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confused??
me and my boy friend have bin together for near enough two years weve always fought through evri thing together and stayed strong but i asked him if he truly still loved me he sd yes but then sd its different between us and its best for me if were not together he says im young and beautifull and should live my life but i dnt think he understands i want to spend it with him he keeps saying it will be best for me is he just trying to break up with me nicely wb x
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I'm not totally sure exactly what your asking so just to clarify: Are you asking if he's just trying to be nice about breaking up with you or if he's just doing whats best for you? or something along those lines? haha I'll answer that and i'm sorry if its totally not what you're asking lol
I'm not exactly sure how old you are or what your romantic history is. I'm guessing that you're about my age from the way you write (no offense or anything haha i write the same way) But yeah I was in a pretty similar situation and I can definitely see where the guy is coming from. I had a boyfriend from the middle of sophomore year to the middle of my senior year of high school. I loved him so much and I really wanted to spend the rest of my life with him and blah blah blah.. but the problem was that that was my first serious relationship so i didnt really have anything to compare him to.
I think you should listen to your (ex?)-boyfriend. If he's just breaking up with you because he thinks its whats best for you, then you can date other people to get an idea of what you want in a romantic partner, and if after you date a few other guys and still think he is the one, then you can go back to him and live happily ever after. If he is just trying to break up with you in a nice way, then he doesnt want to be with you, and he's kinda pussying out (no offense to him) by not being honest with you about his reasons, so you shouldnt be with him anyways.
I don't really know what he's doing because i've never met him but my guess for most guys would be that he might have gotten a little bit scared if you told him that you wanted to be with him forever and just made an excuse to break up with you nicely. For this guy though, since youve been together for about two years and you stayed strong and what not, he might be just looking out for your best interest. Or maybe he wants to date other people too to find out if you're the right girl for him.
Hope that helped a lil bit!
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