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In love with someone I dont even know
I know...its long, but PLEASE HELP!!!!
Okay...I dont know what to do. Im really really really into this guy, but I dont even really know him. He was friends with my ex and i added him on myspace. We only talked once on myspace and thats when he asked me who i was and we sent a few messages back and forth sayin what we were doing. but after that night (two or three weeks ago) we never talked again. Im always thinking about him though. I even had a dream ((no joke)) that he asked me out last night. Its getting crazy. I've never even heard his voice before. I see him around school all the time though. I know its all just lust but I feel like Im really in love with him. I've had a crush on him (if thats possible) since I first saw him based on how extremely cute/hot/sexy he is. && I've talked with friends who are friends with him and they say hes really nice and everything but hes kinda shy. Hes exactly how i pictured my "perfect guy" to be. I really want him to notice me but we have no classes together, and we never talk on myspace and I always get so nervous when Im the one to break the ice with someone, and honestly i dont know how. I dont know what to do. I know i should get over it or do something about it but I cant. Im just stuck with these feelings and I hate it. Please....any kind of advice will help...anything. i really need some help.
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i say just go for it dont be afraid of what he might say or anything because what if you dont go for it then you coulda missed out on something good. But you will never know unless you try it out and see how it goes. I used to be shy and i never used to go for things but life is too short and you need to take charge and go after him girl. Get to know him more hangout with him and get his number then you can see if you guys are able to be in a relationship together because as of now you dont really know everything about him and how he really is. Let me know how things go im dyin to find out!! :]
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Yes, you should get over your nerves and do somthing aboout it, but if you can't I don't understand what you want advice for. I can't magically make anything happen between you and this guy. If you don't go for it, nothing's going to happen. Simple as that.
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Hey girl,
I don't think that you should back out of this or get over him, because, since your excited about something, and interested in getting involved in it, then go for it. Besides, its not everday, that every one of us finds their dream guy or perfect guy.
I understand how hard it is to take the first step, or make a move on to this, plus that he doesn't even know your feelings towards him.
So here is the thing, its probably bad luck that you guys don't get to be online on myspace at the same time, so instead, just leave him a message there or send an email or something, and talk normally, like your friends, or you know, ask about him, about school, what he's been up to. Just the same ol' friendly tone, showing him that your interested in learning about his latest news and making regular small talks.
He'll reply, cause anyone else in his position would do, even if its a girl or any other guy.People are friendly, they like to gain more friends, make new connections, and make small friendly conversations. Then one time after the other, start learning more about him, and you'll find him doing the same in return, learn what he likes and what he doesn't, and all such stuff.
And after that, there are two possibilities, either you, yourself, wouldn't like him after all, or would find him, as not the guy you thought he was. Or you will start taking steps forward, and he will do the same on his side, till he say... exchanges numbers with you, or asks you out, or at least, shows interest.
But here is the thing, such stuff takes time, sometimes alot of time, or sometimes just a few days or weeks. But as long as you have the will and enthusiasm, then why not??
Thats it, thats my opinion, it has always worked out for me, so you go girl and do your thing.
If you need any further help, please be free to contact me.
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