I was wondering, how do I turn my boyfriend on through kissing? We have been going out for 8 months and I'm 16.
bite his lip, or maybe straddle him while your kissing him, kiss his neck, play with his hair, just experiment with stuff and watch for what reaction you get
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Have any ideas of why my boyfriend has this fetish over fingering my bum?
that's not so weird. A lot of guys like that. I think maybe because it's tighter.
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well me and my boyfriend are both virgins. and well hes 18 and im 17 going to be 18 in september. well he says i have to wait til i turn 18 to have sex or a baby. cuz he dusnt wnt to hear crap from my mom. and if im an dult then i can do it. well also that way we can both make sure we are ready. we both love eachother very much. and we have been together for over a year already. well i really dont have a question but im scared that once we do have a baby that something will happen and i wont be able to have one. is there any way that i can make sure everything inside my body will work right once i get to 18 cause i want a baby..his baby more then anything. and i dotn want something to happen and like we cant have a baby. you know?! like for example i eat hot cheetos like all the time. is there any way that can ruin my things on the inside that will keep me from getting pregnant.? someone please answer this i know i have time but if theres any adviceid really like to start watching out for it now. that way there is no problems when i get there. so please and thankyou soo much!! xoxo
Obviously drinking, smoking, and drugs are bad. Some medicines are bad, and stds (i'm guessing thats probably not an issue for you) or yeast infections can also cause infertility. I also heard somewhere that to make sure your child doesnt have any issues, you should be at least 20. I think this is mainly an issue for younger teenagers or teenagers who went through puberty late though so I dont think that will be a huge issue for you. I would recommend talking to a doctor about it or doing some research online about pregnancy do's and donts. There's way too much information for me to put it all in this answer. Good luck though. I hope everything works out for you!
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What traits, to you, does the PERFECT GUY possess?? State all the traits you think would make up the perfect, possibly unattainable guy...
I need this for my online project :) xxx Thanks in advance
Please help! And don't leave anything out!!
This makes me sound really superficial but oh well at least im honest. He has to be good looking. Like tall and muscular and nice eyes and a nice smile and nice hair haha. But personality is important too. He has to be nice and able to make me laugh. He also has to be generous and have lots of money! hhahahahahah oh and a good kisser :)
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Ok there's this guy i've known for like 2 years now. hes great but we only get to see each other like once or twice a week at basketball practice. i flirt with him and he flirts back(i know he likes me) but he has no clue i like him. its like he just doesn't think its possible. i look at him and know hes not hot but for some reason i've always been attracted to him. i really really like him but part of me is afraid to ever really act on it because i'm scared i'll change my mind when we're dating and hurt him. our parents are pretty close and his family loves me so i don't want to screw that up. also the next relationship i want to be in is a long one. times kinda running out because if bball ends and me and him aren't dating by then i will really never see him again. what should i do!? i need answers now please.
thanks:)
I think you should go for it. It may not be a long relationship and it may not work out in the long run but then you can just apologize and say that you still want to be friends or whatever. And if you dont at least try it you'll probably regret it later.
If he's like insecure about the way he looks try to casually bring up that you're kinda attracted to him. That also lets him know that you might like him. And then later maybe ask for his number casually and you can start texting him or talking on the phone so that way if you dont get a relationship before the season is over then you can still talk to him. If theres a movie you both wanna see than you could ask im to take you and then be like its a date and wink or something silly like that.
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me and my boy friend have bin together for near enough two years weve always fought through evri thing together and stayed strong but i asked him if he truly still loved me he sd yes but then sd its different between us and its best for me if were not together he says im young and beautifull and should live my life but i dnt think he understands i want to spend it with him he keeps saying it will be best for me is he just trying to break up with me nicely wb x
I'm not totally sure exactly what your asking so just to clarify: Are you asking if he's just trying to be nice about breaking up with you or if he's just doing whats best for you? or something along those lines? haha I'll answer that and i'm sorry if its totally not what you're asking lol
I'm not exactly sure how old you are or what your romantic history is. I'm guessing that you're about my age from the way you write (no offense or anything haha i write the same way) But yeah I was in a pretty similar situation and I can definitely see where the guy is coming from. I had a boyfriend from the middle of sophomore year to the middle of my senior year of high school. I loved him so much and I really wanted to spend the rest of my life with him and blah blah blah.. but the problem was that that was my first serious relationship so i didnt really have anything to compare him to.
I think you should listen to your (ex?)-boyfriend. If he's just breaking up with you because he thinks its whats best for you, then you can date other people to get an idea of what you want in a romantic partner, and if after you date a few other guys and still think he is the one, then you can go back to him and live happily ever after. If he is just trying to break up with you in a nice way, then he doesnt want to be with you, and he's kinda pussying out (no offense to him) by not being honest with you about his reasons, so you shouldnt be with him anyways.
I don't really know what he's doing because i've never met him but my guess for most guys would be that he might have gotten a little bit scared if you told him that you wanted to be with him forever and just made an excuse to break up with you nicely. For this guy though, since youve been together for about two years and you stayed strong and what not, he might be just looking out for your best interest. Or maybe he wants to date other people too to find out if you're the right girl for him.
Hope that helped a lil bit!
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im 18/f and my boyfriend is 21/m we've almost been together a year and for our anniversary i want to get matching necklaces. Like half a heart for him and the other half for me and it have a saying on it. Or any other his and her necklaces. i've been trying to look around on the internet but most of it is all girly. Does anybody know any good websites to go to for that?
Thanks a bunch!
I dont think they do much stuff like this unfortunately.. i was looking for awhile. What i ended up doing is getting dog tag necklaces that could be engraved.
here's an example:
http://www.evesaddiction.com/detail_NL10401__563__Personalized_Stainless_Steel_Love_Dog_Tag.html
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Okay i am dating this guy, and i mean we are doing fine and everything, hes just younger than me and things.. and my ex boyfriend? we haven't been together since probably last valentines day? and the guy i'm dating we have been together for like a week now.. but my ex is telling me he wishes that he could take that part of his life back where he broke my heart, that he still loves me and he always will and he misses me and he wants to be with me and that im the one for him?
-bad part about it is, he has never said anything like that before to me? so i really don't know if i should give him another chance, or what? i mean i still love him & no matter what i would do anything for him, and he has told me he has changed and his mom even said he has? and he cried over me the other night, and he tells me EVERY day that he means that! except last night, he told me that he will always feel the same way about me, but he just doesn't want to hurt me again or anything, and he wants me and him to be friends and he just dont want to date at the moment, but yet he said he still feels the same and always will no matter what? and for a year straight i always wanted him back, and he never would consider it? but now that i have a boyfriend i think he has finally realized what he wants, or maybe he is just telling me that? i dunno..so what should i do? please helpp me =(
I was in a situation kinda similar to this.. the guy went like months without talking to me and every once in a while id send him a message on facebook or aim or text him and he never responded and then out of no where he texted me and was really really nice to me for like three weeks and i was sooo happy and then he was back to not talking to me again. he just wanted to have sex with me and once he did that he had no use left for me. that sucked and i was really sad about it for along time.
Haha sorry i took up so much space with a story about me when im supposed to be answering your question but i would probably say that this sounds a little suspicious. If you still love him and want it to work than you should try to make it work but dont get too attached to him right away and dont make it too easy for him. He needs to earn your trust back after hurting you. You can start out just being friends and see how that works before you go and end it for no reason with the guy you're currently dating. But I'm sure that since you two have been dating for such a short time, he would understand if you said you still had feelings for your ex.
Hope that helps, and i really hope it works out for you two. Good Luck!
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okay so my boyfriend is a marine and we've been going out for almost 2 years. he is being deployed soon out to afganistan. but i can still send him stuff for his birthday and the holidays. besides the fact i dont know what to buy a guy in general, i dont know what to get him that would last over sea shipping, and show him i love him.
help
ok here are some ideas:
you could get him a really nice comfy blanket but use it for awhile first or spray the perfume you usually use on it to make it smell like you so he has something to remember you by and cuddle up with when he misses you.
you could take some pictures of yourself for him or get some pictures of you two together and make cute little frames for them.
you could write him a sweet letter or poem or draw him a picture if you're artistic.
Really what he would appreciate most is probably something very personalized that would remind him of you. hope that helps a little bit
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ok this is what my ex boyfriend.. said meaning going back out.. what does this mean
ik u do maybe when this shit calms down we can try again but idk
what was the reason you broke up? maybe thats what the "shit" he's taking about is.
or was it a pretty rough break up? maybe he means that when you two calm down and have some time away from each other, then you can try again
or maybe he's just saying that so you'll stop bugging him about getting back together. Who knows. but those would be my best guesses. If you really want to know what he meant than you should ask him and he may or may not give an honest answer but you probably have a better chance of him telling you what he meant than people on here. If that makes any sense haha.
Good Luck!
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I'm a 15 year old girl.
So to start off you must know that according to people in my school I'm in the "popular" clique. It kinda sucks because whenever I like a guy they think I'm joking or pulling a prank just because of my "status". It really sucks because now people are like you must have really high standards because you don't like anyone! Which is totally not true it's pretty much the exact opposite! Someone please help me, what should I do?
prove them wrong and go out with someone! haha especially if its a really nice person who's not all that good looking. Then people will know that your standards aren't way too high. Haha hope that helped.
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I'm 14, and a freshmen in high school. I'm on the debate team, and i have the biggest crush on my senior mentor (17). I know it's unusual, but do seniors ever date freshmen? I'm definitely not one of those slutty girls who parade around schools trying to get the upperclassmen to notice them, but do seniors ever notice freshmen if they aren't shoving their boobs up to their neck?
it could happen. Most of the girls i've known who were freshman and dated seniors got labeled as sluts, but not al of them. And most girls mature faster than guys so its really not that big of an age difference. Good luck!
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I am going on a date with a really nice guy soon and I want to make a great first impression on the date. He knows me from work but I really want to show him a different side of me. I am really already shooting for another date after this first one, as long as everything goes smoothly and there isn't some twisted shocker by the end of it. I think I know him pretty well but I want him to be as interested in me as I am in him.
I know I need to dress nice and be polite, but I'm sure that's not all. He's never seen me outside of the work environment and I really want to wow him with myself. I am a pretty down to earth girl, and I don't do anything wild or risky (I don't drink, smoke, have sex, etc.), but I want to show him that I'm interesting.
Can anyone just tell me how to make a great first impression on a date? I mean, how in the world do you act on a date? I don't want to be pushy but I do want to show him I'm into him. What do you do on a date? How do you act on a date? Are there specific things I need to say or do while on a date?
i know this is kinda like the answer that you expect to here but seriously... be yourself. Cause if you try to be someone else to impress him then he may fall for the someone else that you're trying to be and not you. And they you'd have to act different the whole time you were dating him. haha so yeah good luck hope it goes well!
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I AM A 15 YEAR OLD MALE
at my school i am known for having a big dick and my girl freind is really short and small. well ive fingered her and shes given me head and i think we both no that im not going to b able to fit but we both wont to have sex wat should i do
when you go to have sex with her make sure to use lots of lube and make sure she you pleasure her alot before you try to stick it in lol and do it very slow to see what her reaction is. Her hymen might already be gone from you fingering her or a tampon or something.
Its also a good idea to stretch her out alittle bit before you have sex. With your fingers and with maybe other objects that are closer to the size of your dick.
I had my first time with a really big guy and i'm really petite and it didn't hurt at all. He made me orgasm with his tounge before he even tried to go inside me and i think that helped alot.
And you should make sure she's emotionally ready to lose her virginity. There's no age where you become ready to lose it and you don't have to be married to be ready like the person below me said but you should care about her alot.
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when does sex stop hurting?
its different for everyone. It never hurt me. If its hurting you than maybe next time you should try lube or before sex try fingering with a few fingers to loosen it up a little bit.
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i've been shaving *down there* for a while now, but a day afterwards i always get red bumps and occasionally i accidentally cut myself there and i always have to wait like three weeks before i can shave again because it isn't long enough.
...does anyone know how to wax?
does it hurt?
how often should you do it?
if your hair down there isn't long enough to shave, then it isn't long enough to wax either. Yes, it hurts, a lot. And you still sometimes get the bumps. I'd stick to shaving...put lotion on afterwards and it may be less irritated.
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