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I'm a 16 year old male who lives in Lackawanna, NY. I'm a Fillipino and I love to share my experiences and "Asian wisdom"! Feel free to e-mail me or im me on aim or msn messenger, I'll be happy to talk!

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My boyfriend is always putting his arm round my waist and touching me but I never know where to touch him. I don't want to be really outragous or anything, I just want to know how I should touch him.

I like it when girls keep their arm around my waist (or back pocket...). It just feels weird when I have my arm around a girl and they go for the shoulder instead. And if ur sitting down it's also nice to put ur head down on his shoulder to show him ur relaxed and not tense. Yeah that works about right, it's what I always like.

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You see, I really like this guy. I'm not so sure if he likes me or he's trying not to like me. We're pretty good friends. You see, I think he's still getting over his relationship with his ex girlfriend. She broke up with him, and he was devastated. I want him to move on, but I don't know what to do?

Talk to him about it, try to make him take his mind off of it. i've gotten plenty of people to move on from past relationships, and basically all you have to do is hang out with them, do things to take their minds off of them, go to movies, dances, malls, just chill with each other. and when you feel that he is ALMOST completey over it, ask him out, and if you've been gettin to know each other enough and trust each other than I belive it will work out for you two.
«3 good luck

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at my school there a girl who everyone likes and a boy who everyone likes..how do i make myself like that girl so the guys like me?

If u are serious about that then wear what she does, act like she does, do ur hair like her, just make only "cool friends" if she does. I think that it is just plain stupid to change yourself to make someone like you. I really think that u should just be yourself and just talk to a lot of people and get involved. You'll become popular and if you talk to the guy he'll notice you.

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Ok i guess this isnt really a definite true answer to this question but rather ur opinion. What is True LOVE?

I belive that true love is when u will do anything for that one that u happen to love and the same goes the other way around. It is when u believe that u will do absolutely anything and will want to spend the rest of your life with this person and the same is for that person. You have to know that the two of you wish to stay together for the rest of your lives and go thruogh everything together, both the good times and the bad, and forgive one antoher for the mistakes you may have made, and truly care for one another.

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to make a long story very short, a guy named mike has liked me since 7th grade...and i was never interested, persay, now, i like him, and i know he likes me, but hes so shy! everygirl hes dated or liked he never made a move on. tomoro well both be at this haloween party- the parents wont be home and i really want him to open up to me.. talk to me... and if i need to make a move, i will... how do i make a move ona guy? and how can i make him open up and talk to me?

I think that you should go for this guy. He may seem shy but underneath if you go for it i'm sure he'll go with. He may be the type of guy that likes it when girls make the first move, like myself, and is probably too uncomfortable to make the first move. To make him open up i feel that you should just go up and talk to him. introduce yourself and get the convo started yourself. You jkust have to be outgoing and gather your courage and just talk to the guy, I'm sure he'll be dying to tell you what's on his mind! Well good luck and have fun!

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im going out with this guy since yesterday who i've never talked to. we're in the same health class. tomorrow his friend told me to talk to him. im really nervous because i dont know what to say at all. any ideas? also, how should i make it look like im not as nervous as i really am? thanx!

I think that you should just be yourself and talk to him like you have known him forever. Or just act like he is one of your guy friends. Ask him what he wants to talk about and if he asks for your number or anything just let him know it. Ask about himself and how he's doin and everything should be fine!

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Ok..ive liked this guy for awhile now and he finally asked me out. But the thing is he goes to a different school and i barely see him. We dont really talk much either in person that is. So i turned him down. And plus ive been goin thru alot of stuff lately w/ my family. is that bad that i turned him down..my friends think it is..

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I don't think it's bad because if you're having problems at home with your family and you don't need someone else to worry about while you're having trouble. Besides if you guys go to different schools and barely see each other it would be the same thing it is now except for the occasional in person meeting. I've tried going out with people from different schools and it never worked. They can do what they want at their school and you wouldn't find out about it. You wouldmost likely be constantly worried.

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ok i like this guy named jamie who is kind of a dork but he used to like me and a lot of people still thing he likes me. i used to think that he was really weird and annoying but now i figured out that i like him...a lot! anyway he is moving to Hong Kong in January so i'm not sure if i should tell him how i feel or not. he's kind of like a geek in my grade so if we were going out i would be thought of as a loser for the rest of my school life. i was thinking that i could tell him on his last day of school but then if he liked me too then i would feel really bad that i didn't tell him sooner. i'm worried that if i tell him that i like him now he'll either a. not like me and tell all of his friends or b.tell me that he does like me but then he would still tell all of his friends and i would be thought of as a loser.please help soon because i really dont know what to do!

I think that you should let him know before he goes to Hong Kong because if you like him as much as you say you do you wouldn't really care what other people think. You wouldn't be thought of as a loser just because you like someone. I think that you should be different from everyone else and go for what you want and not care what everyone thinks about you! Belive me when I stopped caring what people thought about me my life got a lot less stressful because You can do what you want to do when you just don't care.

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alright well i dont wanna be like another girl saying oh my relationships arent workign out its only been a month blah blah .. yeah thats not a real relationship .. see for about 3 years now on and off i've been with my boyfriend .. this is the third time we've been together adn its been about 2 months but for some reason it just hasnt seem the same at all .. and he is completely obsessed and always says to me how im like his life and idk what to do because i know how badly i'd hurt him .. and im scared because what if me and him really do have a future with eachother but just not right now and if i ruin it with him now he might not want me later in life .. please i could use any advice

I think that you guys should stick together for as long as you can and try to work out all your problems. If it worls out you obviously have a good life ahead of you. If things don't work out for you than you can take a break from the relationship because you never know until you try! «3 :)

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Okay, this guy asked me out and I really like him in all but he is shorter than me. Please don't leave well if you like him then it wouldn't bother you. I know that I need advice on how it won't affect me, if that makes any since?! PLease Help!!!

I'm pretty short myself but I've had plenty of girlfriends that are taller than me. If your afraid of what people may think, they dont care no one ever said anyhting about any of my relationships with taller girls, so just go with him if he is a nice guy, and u like him. YOu're gonna get used to it after a while so it won't bother you. Unless ur shallow of course but I doubt that if your on this site knowing u need help. :)

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my sister has become like a secert kind of person lately. we used to tell everything to each other. when i looked at her mail by accident she wrote i love, she told me she is jk around. i saw I LOVE U to all the letters she wrote to him. my parents r also worried about her. what should i do?

I think that you, as a sister, should talk to her about her and how shes doin and just one day slip in the question about boyfriends and stuff one day she might want to tell you some exciting news and you could maybe meet this guy and see if not a jerkoff and is nice. Maybe your sister doesnt want you and your parents to know about her love interest just yet. Eventually she'll tell someone, but I still suggest you talk to her about it just in case It's not good.

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i like this boy at school- he's your average funny, sweet guy. i met him this year and i think he's so perfect no matter his flaws. he always can make me smile and i wouldnt want anything more in a guy.
my problem is he's a tad more popular than me and im not sure if he'd be interested. sometimes it seems he is, others it seems he doesnt even know who i am. i occationally talk to him in my science class where he sits next to me... [hurrah for assigned seating]... lol... but the only friend that is good friends with him is my friend kate. she used to be my best friend but over the years we went our separate ways. she wants me to tell her who i like because she will talk to whoever it is for me and help me with him. but im not sure if i should trust her- we arent the friends we used to be... but she is my only connection to finding out what he's thinking. im extremely shy around guys, and i dont know his screen name or email or anything... please help =[
-love is beaten me around

I think you should talk to him yourself, you know get his digits, aim, and e-mail so you can hang out after school and junk, and after a while you can have your friend give him little hints about you liking him and stuff if you decide to tell your friend (which I recommend, we like hearing from other girls about who likes us)! In the end I'm sure it'll work out great!

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ok im shy and i like this guy at my school. i dont know if he likes me or not. i dont kno what to do and how to find out or anything. i do notice that he looks at me sometimes. please help!!!

I think that you should just go and talk to him. Gather up all of your courage and start a conversation with him. He obviously noticed you if he looks at you everyone once and a while even if it's just a glance. After you guys get to know each other a little better, you should try and take the relationship further if thats what you want to do

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Ok theres this guy lets call him,um, "todd"... well "todd" is in my science class..today he was like ur really quiet n i was like not all tha time he was like yeah i know i saw you at lunch today laughin n talkin n smiling n stuff..n we kept talkin..n then he was like "ur so sexy,perfect for me" i kno its a song...but he sings it everytime we talk...is he tryna tell me something? does he like me?
Sry its long ill rate good if you answer

I think that he obviously does like you. But on the safe side I would just what for more little hints and then just up and ask him out of the blue or after he gives you a hint :) I know I would like that, being a guy and all. That's sorta the thing I would do to give off little hints if I didn't want to front.

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Hey every1. Um my problem is a little embarrassing. I have this boyfriend that I have been going out with for a while now. I really like him, but he wants me to do all this sexual stuff. I don't want to do it but everytime I say no, he (its pretty embarrassing)tickles me under my arms. I am really ticklish in my armpits and each time i say no, he holds me down and tickles me. No matter how many times i tell him not to, he keeps at it. I really like him and I dont want to break up with him, but I cant stand much more sexual stuff and tickling. Please help me! Thanks!! Jen, 16

15/m

I think that you should just tell him that you are not ready for a sexual relationship and if he doesn't understand that than either have one of your friends or one of his to talk to him about it. Or just let him know how you feel. If he doesn't back off than I think you should find a new boyfriend. «3

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I've liked this guy for a long time but he's currently going out with a friend of mine....so how do i seduce him to like me without letting her know that i want him ?

I Think He Might Like Me Too But She's Always In The Way

I'm a guy and I'm 15 years old.. i say that you should just let your friend have him. She is your friend and I'm sure she would be mad if she even found out about it. Is this guy really more important than your friendship with this girl? I say keep the friendship and find your own guy!

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hey yosh... its alex, im going crazy, and u know why... WTF shud i do!?!?!?!

I think that you should give josh a chance. If he keeps up his BS then you know what you should do. It's a guy thing with moods. In other words we have mood swings too.
And with Anthony I know that he is Josh's friend but he is really a cool kid and I think u guys would make a great couple!
No it's not your fault so you don't have to apologize to him or anyone else.

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