a guy who likes me whos supposed to like my friend
Question Posted Saturday March 25 2006, 12:15 pm
ok so i think that recently you gave advice to my bff who said that she likes this guy who doesnt like her, but likes her friend. well, im her friend and i dont know what to do because i really dont like the guy she likes and i feel sooo bad cuz he likes me and everybody knows it. i dont want my friend to be mad at me and i dont want the guy to be sad that i dont like him. i just wish that the guy would like my friend and i could be happy for the both of them. what should i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? megz2009 answered Saturday March 25 2006, 1:25 pm: To my troubled friend,
Oh sweetie, you should not feel bad at all. It's not your fault, and I am pretty sure I told your bff that. I hope she understood. You have a very hard situation, but I will give you the best advice I have.
If this boy likes you, it's only fair for you and him that he knows how you feel. I know that you don't want to hurt him, but it would hurt him even more if he thought that he had a chance for a long time and then found out you never liked him. If you tell him, don't say that it is because of your bff's crush on him-he might be bitter toward her.
According to your friend(i'm sorry this is where i left off i accidentally sent it) she thought at one time that he might like her. Maybe this is a little bit true. Say to him that this is what you two thought and see what he says.
I wish I could tell you a way to make this boy like your bff, but unfortunatly for us girls (lol) that is impossible. I know things would be easier if he would just like her, but boys are confusing beings, lol. I hope I helped you out. If you ever need anything else just let me know.
Good Luck,
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