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same guy..6 YEARS!!
ookayy this is very long but here goes..ive liked the same guy since third grade (im in 8th now) and he liked me in 5th then we went out in 6th then he dumped me and after he did we didnt talk at all after that (i liked him a lot at this point) and so then 7th grade came &we had no classes and we werent friends any more. then 8th grade came and i had a lot of classes with him (thank god) and he gained our friendship back! okay this guy is not like any other guy. hes perfect. to me at least. well anyway, there was a party (big one) that we both went to. he made out with this other girl which made me heart broken!! at that point i realized i loved him and believe me i know what love is now. so i was going to tell him how i felt about him, but my friend was like hey *** (him) come here so then she took me to the stairs and we talked then i started crying (hard) so then hes like whats wrong! then i was about to tell him but i cudnt do it so i ran away crying (ughh regret). then he said he hated me after that which proved to me that hes not the guy i should like but at that point i cudnt let go cz i loved him. wheww so then we got in a fight and dint talk ne more then we started to again then we became good friends then we went to a party together and i was dared to kiss him...(=])so then he started liking this other girl so he asked her out n i cried again because i cudnt get over him n crap then he got mad at me.but then were friends again. (a lot of fights) but this all happened in 8th grade since the 1st party. so i still love him. then today i found out he has a gf when i was gunna ask him to the dance on friday. what should i do?!! i cant tell him how i feel because the same thing will happen. (might loose our friendship&i dont want that) and how do i get over him?!
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wow that is long! but its okay i read it all, and sorry it took so long for me to answer ive just been really busy but im answering now! yay, anyways, wow i dont no what to say im so sorry, but yes i think ur right if you want to stay friends then dont tell him how you feel. being friends is a lot more important at this age than going out, because it sounds like he prolly wont ask you out anyways because he has a gf and ur better off as friends.. and your not getting married anytime soon so maybe its not love its just a head over heels feeling because you, well i dont no how to explain it but umm do you know what i mean? just like a feeling people get when they really like someone and it lasts a little while but in your case i guess its lasted a LONG time. anywayy, ways to get over him, lets think, think of all of his flaws and the ways he has treated you, that isnt just fair to you is it? and try and find a new guy to like and focus all your attention on him and try not to even think about the guy you like now.. anywayys, if there is anything else you need just ask me and ill help you as soon as i can! love ya, molly
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