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So I'm really really shy when it come to guys. I'm fifteen and there's this guy I like and I think he might like me too. I was going to ask him to Sadie Hawkins.
Any ideas for how to do this without being a dork? (link)
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theres no special way you really can do it and don't worry you wont look like a dork. be confident and just go up to him and be like hey want to go to the dance with me? and do it before its too late or else someone else might ask him
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so at school i am very shy with my boyfriend but i will kind of talk to him, but as soon as i try to talk to him on thee phone i cant so i just never pick up his calls. i feel absolutely horrible but how do i make myself more confident for being able to talk on the phone? thank you! (link)
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instead of thinking your talking to your boyfriend think its just one of your friends. youll probably be able to talk a lot more freely that way (but dont talk too freely like dont say peersonal stuff youd say with ur friends) and this should help you loosen up. i hope i helped. if you need anything else ask!!
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ookayy this is very long but here goes..ive liked the same guy since third grade (im in 8th now) and he liked me in 5th then we went out in 6th then he dumped me and after he did we didnt talk at all after that (i liked him a lot at this point) and so then 7th grade came &we had no classes and we werent friends any more. then 8th grade came and i had a lot of classes with him (thank god) and he gained our friendship back! okay this guy is not like any other guy. hes perfect. to me at least. well anyway, there was a party (big one) that we both went to. he made out with this other girl which made me heart broken!! at that point i realized i loved him and believe me i know what love is now. so i was going to tell him how i felt about him, but my friend was like hey *** (him) come here so then she took me to the stairs and we talked then i started crying (hard) so then hes like whats wrong! then i was about to tell him but i cudnt do it so i ran away crying (ughh regret). then he said he hated me after that which proved to me that hes not the guy i should like but at that point i cudnt let go cz i loved him. wheww so then we got in a fight and dint talk ne more then we started to again then we became good friends then we went to a party together and i was dared to kiss him...(=])so then he started liking this other girl so he asked her out n i cried again because i cudnt get over him n crap then he got mad at me.but then were friends again. (a lot of fights) but this all happened in 8th grade since the 1st party. so i still love him. then today i found out he has a gf when i was gunna ask him to the dance on friday. what should i do?!! i cant tell him how i feel because the same thing will happen. (might loose our friendship&i dont want that) and how do i get over him?! (link)
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wow that is long! but its okay i read it all, and sorry it took so long for me to answer ive just been really busy but im answering now! yay, anyways, wow i dont no what to say im so sorry, but yes i think ur right if you want to stay friends then dont tell him how you feel. being friends is a lot more important at this age than going out, because it sounds like he prolly wont ask you out anyways because he has a gf and ur better off as friends.. and your not getting married anytime soon so maybe its not love its just a head over heels feeling because you, well i dont no how to explain it but umm do you know what i mean? just like a feeling people get when they really like someone and it lasts a little while but in your case i guess its lasted a LONG time. anywayy, ways to get over him, lets think, think of all of his flaws and the ways he has treated you, that isnt just fair to you is it? and try and find a new guy to like and focus all your attention on him and try not to even think about the guy you like now.. anywayys, if there is anything else you need just ask me and ill help you as soon as i can! love ya, molly
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hey... so ok i like this guy a lot and hes sooo hot! i hang out with him all of the time because hes kinda in my "circle of friends" i guess you could say. i tend to be more quiet around him and the other guys when we hang out and eat lunch and suff like that... so i dont think he notices me very much. i wanna be louder and flirt more with him so that he will notice me. any suggestions to how i do this? thanks! (link)
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okay just talk to him more and like joke around in a cute giggly way but not like annoyingly because if your too loud and you pay too much attention to him it can be annoying. ask him like what kinda music he likes and things like that.. if he has IM then IM him and talk a lot.hope i helped=]
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ok, so i like this guy. (dont worry, thats not the problem) lol. but like lets just call him frank. and we'll call me friend julie. ok, so like we'll all be watching a movie together and frank insists on sitting next to julie, and then he like finds a way to share a blanket with her. and then he will start touching her uh... lower private area, i guess, and she keeps telling him to stop, and one day he started unzipping her pants and so me and julie both got REALLY mad at him and hes just acting like nothing happened. hes a really good friend of mine and i like him as more than a friends, but lately, hes turned into this major jerk that i like never wanna talk to again. but he still sits at the same lunch table as me and talks to me in the halls and comes up to my locker to talk and stuff and i dont wanna like freak out on him or anything. well, i guess it would help if i could just stop liking him in that way, cause ive tried and i keep on liking him again, even thought hes a jerk. so, any suggestions on how to stop liking him in that way?? (link)
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maybe focus more of your attention on another guy instead of him to like. when you start thinking about frank just think about something else like the other guy and also think about how much of a jerk he is. hope i helped =] if you need anything else just ask =]
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hey... yeah so theres this guy and ive liked him for about 3 years now. (yeah pretty pathetic i know) and i think he might know that i like him and how long ive liked him for. hes a really good friend of mine, but he seems to only like one of my best friends, and he keeps on going out with her. ive tried liking other people instead of him but i always end up back to him, and its getting really annoying. soo basically, my question is, should i keep on liking him? talk to him about it? or what?? HELP!! (link)
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dont worry if youve liked him for that long! thats okay its totally natural and cute. we all go through those phases where there is taht one guy who we just cant stop liking and it bugs you to like him and you dont no why but you still do. you can keep on liking him if you want to no one is to say whether or not you should because that is your own personal desicion. if you do talk to him about liking him dont tell him how long youve liked him because that could kind of freak him out. so i hope i helped and good luck!! =]
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okay so i like this boy. hes really cute. he says that he wants to hang out but whenever i ask him, he says maybe then we never do. i cant really tell if he likes me or not. i really wanna hang out with him to get to know him better but i dont want to sound desperate. what should i do? (link)
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okay so that you dont sound like you like him then be like oh hey were (ur friends) hanging out this saturday you can come.. so it doesnt sound like your like omg come! but instead like its his choice and if he wants to come cool if he doesnt then ok thats fine too. when your with a group its also not as akward... so yeah hope i helped!!!!! -- lyl -- molly
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heyy im 15 years old and i know this sounds wrong but i have a crush on my cousin and he likes me back!............i kno that sounds bad but we can't help our feelings for eachother and like yesterday it was a family day so my cousin and i went for a walk and we kissed. And when we came back our parents are totally suspicious about us, what should i do? I don't want my parents to be all mad! should i break up with my cousin?
((i think i should but i need a back-up supporter)) (link)
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okay is this someone i know like trying to trick me? well if its not YES you should break up with your cousin.. ew
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There is this girl at school who i like but she knows i like her and she likes someone else. Should I find someone else to like or wait for her to not like that person anymore? (link)
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well if it hurts to like her when you know she likes someone else you may want to try and get over her with some one else but its okay to like someone that likes someone else.. its totally natural.. so just keep liking her if you want to it completely normal
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My guy is mad at me because he thinks it's fun to be mad at me . This is totally not cool by my rules. What can I do?
THanks soooo much ! (link)
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well you shouldnt be with a guy who thinks its fun to be mad at you. thats just not right and sorry to say but i think it should be over between you two sinse no girl should have a guy like that.. its just not fair to her.
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ok so my friend was talkign to this guy. she said that he really likes me and that he was goign to ask me out. im still not sure if i like him or not. how am i supposed to tell him no?
thanks (link)
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well maybe if if you do like him a little maybe even as a friend you can say yes and then like him better but if you want to say no just let him down slowly. i havnt had experiance with saying no so i cant really help you there sorry
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ok so this guy asked me out. and i dont know if i like him or not. he is really nice and cool and i dont want to hurt his feelings by saying no. but i dont know if i like him!
i dont really know him. i only hung out with him once. im so confused. i dont know what to do!!!!!!
PLEASE HELP!!! ill rate 5's for anything. (link)
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i think you should go out with him because once you are going out you can get to know him more and hang out more and you have a reason to. then you can get to know him better and maybe like him better. hope i helped =] ..molly
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well, thank you for answering my question about my friend that totally turned his back on me. but 1 thing is that i DID tell him i liked him. and he said he liked me too. so i reeeally thought that something was going to happen between us.
o yeaa howd ya get the cool background?? (link)
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on your site click column settings and right above where it says Page background color click the link. that will take you to a page with different backgrounds you can pick from. on that page it will also give you instructions on what to do next.. and thats how =]
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i have this guy friend, first we were just friends then we wnet out for like 2 days but he broke up w/ me but i still have feelings for him so now we are just friends. Now like 5 monthes later, i was over his house and he had last years yearbook and he didnt let me read it.the next week he was over my house and i let him read my journal so he'll let me see his yearbook. He read this part were i wrote JAMES FINALLY GAVE ME A HUG, yay! (the date was AFTER we broke up) so now he NEVER gives me hugs anymore after reading that :(, i miss that and i want hugs! help, i still like him, & the hugs were the only thing i had now, nothing (link)
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sorry hunni but he doesnt like you and to be honest.. you never should have let him read your diary in the first place.. you dont want a guy to everything about how you are feeling.. thats what girls are for.. confusing guys and getting them to try and guess whats going on inside you.. if you just put youself out there it ruins everything.. so next time i suggest not letting the guy u like read you diary. and i hope he hugs you again.. just give it some time and maybe gain his trust and become really good close friends.. but you need to get over him first.. lyl
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I find myself having a crush on my older brother. I feel really bad about it but I can't stop fantasizing about being with him.
Is there any way to stop these feelings? I know it's wrong. (link)
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sorry hunn but that IS very very wrong!! try to get a new crush and just focus on him instead of you BROTHER!! because that HAS TO stop!!!
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ok so im a 13 year old girl and theres this guy at my school. hes name is kyle. hes sooo cute but he can be a little , lets call it, childish. hes my best freind in the whole world but i like him more than a freind. we'v been freinds for about 2 years or so and we tell each other everything. i realy like kyle but im not sure if he likes me the same way i like him. and im to scared to talk to him about it. so what do i do?
-->mandy (link)
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well ive been in your situation before.. a loong time ago i liked this guy and we were like really good friends.. if you are really good friends then you should be able to tell him and it shouldnt affect your relationship.. if he likes you back.. great! if not then youll move on and youll stay friends.. trust me i told the guy i liked and were still like best friends today.. hope i helped
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wellll, valentines day is my favorite holiday. wlel, let me re-phrase thats. WAS my favorite holiday. well, one of my guy bff's (lets call him... kangaroo) well, idk. we were reeeally tight for awhile. and idk what happened. it seemed like we were always haveing fun with each other, and i thought that he really did like me. he was always flirting with me and even my friends thought he liked me. and on valentines day, i was soooo sure that he would ask me out. but no. he asked out this other girl and i was sooo upset! i was crying for at least a week. i know hes just a guy and that we werent gunna get married or anything but i didnt think that broken hearts hurt soo much! and now all he talks about is that girl hes going out with. and i dont even ever wanna see him again. what are some good ways to forget about stupid guys? and what are some ways to get him back?? im 13 years old and female (link)
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just stay friends with him and gain his trust and eventually him and this other girl will break up.. i know its hard when ur expecting something and it totally changes on you.. it hurts but thats life.. but dont be mad at him because its not his fault because he didnt no u liked him.. im sorry this happened but just keep flirting and always be really cute.. and never act mean around himm.. thats all i have to say hope i helped!! =]
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Yikes!! I am a 14 and a half femalw who like this male who is a 14 and a half male. he knows me and i know him. He knows that i like him but i want to ask him out what sahould i do? (link)
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does he like you? if so than go for it.. but instead of flat out saying.. will you go out with me? just be like hey want to hang out sometime? this way you get to hang out and your not known as that girl that asked the guy out. when hes ready he will ask you out.
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hi, I like this boy and my friend told him so he knows that i like him and now i asked my friend to ask the boy out for me and i am so scared that he may say no because i really really like him but if it was some other boy i wouldn't care that they said no but him i just can not stop thinking about please help me what shpuld i do?
i don't know if my friend should ask him out for me or what but i really love him and i really want to date him so please help me a.s.a.p. Thank You So Much!! i am 14 and a half and i am the 9th grade. the boy who i like is also in the 9th grade and we are the same age. i am a female and of course the person who i like is a male. (link)
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well maybe before you actually have your friend ask him out for you find out if he likes you back and if he doesnt then im so sorry but if he does tell your friend to tell him to ask you out.. and if he doesnt like u have your friend tell him he should like you because (have her tell him all the good things about you) if this doesnt work then just be extra cute and flirty.. hope he likes you back =]
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okayy.......... so theres this guy i like and he says he likes me back but hes way too afraid or nervous to take the next step. and im not sure what to do. Should i ask him out? but asking him out sounds tacky.... i mean shouldn't guys ask the girls out? idk...........ooo and i have one more question:
his ex gf likes him again and im afraid he'll forget about me. im scared cuz i don't want to be hurt. what should i do? (link)
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maybe instead of saying hey want to be my boyfriends just say hey want to hang out sometime? and then you two can start talking and hanging out.. and then also make sure he knows you like him and say (if you have enough courage) i like you and you like me so whats up with this? i mean we like eachother..
so just dont be afraid if you know he likes you and you like him.. good luck! i hope i helped
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