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i really like this boy we are really good friends.. theres sort of an age diffrence between us.. well 3 years. i wanna ell him so badly but everyone tells me i shouldnt.. cause then itl ruin our relationship... i dont know what to do i liked him since last year and im so tired of keeping it in .. i really wanna tel him but im scared he might not act or be the same maybe not even talk to me please help ?
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It really makes a difference what your ages actually are, not just how far apart. If he's 17 and you're 14, I'd call that an insurmountable difference, and you'd better just wait. If he's 20 and you're 17, that can be done, though you might have one or two issues with it. If he's 23 and you're 20, then it's no big deal at all.
I'm going to guess by the tone of your question that you're around 13-15 years old. That being the case, I recommend you keep it to yourself. He really won't be able to do anything about it, even if he returns those feelings in some way, because such a relationship would be frowned upon (and, in some states, it's actually illegal). I suggest you remain "really good friends", and I also recommend that you keep in mind that you may never be anything besides that. Don't close your mind to other possibilities.
Hopefully, in a few years, you'll be able to tell him how you feel and he will be in a position where he can return whatever feelings he may have. If you're 15 or younger, though, now is just not the time.
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WEll, if you're underage like me then I would suggest that you just leave him alone. I messed with a boy that is 3 years older than me and I just got hurt and I learned my lesson too. If a guy likes you then more than likely they will tell you and try to get with you. If not then please don't push it. Older guys usually see girls three years younger than them like a little girl. Also you're probably not a challenge to him. He probably knows that he could get you just like that. So, that's why he seems to not want to go out with you. I was used by this guy and he really doesn't care. I really don't know why he doesn't like me because he messes with girls the same age as me. Maybe I'm ugly or something. All I know is he's a lot older than me and he is very mean. So I wouldnt do anything. I'm sorry if that was really bad advice. I hope its not!!!
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you have to ask yourself, "Is getting my feelings out worth risking my friendship." I know from experiance that being friends with someone that you like really hurts. Mainly because you always want them for yourself. I say that you should go for it and see what happens. Dont let your friends, or even me influence your plan. If you want to tell him. GO FOR IT! I mean, does it seem that he likes you too? Age usually is a big thing, but not if you don't let it be. Be honest with him and that will help you to be honest with yourself. I wish you the best of luck. Check out my Column!
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If he is a true friend, he won't let your feelings come between your friendship, weather or not he feels the same.
It is true, however that if you date a friend, you hold a high chance of losing the friendship after a break up.
They say the best way to lose a friend is to date them.
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