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should i give up on him
i've been in love with a guy for over 4 years even though i had was in a relationship for almost 3 years. about 4 years ago when i met him he had a girl firned and he was with his girlfirned for 2 years at that time. when i met him he made a move on me and he kissed me and he was stuck between me and his girlfriend and after 4 years he still talks about me and asks for me like how i'm doing and if there wasnt his girlfriend he would be with me and yet he is still with his girlfrined . what should i do beacuse i have dreams about him all the time and even wen i was in a relationship i had dreams about him. should i move on and let him be the ONE GUY thats always going to be in your head and the one guy that you love. HELP
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Ah, hard situation. If I was you I would let it go. Why? Because obviously if he liked you as much as it sounds like he would break up with his gf to be with you. Yeah, he might like you and care for you but you also have to remember he has a gf for 3 of the 4 years. That's a pretty long relationship. But if you really don't want to let go, I think you should talk to him be like this is getting no were, do you want to be with me or her? If her then I'm gone. Maybe that will wake him up? Never know. Good Luck with everything ♥
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i would let him go because his gf loves him alot and he loves her alot. If hes still with her then that means hes not really that into you because if he was then he would break up with his gf and be with you and just tell his gf that he loves someone else. I know you love him and everything and its goin to be hard to let him go but you have to do whats best for you and him. I mean your wasting your time on him when he has a gf and you coulda been with someone else that truley loves you and wants to be with you but you will never know unless you let him go live he life with his gf. If he breaks up with her then i would go for it but it doesnt seem like to me that he wants to give her up for some reasons. ANd if he kissed you while he was goin out with her than you basically cheated. What if things get out of hand and you guys get to into eachother do you want to be the girl who he cheated with? i dont think so because that just makes people think your like that all the time. Just think about these things and decide what your going to do but i wouldnt risk bein with him or even tryin to be with him. Hes says that he into you and everything and that if he didnt have a gf than he would be with you but that doesnt make sense to me at all because if he wants to be with you than he doesnt have to be with his gf theres no law stating that he has to stick with her sooo hes not telling you everything like on how he is feeling. Well let me know what choice you make and make sure its the right one for you think about everything like really think things threw.
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The guy has a girlfriend, and she's probably crazy about him and loves him dearly just like you do too. And one of the dirtiest moves is to steal him from her. And if the guy really loved you that much, he would have broken up with his girl a long time ago, but since he's hesitating means there is no definite love, or at least not strong love towards you to make him give his girl up.
But here is the thing, you don't have to take a step backwards, neither forward. You can just be good friends with him, and stand your ground,and make a statement, that your not to take a step forward, neither can he, except when he is no more with his girlfriend. But by being friends, you can ask about each other, and check up on one another, and maybe even hang out, make small talks and stuff. And this way, you have him either ways, without hurting a girlfriend that loves him, or without hurting yourself for not having him beside you.
And if this friendship doesn't work out, cause he wants more, yet wants his girl too, then you learn then, that he doesn't deserve you, and is just a greedy ass who likes the feeling of being loved from everyone, but doesn't actually love neither of you true love, or with real commitment.
But if it works out, and he starts thinking things over, it can be proven that he really does love you, cause you'll later hear that he left his girl ,and will then come running up to you, and telling you he loves you.
If you need any other help, please be free to contact me.
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