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So awhile ago I met this freshman guy. We're both in high school, just to clear that up.
And he's way cool, and I kind of liked him.
And I'm a junior.
So I was wondering if it was weird to have that kind of age difference?
It's actually not that big. I think he's almost fifteen, and I won't be sixteen for like 8 more months. I'm a young junior, hehe.
Anyway, a lot of people tell me that that's weird.
So is it?
i dont think its weird. Your a junior but your 15 theres only a year difference in age thats not bad at all...i cant believe that your a junior and your 15 lol. but go for it i know alot of people that date younger guys just dont listen to what people say who cares what people think. :]]]
My girlfriend wears clothes that are pretty revealing, which I like, but she also wears them to school in front of other guys (I don't go to her school)
She's very attractive and I don't want other guys staring at her when im not around. What can I do?
well tell her how you feel about her wearing those type of clothes and see what she says but you also cant tell her what to wear. Guys are always goin to look at other girls and how their dressing and everythin but that doesnt mean that shes goin to do anythin and im sure if those guys try hittin on her she will tell them to back off because she has a bf. you cant stop guys from staring at her but just remember your the one who has her not them. And maybe try telling her like to wear nice clothes and kinda revealing but not too revealing because i know i dont like when my bfs tell me what i can wear and what i cant..i dont know how she is but no one likes a controlling bf/gf. talk to her about it and see what happens from there but remember shes yours no those other guys at her school so dont worry too much about it!!! :] i hope i helped if i didnt im sorry..
Hi, i have had a girlfriend for a couple monthes now and i think it is time for us to move a little further in our relationship. So i wanted to get her wet and give her some pleasure, but how could i do this outside of the panties? And i am seeing her soon i would like to try anything new next time i see her. So any suggestions on how i can give her some pleasure?, anything will help, thanks, prefered experienced answers
well make sure she wants you to do it because if you spring this up on her she might get mad or watever but, rubbing her would be best i know i like it slow because going fast kinda hurts and you want to enjoy the moment and not make it go so fast. and you can rub her boobs a lil bit i know i like that alot!! lol and alot of girls do. You can also kiss her neck a lil bit. Well i hope i helped and tell me how it goes!
OK, so I'm 18/m,
Here's my problem, me and my gf are in a long distance relationship. Thing is we love each other but the distance is hurting the both of us and she's still in school. Now, pretty soon here I have some time off and I want to surprise her and show up and do something nice for her. Only problem is that I'm tapped for ideas. Any help would be awesome.
Thanks in advance.
P.S. All answers will be rated.
well i would get her, her favorite flower of course then i would like plan a nice night like goin out to eat. you could leave flowers and a card at her house sayin to go somewhere and like surprise her at the resturant. Or if you guys like to stay in make her dinner or something nice and watch a movie. Idk where you live or where she lives but i would like go somewhere romantic and look at the stars together thats really cute and alot of girls like that stuff. Just doin cute lil nice things makes a girl feel special so do something you know she will like and enjoy to make the surprise of you bein there something she will never forget. Im sure she will be happpy no matter what you do because your there and i think thats all she wants. I hope everything goes well for you and i hope in the future things are still good between you and your gf!! :] let me know how things turn out! hope i helped ya?!?
I know...its long, but PLEASE HELP!!!!
Okay...I dont know what to do. Im really really really into this guy, but I dont even really know him. He was friends with my ex and i added him on myspace. We only talked once on myspace and thats when he asked me who i was and we sent a few messages back and forth sayin what we were doing. but after that night (two or three weeks ago) we never talked again. Im always thinking about him though. I even had a dream ((no joke)) that he asked me out last night. Its getting crazy. I've never even heard his voice before. I see him around school all the time though. I know its all just lust but I feel like Im really in love with him. I've had a crush on him (if thats possible) since I first saw him based on how extremely cute/hot/sexy he is. && I've talked with friends who are friends with him and they say hes really nice and everything but hes kinda shy. Hes exactly how i pictured my "perfect guy" to be. I really want him to notice me but we have no classes together, and we never talk on myspace and I always get so nervous when Im the one to break the ice with someone, and honestly i dont know how. I dont know what to do. I know i should get over it or do something about it but I cant. Im just stuck with these feelings and I hate it. Please....any kind of advice will help...anything. i really need some help.
i say just go for it dont be afraid of what he might say or anything because what if you dont go for it then you coulda missed out on something good. But you will never know unless you try it out and see how it goes. I used to be shy and i never used to go for things but life is too short and you need to take charge and go after him girl. Get to know him more hangout with him and get his number then you can see if you guys are able to be in a relationship together because as of now you dont really know everything about him and how he really is. Let me know how things go im dyin to find out!! :]
i've been in love with a guy for over 4 years even though i had was in a relationship for almost 3 years. about 4 years ago when i met him he had a girl firned and he was with his girlfirned for 2 years at that time. when i met him he made a move on me and he kissed me and he was stuck between me and his girlfriend and after 4 years he still talks about me and asks for me like how i'm doing and if there wasnt his girlfriend he would be with me and yet he is still with his girlfrined . what should i do beacuse i have dreams about him all the time and even wen i was in a relationship i had dreams about him. should i move on and let him be the ONE GUY thats always going to be in your head and the one guy that you love. HELP
i would let him go because his gf loves him alot and he loves her alot. If hes still with her then that means hes not really that into you because if he was then he would break up with his gf and be with you and just tell his gf that he loves someone else. I know you love him and everything and its goin to be hard to let him go but you have to do whats best for you and him. I mean your wasting your time on him when he has a gf and you coulda been with someone else that truley loves you and wants to be with you but you will never know unless you let him go live he life with his gf. If he breaks up with her then i would go for it but it doesnt seem like to me that he wants to give her up for some reasons. ANd if he kissed you while he was goin out with her than you basically cheated. What if things get out of hand and you guys get to into eachother do you want to be the girl who he cheated with? i dont think so because that just makes people think your like that all the time. Just think about these things and decide what your going to do but i wouldnt risk bein with him or even tryin to be with him. Hes says that he into you and everything and that if he didnt have a gf than he would be with you but that doesnt make sense to me at all because if he wants to be with you than he doesnt have to be with his gf theres no law stating that he has to stick with her sooo hes not telling you everything like on how he is feeling. Well let me know what choice you make and make sure its the right one for you think about everything like really think things threw.
hi, can you be in love with two different people at the same time? like for a boy to love two different girls?
yes it is possible, most of the time guys may have interest in many different girls and they are just confused on who they like more or even love more. My friend actually had that problem with 2 guys that liked her and she liked them too but in the end she got to know both of them and realized who she did like more or love more. The guy will eventually realized which one he likes more and knows more about how she is. My friend did that she realized that the one guy was really rough with her and she just thought she liked him mostly liking someone is just thought because you know they like you so you assume that you have to like them back but in the end you really like someone else.
Well hope i helped you.
if you continue to have sex after the man cums, so his penis is softer. will the condom let his cum slip out? or will it stay on tight.
i wouldnt do that because it will slip off and its very hard to keep going when hes soft. Plus the condom wont fit anymore because when the penis is hard it fits tight thats how the cum stays in and the condom doesnt slip off. if you wanted to go at it again then use a different condom.
14/f
i need a b/f cuz it seems like every where i turn seems like theirs always couples. i ain't just wanting a boyfriend to be part of the crowd. i just want someone to love me and me too love them back. I have a crush and we never talk because he is a junior and i am a freshman. I only see him on my highschool bus and i get a glimse of him a lunch and b4 and after 2nd period and after 5th. any advice?
Everyone thinks they need someone to be happy or they need a guy to love them but really sweetie you dont need a bf just because everyone else has one doesnt mean no one loves you. your family loves you and im sure you have a best friend that loves you too. I learned that anyone this young doesnt know wat love is having a bf/gf isnt really important. im single and i love it because i dont have to worry about bein soo attached to one person and to have them screw me over. just have fun with guys and that doesnt mean doing sexual things with them because you can do alot of things to have fun. your young enjoy it thats wat i tell everyone because life is too short and when you get older it all ends because you have a job and stuff. Just go and meet new people have fun and if you wanna know that guy go talk to him dont be shy that wont get you anywhere believe me i used to be shy and now im not i have tons of new people i tlak too.
I'm 16, I'm also in love with my best friend(of five years)'s ex boyfriend. I love my best friend and I know she still has feelings for him, but I've liked him since I was 14 (when they were dating) and I don't really know when I started loving him. He's also professed his feelings to me...and he asked me out. I know he really likes me, if not loves me back. He always makes an effort to be around me, tells me I'm beautiful, he calls me at night before I go to bed, studies with me, he's always the first one to notice the littlest changes in either my appearence, or even my mood...
I really want to be with him, but I don't want to hurt her. Please don't tell me that guys will come and go, but friends will be forever. That will honestly not help the situation at all. I really, really love him, and I don't know what to do. I can tell I've already hurt him by not telling him yes or no yet, I don't want him to have to wait any longer for a response. I don't want to lose my best friend either, she's my family.
well. just talk to her and see whats going on with her feelings about him or talk to both of them at the same time. That will help out because then everyone will get their feelings out. All you can really do is talk to her to see how she feels. I wouldnt do anything that would make you loose her as a best friend but im sure if you talk to her then it wil help out. she might be mad at you for a little while but im sure you would be mad too but if shes really your best friend then she will get over it eventually and stay friends with you and maybe him. hope i helped ya and write me bak and tell me your choice if you want..thanks
good luck
Is it better to have the guy you love for just one night, or not at all?
That's pretty much the choice I have to make. I can either be with him for one night, or never be with him.
I don't know what to do, I don't want to fall for him more and then just have to give him up, but I don't want to regret not being with him, even if only for a night.
He doesn't do exclusive relationships.
if i was you i wouldnt go and see him for one night that will just make you want him more and i know it hurts you but eventually you will realize that was for the best. It will probably take you a long time to get over it but its better to give him up then to be with him for a couple of hours then giving him up because then you will miss him more. if you need anymore hel p you can write me in my inbox
okay so im 16/f & im in this driver's ed class & there's this guy i there with me that i like alott. & i started talking to him. & he looks at me sometimes & smiles at me & sometimes he teases me. but like he's really cool. and i asked him for his number & he gave it to me. well driver's ed class ends on saturday but im leaving on friday so should i just tell him on thursday cuz thats my last day that i like him before i leave to go on vacation? im not sure if i should im scared too.
i would tell him because you guys could end up dating and it might turn out really good. But if he doesnt like you as a gf then at least yins could be friends thats better than nothing at all right!?? dont be scared
hi,therez this girl she likes me i like her im going to ask her out..just wondering how 2 be a good boyfriend what do girls like in a boy or boyfriend??..thanks
hi, most girls like a guy thats very romantic and nice and sweer. but every girl is different i know i like a guy that treats me well pays for things and says nice things to me to show that he cares. Also i like a guy to express how he feels if hes mad i want him to tell me and to be open with me. I hate liars so i like a honest guy. Doing little things for a girl is nice i dont want a guy to spend tons of money on me idc if i got just one rose or something as long as i know a guy cares about me im fine really. if you need anymore help write me or heres my sn if you have aim
xoxokatiebabiixo
ok so letz call him chris. he lovez me nd i really do love him. even doe i don't act like it. he'z like my bestfriend. so the other day he got drunk and he fucked 3 gurls. but he told me. atleast i didn't hear it from some1 else. inoe it was supposed 2 be hurt but i wasnt. i was mad but he was drunk. so last night when he said something about this girl he loved and his broken heart it hurt me. i never thought he could hurt me i didn't know i let him get so close and i've known this kid for so long. i love him but i don't know what to do. he really thinks me and him r meant for eachother. he wants 2 be together. i'm scared. i don't know what 2 do.
being drunk is no excuse to cheat. once a cheater always a cheater believe me thats true. I would leave him and give it some time apart and then talk to him about it again and the get back together maybe in the future but i wouldnt stay with someone tht did that to me thats not right at all if he really wants to be with you then if you break up with him then thats the time it will really show. ANd if he seems like he wants to be with you then iwould go back out with him but you should break up with him and see how he reacts.
ive know this guy for about 3 years and 10 days ago he broke up with his girlfriend that hes had for like a couple months. well we had prom last night and he was all over me the whole time. after prom we had prom breakfast, but i had to leave like half an hour into it. as i was walking out, he stopped me and asked me where i was going. when i told him i was going home, he was aw man, i was planning on spending the rest of the night with you. then as i was getting into my car, he called me and asked me to hang out on sunday. im sort of crushing on him and i really do want to see what happens. what should i do?
well if our interested in him then i would def go for it i mean theres nuthin for you to loose. take a chance and see wat happens im a risk taker and i always gofor things esp if i like someone. it is a little to early for him to get in a reltionship esp if he jsut broke up wth someone buti mena wat if he liked you all along. HE sounds really sweet so i would go for it and hnagout iwth him and stuff like that. AT least you knew him for awhile.
i hope i helped if not im soo sry if you hav anymore questions jsut ask me ill tryh to help anyway that i can .
-katelyn
15/m
i always see these questions about people making out and feeling each other up and such. . . .
my question is how would one go about this without seeming too aggressive or, even worse, looking like a sleazebag?
i'm just asking because i want something to make making out a little bit more interesting, and i've read all these things about "oh, you should feel her up while you make out," but i don't exactly know how to go about doing that . . .
i know it's kind of a weird question but i just don't want to seem like a jerk to my girlfriend. i mean, we love each other a lot and i don't want to jeopardize it. . . .
thanks in advance
hey well just kiss her and start by puttin your hand on her waist. SHe might move your hand herself like tellin you thats ok to do because you really dont want to feel her boobs and such if she doesnt want that. Talking it out is good because wen your in a relationship communication is key. Always have communication. Ask her questions and see if she would mind or not and tell her you didnt want to see like a sleaze. But feeling up usually happens in the moment its just the passion thas goin on wen it happens. Be romantic girls love that i kno i do. i like bein passionate and everything so just be like that and im sure everythin will be fine. Ok well i hope i helped?!? if you need anythin else then you can write me in my inbox!
-katelyn
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How do you get a guy to fall head over heels in love with you?
well i think that you really cant make someone fall in love with you because that would be like your being fake. Which i dont think thats a good idea because if your not yourself then the guy really isnt in love with you. Jsut be yourself thats all you can be and if he doesnt love you then theres really nothing you can do about it. If the guy likes you and thinks your a great person and have a great personality then thats great but you cant make someone like your personality. every person is different and likes different kinds of people. thats how i look at it. Just dont be fake. Be yourself!!! thers no reason to try to be something your not it usually ends up being bad if oyu do that. ok wel i hope i helped?!? if you need any more help you can write me in my inbox!
-katelyn
OK, so there is this really nice/cute guy in one of my classes and I can always feel him staring at me. How do.. i guess... "make a move" on him, or get him to notice me or to talk to me. I'm not really an outgoing person, so its not like i would just go up to him.
its hard to go up to someone for the first time to talk to them. But dont be scared or anything. i learned that not going up to people or being a little bit outgoing put me in a not so good place because i didnt know alot of people and i never really got to enjoy time with people and have fun. meeting new people and talking to different people is fun. Just go up to him and be like ''hey'' and ask him wat he likes doing and stuff like that. Or you can start simple ask him for a pencil or someting even though you dont need it and then start talkin to him that way because you started by asking a question. If you dont go up to him you might loose a good opportunity to meet a nice guy. Then later on you might find out that he was interested but was afraid to come up to you or he might think that you really didnt want anyhtin to do with him. So i would try to get over that and go talk to him i mean theres nothing you can really do wrong and if you say somehting totally off the wall just laugh at it together that makes things wayyy better believe me. well i hope i helped out a little bit if i didnt sorry! good luck wth everythin adn i hope things work out the way you want them too!
-katelyn
ok so what are some ways for me to open up to my boyfriend more. im not really shy but it comes of that way to him and i want to prove to him that im not like that. we kind of got into a fight about it. we then talked it out and hes like well lets talk about this in person. im like ok. its his first relationshipa and its my first relationship where the guy isnt an asshole. im just looking for ways to talk to him without putting him on his defense
well can you talk to him about anything? do you talk to him about everything? If you are open to him then i dont know why he would think that you were shy. Unless hes talking about doing things with him my boyfriend thought i was shy because i didnt have sex with him or wouldnt do anything. So im not sure wat hes thinking but did you ask him why he thinks that i mean there has to be something your doing to make him think your shy. I would just tlak to him more and stuff like that. Kiss him in public and stuff so he wont think your shy do things that you havent done yet so he doenst think that. i would open up more to him if you guys havent really talked about eachother then i think you should and tell him things. Tell him that your not shy and that you want to talk but you dont want to fight with him just talk normal to eachother because if one of you guys start having an attitude than that leads to a big fight. Ok well i hope i helped?!?!? let me know how everything goes if ya wnat to.
-katelyn