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i am a guy and i am in middle school and there is this girl that is like my best or 2nd best girl friend lets call her hilary. so hilary asked me out and i said yes then about a week later she dumps me. then a few days later she asks me out again and i say yes cuz i still liked her. then 3 days later she breaks up with me again. and then about 3 weeks later hilary asks me out agian and i said yes then she dumps me five days later and i have a feeling that she is gunna ask me out again wut should i do if she does?
Say no. Be like no hilary we've gone out a lot already and everytime you dump me like 3 or 5 days later and im sick of it. If you like me that much then you shouldnt have dumped me so many times, Sry i just want to be your friend.
This guy is like in love with me and he always sends me all these poems and qoutes on how much but im wit a guy t hat i already love and he rele gets sick of this other guy telling em how much he loves me..how can i get this guy to leave me alone i mean ii wanan still be friends with im but..i dont want him to love me anymore..
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Tell the guy that you dont like him like that and you already have a b/f.and maybe you could hook this guy up with one of your friends or something .And also tell him that it makes you feel weird with him telling you he loves you all the time and writing you poems.
Okay , I like this guy, and he just told me that he likes me too, we have a problem. Me and him arent sure if we should start dating because Im friends with his sister, and his sister will NEVER buy the fact that me and him were dating...and we wouldnt be able to tell our parents because we wanna have sleep overs and stuff, but i mean we dont plan on doing anything at the sleep overs, we just wanna see each other because we live an hour away from each other, but anyways, my question is, should we date behind his sisters back or tell her with the fact we both know shes not gonna buy the whole thing...???
help :(
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I think you should tell his sister cause she probably wont care and even if she doesnt believe you then its better then going behind her back and then her finding out .Cause that might ruin your friendship with her..And this way if things dont work out with the guy you can still be friends with his sister without things feeling to awkward (sp)
Hey im mike and 14/m. Well me and this girl we'll call joan have been dating on and off since october and we just got back together after 2 weeks. well i love her and all but im not sure where are relationship is going. We talk on the phone alot and we hang out like every week almost but i feel empty inside sometimes. I've hurt her once (emotionaly) and dont want to do it again can someone help??
wow guys have emotional feelings too how sweet. ok sry some of my guy friends just act like dicks to all the girls they date and they dont ever care about how much they hurt the girl. So its nice to see a guy who cares.I think you should talk to her and gain her trust back that will make you feel better but im not sure it will make the emptyness go away.And since your only 14 your probably not gonna marry this girl so if things dont work out just always look on the bright side - you have a long time before you need to think about marrige.Just try to have a lot of phun with her and be yourself even around your friends, dont turn into a jerk whose all well guyish .And if you do break up again and you say your gonna stay friends try to atleast stayfriends.LIke still talk to each other ,dont let that ackwardness get imbetween the two of you .If you need to talk about it you can im me on one of the following-imshortie2b13(old aol sn),lilpnkbrn,lildumblonde820,kissachrry,pocsocbocluv or you can email me at insanlykrazie76313@yahoo.com
OK here's the deal. Me and this kid have liked each other for a few weeks now and he finally asked me out. We've only been going out for 2 days now but its feels like longer. I really do love him, and he loves me. There's just one problem. He's kind of "advanced". I'm only in 8th grade and i've never really been into doing things with guys. For example, I wouldn't give a guy head or handjob anytime soon. He jokes around a lot about this and really wants me to do it but he isn't pressuring me. The problem is, he always wants me to go to his house after school, and for some reason i don't like to go without a friend. I don't know why, but I just can't bring myself to go alone. I love him a lot, but I feel better knowing that someone else is there with me in case something goes wrong. Even if it's one of his friends that's there too, i'm ok, but other than that, i just get a little uneasy. It's just something weird I guess that's going on with me that's making me not want to be alone with him. The other problem is that I still don't know how to kiss and now that I have a boyfriend, I think that maybe that's the reason im scared to be alone with him because i'm afraid of his making a move on me. I don't suppose I would mind too much if we kissed but I still don't "know how to". He sounds mad whenever I don't go to his house. He always wants me to, and he always wants me to go to the movies. That's where my problme of being alone with him comes out. I don't want to go to the movies with him if it's just me and him so I usually suggest a double date but the thing is, my friend would be making out with her friend during the whole movie and it might make me and my boyfriend feel weird so I never want to go. I feel bad saying no to him, but I don't know what to do to not be scared about it. Can someone please help me and tell me what I should do? I would appreciate it so much and i will rate you 5 even if you don't give good advice. Thanks
If he trys to kiss you just kiss back.It will come naturally and im guessing this guy is in 8th grade too ?So maybe you mess up your first kiss a lil most guys think its cute .Maybe you can invite him to yourhouse instead of going to his house cause most likely he wont try to make a move knowing that your parents or siblings are there.And if you want to go to the movies plan a big group of people so its just like a bunch of friends and yall can all be teenagers and act crazy and wild and like throw popcorn at the screen or at someones head .I mean coughcough be good modest kids who would never do such a thing like that.coughcough
13/f...Ok, so I'm a really shy person when it comes to guys. I like this guy named Tim. I think he stares at me in spanish and sometimes science because I can see it out of the corner of my eye, ya know? In science the teacher stands like a few feet in front of Tim. So naturally I'm looking up at the teacher because he's talking lol. Yeah anyway, Tim looks at me a lot. He likes glances over at me. I think he might think I'm looking at him instead of the teacher. I know he's really shy also so should I strike up a conversation? And do you think it's possible he likes me? Thanks
.I think he likes you. And if hes shy like you say it is its gonna be really hard for him to admit it.Start talking to him get to know him better, and maybe later on either you can ask him out or he will ask you out.I mean its not like just talking to him will kill you.So take a chance.
I have been going out with this guy for about 2 months and he bought me a bracelet and necklace and my friends all think the bracelet is real gold or w/e idk. Anyways i told one of my best guy friends (who happens to be my ex bf) that I was planning on dumping him (and they are friends him and my bf) and he said he wouldnt tell him i said that but instead he told my bf to be a better bf to me and not be so shy around me so that night my bf invited me somewhere but i couldnt go then the next day he got me a really cool necklace so if I dump him that would be mean after he got me stuff and i heard he really really likes me! But I told my best friend about me dumping him and she told our other friend and our other friend told my bf so my bf was all i heard u were gonna dump me is it true and i was freaked so i said no so now if i dump him he'll no i lied and he'll be torn! what to do?? plz help sry this is long ill rate ya thanx love ya! ps. he seems more like the friend type!
pss. i cant help myself very much i have had 8 bfs and never been dumped i dump all them im not a player really i just get bored easily!(i no its stupid) im 13/f!!!
Ok i dont think you should dump your boyfriend.You dont have a reason to.Seems like he's sweet and really cares about you. Its hard to find a guy like that so keep them while you can.Stay with him for atleast another month ,if you still want to dump him then go ahead and dump him.That way he wont think you lied to him.
ok well there is this guy and his name is Josh..we have liked each other a lot for a while..and he asked me out and of course i said yes..well we went out for a day then he broke up with me and claimed that he didnt want a girlfriend right now. Well after that he stopped talking to me. And i do not know why he did this because we only went out for a day and it shouldn't be awkward at all really!! and i want to know..how do i get him to talk to me? because im not the type to go up and talk to him if he doesnt want to talk to me! people say he still likes me and he didnt break up with me cuz he didnt like me or ne thing..he just didnt want his relationship with me to end like his other g/f's did (they went out for 9 months and then never talked after) so how do i get him to talk to me?
I think you should go up to him and talk about it.Hes most likely gonna respond to you unless hes just mean and rude. And in that case you dont need him.Start out just by like saying Hey in the hallways and just the usual conversation "hey whats up? ect"If this doesnt work try to figure out why he wont talk to you. Cause yall only went out for one day i dont think there could be a reason not to talk to just because your kinda his ex.
I like this boy a lot, I haven't told anyone about liking him. I talk about him to my best friends quite often but I'm just like eww...I'd never like him. He is always like aww look your so cute and he calls me his 'little kid'. That's because I am soo much shorter than him. He always picks me up and carrys me places and when I see him in the hall he's like hey cutie, sweetie, little kid, babe...whatever he picks that day and he like hugs me. But this one time we were just standing in the hall together and he's like what about if you and me went to the movies...and then to dinner or something. And this girl in his class told me she was like aww don't mess with Mahryah when you don't mean it...it's not nice. And she said he said but I do wanna go somewhere she's just so cute. And he always tells me he loves me and is always touching me and stuff. I don't know if he just thinks I'm cute in a little way or what. I don't know if I want to tell my friends either...
I think he likes yall.and you should go to the movies with him .Guys like short girls cause it makes them feel all big and muscular cause they can pick you up and stuff.hmm gets on my nerves when guys just randomly pick me up or stand over me and are like hows the weather down there but thats just me.ok Any whose like i said he likes you and you like him . take a chance go out with him i mean whats the worst that could happen ? It doesnt work out and so yall are just friends again? Doesnt seem like such a bad risk to take.