Hey Everyone!
Megan here, but my friends call me Megz and you can too. I love to help people, I plan to make it my profession one day. I'd like to be either a pediatric nurse, Pediatrition, or Pediatric Oncologist. Depending on what happens on my life. I think the biggest part of my life is my faith in Jesus Christ, without him I would be nothing. Everything I do is in glory to him. The next biggest thing has to be my little brothers. They are my favorite two boys in the world, even though we don't always get along I love them more than anyone. My friends are important to me too, they are my family as well. I live in Iowa, I don't mind it too much, though I would love to live in the south. I would love to have a big old house in Virginia not far from the ocean. One of my passions is theatre, another is dancing. I love to dance I cannot go a day without it. It's just on of those things. I love to make new friends so you can IM me if you want, or email me or drop a note in my inbox. Hope to hear from you! Much Love and Peace out
E-mail: megz2009@hotmail.com
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Location: Carlisle, Iowa
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Age: 14
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ok i have a problem i just got together with this girl i have liked for a really long time i mean like ever sence we were little but it turnes out that she feel in love wit my best friend before me and her started datein and she still has feelings for him but he dont like her but then she says she cares about me but if she dont always act like herself then i know why. but i need to know if i should stay with her or not.thanx (link)
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No girl is going to forget her first love, or any love for that matter. She was in love with him, so she may still feel this connection to him even if it isn't love. It may also be akward for her to be dating his best friend even if she does care about you, and I am sure that she does or she wouldn't be dating you. If she is the type of girl that would date someone she doesn't like then she isn't worth your time. Give her a little time and see if things change. If not then she is still hung up on him and you should find someone who will only feel that way about you. Hope I helped. If you need anything else let me know- Megz2009
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I've liked this guy in my government class for about a month now and we never talked, sometimes we'd say hi or smile at eachother but that was about it! Then this past thursday i was walking out of the office in our school and i saw him there, he looked like he was going to say hi so i said hey and smiled and he did the same then i continued walking. So later that night i got home and i checked my myspace and he had sent me a comment, saying, "Hey! How are you? Did you like the movie today?" (we had gone on a movie field trip that day). So i then i wrote back, and we ended up talking for like 2 hours online. Then friday when i saw him in class we said hi but it was kinda like before we started talking. Then after school, i went on a walk with my friend and saw him there playing soccer and he was like flirting a little and smiled at me alot. Then when i got home we talked again for like an hour. so what im asking is does he like me, is he interested, was he just shy in school, because im really shy and wasnt about to go up to him like we were really good friends, so maybe hes the same? Well srry its so long please help! (link)
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Hey Girl,
What are you waiting for? He is showing interest, he likes you! *big grin* Your right, he could just be shy. You should go for it. Don't wait too long, he might think you have no interest. Congrats! I am happy for you. Megz
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ok so i think that recently you gave advice to my bff who said that she likes this guy who doesnt like her, but likes her friend. well, im her friend and i dont know what to do because i really dont like the guy she likes and i feel sooo bad cuz he likes me and everybody knows it. i dont want my friend to be mad at me and i dont want the guy to be sad that i dont like him. i just wish that the guy would like my friend and i could be happy for the both of them. what should i do? (link)
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To my troubled friend,
Oh sweetie, you should not feel bad at all. It's not your fault, and I am pretty sure I told your bff that. I hope she understood. You have a very hard situation, but I will give you the best advice I have.
If this boy likes you, it's only fair for you and him that he knows how you feel. I know that you don't want to hurt him, but it would hurt him even more if he thought that he had a chance for a long time and then found out you never liked him. If you tell him, don't say that it is because of your bff's crush on him-he might be bitter toward her.
According to your friend(i'm sorry this is where i left off i accidentally sent it) she thought at one time that he might like her. Maybe this is a little bit true. Say to him that this is what you two thought and see what he says.
I wish I could tell you a way to make this boy like your bff, but unfortunatly for us girls (lol) that is impossible. I know things would be easier if he would just like her, but boys are confusing beings, lol. I hope I helped you out. If you ever need anything else just let me know.
Good Luck,
Megz
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ok im in 8th grade and 13 years old...and ive had my eye on this girl since 5th grade...i gave her starbursts so she would get the point but she thought i was just being nice...shes falling out of a good relation ship thats dieing hard...and i was wondering...how long do you typically wait to ask out a girl, who's just getting out of a relationship...and she doesnt really care much for me annnnd to top it all off we dont go to the same school...but she's an amazing girl...13/m and i would prefer girls answering this Question (link)
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To the starburst charmer (my edited question :))
So you wanted a little bit of help starting from square one? Let he know that if she ever needs someone to talk to that your are there for her. Girls love that, it opens up the lines of communication and lets her know that you are dependable. If starting from square 1 means starting a relationship, try buying her a flower (they say that your are interested more than startbursts do lol) and maybe attach a sweet note. That will most likely get things going in that direction. I hope this is what you meant. If you have any other questions about this you can email me. Let me know how it turns out!!
Megz
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So I don't waste up all of your time, I'll make it short. I went out with this guy in 6th grade. 6TH GRADE!! And I still like him. It was over a whole year ago!! And the sad thing is, i dumped him. I don't know if i want to still move on or not. Him and i dont talk or look at eachother in the halls. We had a random relationship for umm.....2 WEEKS! and that's it!! Why cant i move on? I need to like someone else! But how do i let go? (link)
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hey,
I agree 100%, you are still young. Middle School and Junior High are akward years. You are starting to mature, both physically and mentally, and want to grow up. But take my advice and wait. Become closer with friends, work hard in school, and become better friends with this boy without being flirty or clingy. That way in a year or so, if you still like him, you have a head start on the relationship. If not, hey you have a good guy friend and those come in handy when you do start to date, meaning their opinions on the boys you go out with are valuable.
Good Luck,
Megz
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I don't know what to do. my boyfriend is deeply in love with me, obsesses over me, gets jealous really easy, annoys me, talks about beating up guys that I talk to, and cries when we get in the littlest fights. I'm going through so much right now and i just want to break it off with him because my families going through problems and I don't need his problems and commitment on top of it. I just don't know what to do. HELP MEE!
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Hey girl!
I know what it is like to have problems in the family. It's so stressful. Your BF should be there to help you get through it, not make the matter worse. If I were you I would give him a chance. Tell him he is crowding you and it is making you really stressed out. Don't let his crying blackmail you into staying with him. If he does not improve then you need to break it off because it is not healthy. Follow your instincts, most of the time they are right. Good Luck, it's hard breaking someones heart. Megz
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my name is Rachel and iam 16 and this boy asked me out yesterday at school,but he told me to keep it secrete is this normal for a boy who just started dating a girl to want to keep their relationship secret from evrybody?If it's not normal what should I do? (link)
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Hi Rachel!
Boys can be confusing sometimes. He may just want to make sure that the relationship works out before you tell anybody. But then again, he probably should have made sure that he thought it would before he asked you out. But to me this doesn't sound normal. Wouldn't a good guy want to show you off to the world? (I am a hopeless romantic, i'm sorry, lol) Ask him why he wants to keep it a secret, it's as easy as that :). He may or may not have a great answer, but his answer should give you enough info for you to make your decision. Hope this all made sense. Good Luck Megz
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I have a simple question that could have a lot of answers. What is a girl's favorite scent on a guy? Specifically, please. (link)
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hi, axe all the way! or curve for men. Just be careful not to bathe in it thats a major turn off. Luv~Megz2009
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I am a male, 15, and lately I've been wondering about something. There are many girls in our school and grade. I am a gentleman and open doors, get chairs, etc. for the girls. It is pretty much the same way with my friends, we are all like that. But the girls in our school keep saying they like "skaters" or "skaters are soo hot" and we really are wondering what is wrong with us. Not to boast, but all of us are good looking. The girls just keep talking about "skaters." So why is it like this, and do girls not like gentlemen or something? (link)
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Why can't there be more guys like you and your friends? There is nothing wrong with you at all, alot of girls prefer gentlemen. Keep it up and girls are bound to notice eventually, and thanks for reassuring me there are still some gentlemen out there. Luv Megz2009
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^^ title pretty much says most of it
because theres this guy i like and he likes me back and heres what happened.
He went to my basketball game last night and my friend chrissy was there because she wanted to see me play and then hang out after during the varsity game. so after my game, and during the half time of the varsity game, i go and sit down with chrissy after playing basketball with mike and some of my other friends. chrissy tells me that mike was watching me play before he came out to play and that he was talking about me like through out the whole game. she said he said that tomorrow at one of my friends parties that we are all going to, he is gunna ask me out and TRY to make out with me
problem is: ive never been kissed or kissed a guy. and i dont want to back out and make a fool of myself.
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hey honey. Do you really want to go out with a guy who is gonna ask you out and try to make out with you right away? Just because you guys are dating doesn't mean that he has the right to make out with you- wait until you feel ready and confident and trust the person you are with to stop when things start to go to far. take it one step at a time, when the time is right (and the guy is right too) then things will just happen. Slower is better- it will mean more. Your time will come. Don't let any guy make you feel like a fool. Luv Megz2009
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Am i pregnant? im going to take a pregnacy test! but i wanna know do people think i am?! I havent had my period since December 31st (new years eve)!and today is febuary the 4th! my back is hurting, i get really tired quickly, If i walk up the stairs i get tired out, I at all the time, My neck as been hurting alot, My stomach is hard and bigger!! and the last time i have had sex was 3 weeks ago. i use to do it like every weekend. so i dont know how long ago it was!! (link)
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hey, yes it is very possible that you are pregnant. It sounds like it at least. You should probably go to a clinic that offers free and confidential test so that you can be sure. Luv Megz2009
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So my boyfreinds birthday is next thursday and I want to do something special for him. But then comes the problem. We're both still in school (hes going to be 17 and im 16) So i can't really doing anything that great during the day...and then that night i have a volleyball game like an hour away and i usually dont get home until about 11pm so i dont know what I can do...anyideas?
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hi! my advice is to pay alot of extra attention to him during the school day. Maybe make him a cupcake or something and give it to him before school starts, decorate his locker, bring him a thoughtful present, make him a special lunch, and stuff like that. Maybe before you go to school you call him and sing him happy birthday over the phone. Just a few ideas, lol. All you have to do is let him know that you care, which you do, and he will feel special. Have fun! Luv megz2009
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How can you tell if a guy really loves you or is just interested in sex? I rate high! (link)
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hi! I just got out of a relationship where all the guy wanted was physical things a few months ago. He was all over me from the start and I had to push him away. Since he wasn't getting what he wanted from me he cheated on me. That's how I knew that he only wanted me for "advantages." Also whenever we were out he would check out other girls and comment about how hot they were. So watch how he looks at/talks to/acts around other girls, that could be a good clue also. I hope he really does love you, you deserve it. Luv Megz2009
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I technically can't "date" until I turn 16. I've had boyfriends before but not ones you actually go on single dates with and things like that. My parents are okay with that kind of thing, but what if a guy actually asks me out? What should I do then? Thanks! (link)
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hi, this may sound crazy but it might work. If you really really like the guy that asks you out calmly tell your parents that you were asked out and you are interested in this boy. If they are like most parents they will ask a ton of questions(mine are exactly the same way, lol) Tell them that you would like for them to meet with the guy and have him over for dinner sometime. That way your parents will have the chance to like this guy too. Dating is so much easier with your parents blessing. This is also good for picking out the good guys from the bad. A good guy would be willing to meet your parents. Good luck with the dating game! ~Luv Megz2009
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How should I ask my ex out becuase according to friends he still likes me and I want to take him to prom ... I'm very shy though so it can't be something very blunt (link)
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hi, I agree. It all does depend on how it ended. Just casually ask him, "Hey, whats up? How have you been lately?" or if that is too much (I am shy too so I know what it is like, lol) you could write him a note or text message him asking if he is interested in going to prom w/ you. If he says no you can just shrug it off and say, "Oh, just thought it might be fun for old times sake. See ya." It would probably be a good idea to have a foundation of friendship first, because from what I have experianced that is what makes relationships work. I hope everything works out for you! Luv~Megz2009
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