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Member Since: September 26, 2004
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Last Update: September 26, 2004
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all of my friends have sex now, im 14! and i dunno i can't ever have sex with anybody if they ever ask me, and i know many people are going to tell me to wait n stuff, but i love my boyfriend and i really want to have sex with him!! but i can't im too afraid, or im just uncomfortable w/ my body, how can i do it??! please gimme sum help! (link)
I don't think you should, but if its something you're sure you won't regret, and you're ready for a kid incase the contraceptive doesn't work... or if you have enough money for an abortion.... i guess it would be alright. If you really want to, you should try doing other stuff first... then if you're sure you're ready, you should be pretty comfortable with it. If you still aren't comfortable with your body, you should wait until you're married, becuz then you should be comfortable with your husband if anyone.


im starting to fall for this sweet/funny kid in my classes at school, we sit next to each other and he's very nice to me all the time. i really want to get to know him better- but he's really popular... not stuck up popular... but popular as in not the crowd i usually hang out with everyday. i know the people he is usually with at an okay relationship, but other than that our social lives are completely different. im really shy and i cant "hang out" with him or anything because we arent that close yet. he seems like someone i could really trust, but im not sure if it's worth the chance of even bothering. advice? (link)
give him a note or something... ask him what hes like, or something that you want to know specifically. just talk to him, and if you're still too shy, just keep writing notes!


What does 143 mean ? im a little slow. (link)
I'm not sure about most people, but my ex and i used to have it mean i love you


Um.. like on wordpad, how can you take text and put it into a box? like have a category heading or whatever in a small box? (link)
If you're talking about the heading, you go to insert, then header and footer. after that, you press close, and it goes away, but when you print, its there


Ok...my friend Abby has major problems. She's always telling everyone shes fat when shes only 100 pounds!! We are 13 and also she used to cut herself. She passed herself out in the shower and she got a big bruise on her back. Her mom is always in jail for doing drugs and her mom had a mixed baby! Abby lives with her grandparents... and they dont take her seriously when she says that shes Depressed. I tell my mom everything she tells me and my mom is really trying to help her and my mom even looked up people to help her...do you think we are doing the right thing by helping her? or should we let her deal with her parents? please help my friend! i will apprecaite it soo much! (link)
If she is still cutting, try to take away what ever it is shes finding to cut with, and talk to her often about it. Tell her shes definately not fat, and explain that there are many people who way much more than her that are the same height and age.... if its true, which i'm guessing it is. You're definately doing the right thing, and so is your mom. keep up the good work!


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okay, me and my ex bf went out for a year and were TOTALLY inlove with eachother we even talked about marrying eachother..we broke up about a year ago over a big fight..It was becuase he was trying to get with this other girl at like the last few days of our relationship, and then when he would try and apalogize just to become friends again, he would go off and talk so much crap about me..he did me wrong and hurt me so bad..its been a WHOLE YEAR and im still not over his ass..plzzz dont tell me, girl its been a year get over him, because TRUST ME thats whut ive been trying to do :[...im a really good looking girl, smart, ambitious, respectful..and with him, yeah hes really good looking, funny, etc, but he didnt even graduate from highschool, he smokes/drinks all the time, gets in fights, back stabs ppl, etc, but like NO1 sees that in him because he is SOO funny and makes every1 laugh,etc so they dont see the bad qualities in him..he gets alota girlz, etc..i dunno i just cannot stop thinking about him and its been so friggin long, like 4 hours cant go by in my day that I dont think about him..He changed my life so damn much, for the better and for the worst...i wonder if he ever thinks of me, i mean i was his first gf, his first love, his highschool sweetheart, etc...im still only a junior, and still have 2 years left of highschool...im just really down...plz help me if you can..
thanks so much (link)
I know almost exactly how you feel! I just dumped my bf about 3 weeks ago becuz he cheated on me with one of my best friends!!! But shes a slut! Anyways... i guess i don't know exactly how you feel, becuz he still tries to flirt and wants me back really bad... and he also doesn't talk behind my back... but i can understand how u can't get over him... i won't tell my whole life story... but i kinda had another situation like that... ANYWAYS! my advice is simple... talk to him about it! tell him how you feel, and tell him that it hurt you that he did that to you... tell him he should feel like crap, and, what i would do, YELL AT HIM!! its so much fun to take out all your agressions in yelling! Chew him out!!! lol... sounds fun doesn't it?


My question is I have know this guy for almost fifteen years. We have known each other since the third grade and the whole time I have known him I like more then just a friend. We used to be good friends but in eighth grade he asked me if I wanted to have sex with him and when he asked me I didn't say anything. But after that day we weren't good of friends like we were before because I didn't know how to act around him. But in high school I noticed that he still likes me because I use to catch him looking at me and smiling and sometimes we would smile when ever we looked at each other because we always had a class together through high school. When we graduated he wrote something really nice but the thing is I don't know if he is the type of guy to write the same thing in every girls yearbook or if he just did it in mine. But to this day I don't know if he wants to be more then friends or not. But I found out that he hoined the army and I am thinking of writing him a letter but I am not sure because we haven't keep in touch in almost four years so what should I do. (link)
talk to some or one of his friends, and ask what he is like now... if they're really his friends... they should know. From that, you should be able to come up with something to write him about!




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