Q: lately ive been having so much trouble with guys. i feel so retarded. im torn between way too many of them =/ [13/f grade 7, in CT]

guy 1: Moved away during the summer, to california. i really love him [i know it]. and i never said goodbye. now i can't get over that. We were obsessed over eachother, and we flirted in the most abvious ways, and then he found my friends xanga; where she had made a comment about me hating him (ii told her things like that to hide the fact i liked him). and he completely stopped talking to me. but time went on, and we still flirted in the most obvious ways.

guy 2: Had a huge crush on me at the end of 6th grade and during the summer. and i sort of liked him. he came bak to school and looked, well, a lot better. he asked out two girls since school started, but still seems to stare at me. Now i feel stupid, because a sure thing fell through.

guy 3: guy 3 is a 6th grader. and i feel so lame liking him. hes really cute and makes me want to dieeee. i see him constantly around the halls and talk to him. but im really ont sure if he likes someone in his grade.

guy 4: this guy, is the etreme of popular. ive always helsd back from liking guys like him. but its hard not to. hes mega cute, when im alone and talk to him hes really nice, but when i look at him with his crowd, i get jealous and angry and want to punch myself for liking him. He's been over to my house a few times because i have a twin brother hes friends with. we've played video games and basketball and things (im really good at basketball), and ive aways kind of wore really short shorts. But, he's dated the etreme popular girl. and i want to punch her for having him like her.

guy 5: ive known him since kindergarten, been over to my house thousands of time. ive seen him in his boxers [yeah, i know], and i've hated him throughout the years. but come this year, i find him cute, and i like him. but because we've been, like, enemies fore a while, im hesitant about the way he feels.

im kind of torn.

So here comes the question portion.
1 = how am i supposed to choose?
2 = who would you choose?
3 = if i really like any of them, wouldn't i be able to choose?
4 = how can i get guys i like to like me back?

i know that this was long, but im in seriouse need of help. love confuses me, and i need to be unconfused for once.

Q: See my gf is asking me want i want for valintimes day but i want to to kiss her and see her. i do not know how to say this. Also what sould i get her?

Q: Me and my best guy friend have liked eachother for about a year and a half and now we are both single and for about a month we're going to be friends with benefits and then date. Him and I went out for a day before but I broke up with him because I wanted my ex back. I know.. that was REALLY messed up. But I don't know how to just randomly kiss him. I'm way too scared. I don't know why though, I always have felt comfortable around him and now I'm all shy. Why the sudden change??!! I'm really in love with him. And he is in love with me and I want to make out with him but how do I approach it? When should I do it? I need to know.. the only time we can see eachother is in school. But I need to know how to become less shy when im gonna kiss him and I want to suprise him but I have like no guts lol

please help

I'll rate 5's!

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Q: okay, i know this is gonna sound like all those other stupid guy questions, but i have to ask. I like two guys. One is my age, which is 13, and he is tall, cute, and athletic. The other is 16, he's not really that good-looking but i think he's really funny and cool. I'm a little afraid because he might expect me to go further than i feel comfortable. I don't know who to "go after". Could someone help? thanks in advance!

Q: Hi,
I think i am gay .... but when ever i see you my penis goes Da DoiNG dOING DOinG!!! are you a man???
i love you,
Dan the GayMan

Q: hi, i no the person who told the whole skool who i liked....... and i only told my 2 best frendz and my other frend is frendz with the person who told the whole skool... i think it might be her but she denys it...and they all would keep a secert right?

Q: Well this guy, he asked me out and then we dated, for a week and a half, until i kind of thought he was getting closer to my friend, Emma.I talked to him on msn and asked him if he liked her, but he didnt say anything and then i go "Look i dont care about anything, all i want to know is do you still love me?" and he goes "Look there is no point, you have lost my trust what more can you lose?" and i go "I just want to know Do you like Emma?" and he said "Im sorry i cannot go out with you anymore." and he dumped me. Then next week, he blocked me and deleted me on msn..oh and he looks at me alot in class. We were playing volleyball in sport, and he would look at me alot and yeah. My other friend is in his roll call class and she said he looked upset in roll call class after he dumped me..Please help!! and also he is a goth

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Q: my bf gave me a hickey on tuesday and it hasnt lightened at all or anything..i mean its VERY noticable. its like very dark. i can wear my hair down the rest of the weekend and to school on monday. but for cheerleading i have to wear my hair up so idk how im going to do that without my whole squad seeing it cuz trust me they will. can anyone help mee!?

5's for any bit of help

Q: i want a bf..REALLY bad to hold hands with and uhgg and stuff like that but the guy i like is taken but i do like one guy but i dont really like his freind..... and my fried asked who he like and he liked.. me he is so scared to ask me and i am to scared to ask him... what should i do?????

Q: ok..I no this guy who i really liked and he asked my friend out and i call him and stuff and i think that he liked me..but now i am happy for my friend but i just really like him soo much i do not no what to do what should i do!
what should i do???? ttyl cya in skoool

Q: me and my bf were really good friendz before he asked me out...we would alwayz talk and he would alwayz start the convo.now hez getting so shy and i donnu what to talk to him about. we cant talk bout the stuff we did before becuz itz not sumthin i would talk to my bf about. now my friend is tellin me he dosnt kno if he likz me any mor. i wanna dump him real bad but i kno im gonna regret it!! wut do i do?? HELP ME PLZ!! isnt the gurl supouse to be the shy one?
p.s.
im in 7th grade

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i don't want to come off too strong, but i want to get him to acknowledge that we're going out. at least say it, or hold my hand or something. i think he might be a little embarassed if i went up to him and took his hand, because he's so shy.

advice please?

Q: what do i get my boyfriend for christmas?? we've been together for about a year, and i want to get him something nice not just a shirt or something like that.
a little about him: he's a total goof.. likes hunting, racing, comedy.. he's really sweet but not super sappy... he is not a prep.. just a normal, average guy
anyone have any CREATIVE ideas? please help!!

Q: I have no clue what to get my girlfriend for christmas. I don't want to get her makeup or cosmetics because i know nothing about that stuff, and I don't want to get her clothes because I don't know if she'd like it or what her size is. So with that said, what are some gift ideas that girls like?

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