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my name is savanna. im 13 years old and i LOVE to give advice. if you have any questions at all im here to help :)
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alright i dont no wat i should do.i really like this guy and we r friends.he is 16 and i am 13.a big differance i no.but i really like himcause he is sweet ,nice,funny,opened,and really cute.but i dont no wat to do .wat do u think.o yea and im a girl of course.
ok. well this might not be what you wanna hear. but guys that are 16 have different things on there minds then holding hands and kissing. this guy may not even be a virgin and a 16 year old guy doesnt wanna go up to his high scholl friend and say yea im dating a 7th or an 8th grader. it sounds like you just have a crush on him, kinda like the crushes you have on celebrities. sorry if this isnt what you wanted to hear. you dont have to rate or wahtever.
August 5th will be my one year anniversary im so excited.. well i wanted to get him something and my mom gave me an idea but i wanted to know if people thhought it was corny or stupid.. well there is this store place near my house kinda called Build A Bear.. and i was going to make him a Monkey cause its his favorite animal and this i was going to get a San Antonio Spurs shirt or something and put it on it cause thats his favorite basketball team.. well i wanted to know does that sound childish and stupid.. or does it sound okay.. i just dont want to feel stupid givin it to him.. By the way he's 15 almost 16 and im 16 almost 17.. thanks in advance an if you think its stupid and childish give me some ideas on what to get him THANKS!!
wow. thats a great idea. it has meaning to it and its more than just buying him something from walmart , ya know? another good idea would be to make like a memory book. like take a bunch of pictures or like things from dates you guys went on like if you keep movie tickets or something from a restaurant and put it in the book. hope i helped & i like to know if im giving good advice so feedback please :)
vanna:)
ok this is a dif. guy but i was wondering the same thing. I read all the answers of the last guy and i'm confused-some people say weird-some people say cute
i need to know this too pleez cause me and my gf are going to the movies 2 weeks from now!!!!!!!!
i honestly think it depends on where you are in the date. like in your in the movies nd yall are holding hands then go for it. but it'd be differnt if you guys were like on her front porch then if you ask it'd be cute. but if you ask in the middle of the movie then it might ruin the moment. hope i helped oh, & i like ot know if im giving good advice so feedback please :)
vanna :)
HELP ME! I WILL RATE 5s FOR ANYONE WHO TRYS TO HELP! i am going out with this guy that i really like and i kinda like this other guy to and he likes me and idk what to do cause i like the guy i am going out with and i dont want us to break up! what is a better choice. THANKS SO MUCH
ok. i was in this exact situation. what i did what i wrote down everything i liked about the guy i was going out with and everything that bothered me and then i did the same for the other guy. then i looked at the list and i was screw this and i listened to what my heart said. if you dont want you and the guy that ur goin out with to break up then dont unless u have a good reason to break up . hope i helped :)
vanna :)
Girls: Do you think it would be cute for a guy to ask before kissing a girl? Would you find that cute or weird?
i definitly think i'd be cute. it shows that he respects her and likes her enough to not make her feel uncomfertable. definitly not weird. hope i helped :)
vanna :)
ok i love this girl sooooo much i think im crazy. We are going to a movie 2 weeks from now with friends. I need someone OLDER LIKE 16 & UP to answer this- what should i do? should i put my arm around her and for how long-should i try to hold hands?? i am almost positive that she would do whatever back (holding hands, putting her arm around me etc.,)PLLLLLLLEEEEEEEEEEEEZ help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
-wondering
ok well im not 15 years old yet but i definitly know what id like a guy to do for me in a movie. it really depends on the kind of girl. if shes the kinda girl who loves a gentleman then open the doors for her and stuff. if she like me and really doesnt care if she has to open the door then leave it at that. the number one rule is to be sweet and not rude. yeah try to put your arm around her in the movie or something. & maybe slide your hand over and put in on top or right next to hers. and hold hands for however long you want, you know? it really doesnt matter. but one thing dont like right when you sit down start trying to hold hands wait until like 15 minutes after the movie starts. have fun :)
oh and i like to know if im giving good or bad advice so feedback please :)
vanna :)
My name is Danielle and i am 14, i really like this guy. well i cant get him off my mind like ever. i cant even imagine what to do to get him off my mind. he broke up with me and i still dont know why. everytime we talk we get in a fight about one of my ex bf's that was killed. he doesn't believe it. but everytime we talk i end up almost in tears. i think if i cry over him one more time i will just roll over and die ! i dont know what to do anymore. but he told me he still liked me and the next day he hooks up with one of my friends who he used to like a lot but she broke up with him a that night. but i don't think that he likes me at all. i woke up one night when the phone rang and it was him. and he was askin me a/b my ex and i told him he was killed. then he just broke up with me like 30 minutes later and i dont know why. i got kinda pissed off at him. but its been WEEKS and i still cry over him when we talk or even when i hear i slow song on the radio !! im just so lost and i dont know what to do anymore. and i understand if you can't help me out with this cause it might just be something that can't be fixed. but i cant stand to cry over him anymore. so if you can please help me !
any guy that makes you cry obviously isnt worth your tears. i know its gonna be hard but you need to try to get over him. you cant possibly be eternally happy with someone who makes you feel bad or doesnt trust you. like that saying "the guy that makes you cry isnt worth your tears and the guy that is worth your tears will never make you cry" hope i helped?
vanna :)
Ok well im asking this question for a friend of mine because he doesn't know what to do and he asked me and idk. So anyways my friend really likes this girl and he's had a crush on her for almost a year and now she is single. But whenever he asks her who she likes she always tells him "noone" or "nobody" but he doesn't know if she is serious or just doesn't want to tell him. And he thinks she knows he likes her but she is always giving him mixed signals. so how can he find out if she likes him or if they r just friends?
ok ima say this like you are your friend . just tell her that you like her, and just ask if she likes you back. if shes giving you mixed signals then theres reallly no way to kno then to just ask. ask her and if she says yes then congrats. if she doesnt then just work on being good friends :) hope i helped?
vanna :)
I've never had a boyfriend and I'm 15. I know that it's ok and that I don't need a boyfriend to make me happy, but I really want one. I see how happy my friends are with their relationships and I just want to feel that special feeling, you know? I don't wanna sound conceited but i don't think looks are the main problem. My friends tell me that I'm not flirtatious and outgoing like them. Its just that I feel awkward being flirtatious and always question myself like omg he doesnt like me and stuff. How do I become more flirtatious and outgoing to get a boyfriend? thanks so much
look. dont change yourself to get a guy. tat never works. when that guy you liek coes around he'll like you because of you. but if you really wanna become more flirtaious and stuff just put yourself out there a little more. make friends with these guys before you except them to wanna go out with you. hope i helped?
vanna :)
okay i have this boyfriend & we have been going out for a long time. People have been trying to break us up but untill now it has never worked. My friend told me that my boyfriend wanted to break up with me, some people agree with her, few people agree with me. i LOVE my boyfriend & i never wanted anything to come between us. Now I dont know what to do.
Please help me. :(
talk to your boyfriend about it and see what he has to say. the trick is to make sure hes telling the truth. make sure hes not bluffing and sayin he doesnt wen he does. never believe the gossip. trust me. if you do things get very mixed up. just make sure you talk things over with him.
why should you go out iwth a guy?
you should go out with a guy because hes nice, funny, makes you fell good about yourslef, if you share common interests, not just because hes hot. hope i helped :)
vanna :)
My boyfriend and I love eachother to death. We were best friends for four years before we decided to go out. We have been going out for five months. I feel like he doesn't find me attractive- desirable. I asked him, and he says he does. But he never calls me names like sweetheart anymore, and he lacks initiative. I don't know what to do.
call him names and see if he catches the hit if he doesnt just ask him be like baby what ever happened to you calling me sweet names
hope i helped?
vanna :)