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starbursts = love
ok im in 8th grade and 13 years old...and ive had my eye on this girl since 5th grade...i gave her starbursts so she would get the point but she thought i was just being nice...shes falling out of a good relation ship thats dieing hard...and i was wondering...how long do you typically wait to ask out a girl, who's just getting out of a relationship...and she doesnt really care much for me annnnd to top it all off we dont go to the same school...but she's an amazing girl...13/m and i would prefer girls answering this Question
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I personally think that you sound really sweet and would love to be with a guy like you. When shes just upset help comfort her and let her know you care its a good feeling. Then just keep hangin till you thing the time is right, don't ask to soon though cuz that will probley not end well but if you become good firend wait a while thing might work out well. Good luck.
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To the starburst charmer (my edited question :))
So you wanted a little bit of help starting from square one? Let he know that if she ever needs someone to talk to that your are there for her. Girls love that, it opens up the lines of communication and lets her know that you are dependable. If starting from square 1 means starting a relationship, try buying her a flower (they say that your are interested more than startbursts do lol) and maybe attach a sweet note. That will most likely get things going in that direction. I hope this is what you meant. If you have any other questions about this you can email me. Let me know how it turns out!!
Megz
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So many people offer me candy, and I think nothing of it.
Be her shoulder to cry on after she breaks up.
That is THE one thing that would for sure make a guy my boyfriend.
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anonymous -
From a girl's point of view, Starbursts doesn't hint that your interested. It's a kind gesture, but we're not going to get the hidden meaning unless you make it obvious! :P
Since she just got out of a relationship, I'd give her a little time to figure out what she really wants, whether it's to stay single for awhile or scope out some new guys. But one thing I would suggest is that you always be there for her.
I know guys have heard horror stories about being in the "friend zone" but they're not all true. I've actually considered dating a couple of my guy friends because they were so understanding, considerate, and caring. So be there when she needs you, talk to her when you get the chance.
Once you see her begin to overcome her feelings for the relationship {i.e. hanging out with friends more, smiling/laughing more often, flirting with boys, etc), then I'd ask her out for a movie...maybe as a group date to limit the pressure.
Hope this helps.
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It takes a lot of time for somebody to begin dating again when they just came out of a really long and healthy relationship that's gone bad.
So I think that you need to give her more space to find a sense of life without this guy until she can understand that she really can move on from it all without him by her side. It's very nice of you to buy her candy, but if you truly want to win a girl's heart, you have to be a friend to her at first. Be somebody who isn't just after her for her love, be her friend and then you'll start getting somewhere. Remember, she probably still has strong feelings for this previous guy, so it will take time.
-TheTeenGirl
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Well, it is good of you to consider that a girl actually needs time to get over a relationhip.
But I think that you need to get to know her more before you do anything.
Just talk to her, and connect with her befor you ask her out or anything.
Be there for her all of the time, and just be a good friend.
Once you guys get close you will just know when to ask her out....like it will just feel right.
Well best of luck with her, and if you need anything drop it in my inbox.
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