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ive been trough many relationships, im a nice guy siriously, well every girl ive gone out with well they all ended up being bitches or something like that and they all broke up with me for dumb reasons like we wern't french kissing by our third day of going out and stuff like that, but this year i met this girl i thought she was different she told me she liked me but that she couldnt have a boyfreind till shes 16 so i told her i would wait, a few weeks later she told me she rather be freinds i told her it was alright but the other day i found out she has a boyfreind already, my point is, it there any girls out there who arent like that who are nice, pretty smart, and have a great personality? or why is it so hard to find someone like that? (link)
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There ARE girls that are all of the above: nice, pretty, smart, and have a great personality. And believe it or not, but if you truely want something it will come true within a matter of time. Try making up a list of all the characteristics of what makes up your perfect girl all the way from her hair length to her eye color to her romantic traits just EVERYTHING that makes up your perfect dream girl, and maybe she will come along if you wait long enough. Dont chase after love or lust, let it come to you.
I listed this dream guy and thought...nah he's too good to be true, it'll never happen, this is stupid. I kept that list for the longest time, and now I have my dream boy with my favorite name Chris.
Overall dont give up. Stay confident and your lady love will one day come
Hope that helps! dont forget to rate me!
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i like this guy but he doesntseem like to like u what do i do (link)
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Forget about the boy and move on. Your gonna be meeting guys throughout your lifetime that like you, so dont dwell on the ones that dont.
Just be confident in yourself and love life and dont be too cocky and guys will notice you and like you
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Is it better to have the guy you love for just one night, or not at all?
That's pretty much the choice I have to make. I can either be with him for one night, or never be with him.
I don't know what to do, I don't want to fall for him more and then just have to give him up, but I don't want to regret not being with him, even if only for a night.
He doesn't do exclusive relationships.
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One night stands might hurt you more than not having him at all. Your gonna be meeting better guys than the guy that just wants a one night stand or nothing at all. If I were you, I'd forget about the boy and wait for someone else
Hope that helps
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I really really like this guy! My friend is going out with him though and i dont think she knows that i like him! But they are really cute togher and i dont want to make her mad! He is a good friend of mine to! So it's hard to tell eaither of them because i dont know what's going on with them!! what should i do? (link)
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Girl, i know these times are hard. I've been there before...I liked this one guy and i introduced him to my cousin, and now they are going out. And I was in that position that you are in now asking myself what should i do? My head tells me "go" but my heart is saying "no". Trust me i've been there. Where am I now? I am now dating someone who I am in love with. And it's not my cousin's boyfriend. And now I don't like him because i really like my boyfriend and i can let them be. So my advice for you, is to go on to a different guy. And in the process of looking for that other guy and flirting with other guys, you will forget about your friends boyfriend and how much you liked him.
If you don't mind, could you rate me?
~MiSSc~
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my friend has kissed my very "friendly" friend and we have gone out a couple time and we still kiss occasionaly...but we havnt made out. the friend that has kissed him said he is the best kisser..and she has kised a lot of guys and said he was the best. i know he wants to do things with me but i get really nervous. should i just let him go for it? cuz i am very "blonde" and i tend to mess things up.a nd this is really important to me. my girl friend said she would teach me how..but i dont know what to do.
HELP!! I RATE HIGH!! (link)
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Hey hun,
listen, I'm not a pro on kissin' either, although i've been told that i ain't terrible either. The best thing to do, is when you know that he's gonna dive in for a smooch, just take a quiet deep breath, be confident, close your eyes and go for it! Don't think, just do. If you think, then your gonna get all nervous and mess up. So just, forcus on how cute he is, and give him a lil' kiss. That's all there is to it! Have fun! Stay in school, don't do drugs, no s*x, and live life it's fullest!
~missc~
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How would I get a guy to notice me besides the usual body/body kind of thing? (link)
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I guess I would cut the "come and get me" game. If he's not noticing you...just go up and talk to him. If he's the body body type of guy...then maybe he isn't the guy for you if he likes what he see's on the outside better on the inside. Of course...it's hard to find a guy that isn't a "body body" type of guy. LoL. So...I guess just find the best outfit in your closet and let him know the real you and have small talk...and as the small talk creases then it'll go to friends then more than friends, if things work out like planned. :) Well, I hope that helps! Please rate me...it helps me a TON! Thx.
~missc~
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im 14 and i am pregnant:-/...please dont judge me you guys...anyways i am going to have the baby and its going to be a surprise... if its a girl should i name is A. Madeline Ryan or B. Abbi Gail and if its a boy should it be A. Landon Asher or B. Cameron Maddox (link)
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Dear Kid,
Oh my god, your 14 and your going to have a kid. I know there is nothing you can do now, but i'm sorry you have to waist your childhood. Before you think of names for the kid, have you thought about how your going to keep up your grades in school, and change the babies dipper, feed it, give it a bath, give it toys, and if the boy that made the baby with you, is he going to help out? You got a lot of thinking to do for the kid, it's not gonna worry about its name. But since you kindly asked me for advice, I shall give it to you and my opionions... If it were to be a girl I like the name Madleline. But Abbi is cute to, but I like Madleine. If it were to be a boy I like Landon Asher, Cameron is cute but i'm not sure about Maddox. But it's your baby. Remember, if you need help with the kid, ask your parents for help! The baby needs as much loving and care as possible, and its relying on you.
Hope that helps! And thax for coming to me for advice!
~miSSc~
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I RATE.
Hi. I have been going out with girl for about 2 weeks now and she is coming over to my house tommorw. We have not kissed or made out yet, and I was wondering if anyone had any advice to get her to want to do it. Such as things to do, etc. I got a pool, TV, dvd player, computer, anything, lol (link)
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Dear Kissy Face,
You can kiss any time, any day, and anywhere. Romantic places to kiss would be under the stars or on the beach. In the pool might be fun, lets just hope she can swim. You can "watch" a movie. Computer...I give that 2 thumbs down for 1st kiss. But I guess it doesn't matter where you kiss, it just matters if you MEAN the kiss. A few tips on what to do, and what not to do. I'll do the Do's first...1)Know where her lips are before you kiss her, unless you are aiming else where (cheek). 2) Close your eyes, its rude to stare. 3) Dont start the pucker lips before you kiss. 4) Relax the lips, its an activity not an exercise, the tongue is the one that exercises. 5) Relax in general, if your neverous, take a silent small deep breath, and go for it. 6) Always brush your teeth before seeing your date. Here are the Don'ts... 1)Dont kiss after eating, that gets kinda grose. 2) Dont interupt her while she is talking to kiss her, kiss her when both of you aren't talking. If you don't know where to put your hands, put your hands either on her hips, waist, or put one hand under her chin or face. i hope that helps! Kissing is my best sport, and my favorite hobby. LoL.
~miSSc~
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I never had my 1st kiss and I'm 15 now, and i want 2 get my 1st kiss..but i'm nurves,i'm afraid that i will suck at it and i have no idea what to do!Plz tell me how can i not be nurves and just relax.
Thnx,
Ana (link)
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Dear Ms. Hot Lips,
Your really scared about your first kiss right? Well, I think the only way it could go wrong is tense up and kiss him. Kissing you normally do with someone you really care about, unless your playing a game or at a make out party. But if you can't get the butterflies out of your stomach, just take a deep breath, but not too loud, and when the moment is right, kiss him. If you dont know when the moment is right, then make sure your in a place where no1 is around, unless you dont care if people see, but its more romatic alone, have small talk, and ask him if you can kiss him. Or after the small talk, and the awkward silence comes, kiss him on the cheek and maybe he will turn his head and kiss you. But if your at home and before you see your date, make sure you brush your teeth! even if you two dont kiss. lol.
Hope that helps! You can rate me if you want!
That would help me a ton. Thanks!
~miSSc~
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ok so i went out with this girl (we'll call her jane) ok so me and jane started goin out last year march 20th 2003 and we were good for the first 3 months talkin and hangin out like we were meant for each other and really havin a good time then she broke up with me but i kept goin at it and we started goin back out keepin our original date so bout 9 months into the relationship shyt started gettin bad and we hardley ever talked, hung out or nethin but we still loved each other and shyt but when we talked we constantly fought.. so when march 20th came up this year it would have been a year and i thought that was pretty special idk maybe that sounds gay cuz imma guy but i really thought it was special and i wanted to spend time with her and everythin.. but we didnt talk or see each other at all and she didnt even call me so i got mad like ne other person would.. so we talk the next day and shes actin like nothins wrong so i get tired of it and i ask her if she still loves me and all that and shes like i love u but i dont have the same feelings for u nemore so i was like iight well then i dont wann go out with u nemore..... so its been over 3 months since we broke up but im in love with her and i dont wann let her outta my life ya kno so i keep goin at it but she stays at sayin that shes not ready for a relationship and so my question is....should i keep goin at it with her or just move on?
thanx
-Anonymous (link)
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Dear Mr. Anonymous,
You sound like me and my ex. We went through the exact same thing. We lasted 2 1/2 years, but probably broke up 30 times. And last Oct. we broke up for good. And after all of the good times and bad, I learned something from it...only I can provide my own happiness. Everything that happeneds is/was MY choice. So, I made a decision, instead of pushing him away, and trying to bring back love I can't have, I can always be his friend. So, instead of pushing him away, I accepted it. See what I'm saying? See what I'm saying? So, say my lesson to yourself, even if you feel like a dork, it's one lesson that is a lesson of life. "I can provide my OWN happiness. Everything is MY decision. Everying is MY choice. I can push Jane away, or I can accept the decision she made 3 months ago, and be her friend, so I can always be with her, and start all over again as friends, maybe later in the future get together as a couple again. Or I can try telling Jane I love her and take the chance of her taking it, or leaving it because THAT decision is hers." The choice is up to you.
I hope that helps! Remember you can always come to me for advice, the choice is up to you! LoL.
Sincerely,
MiSSc
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i need to no how u find a boyfriend...help me asap.
thxx (link)
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Dear Boyless,
Sorry, i couldn't think of a better name for you. Ok back to the question, how old are you? Are you ready for a boyfriend? Its EASY to look for a guy. Well that's EASY to say if your boy crazy. LOL. First of all, don't just go to the mall/street and ask for a guys number. That could lead you to a lot of danger. Look for one of your guy friends or a guy that you actually know. You'll defintly know when you like a boy, because they'll give you butterflies, or you start saying stupid stuff, or you start acting different, or you can't get your mind off them. Or you may think one of your guy friend is cute. Just ask them on a date. And then if you decide that you REALLY like this guy after the date then you got yourself a boyfriend. =)
~MiSSc~
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Eh, okay. I have a friend whom I cannnnot give advice! I just can't do it. Her problem is too complicated. So someone give me advice to give her.:P It'd be so appreciated. Her prob.:
"I've liked this guy, Alex, for about a year now. All throughout school I've never talked to him alone. Only during 1st period. (The only class I have with him) My problem is I'm at least 30 pounds over weight, but I'm popular...I'll admit it. I'm too shy to talk to Alex. I feel like he'll diss me, or something. But he seems really nice, and he's funny. But he's also one of those real popular guys. Omg, he's fucking sexy. Lol. Whhhhat do I do?"
Kks. Thanks tons, you all. xoxox Mariah
The girl's name is Jordan, if ya like...wanna write to her.:P (link)
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Dear Mariah,
Before i start i love your name! and thank you for comming to me for advice!! Ok back to business. I'm gonna pretend i'm giving advice to jordan, and i'd be more than happy if you took my advice and gave it to her, but if you want, u can say to her that u had a little help from a friend ;). Dear Jordan, you say you really like this guy alex for a long amount of time, but haven't talked to him 1 on 1, your affraid if you tell him how u feel he might make fun of u, or because your over weighted. If he's so nice, then he wouldn't make fun of you, and if he does, then i wouldn't bother liking him anymore because there are other guys in the world that will treat you better. And if u are over weighted don't worry about it! Just be yourself, and tell him how u feel, and hopefully he'll say something possitive. If he doesn't just say, i may be fat but your ugly and i can loose weight ;) lol. Ok Mariah, how does that sound? You can use my advice, but just use different words. You know what's kinda weird? I'm dating a guy named Alex, I hope she doesn't like him! Lol. Remember u can come to me for advice ANYTIME hun!
MiSSC
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I am 13 going on 14 and only 5'2 . I am tired of wearing super high heels as my mum hates it when i do this , and on top of that , my crush is about 5'11 !!! . Thats like , 9 whole inches taller than me .Which means that I only reach up till his shoulder , not wearing heels .
( He's 14 going on 15 ) Do you think that i am too short for him ? How can i grow taller ?? ( I know it seems impossible to MAKE myself grow taller , but any special diet suggestions ? ) (link)
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Dear Height-ie,
Girl, when it comes to love, it don't matter about height! I'm 5'2 too! And I read in a magazine, that guys DIG girls who are shorter than them. So, take OFF those high heels and show the real YOU! I know TONS of 5'6-6 ft guys who have crushes on me, and i've dated a guy who was really tall, and now i'm dating a guy who's shorter than me. So it doesn't matter HOW tall or short you are...it just depends on how BIG your heart is. Hope that helps!
Missc
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i broke up with my boyfriend because we werent acting like boyfriend and girlfriend... like whats the point of going out with someone if you act like more that friends when you are just friends and when we are more than friends we act like nothing! i still like him but i know we are better off being friends! what should i do?!?!?!?HELP!!!!!!! (link)
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Well, if you really like this guy and he really likes you in return, then give him another chance. And this time, if he's not making the moves, then you should...and eventually he's start pickin' up and loose the shy act. I mean, hey it's gotta be easier than training dogs! Well, hope this helps!
Missc
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I have a crush on my foster sister's boyfriend and he is younger than me, should I tell him about it or not let anyone know about how I feel for him? I need help. (link)
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Dear Confused,
The problem you seem to have is like...liking your best friends boyfriend, only she's family kinda. Think about this...Are you and your foster sister really close? Is he really worth it? If you and your foster sister's boyfriend got together...then what? Would she ever trust you again? Let's say you had a boyfriend and your foster sister liked him and tryed to hook up...how would you feel? Or is there no difference? If you REALLY, TRUELY, like him (if he's worth it..)then talk to her. But if you don't think that the relationship between the boyfriend and you will last very long...then don't bother. I can give you all the advice you want...but it's your feelings that will give you the answer. And remember 2 things...you can always come to me for advice, and feel free to ask as many questions as you like. and, "there are plenty of fish in the sea." In other words, there are plenty of boys in the world, but there's a perfect one, just for you.
Sincerely,
MiSSc
PS if your still confused feel free to write back =)
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Okay, today at lunch a guy that's friends with my friend "Tim" asked me out for Tim. Nice, huh? Well, problem is, I don't feel the same way about Tim... I don't wanna say no to him, cuz I'd feel soooo horrible, but I don't wanna date someone when I like this other guy A LOT. One of my best friends said that I should date Tim for a week, and dump him if I don't like him. I think that'd be evil! WHAT SHOULD I DO?! (link)
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Let me get this straight, you don't like Tim, but Tim likes you, but you like another guy. Correct? I get this all the time. Well, you don't want to "play" Tim, but you don't want to hurt his feelings because he's your friend. Well, you diffently don't want to play him because you wouldn't be a good friend and you wouldn't be true to yourself. But if you say no to him then, if he's really your friend then he might be ok with it. But he probably won't get over it that day that second, it might take a while...it just depends how much he likes you. But if I were you after you tell him "no" I would give him a hug to kinda let him know that you are still his friend instead of just saying "NO" then walk away which might hurt him more and might take longer for him to get over you. I hope that helps!
Sincerely,
MiSSc
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I think I'm going to ask the kid I like out...in a note? He was just so cute today...it was like a movie...and he's not that average heartthrob boy either. He's a ghetto white boy. But he's just...i dont know...should I? What should I say? He doesn't know me but it's worth a shot right?
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OK, so he's the cutiest guy in the world. But maybe there's more to him than that. Or maybe he's not what you thought he was. But before you ask him out and rush things, get to know him first, and not just his name. Because if you rush it and ask him out he might say, "no" because he doesn't even know who you are. So, get to know him and he just might say, "YES!".
Sincerely,
MiSSc
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Why do boys have ask girls out and why cant girls ask boys out. It make it so much more complicated for the boys. And the boys will never have a girlfriend if they are to shy to ask out the girl they like. (link)
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I think the reason why boys have to ask girls out instead of the other way around is because it's all part of being a gentlemen. And girls are more outgoing than guys I think, and for a guy to ask a girl out is showing true affection.
Sincerely,
MiSSc
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hey. well, to get right to it, there's this guy i fell in love with. he's a senior, and i'm a freshman, but i still love him more than life itself. but there are so many problems....he is my 19th cousin...do u think that's bad? then there's his "new" girlfriend. and the fact that he loves his 3rd cousin, which is worse than me. but the real problem is he is a vampire. i'm serious. he sucks his blood and everything! he's even tried to kill me a number of times. but i still fell in love with him somehow. but the day i found out he had a girlfriend, i slit my wrist 23 times. i've been doing it every night for almost a month now because of him. now, i'm not pretty or skinny, so it's not like i have another guy to like instead. do you have any advice? and then...there's my second problem. i'm 14, and there's this really nice, really sweet 22 year old who loves me. and i have no clue what to do. he's a minister, but he has a bad past and reputation. some of my friends are afraid that he'll rape me or something like that. but i like him alot. what should i do? cuz it's kinda illegal.......well, thanks in advance for any help you can offer. Bye (link)
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You seem really mature. But what's NOT mature is trying to kill yourself! You shouldn't do that just because of a guy. Are you sure that it was love? Or was it just lust? I believe that us teens are to young to be in "love". I believe in lust now days...there IS a difference between love and lust. But believe what you want. A piece of my advice would be to get a boy your own age. You are trying to find love to soon. Love will come to you. There are plenty of guys your age that might suit your likings. He doesn't have to be 22 or 19 or anywhere along those lines. As I said, love will come to you. whether its a week, a month, a year or years! Sometimes you have to wait for your prince charming to come and have your fairy-tale ending. But in the end when you find that special somebody that's your own age and that truely LOVES you, you'll be glad you waited and you didn't spare your life for that 22 and 19 year old.
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I like this girl at my school but she is 1 year older than me and in 1 grade ahead of me. She is on my bus and lives really close to me. I dont think she is very popular or has a boyfriend witch is good because im not very popular I mean I have a lot of friends but we are not in the popular group. How should I ask this girl out, do you think its even worth asking her out? Its so hard for me to think of what to say plus I dont know when to asker her out. (link)
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Dear Asking Someone Out,
How well do you know this girl? Do you guys talk to each other often? Do you think she likes you? When it comes to age, age doesn't matter. Its how much you guys feel about each other that counts. I once dated a guy that was 2 years younger than me. 14 and 11. Nobody made fun of us. They were mostly jealous. If you guys really like each other and if you feel comfortable dated someone that's 1 year older than you, then I say go for it and see how it turns out. I'd like to know how everything goes!
Sincerely,
MiSSc
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