So one night I was sitting around thinking about how to break up with my boyfriend and I met this guy from a town like an hour and a half away. We got to talking and we pretty much spent the whole night together and he kept kissing me and hitting on me. I really liked him so I was pretty happy after breaking up with my boyfriend the next day. I knew that the guy from the other town didn't want a relationship, but I thought he was still interested in me cause we texted and talked on the phone a lot and we always talked about how we're going to have sex when we see eachother again. But I met up with him and his friends the other day and I don't think his friends like me..they're all really edgy and I go to school in Connecticut so I'm kinda preppy. I didn't think his friends opinions would matter to him but maybe they do cause he hasn't called me lately..I don't think I'm his type. His last girlfriend had a lip ring. But we have the same taste in music..so why would he judge me by what's on the outside? I don't want to nag him for not calling me because we're not even going out but I don't know what to do....
I would imagine the problem is the distance.
People your age get busy doing things with those that live near by. Long distance romance rarely
work out because of that. Most want a BF/GF they
take to dances and school events.
It probably didn't help that after one make-out session you started discussing how you were going
to have sex the next time you met. Thats a bit much. Get to know someone well before talking about taking it to the next level. Guys that do that are pretty much just looking for sex. Make sure the guy has genuine feelings for you before getting involved that deeply. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
munchie007 answered Saturday August 25 2007, 11:26 pm: Okay if he really cares then he wont care about what you wear. He cares about who you are. If your sour inside then he wont care about you. But he will not if you guys really love each other. haha. I hope that helps you. [ munchie007's advice column | Ask munchie007 A Question ]
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