the whole night together and he kept kissing me and hitting on me. I really liked him so I was pretty happy after breaking up with my boyfriend the next day. I knew that the guy from the other town didn't want a relationship, but I thought he was still interested in me cause we texted and talked on the phone a lot and we always talked about how we're going to have sex when we see eachother again. But I met up with him and his friends the other day and I don't think his friends like me..they're all really edgy and I go to school in Connecticut so I'm kinda preppy. I didn't think his friends opinions would matter to him but maybe they do cause he hasn't called me lately..I don't think I'm his type. His last girlfriend had a lip ring. But we have the same taste in music..so why would he judge me by what's on the outside? I don't want to nag him for not calling me because we're not even going out but I don't know what to do.... (link)
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Okay if he really cares then he wont care about what you wear. He cares about who you are. If your sour inside then he wont care about you. But he will not if you guys really love each other. haha. I hope that helps you.
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Okay.. I'm going to break up with my boyfriend of 1 year. He is probably going to cry etc. but i want to make at as painless as possible and just get it done and over with. How can i make it easy on the both of us? (link)
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YEA! wow it's not going to be that painless. It was a year. I do have some advice for you though. You should tell him the honest truth. use the "I" message thing. Which means dont make him feel like its his fault at all. Dont say its not you its me ,either. That one is sooo over played. So just be honest. Tell him you dont feel the same and you feel like you've changed as a person and you are confused about your emotions. This will hurt him but he will think about it and realize that you are changing. Break ups are never easy. Their a part of life. So don't worry he'll understand. I've seen a guy break up with a girl that was truly in love with him and she got over it pretty soon and it was like a 3 year realtionship.
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school is starting soon and i want a boyfriend! like way in the winter-ish we have this thing called "Winter Wonderland", which is like a special dance around Christmastime for 8th graders. and you can go with your friends, but its kinda better if you have an actual guy date! i want somebody special.. but some people just get in relationships really easily.. for me its either that I like them, but they don't like me back, or the opposite. I guess I can be picky at times, but I want my first boyfriend to be someone I wont regret. Plus, I don't know what my parents would say or think.. and if they'd want me to be hanging around this guy a lot, especially if we go on dates and stuff. but I want my first boyfriend to be a good friend of mine, not JUST a boyfriend. and also.. when is the right time to ask a guy out? how do you know if he likes/dislikes you back? haha i know this is too early to think.. I mean school hasn't even started yet, but I want to like be prepared! ;)
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Yeah. I think you're too young to have a 1st boyfriend. Just go out with somebody you like. You're too young to be getting serious with someone. You need to worry about school and friends. Not guys! Not yet! I"m 14 and I've never even gotten close to having a boyfriend and I'm not ugly. so yeah. You're only 13 so just slow it down a lil bit there.
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14/f
I seem to have a problem, I always like guys that aren't available. Sometimes I fall hard, and then get really depressed because I know I can't have them.
A few times in the past, boys I've liked have asked me out, and before I've had time to think about it, I've said no. And after I think, what did I do that for?
And boys I've liked have chatted me up at parties and I've got away from them quickly. And I always regret it.
Now, I've been in love with this boy for the past 4 months. And he really is the most amazing boy I've ever met. He seemed to be in a really serious relationship with his girlfriend and I'd cry all the time because of it.
A few days ago he told me he likes me as more than a friend, and I was ecstatically happy. Although I didn't think anything would happen for quite a long time because of his relationship with his girlfriend.
But then he said he's not sure what's going on with them at the moment, and recently has been talking about breaking up with her, although he's not sure. And his best mate keeps making comments that make it sound as if it's because he wants to be with someone else.
And suddenly I feel like I'm in a panic, and I don't feel as happy and I feel quite worried.
And I don't know why, I mean, I've wanted this for months now, right?
Yet I can't help it, it seems as soon as someone starts to like me, I pull away.
Do you have any idea why I do this? Is it to do with commitment? And how can I stop it?
Thanks in advance, sorry it was long, xxx (link)
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haha. Yeah I just think you're young like me and you're not ready for a serious relationship. I know what you're saying. Guys act like they really want me and stuff then they turn around and screw or go out with some other girl. Enough about me though. Ok. So I'm not sure if it has anything to do with a commitment but he probably still has a lot of long hard feelings for her. People can break up and never talk to each other and it doesnt matter how long they've went out or anything. because I know a guy that broke up with his girlfriend of like 4 years but the realtionship changed and they never really talk I don't guess. They still have no communcation and they went out for like ever! So, don't worry you can lose feelings fast. You just realize you need to move on from them. thats that!!! ok!! bye bye!
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how do i tell a girl who i lost feelings for that i want to break up with her when she is still crazy for me? (link)
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You should really try to just tell her the truth. Making her think you love her is worse because she'll think you were a fake the whole time. She'll be confused. So you have to give her little signals that you don't feel like you did. Explain how you felt in the relationship from the starting point. She will still be sad and all but it's easier on her if you don't act like you love her a lot and then out of the blue break up with her. I really hope this helps somehow.
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i love it when this boy plays hard to get but when i can have him i dont want him AT ALL
why?! (link)
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haha. I think I can help. If you want him to like you not love you then play it back. If he wants to play then you play. just don't make it seem like you really like him. Guys can tell when girls really want a boyfriend and I guess that scares them. I wouldn't know I'm a girl. Really though don't try so hard. He might find that as a turn off and never want anything to do with you. I know from pesonal experience. haha. I hope ive helped you girlie.
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