ok so im a 13 year old girl and theres this guy at my school. hes name is kyle. hes sooo cute but he can be a little , lets call it, childish. hes my best freind in the whole world but i like him more than a freind. we'v been freinds for about 2 years or so and we tell each other everything. i realy like kyle but im not sure if he likes me the same way i like him. and im to scared to talk to him about it. so what do i do?
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? flyingtomato317 answered Saturday April 1 2006, 11:25 pm: mandy, i'm gonna tell you this from what i have learned in the past years of my life. if he is your best friend, you don't want to ruin your friendship with a relationship. You're 13 (and thats a wonderful age to flirt with everybody and just have a good time) but you are just starting out with this faze of boys, and it only gets harder from there. and what i have learned is that you want one of those boys to just be there for you when times get rough. and it sucks when you break up with a guy and they don't talk to you forever...you lose a piece of you because you were such good friends...it's not fun. I'm not telling you what to do, i'm just warning you that your friendship with this boy is on the line...but if you want to risk it, be my guest...but i will tell you, it's definitely not fun to lose someone you are really close to. Good luck...be careful...you're young (and that's not a bad thing) just live life. [ flyingtomato317's advice column | Ask flyingtomato317 A Question ]
molly008 answered Friday March 31 2006, 10:56 pm: well ive been in your situation before.. a loong time ago i liked this guy and we were like really good friends.. if you are really good friends then you should be able to tell him and it shouldnt affect your relationship.. if he likes you back.. great! if not then youll move on and youll stay friends.. trust me i told the guy i liked and were still like best friends today.. hope i helped <3 [ molly008's advice column | Ask molly008 A Question ]
ocbabey41 answered Friday March 31 2006, 10:33 pm: i know this is hard, but you need to tell him.. you may not have to go up to him and say i like you, but flirt with him, let him know that you want to be more than his friend..wear really cute clothes and make sure he notices you in a different way. i hope i helped* xoxo [ ocbabey41's advice column | Ask ocbabey41 A Question ]
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