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What does it mean when a guy throws things down your shirt, and looks at your lips and eyes? (link)
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if its one of your really good guy friends it probably doesn't really mean anything but if its just a guy then its a form of flirting. He's drawing attention to your chest and looking at your lips can mean he's thinking about kissing you. Looking at someone's eyes however doesn't mean anything its probably only eye contact which everyone does
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I have been dating my bf for over three years. I love him, I really think I do. Most of the time I know I do and have no doubts about him. Is it bad though that I still have the ability to form close friendships with other guys and can sometimes even see a potential future with them? I feel badly about that bu I can't help it. Lots of my friends with boyfriends can't even see anyone else but that is not the case for me.
I also slept over my best guy friend's apartment two nights ago because my roommate was sleeping with his roommate. WE shared a bed and it was completely innocent and it was okay with my bf becaise they are friends...but i has a sex dream about him when I was sleepIng next to hkm in his bed! I can't control my dreams but do I have some subconscious thing
Goin on and what could it mean? (link)
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I'm just going to be blunt about this, if you're thinkong about futures with other men then you're not in love with your boyfriend. If you only think you love your bf, then you're not in love with him.
As for the sex dream that's no big deal, everyone has them and the person in them doesn't mean anything.
So what you do is up to you, whether you admitt to yourself that you're not in love and go your seperate ways or continue trying to make yourself fall in love (which never works)
Good luck x
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i gave my boyfriend head he put his semen all over my chest, alot of it. i took it all with my hand and inserted the semen into my vagina, what is my chance of getting pregnant? (link)
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Slim, but still possible, it depends on how long the semen had been ejaculated for before you rubbed it. You should keep an eye on your period just to be sure. Or get the Morning after pill, depending on when this occured.
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I have a question and its for both guys and girls. Would you date someone or be with them if they've had sex friends before?
Ive only been with one girl before and i waited till i was in love and saw a future and all that stuff but now (im in college btw) it seems like EVERYBODY is with a f buddy. Im all for love but sometimes it just takes too long to find it; so im asking girls and guys that have been in loving serious relationships would u date someone thats had f buddies before? Please put gender and age, thank u (link)
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female, at uni
completely, I've had both serious relationships and I've actually had a "friend with benefits" too. having a f*#k buddy is just a bit of fun - its like having one night stands but with someone you get on with - so no-one can say they don't want to date you because you have a sexual past.
Don't worry about it
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I'm 15f I need tips on how to flirt (link)
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There's no sure fire way to do it, its just what works for you. Although mainly its just working your eyes. Either keeping eye contact for a while, then looking down and back up through your lashes. Or a wee touch of his arm (I'm presuming you're a girl?), laughing at his jokes, smilinf at him. You could try the more obvious ways... make jokes about you and him together. Tell him he looks hot or smell really good. Its just what comes naturally for you.
hope this helps
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My bestfriend says Im naive in relationships (link)
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it means that you don't really understand what happens in real relatioships, how they work and such.
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Hi,My name is Taylor. I Have a friend named Kristina.We're both in the 6th grade in middle school.(and p.s i asked this q for her.) There's this boy Kristina likes.She tries to talk to him but he keeps ignoring her and walks away.He talks and likes everyone else,but not her.Does that mean the boy likes her?What should she do?? -Taylor (link)
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em, it pretty much means the opposite. he doesn't like her; guys will play hard to get but that involves actually talking to the girl to start with. I think she should forget about him and move on, and if he does develope feelings for her, he'll be the one chasing her.
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how do a raise the bar with my girlfriend, how do we get to the next level. (link)
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that depends where you are at the moment, we need more information
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I'm 22/f - boyfriend is 24
I was in the U.S. and my bf was with me there. About a week ago, I left and traveled to visit my family about 7000 miles away from him. I will go back to him in 2 months. A couple of days ago he told me that he feels left and unloved because I left to go on this family vacation thing.
But here's the thing:
1. He encouraged me to go on a vacation and spend it with my family.
2. He's making no effort to Skype with me.
3. He's making me feel very bad for wanting to spend time with my family.
Some have told me that he's just missing me and this is the early difficult stage where he misses my presence next to him, my hand in his, etc. What do you think? I am ready to give more info if needed.
Thanks for your time! (link)
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it could be tha5t he's just missing you, and it most likely is. however, it could also be - and i'm being painfully honest here, but it happenen to a friend of mine - that he is feeling quilty for doing something he shouldn't have and is trying to convince himself that its your fault because you "abandoned" him.
the best thing you can do, and i know this is what everyone always says, but talk to him, if you're away for two months, you better get used to talking about serious things over the phone.
Good luck and i hope he does just miss you
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so i have a boyfriend lets call him timothy and my bestfriend lets call him lloyd, they are also best friends. but timothy is jealous of how well i get along with lloyd and how well we know each other. i just dont know what to do i have tried to explain that i have known lloyd longer but he is still jealous. any advice? (link)
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Even though your friendship with lloyd is completely innocent, see it from timothy's perspective, if the tables were turned you would probably feel the same. So, just try and include timothy, like if there's a private joke between you and lloyd, explain it to tim or try and avoid making it infront of him. Maybe try having more time where it's just you and your boyfriend, without any friends around. You shouldn't change because friends are just as if not more important that boyfriends but you could maybe try and tone down the closeness when timothy is with you.
hope this helps x
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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.
I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?
Sorry if this is too long! (link)
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okay, you need to sit him down and just come straight out and tell him you saw the facebook thing, or if you're not comfortable saying that tell him someone told you about it which is true. if he doesn't tell you, then you need to tell him that you don't trust him because a relationship cannot survive if there is no trust, trust me on that. it might be that he only hid it because he realised it was wrong and didn't want to fight with you so just thought that if he deleted it then it would all be fine, you never know but you have to talk about this.
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Okay, so a couple of days ago, I had a really weird dream.
I was in our classroom with my seatmate. He was sitting on a chair and then I sat next to him on the same chair. The next thing I knew, he grabbed my shoulders and pointed me towards him. I saw his lips leaning towards me, and we ended up kissing. I woke up shortly after that. (If anyone can interpret this dream, it'd be really great!:D)
Anyways, pretty much after that dream, I couldn't stop thinking about it and him. Although I know it's a dream, but for some reason I can't get it out of my head. That's when I started to wonder if I liked him. Did my subconscious mind tell me that I liked him or am I just making stuff up? Since he is my seatmate and everything, I do kind of think of him in that way sometimes, but it never got serious. Like my heart was never pounding when I'm around him.
Whether I genuinely like him or not, I still can't seem to stop thinking about him. So maybe I do like him..a bit. But it might be the dream's fault.
So, my problem. Do you guys think what I'm feeling is real? Or am I just fooled by my dream? And in case I do like him, what should I do? We don't hang out in the same group, I think he's kind of brainy, so he hangs with the smart people. I'm not sure what I'm feeling and I'm not sure what to do. Help? I'd really appreciate it. (link)
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okay, your dream does NOT necessarily mean you have a crush on this guy, i've had a dream about a guy i have no feelings about what so ever. when you have a thought or meet someone, that thought or person kind of goes into a little drawer in your head and that drawer can stay closed for years however when you fall asleep some of these drawers open randomly and that is what you dream. so it could just have been that you had seen this situation happen in a film and your mind has just replaced the characters with yourself and this guy (something along those lines).
but if you are curious about this guy, talk to him, get to know him and see how it goes.
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This one really hot guy asked me out and his friend asked meif i like him and i said NO i rather date this really ugly guy but i want to give him my number so we can talk or something and i will never see him again but i don't know how to tell him i like him but i kind of don't want to go out (link)
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just clearly explain to him that you are flattered - i'm just presuming you are - but don't feel that way about him, if he takes it well, then tell him you would like to be friends, if he doesn't take it well, then leave the friend thing for a while because suggesting it when he's embarrassed about being rejected would be like a kick in the nuts.
give it a go with this less attractive guy, there's usually a personality to make up for the lack of apearance. =] x
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I don't understand what it is that if a guy is popular all my friends go crazy about him. He can be ugly as a stump but if he is "popular" then they say he is hott. If the same guy wasn't with the in crowd for some reason then they would be making fun of him.
Why are most girls like this? More importantly if that is how girls are supposed to be why am I not like that? So can anyone give a good answer: why do girls like popular guys?
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most girls like them because if you're going out with a popular you become a popular, and others just like them because they have bad taste -or the guy might actually have a nice personality. the reason you - i didn't either - don't like them is because you aren't that sad. you obviously don't care about popularity which is a very good thing. also tell your friends to get a grip - thats just what i would say! =] x
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i just recently was dumped by my boyfriend. We decided to be friends and im okay with that. But today he gave me a hug, and when he did he asked (kinda whispered in my ear) if i hated him. i said no(we were still hugging). then he kinda 'embraced' me and looked in my eyes and was like, promise? and i felt my stomach drop and i got kinda weak in the knees and it freaked me out. I didn't know what to do so i said 'okay were too close' and i backed away. i think he was kinda offended by that. I honestly dont think i can trust myself to be that close to him yet. i had the urge to kiss him, and i can't do that anymore. He sent me an email asking what was up with it. Do i tell him the truth? Also what do you guys think of the situation.
Thanks a bunch
lonley_girl (link)
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i would say you are still in love with him, and i think you should tell him that you just need to keep a bit of space between each other. i don't mean not seeing each other, i just mean don't come into close contact. and as its pretty obvious he still cares he'll want you to - this is going to sound harsh but - get over it so you can be proper friends.x
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It's been a difficult situation so I wanted to see what some anonymous people think about it. I'm a 21 year old guy and there's a girl that's been really kingly and wants to go out with me. I'm having trouble just avoiding her and I'm really not into her, but it seems she's kind of obsessed with me.
The problem is I've recently been spending time with her best friend which I'm really getting close to. I know her friend is interested, but I'm hesitant and she is also to get into a relationship because I don't want to be in the way of their friendship with each other.
I feel like bad to be messing up their friendship, but on the other hand I feel it's not my fault and I was never interested in the first girl and it should be ok to go out with whoever I want.
I want to know what people think of the situation and how they view it. Would you try not to cause a bunch of conflict or just go with it and see what happens??
Thanks a bunch I appreciate it! (link)
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i don't think it would be wrong for YOU to do anything but it would be wrong for the friend to do that to the obsessed one. i guess it actually would be wrong for you to make the friend even contemplate doing that to the other one. so basically, i'm sorry to say this as you seem a really nice guy - because you were actually worrying about hurting someone - but i think you should stay clear.
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I have a boyfriend, and we're both only 15, but he seriously wants to get married. The problem is, he's a deep dark kind of person (a "bad boy" if you will), and I'm more on the friendly happy side. Not to the extreme, but I don't beat up someone if they offend me like he does. Also, our beliefs clash really bad. He says he'll take on my beliefs for me, but thats probably a bad idea. I love him, but I don't have even similar goals for the future as he does, and I've told him that. He kind of blows it off and thinks I'll be the one who changes. What should I do? (link)
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okay for a start, you're only 15 so you can't get married anyway. i think you should tell him to cool it a bit and just have some fun! i meanyou're only in high school right? you say you love him but in my opinion you can't really truly love someone until you've seen the world and experienced every feeling there is to feel. neither of you should change, you are who you are. so to sum that up... tell him to stop thinking about the future and focus on the present. go out and have a laugh!
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I dont feel the same about guys anymore. And its not guys in general, its guys in my town that are in my grade and age level. I feel like none of them are mature enough for me anymore. I think their cute but i never like any of them. Im just disgusted with just about every one of them. I feel that their all players that want to just play around with girls. They are always making perverted comments, all the time. Always lieing. I want a kinda older boyfriend, like one grade ahead older. or someone my age. just someone that really shows they like me. and doesnt move to fast or pressure me. someone that hugs me tight for no reason. things like that... i just hate it because im not normal. (link)
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trust me yo are normal, i think every one of my friends feel that way too. i don't really no what yor question was but, you are normal.
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okay, i have been dating this guy(mark) for about 4 months now and i dated him for about 4 months a year and a half ago. im going to discribe him, and some things he does and how he makes me feel and stuff, and i want help if i should stay with him because, after we broke up i dated this guy(Alan) for 8 months and it was perfect.. just read on
- Mark got me to cheat on Alan with him when mark dumped his girlfriend.
- Mark cheated on me with my cousin and stayed with her for a year and a month.
- Mark wont get a job because he says " he doesn't no how to do anything" he did graduate from high school, but he has a social problem..
- Mark smokes about an 8th of weed every 2 days..
- If i want sex Mark says sometimes "only if you smoke with me first(then he says Just Kidding)
- Sometimes Mark gets mad about nothing like this past weekend he was sitting on my couch nothing like bad happened we were watching tv and out of no where he got mad and says it feels like you don't love me anymore.. it took me over an hour to get it out of him what was wrong.. he said it was because i don't kiss him anymore or hold his hand.. i hold his hand and kiss him nonstop.
- he gets jealous ALL the time, im still friends with Alan and so i talk to him on the computer if he sees me talking to him or any guy he gets mad.
- I lost my virginity to Mark, and he was my first love.
- he always tells me im pretty and he loves me more then anything and never wants to lose me
- he says cute little things all the time
- he picks me up everyday afterschool at the bustop and i go to his house
- friday he comes to my house untill monday so i see him everyday
- i love his family to death there amazing
- his sister is my best friend
now alan
- i fell in love with him we dated 8 months he loved me, i broke his heart when i broke up with him
- i only saw him outside school once or twice a month or every other month if that
- his parents don't like me, there really strict
- he has a job and car
- i can tell he could care less about sex, compared to mark who wants it all the time(not saying i don't like it..)
- alan and i never fought not once that whole 8 months except when i broke up with him
- he works a lot
- his siblings don't really like me
- he made me feel amazing always telling me he loved me
- i went on vacation with him, and vise versa
- i took his virginity
now i am so lost, i no this is a desprite thing to do, ask strangers but if you took the time to read this i apprecate it im going through a lot right now and i just need help i feel like i CANT break up with Mark even though i still love alan and think about him, but i love mark just the same... HELP!
mark= 19 years old
me= 16 years old
alan= 17 years old
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choose Alan. i'm guessing you want reasons:
1. you don't date your best freinds brother, i know you already are but you shouldn't.
2. mark is far too jealous
3. mark is far to needy
4. who cares if Alan's family don't like you
5. Alan seems to care more about you than just having sex
6. mark smokes weed, and tries to get you to aswell
7. and heres the deal breaker, HE CHEATED ON YOU WITH YOUR COUSIN!!!
i just hope you don't think any of that's too harsh but i'm just taking information from what you said.
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there is this one boy that i really like he is in the same grade as me almost in every class and he sits next to me in a few.i am not sure if i should ask him out because i am not sure if he likes me back also one of my freinds likes him too but she does not know that i like him. (link)
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if i was you, i wouldn't ask him out. i'm saying that beause you know your friend likes him, and your friend knows you know she likes him. if you ask him out, you two will start fighting; and in my opinion, no guy is worth that.
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