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Q: well i made a really big mistake this past weekend. i got a little drunk and me and one of my friends kissed...the problem is that the boy i like doesnt like girls that drink and i am afraid he wont talk to me when he finds out...and the whole school like knows somehow and i think it is being blown out of proportion...so i am afraid of his reaction...should i lie to him?
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Theres no reason to lie to him. just tell him it was a mistake and its not going to happen again. i assume it was just a one time thing or else you wouldn't be this worried.
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Q: ok well i am 13 and i havent had my first kiss yet. well my boyfriend (who doesnt know that i havent had my first kiss) said that he was going to kiss me tomorrow. well i have no clue what to do. i mean i have heard that it is so much more than just tocking lips. i mean where do i put my hands? how close do i stand? do i open my mouth? do we french? please help!!!
thanks in advance
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Wow you are getting really worked up over it. Try to calm down and not think about it so much. when it happens you will know what to do .You will end up putting your hands where ever it feels comfortable to you. Along with every thing else
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Q: My boyfriend used to be a huge drugaddict. When we first started dating, I told him that if he started that stuff again I was done. It's been 7 months, and now he wants to get back into them. Things such as coke and heroine. I honestly love him to death, but it seems like hes choosing these things over me now. I have no clue what to do.
help please?
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Before you just go and dump him if you really love him as much as you say try to get him more help first. if he refuses to go for it.give him the altumation (sorry about the spelling). tell him he goes for help or he loses you.
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Q: ok me and my boyfriend got in a fight this morning and he went to work and he told me he would stop by when he got out because we needed to talk and im so scared what if he breaks up with me.. any advice on what to think or how to get my mind off of it hes not gunna be out of work till midnight so i need to keep my mind off of it help as soon as possible
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Do other things around your house.Clean somthing or if you have a pet take it for a walk assuming it can go for walks.I hate when guys say that to me.If you guys have had a good relationship and not that many fights then im sure he is just going to want to talk things out.
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Q: 15/f
okies hey
i've met this guy in the year below me
well we hit it off right away and i really like him and it clear he likes me too , which im really thrilled about :) but the trouble is he is only 13 right now, he does look older though and is mature for his ages. he is just 1 year 3 months younger.
is this too young for me?
please help. xxx
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Naa its no big deal.Age dosnt really matter to an extent. If you really like him alot and he likes you age is only a number.
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Q: ok, so i am completely in love with this boy for the past 2.5 years. we are on a swim team together and that is the only time we see each other, so everyday. plus meets. these are some of the things he did. what is your opinion, does he like me? (hes really shy)
he stares into my eyes a lot
he layed his head on my lap, of all the girls that were there... but i was the closest cuz i sat next to him
in a game of sharks and minnows he went for me and grabbed me hard by the wrists and kept me underwater instead of forcing me up. then when i pushed off the bottom to get air he asked if i liked his tactics.
he blew on my face when we were lying next to each other at a swim meet
he sometimes "steals" my sunglasses, but not from my face, but he def. know there mine
we went to a dance once, but it was one of those "girls ask the guys". he said well go as friends, but we didnt know each other as well then, and it was a long time ago, but we danced with each other for practicly the whole dance, but he did go dance with this one girl that he went to homecoming with, and who he supposedly used to like... i dont know if he still does but he might
when we were lying next to each other, he moved hand was lying against my forhead on a pillow, then he said sorry i'm punching you in the face, and moved it down towards my nose so it was touching. than he probly felt me breathing on his hand, cuz he asked if his hand smelt good, and i smelled it, and almost kissed it (lol!) and he didnt move it away.
but otherwise we dont talk much, like we never had a conversation, but as i said he is really shy around me. but with other girls he is fine, but with the girl he supposedly might like he talks alot to her, but not as much as he used to. now there just friends. but she doesnt like him.
so ya based everything that i told you, does he like me? and how should i give him hints that i REALLY like him without scaring him?
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That could be his silly little way of flirting.Just flirt back but dont be annoying. Dont hang on him or be next to him all the time. Unless you guys are really good friends and acting a little distant would be odd for you guys.Good luck
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Q: Every time I get my boyfriend to have a boner he covers it up, what does that mean? It doesn't bother me that he has one but what is he trying to like hide?
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wow i have never herd of that before .Maybe he is self consious of it. the next time he goes to cover him self up just give him a look like why did you do that and maybe he will tell you.If he dosnt then just ask him.And if he is tell him you love him no matter what and its the perfect size for you.After all the averige size is 5 in
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Q: 15/f
what kinds of things should i put in the card to my bf?
-quotes
-lyrics
-something to actually SAY to him.. i really have no clue..
anything is appreciated.
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hi,
dont put in stupid quots that every one has told before just put random thins in like inside jokes and stuff that you guys thought was funny but every one else would look at you like you were stupid for saying in public. good luck
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Q: I am 146 lbs. and am only five feet tall. I recently started a new diet and joined a gym. My boyfriend has been VERY supportive of me through this. I recently said something(dont remember though) that brought up a conversation and he said "I dont think you're fat..you're just big boned" ..and i got soooo mad...then he said he was just kidding. Should i be hurt by this??
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well you have every right to be hurt after all those are your feelings. After all im sure he didnt meen it like that.The next time he dose it just tell him how uncomfortable it makes you feel considering your trying to lose the weight and im sure if hes supporting you now he will back off with the jokes.
P.s Good luck with losing wight im sure you will look great and feel better when you get to your targe weight
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Q: okay here is my question-i love this guy sooo much! he is everything to me! i broke up with my boyfriend at the time because i realized that i need to be with him. the only problem is he has a girlfriend and he lives 2 states away. he tells me he loves me and i know he does, its just he is afraid to let go of his girlfriend because of the distance and just how he is. i need help please..i'm crying and begging for him..someone please help me out over here!
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if he hasnt broke up with his girlfriend then he probley wont thats what usualy happes but he might be differnt but just in time all you can do is wate
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Q: Alright, im having a few problems as far as guys go. There are several of my friends i care deeply about that have different feelings for me. Like romantic feelings... And id love to go out with any of them, its just that if i go out with one of the guys, the others will be hurt and i dont want that. And there is one of them that stands out from the others, that id really like to be with. But the other problem is, is that i told my ex that i prolly wont go out with anyone till were together again when things are easier for us. And i love him so much, and ive always cared for others more than myself. This is a real issue... please help me
~Helpless romantic
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hey helpless romantic
Do what you think is best if you really like this guy then go for it and just tell the others that you think of them as friends and tell your ex that you are going to go out with other people till you guys fix things with each other then if you think it is right you might go back out with him
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Q: Okay.. so me and my boy friend have been dating for 8 months ! Well just last week we were looking at his digital camera and a picture poped up and he was like oh look heres when they had a stripper come to my dads birthday ! Im Like WHAT ? so i didn't say anything until we got home well when i did hes like its just a joke come on i mean she was ugly and she only danced in front of everyone else ! I was like ok and i let it go away well then today i was looking thru the pictures and i seen one of her dancing all over him !! i didn't tell him i saw it but now its all i can think about i really love him what should i do !
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its there job dont get worked up over it
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Q: Well, well, well....umm im having some problems in my relationship. Ya c, my g/f, or now ex g/f wanted to take a break w/ me b/c some peeple were "ruining" our relationship..Well, i love her more than anything, and i kno its the same for her...and your like the last person i would ask for advice, no offence...thanxx for listening
RKO* is GrEaTnEsS
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its ok joe i forgive you but you have to understand maybe she wanted a brake did u even consider that if you didnt then maybe you should
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Q: Well there is this guy I like at school, I just met him this year and I like him alot. The thing is I found out a while ago that he is dating this other girl that doesn't go to our school. I got really upset and sort of jealous but I'm trying to forget about it but the thing is, I can't get over him. I think about him everyday (constantly) and I just can't stop talking about him. When I like a guy it takes me a really long time to get over them, maybe even takes years. Any advice on what I should do? I been kind of having this addiction for wanting a boyfriend too, but the thing is I never had one before (or you could say a proper one). I don't look at myself as someone a guy would like to go out with considering my outer appearance. But My friends always tell me that I have a really good personality on the inside. I just don't know what to do... if you could help me at all I would really appearicate it. Sorry this is long and thanks
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well i think that if this persons in your head then there ment to stay there but if you really want to get him out then stay away from him as much as possible just explane that hes really cool and you love hanging out with him but you feel that you like him way to much im assuming that he knows you like him but if he dosnt then avoiding hims is not the best thing because you might lose a really cool friend but any ways if he dosnt know then i would just see what happens if its getting to the point when you cry because you not with him then talk to some on with a degree in this stuff like at school that should help at lest a little
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Q: Hi icky vicky .....u kno its ... Exactletters
Well i like this boi n he said sunday he likes me... but wont ask me out n every one asks if i like him n i say yea....n they keep askin did he ask u out...n i say no.... all depressed.... wut should i do we alredy madeout like 3 times n kissed........... n he goes to the ihs right near me and knows my cuzion n my friend... wut shiuld i do Vickyyy???
XOxo
Confussed Shorty(jen)
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hey jen
if you say he likes you then why dont you ask him out first write him a letter or what ever or just go up to him and be like yea your hott i like you you like me i say we go out lol i dont know thats somthing i would do
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Q: ive never kissed anyone before, or been kissed. i want to kiss my boyfriend, but im not sure if id be bad at it or what. when should i? how can i make it so its not just really random and awkward? how? what do i do? im so confused! thanks all! 14/f it that matters at all
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well you can wate till he makes the first move or you can wate till you guys are just chillin somewhere like your house or his and just look in to his eyes and down at his lips but dont stare till the point where it weard and he should get the hint
-*Tori
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Q: ok there is this kid that i really like and hes nice to me all the time and stuff and one day we were just messing around and stuff... i thought he liked me but he had a g/f the next day but everytime i see him he acts like he doesnt know me now because i found out he got a g/f im so confused... and now i like his best friend... what should i do?
help..
signed
confused and hopeless...
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talk to both of the guys and finde out whats going on with them and go for the friend if the other guy has a girlfriend you wouldent want to get mixed up in that
-*Tori
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Q: ok theres this guy i like but idk if he likes me too. we talk on the phone, sometimes online and once in a blue moon at school. my friends who talk to him say that he said i was cute. one of my friends talked to him online and was asking him if he liked me n he said idk. im so confused. can you help me?
please help me
signed confused Babiz
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hey danica all u got to do is go up to him and ask him your self things get twisted if friends do it
-*Tori
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Q: alright there is this boy that is 4ever try to mess around (and people think we're family!) w/ me either snacthing my food or callin me and my friend gays witch WE R NOT AT ALL and 2day at lunch he comes 2 my table and sit right next 2 me and start mess w/ my friend and i he points 2 my friend and says 2 me that ur gurl? i say hell no then my friend asks him is that ur gurl? he stops and gets mad quite til i say push him away from me and then we start talkin' again and he moves right back next 2 me. so is he messin 4 fun or love?
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hes just being a guy wat else is new there all stupid like that
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Q: Months ago I meet this guy,fell in love,he was the 1 who said he loved me 1st!! Then we broke-up,but we'd still tell each other we loved each other. Every time we were together something would happen ether we'd kiss or have sex!! (this is after months of being apart) But I'v told him am not a sex toy. & Resently I told him I still love him, he said that he does love me but he doesn't know how strongly, in what way or if he loves me like I love him any more!! I asked him what he wanted to happen between us but he said "I don't know just now" Am so confused & I know no1 else can tell me how he fells but can some1 at less give me some advise on what to do??
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hes a loser i was in the same situation and it took me a year to relise that i was being used
-*Tori
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bio
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hey im tori but i have alot of other nick names it getting to the point where i will answer to about most any thing that im use to hearing but any ways i love helping people i applyed to answer qusetions on some other websites but i havent got a email back yet conserning them well thats all that i can think of to have in hear for now if i think of other things then i will add them
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Info
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Gender: Female Location: rochester NY Age: 16 AIM: Member Since: January 1, 2005 Answers: 135 Last Update: June 12, 2007 Visitors: 9311
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