wellll, valentines day is my favorite holiday. wlel, let me re-phrase thats. WAS my favorite holiday. well, one of my guy bff's (lets call him... kangaroo) well, idk. we were reeeally tight for awhile. and idk what happened. it seemed like we were always haveing fun with each other, and i thought that he really did like me. he was always flirting with me and even my friends thought he liked me. and on valentines day, i was soooo sure that he would ask me out. but no. he asked out this other girl and i was sooo upset! i was crying for at least a week. i know hes just a guy and that we werent gunna get married or anything but i didnt think that broken hearts hurt soo much! and now all he talks about is that girl hes going out with. and i dont even ever wanna see him again. what are some good ways to forget about stupid guys? and what are some ways to get him back?? im 13 years old and female
Let me ask you this. How can you call him stupid for following his own heart and unknowingly breaking yours? I am pretty sure he didn't do it on purpose so why think he did? And why would you want to get back at him for innocently pursuing another girl? That seems awfully vindictive, doesn't it?
Instead of letting the great friendship with him fall away, why don't you try and preserve it? Because it is pointless to lose a friend over relationship issues, especially if that friend your losing is the aparent "cause" of it. I am sure your overreacting. If your only 13 and you get so heartbroken over this, you are going to have a very dramatic teen life. He is your friend and because he is one of your best friends you should work this out with him. Probably would be best to just move on and let him enjoy the time he will get with his girl, because I bet it won't last.
I am sorry for you feeling this way, but I just hope you can get over this, because it seems pointless to be so upset. So I hope I helped and you get better.
molly008 answered Friday March 31 2006, 10:52 pm: just stay friends with him and gain his trust and eventually him and this other girl will break up.. i know its hard when ur expecting something and it totally changes on you.. it hurts but thats life.. but dont be mad at him because its not his fault because he didnt no u liked him.. im sorry this happened but just keep flirting and always be really cute.. and never act mean around himm.. thats all i have to say hope i helped!! =] [ molly008's advice column | Ask molly008 A Question ]
arielle answered Friday March 31 2006, 10:31 pm: well if he flirts w/ you all the time he cud just be talking about her constantly because he doesn't want to seem like a loser. [ arielle's advice column | Ask arielle A Question ]
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