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I like to dance,sing,cook,do flips,and do a split. I ahve some real friends and some fake friend. I hate when peolpe lie.Alot of the boys in my school like me.

advice

Theres this guy we are kinda going out he tells me he loves me and i love him as well but he says I love you to other girls and flirts with them as well.

So I'm thinking that I'm being played here

whats going on?

I think you are being played. If you feel that hes playing you then say something he is your boyfirend and he shouldnt be flirting with anybody. So speak up and let your voice be heard, tell him how you feel.

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Okay, this is long so be prepared. Let's call this guy Fred. He's in 11th grade and I'm in 9th. Obviously, I really like him. Heh so we met like at the second month of this school year? I really don't know how because I didn't know him and vice versa...but like one day out of random he hugged me at lunch saying "She's a cutie." to a friend that we both know. And after that, I was walking to lunch with my bff and the friend that we both know and Fred were like "Come stand in line with us." and I was like why? And his friend and Fred were like "Because you're pretty/beautiful." And my bff was like "He likkeeess you." btw, my bff is a guy that's gay. Anywhos, then after that he puts his arms around me [not possessivly but rather like cute-ly?] haha. Twice he almost got in trouble for it. Also, during one of the [strings] concerts, he was backstage waving at me frantically =P He also calls me a nickname he made me, cute, pretty, and beautiful a lot. He also gives me bear hugs and always gets up to stand with me when I go over to his lunch table. Last time he was like "You're tall for a girl." and I was like "Hmmm, I'm still shorter than most people." and he goes "I'm still short" [yet, he's still taller than me XD] I go "You're not short. You're taller than me." and then he goes "Well, I like tall girls. Do you like tall guys?" and I was like "Why not?" Haha anyways, do you think he likes me, or what? Tell me the truth. I won't give you 1's because I didn't want to hear the answer.

gurl if he does all this stuff to you then go for it. DOnt wait for some other girl to take him away. Go for it if you really like him. If he really likes yuou then he would say yes..

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ok theres this guy that ive been going out with for about four months now. well, now im starting to REALLY like this other guy and i want to break up with my boyfriend, but im afraid he'll hate me. cuz weve gone out before and when i broke up with him, he ignored me for months. i dont want that same thing to happen, cuz i still wanna be friends with him. what should i do?

I think that you should tell him and hope that he still wants to be your friend.If that doesn't work then maybe he doesn't want to let you go now.

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My boyfriend has a friend thats a girl, and theyve been friends for a couple of years. They have pet names for each other and talk all the time. He doesnt talk about her all the time, but, when he does I just get mad. I dont know why, I just do. Hes always concerned or worried about her. I really dont like it when he talks about her but I want to help him because hes always worried about her. Am I just being jelous? What should I do? I'm so confused.

You are being jealous and you shoudn't be confused mjust talk to him and find out the problem because ya'll have some issues that you need to really work out.

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I getting to know this really fantastically stunning girl,so I really need help from girls or guys on what do I say to keep the conversation going and be funny? for the girls, what do your boyfriends talk to you about? and for guys, what do you say to girls?, it would help if you listed some topics or joke sentences for me.so far I have talked to her about music, school and subjects, and movies.what else is there????thanks a lot for any advice given.

talk to her about stuff that she would like.anything if she likes school talk about school and if she likes music talk to her about music talk to her from the heart.

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what does it mean when you're seeing someone? does that mean you're with the person but then you're allowed to date other people?

that means you go out with the person. Your seeing that person, you can't say that your seeing someone if you don't go out with him.

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My friend, who I used to be best friends with, used to go out with this guy that I like now. They had gone out for 7 months. I talked to him, and told him that I like him, and he said he likes me as well. I went to my friend and asked her what she would do if me and her ex went out, and she said that she probably wouldn't be able to be friends with me anymore. Her ex is still friends with her, and doesn't want to hurt her feelings. I kind of feel the same way, but I'm leaning more towards not being her friend anymore anyway because we barely ever get along anymore. I really want to go out with this guy, but I don't know what to do, because I don't want my friend getting hurt, and he doesn't want to hurt her as well. Any suggestions?
-- How would I convince him to not care what she thinks, and just go out with me? she broke up with him anyway, so what's the big deal?
Please help me.
oh and by the way, nothing happened in their relationship anyway, they'd barely talk and hang out, and when they were together at school, they didn't walk together in hallways, they hang out in the morning, but not talk, so the breakup was bound to happen, so much feeling towards each other, really didn't happen. she knew i liked him, if she didn't wanna be jealous she should have stayed with him... happiness of others has to stop just because she would be jealous? .... --- and me and her aint much of friends anymore either, and i know we won't become good friends again so yea... please help me ... give suggestions. .

if she was really your friend she wouldn't care who you go out with even if it was her ex boyfriend. My friend told me that she liked my boyfriend and wanted to go out with him and i told her to go ahead becasue it didn't really matter anymore becasue I just want her to be happy. If she wanted you to be happy she will let you go out with him. She is just begining self-fish nad doesn't want to see you happy. So go out with him and be happy.

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Ok..soo i like this guy named Joe and he knows some of the guys at my school. Well the guys at my school dont really like me because something happened about a month back and they just think im confusing to deal with. Well..i think the guys have told Joe about me..and have talked bad about me. Im really upset because ive tried to apologize to those guys but they wont accept..they just hate me. How do i get those guys to at least be nice to me or better yet friends. I mean i dont want ppl giving me a bad name.
help please

well don't care what people think, just worry about what you think about yourself and your body. If they say something bad about you to the new kid don't worry about it if he believe's them then let him if he doesn't try to talk to him and tell him what really happened.

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Well I've known this girl for about a year now and we're really good friends, but I'm starting to like her more than a friend (if you know what I mean.) The only problem is I don't know if I should ask her out or not. If I do and she says "yes", then great, but if she said "no", that would just be really awkward and it would be wierd every time I see her again. So...what should I do?

well you should take a chance maybe she will say yes and you might get your wish but if she says no at least you gave it a shot and in the future or whenever she might want to go out with you so you should give it a chance.

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so i party alot and so does my boyfriend and recently i walked off with my friends boyfriend and my boyfriend freaked out like saying he wasnted to kill her boyfreind so i broke up with my boyfriend ))who i really liked(( in front of everybody like cusing at him and the works and so i left ((this was a 3 am ) and he called a million times that night and the next day and he still thinks we going out but i clearly stated ITS OVER but i dont thin he gets that> how should i tell him i want to be friends nothing more and also its hard because we are going to six flags on saturday with his family ugh what should i do?

explain it to him so he does get it. Just find another boyfriend and maybe then he'll understand.

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Hey. Well yeah, theres this boy and I liked him for a very, very long time now. He finally broke up with his girl friend, but he still doesn't like me. Every time one of my friends ask he says I don't know. Just today one of my ex boyfriends, my first love, told me that he liked me again. We were talking for a while. I don't know what to do. When he told me he liked me I had butterflys and felt like we were starting over again. I don't know if I should wait longer, because I already waited about 3 months for this first boy, or if I should go back out with my first love. Please help.

well if you waited for him for three months now then he's not worth the wait. If i had to choose i would pick my ex- boyfriend because if something happened the first time then we can fix it a second time.

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13/f
I have a really big and annoying problem: I pretty much like every guy I come across. It's really annoying... all I do is stare at them. And it's not just guys from school! It's celebrities too. I'm so tired of it; I feel like I can't concentrate. I've had a boyfriend before, but I dumped him because he wasn't a good boyfriend. Does this have anything to do with it? What should I do?

Yes it does have something to do with your problem. Maybe you should pay attention to something else. I had the same problem but i stopped. The way i stopped is to listen to alot of music. Make new friends that aren't boys. MAybe you'll forget about it.

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Okay i like this guy Chris and he liked me one time before? and i told him like yesterday i like him and hes like well i dont like you like that.And it really upsets me.because at semi=formal he was supposed to be my date and he ditched me for a girl who didnt like him and led him on and no he likes another exactly like that..ugh can you tell me how to get over it and how to actually tell if a guy likes me not just for like 2 days

well you can tell if they like you if they keep on messing with you. If they call you names. Tell him what that girl is doing to him .Make him find out because it isn't good if they don't know.

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My boyfriend broke up with me because
he thought we'd be better off as best friends again.
We were best friends before.
I'm in hell right now I miss him so much.
I want to be back with him...I dont know what to do. Should I talk to him about it?
I'm a wreck.

You should talk to him and tell him how you feel because all these feelings for him cannot be kept up inside. So sit him down and whatever tell him how you still feel about him.

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ok all i've asked a q b4 (have a look to see the background to theis q) i have a new b/f- yay go me! but we've only been together a month, i realy like him and i think he likes me back. i'm still scared of commitment and i still get scared when he touches me. and i pull away every time he makes a move. he thinks i don't like him back. how do i tell him bout my rape and what i feel like without making him run away?

I think you should tell him. It could ruin your relationship with and you said it yourself you lilke him him alot. So tell him what happened to you and maybe he will take your relationship slow.

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alright well i've known this guy for about a year or so but i just started really talking to him recently. we talked on the phone constantly and i saw him pretty much everyday. over the week that we REALLY got to know each other, he told me he couldnt stop thinking about me and that he thought he was in love. of course, being a girl, i thought it was the sweetest thing and i loved it.he asked me out and i told him to let me think about it and stuff. i promised him i would tell him the next day whether i would go out with him or not. well the next day i went over to my friend's house where we met up with her boyfriend. i went upstairs to grab something and while i was gone my guy called me to see what the answer was. my friend's boyfriend answered and my guy asked to speak to me and my friends b/f said that he was my boyfriend. then he said just joking and handed the phone to my friend. well my guy thought it was me and he said " well whats the answer?" my friend, being a total retard, said " i need another day." and hung up the phone. when i got back downstairs i tried called him back but there was no answer. he hasnt called me since. its been about a week or so since that happened. i really miss him and i do want to go out with him. i wish my friends wouldnt have answered the phone. all i want my guy to do is just call me so we can get everything sorted out. what should i do? help please

If you see him at school pull him aaway from whatever he's doing and tell him what happened and then tell him your answer.

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my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost a year. we're both 15. recently he's told me that he likes other girls, but would never cheat. he says he only likes them based on looks and anytime he sees them, he always compares them to me in the back of his mind and they always lose. but when i found out about this, i was upset. i feel uncomfortable that he likes other girls besides for me. is that selfish? he loves me and i love him but i don't want other girls to be on his mind. it hurts...should i try to be ok with him liking other girls or should i break up with him? i mean, people can't help who they like, right?

Well you can just leave him alone with his problem because my boyfriend always thought of his other girlfriend and he will always say her name to make me mad. Then i realized they broke up and now me and his ex-girlfrien are now friends. So don't breakup with him.

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This might be a long one. But ill rate 5's for your time.

I'm 14/f
There is this guy(14/m) that when im around him, i feel like I cant breathe, speak or move. He is so hot and beautiful, and he is the nicest person iv ever met. He is my sister's best friends cousin (Sorry if youre confused about that one lol) He seems to act deifferent around me than my sister. I want to think that he likes me, but we kindof like avoid eachother. My question is how can I act myself when hes around? How can I feel more comforable with him, and get his attention. I guess I'm too shy. Well thanks for answering the best you can!

What you can do for a while is act like you don't like him then later you take him away from everybodyu and tell him how you feel or if you go to the same school write him a note and it will explain everything. Then maybe once he tells you how he feels you might be able to act yourself around him.

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Me and this guy were kind of dating then he stopped liking me cause he met some other girl. Now, he is coming back to me and wants to have what we had before. I don't like him, the only reason why I would get back with him was to kiss him cause I have never been kissed before. What should I do? Go along with it and get kissed... how could I do that? Or just totally forget about him?

You should forget about this guy. If mets another girl and he did it once don't you think he will do it again. So FORGET about him move on with your life.

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what do you do with ya tounge when like reallly kissing ?cause i have madeout without tounge but then my "friend" stuck his tounge in my mouth and whatever idc but i just felt stupid because i didnt know what to do with mine..soo can someone help me before the weekend?? thanks so muchh..

Most of your time your tongue doesn't do anything or all you do is move it around trust me because i have done all sorts of kissing

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